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TissuePaper:
and you feel happy for doing that right... Dude is in the US and you are still in Nigeria struggling

ifartonyou:
Before I finished reading, my assumption was he's dead for him to be an EX

ifartonyou:
Before I finished reading, my assumption was he's dead for him to be an EX

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. Let him be there. I don't need someone being obsessed about me. It's not healthy. He fit kill me one day.

As for the distance, I don't care. That's his struggle. Let me face mine.

We sure weren't meant for each other.

TissuePaper:
hahaha...whatever suits you sha but I still believe the fact that you left the guy opened the doors of success to him.. Who knows maybe if you accepted him he would have still been in Nigeria struggling with you

It's called the butterfly effect.

UyaiIncomparabl:
I didn't get this.

zenith4biz:
You may not understand until you find yourself in such a situation.

hefelove:
Looking at this thread and reading all things here, i begin to wonder despite he is caring she is this he is that, y una break up? Y dont u marry each other? Then i remebered my own relationships too, i just dey shake my head. Nawa

boyjo:
Here`s what I think,
It may not be true.

I think you are capable of romance but you may have been desensitized (shey na the spelling be that?)
Shey you dey visit romance section well well?
Dey listen to all those boys wey dey give advice wey say make you no show love to a Being wey the major language wey she underatand na to be "given to"??

And since romance na majorly "giving", you see why e be like say you no fit do am?

Na im cause am.
Sensor thread wey you dey click.
Change your source of info.
Some guys dey wey dey give balanced advice, na those ones we supposed to dey watch out for dey listen to.

Sorry if I dey give unsolicited advice sha

UyaiIncomparabl:
Maybe. Maybe not. Three years is gone and he still wouldn't let me rest.

Winter4:
I miss the crazy things we did together...

With him, I had a lot of "firsts"-
I took my first smirn-off under his tutelage . I got drunk on the first glass btw and he made me promise never to drink without him cos he didn't want guys taking advantage of me. I promised...and I'm still keeping it.
First and only guy who took me to a salon, sat there, helped pick a style and paid....all cos he wanted to
We took a bike one night at Ife, and right in traffic we started making out and cars were honking . I felt so high on him that night
This Guy kept asking me out till I decided to give it a try 5 years and 3 guys after his first "toasting"
..
I miss you Ay..you'll probably never know how much. I wish we handled things differently.

deybholar:
I miss how he used to text me sweet messages even while we were in the same room.[b] I miss how he used to wake me up from sleep [/b]with his kisses. I miss how all my worries automatically became his. I miss the way he used to look at me and kiss me. Sadly, life had other plans but I can categorically say he was my soulmate and he gave me the greatest love I have ever felt

Dudeweedlmao:
Sorry, but you're wrong. She is THAT beautiful. I would have uploaded just one of her picture but I'm sure it would be immature. Her skin is like a baby's ass, (yes, it's that smooth)even when she would stay in my place for a few days and not take her bath as religiously as i did, her skin was still smooth and maintained it's natural color. Her nose is as small as a button, don't even get me started on her lips, very luscious and red lowerlip, her butt & boobs are very moderate (for a Ghanian) and she's 5'9'', she has cat eyes and they are always white even when she's hungry (only red when she wakes up lol) She was a literal melanine princess. She's half Ghanaian, half Nigerian. If you know anything about Ghanaian is that when they are fine, they are extremely fine and when they are ugly, they are extreme ugg, this girl is fine. I didn't have money when we met and you could see it clearly on my face, while she was rich but I was also good looking because I do get mired a lot when I'm on my own, but when you're with a girl (whether fine or not) people (at least over here) tend to look at you guys a lot, both men and women and they respect you more (which i think is very stupid) I miss how rude she would be to them because we both thought it was a stupid thing. We stayed together for so long that she started to look like me and people usually taught she was my sister, we bonded to much, i guesss. Every single person I knew wanted to Bleep this girl, she's looked like sex, very comely when she sweats, I wish I was matured enough when I met her, could have handled things differently, could have trusted her more.

FRoosevelt:
Hahaha which one be unsolicited advice?
I get your point bro.
I dey generous to women but na on one condition, and that is, they must render me what I want.
That's what friends-with-benefits relationship is all about.
But that's the end of it. I don't feel any affection for them. I'm not taking them as girlfriends. I'm not jealous about their other relationships because I don't care.
I like women, but I can't just love any.

FRoosevelt:
Damn! Pathological obsession. I gotta tell you, you were lucky to get out of there unhurt. Scary stuff. Don't ever consider letting him back in again.

UyaiIncomparabl:
You just haven't found love. You'll love. One day. It could be in 10 years, 20 years, 5 years.
Learn to love. Have you been hurt in the past?
Are you a misogynist?

kenex4ever:
I stoped believing most guys that say a lot about how beautiful their girlfriends are because it often turns out to b d opposite. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

If she was that beautiful you probably won't have a chance with her.

jauntty:
Here's a toast to my Exs

Chioma : My NYSC babe. She was lively and crazy. No dull moment with her. Everything about her was fun fun fun..... But she can vex too.

Happiness : This one was a typical warri girl. Gra Gra girl. From outing to clubbing. God delivered me. Last last She is now a babymama

Ifeoluwa : my 2016 Lagos GF... Verryyyyy caring and understanding. Have never seen her angry. I just felt she was too good for me.

Hilra : My only Northern girl Ex. This girl na wife material 100000 yards... Cooks, sew, bakes. She is now married to one Alhaji.

Esther : My Calabar GF. Joke aside, na from this girl I confirm say Calabar ladies are SKILLFUL, both in the kitchen and in the "Other side". I miss all the weekends of just being indoors eating, watching movies and **********

Others too numerous to mention, I miss you all

ifartonyou:
Thought that's what exactly women live for...ATTENTION.
So how could you loose it?

FRoosevelt:
Misogynist? Nahh not me. I can't just hate on women you know.
I have to tell you Uyai, I think I'm hardwired not to have affections, though I'm empathetic, in a humanitarian way. I've met good women who don't deserve me. They bring loads of love but I kinda push them away.
I've only ever had FWB relationships.
I've had people telling me exactly what you're saying now and I'm like ...okay let's see?? but deep within me, I'm not gonna lie to myself, I know I'll never change.
Would I like to change? yes please.
I'm I feeling bad about it? no, no stress at all.

hefelove:
Shey na only me this girl story dey confuse?

lefulefu:
Hmm Ex factor. Any person that still misses her ex is bound to cheat on his/her current partner.

Winter4:
Not necessarily. She left the guy for a reason naa...even with his "amazingness".

lefulefu:
bros if ur girlfriend still has the pictures of her ex on her phones and still in frequent contact with him on the phone and social media or she tells u how much she misses her ex cos of the crazy sex they had in the shower or cos he always put her to sleep with a deep kiss...sooner or later she will fall if dat ex makes contact. If ur babe is always sounding abt her ex then its wise u start making coded plans on how to exit dat relationship.

Winter4:
True sha... I agree. It might also be that the babe wants her man to step up. She probably wants him to start doing some stuffs her ex did that made her feel good. Either way, it's a warning you shouldn't ignore.

P.s: I'm a girl...a short fair girl.

lefulefu:
comparisms like my ex always picked me up to bed and cuddle me but u..u not romantic!... My ex was a good kisser..but yu always biting my lips and pouring saliva in my mouth, my ex could read my innermost thoughts but u...u so clueless!. I understand. .. Hmm so u a babe? But u choosed a masculine moniker though.anyway i no get issues wth short babes cos they easy to lift and twist around.. And na dem dey quick carry ukwu.

Winter4:
And na dem dey quick carry ukwu .... Baba you need to repent. Kneel down lemme lay hands on you!!!