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Good evening guys

Please is it advisable thing to do by asking a lady for relationship for the first day you guys meet and exchange numbers.

Because am really ashamed of myself now, I met this lady just today and we change numbers but the wild thing I did was asking her for relationship immediately I reach house. Right now am so ashamed of myself, I don't know the kind face I will use to meet this girl tomorrow if she come my shop.
Tho she said she will think about it but within me I felt ashamed of myself.

This is serious please

EzendiEgo1:
This is serious please

YES ask. Let her know what you want.

Never make a mistake of telling her "I JUST WANT US TO BE FRIENDS or CAN WE BE FRIENDS?"

Tell her your mind straight up.

93Miles:
YES ask. Let her know what you want.

Never make a mistake of telling her "I JUST WANT US TO BE FRIENDS or CAN WE BE FRIENDS?"

Tell her your mind straight up.

thanks bro

Wen next she come around, hit her yansh if she laugh at u... she’s d one den u can proceed to ask her out

EzendiEgo1:
This is serious please

No need to be ashamed bro.

When you see her again, don't mention anything about relationship to her till like after a 3 days to avoid coming on as a desperate guy.

Just dnt bring friendship up bro .. Dnt b too desperate tho.. Show it through your actions..

Hey op it's a good thing you've told her your mind.

EzendiEgo1:


Good evening guys

Please is it advisable thing to do by asking a lady for relationship for the first day you guys meet and exchange numbers.

Because am really ashamed of myself now, I met this lady just today and we change numbers but the wild thing I did was asking her for relationship immediately I reach house. Right now am so ashamed of myself, I don't know the kind face I will use to meet this girl tomorrow if she come my shop.
Tho she said she will think about it but within me I felt ashamed of myself.

no wait until ya wedding day....

EzendiEgo1:


Good evening guys

Please is it advisable thing to do by asking a lady for relationship for the first day you guys meet and exchange numbers.

Because am really ashamed of myself now, I met this lady just today and we change numbers but the wild thing I did was asking her for relationship immediately I reach house. Right now am so ashamed of myself, I don't know the kind face I will use to meet this girl tomorrow if she come my shop.
Tho she said she will think about it but within me I felt ashamed of myself.

Don't be ... It is not about whether it is wrong or right .... You have done what you feel you should do ... After all, u didn't kill nor rape her now .... why the shame
When you see her, don't be shy , stand your ground but be matured .....
Don't ever apologise for asking her for relationship on the first day , if she bring it up defend your stance ....
By the way make money for ya shop ooo , no kom spend all ya income for this gal

If you love someone, hurry up and talk.
-Damian Marley-

DonroxyII:
Don't be ... It is not about whether it is wrong or right .... You have done what you feel you should do ... After all, u didn't kill nor rape her now .... why the shame
When you see her, don't be shy , stand your ground but be matured .....
Don't ever apologise for asking her for relationship on the first day , if she bring it up defend your stance ....
By the way make money for ya shop ooo , no kom spend all ya income for this gal

thanks brotherly

DonEd:
If you love someone, hurry up and talk.
-Damian Marley-

I remember that song

Not the first date, maybe 5th date.
But you shouldn't take more than two months​ to tell her, before she puts you in the friendzone