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Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 7:51pm On Sep 02, 2018
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Paulagada: 7:54pm On Sep 02, 2018
Because most mature and responsible men are jobless.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Ihatelove(f): 7:57pm On Sep 02, 2018
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 7:59pm On Sep 02, 2018
Paulagada:
Because most mature and responsible men are jobless.



Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:00pm On Sep 02, 2018
Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak


Silly you

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Olalan(m): 8:03pm On Sep 02, 2018
The economy isn't smiling for lots of mature young men who should have been married, but more worrisome is the desire for a rich guy for by ladies in this age.
Now ladies prefer being side chicks to rich guys than to be married to a young not too rich guy

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:08pm On Sep 02, 2018
Cos there are more fvck boys than responsible men, it's not easy detecting which is which!!!

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by anonymuz(m): 8:08pm On Sep 02, 2018
kunleweb:




Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs
you just Said "previous generations"...

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by dasparrow: 8:11pm On Sep 02, 2018
kunleweb:
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:12pm On Sep 02, 2018
dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!




shocked

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 8:14pm On Sep 02, 2018
There is greater peace in being a single woman,, i miss it sometimes

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Shugavee(f): 8:15pm On Sep 02, 2018
dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!
well written,, women of course r now wiser n can’t settle for trash all in the name of marriage.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by OgogoroFreak(m): 8:20pm On Sep 02, 2018
Cos there are so many broke dudes now in Nigeria. Go get your pvc

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by dasparrow: 8:23pm On Sep 02, 2018
Olalan:
The economy isn't smiling for lots of mature young men who should have been married, but more worrisome is the desire for a rich guy for by ladies in this age.
Now ladies prefer being side chicks to rich guys than to be married to a young not too rich guy

Can you blame your women? In the past, our mothers and grandmothers married and stuck with our broke fathers and grandfathers. But guess what? The minute our fathers and grandfathers finally hit it big and became rich, they dumped the woman of their youth - our mothers and grandmothers who stuck with them in trying times - and went on to marry some twenty-two year old.

African men can never be trusted and I will never advice any female related to me to settle with some broke Nigerian or African nigga. Go and make money first because it takes money to raise a family.

This is why Africans can never seem to get out of poverty. You don't even have sufficient money to take care of yourself yet you are dreaming of bringing a woman and innocent children into your poverty stricken life to suffer with you. Nonsense!

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by generationz(f): 8:26pm On Sep 02, 2018
dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

And the average Nigerian woman is holy and acceptable in all good things abi?

please give valid points not points that come from hatred because of what some men did to you or women around you


It would surprise you to know that men whom you described as such aren't single. In fact many have numerous girlfriends and sidechicks due to their wealth and influence.


look at dino melaye for example. He is loud ,uncoth and brash. His last two marriages ended based on domestic violence allegations

But do you think with the money and influence he has he goes to bed at night hugging his pillow?
the answer is no. He can get as many women and even beautiful ones if he wishes.


or have you seen femi fani kayode , he is also an uncoth wife beater .


you would be surprised how these runs babes and even independent working class women practically scheme and beg millionaires and billionaires to spend some time with them. You think if he popped the question they wouldn't jump at it.

like the poster above said many rich ,independent women are single because there are many unemployed or underemployed men today

unlike before when 95 percent of work force in large organizations where men and farming was still lucrative.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Flickzvill(m): 8:28pm On Sep 02, 2018
The country is hard no man wants to settle down and at end suffer bcz of his decision.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by dasparrow: 8:28pm On Sep 02, 2018
kunleweb:



Silly you

She is not silly. She is right. Only the living have hope for a better tomorrow. Doubt me? Go and ask all the women who lost their lives at the hands of their abusive husbands. They are lying decayed in their graves now. Never to experience life on earth again. It is better to be single, healthy, happy and alive than married and sick or worse yet, dead.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by kunleweb: 8:31pm On Sep 02, 2018
dasparrow:


She is not silly. She is right. Only the living have hope for a better tomorrow. Doubt me? Go and ask all the women who lost their lives at the hands of their abusive husbands. They are lying decayed in their graves now. Never to experience life on earth again. It is better to be single, healthy, happy and alive than married and sick or worse yet, dead.



1. Farming


2. Freelance Writing


3. Own a provision shop


4. Uber


5. Egg Distributor


6. Barber


7. Keke Marwa Operator


8. Food produce Distributor


Any more excuses?

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by JudasNaCarrot: 8:32pm On Sep 02, 2018
Paulagada:
Because most mature and responsible men are jobless.
And the cause?

Buhari,the lifeless dullard.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by MissWrite(f): 8:42pm On Sep 02, 2018
Women who can afford to take care of themselves, can afford to have standards with men. A growing number of women fall into this category these days. They would rather stay single than be with someone who gives them no value. There was a time when women were so financially dependent on men that all of a man's vices would fade into the background when compared with his ability to provide a living. I can't say that this doesn't happen anymore, but it is definitely becoming less frequent. Now that women have more freedom to evaluate what they want from a relationship, it has become clear that while men in general are still common as water, men of quality are few and far between.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Fourwinds: 8:46pm On Sep 02, 2018
generationz:


And the average Nigerian woman is holy and acceptable in all good things abi?

please give valid points not points that come from hatred because of what some men did to you or women around you


It would surprise you to know that men whom you described as such aren't single. In fact many have numerous girlfriends and sidechicks due to their wealth and influence.


look at dino melaye for example. He is loud ,uncoth and brash. His last two marriages ended based on domestic violence allegations

But do you think with the money and influence he has he goes to bed at night hugging his pillow?
the answer is no. He can get as many women and even beautiful ones if he wishes.


or have you seen femi fani kayode , he is also an uncoth wife beater .


you would be surprised how these runs babes and even independent working class women practically scheme and beg millionaires and billionaires to spend some time with them. You think if he popped the question they wouldn't jump at it.

like the poster above said many rich ,independent women are single because there are many unemployed or underemployed men today

unlike before when 95 percent of work force in large organizations where men and farming was still lucrative.
u spoke well

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by IamPlato(m): 8:51pm On Sep 02, 2018
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I am Back With My Madness...



Because Our Mothers decided to Pollute The World With enough XX...

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by ecstasy357(m): 9:03pm On Sep 02, 2018
Biglittlelois:
Cos there are more fvck boys than responsible men, it's not easy detecting which is which!!!

An open socket will always attract a waiting plug.

Are the girls responsible? If they are, the fvck boys have no other option than to look elsewhere.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Ihatelove(f): 9:04pm On Sep 02, 2018
kunleweb:



Silly you
grin we prefer our sanity

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Ihatelove(f): 9:05pm On Sep 02, 2018
dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!
you said nothing but the truth

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Newboss(m): 9:15pm On Sep 02, 2018
IamPlato:
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I am Back With My Madness...




Because Our Mothers decided to Pollute The World With enough XX...
This table you are shaking. angry

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Mikepenny5(m): 9:19pm On Sep 02, 2018
Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak
why wish that for yourself? not all guys there are good ones

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by victorian(f): 9:40pm On Sep 02, 2018
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Kudducini(m): 9:41pm On Sep 02, 2018
Because men has refused to accept well pussy instead of a pipe

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Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Macgabe(m): 9:44pm On Sep 02, 2018
kunleweb:




Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

Lol... this your sample is hilarious and obsolete. Then, women look at prospect and settle with the man. These days, no lady will settle with a jobless guy hoping to get job after marriage. Ko le work rara
So the excuse is legit to a very large extend.

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