Shugavee:
I hv been single before!! Mr man

then y don't u remain single forever n see the emotional trauma behind it.many old singles deceive some young ones by claiming feminism n feigning happiness but deep down they cry like a baby.

majekoam:


Correction. Most of the guys you've met or been around with are pricks.

Also of all the women that have commented about men. Have you met all of Us... Those comments are wildly ignorant.

The tables can be turned...alot of men have plenty of stories of being messed over by women so lets not be partisan and hypocritical.

The fact is that most ladies would prefer a well to do guy. The problem is that SOME of those well to do guys prey on it and take advantage....

Then Ladies you have a choice... Take a risk and suffer with a guy that might not be all set but is going places (Usually the nice guy or the quiet ones who are either overlooked and exploited) and is more likely to end well (but not all the time)... or continue to "Enjoy" with "Bad guys", who are Fresh, Paid, will most likely be using you and then dump you (The writing is on the wall - He is a "Bad Guy" and then you come on every social media platform to then call the male gender a bunch of P-nis led demons...

....Oh and if your thoughts are Id rather go with the bad guy because he has money....then I dont have any sympathy for you.

One last point....there are maaaany women who are in great relationships and marriages...they just are afraid of letting the world know because they know there are many low-life women that would be willing to snatch their boyfriends/husbands if they could.

Essay over.
Peace y'all.

You dey mind dem, they should remain single. It's obvious they have a very shallow and narrow point of view, so there is no way any man can be good enough for them. In a relationship, their must be compromise and commitment. No one is perfect, We all have our demons. It's left for you to know what you can and can't live with, stop making it look as if females are the only victims.

Paulagada:
Because most mature and responsible men are jobless.

You hit the nail on the head.

Jobless and empty.headed.

MissWrite:
Women who can afford to take care of themselves, can afford to have standards with men. A growing number of women fall into this category these days. They would rather stay single than be with someone who gives them no value. There was a time when women were so financially dependent on men that all of a man's vices would fade into the background when compared with his ability to provide a living. I can't say that this doesn't happen anymore, but it is definitely becoming less frequent. Now that women have more freedom to evaluate what they want from a relationship, it has become clear that while men in general are still common as water, men of quality are few and far between.

Your excuse for not settling down abi?
I'm looking for a wife o.
So let me PM you

Teamwhitegirls

hollah123:
then y don't u remain single forever n see the emotional trauma behind it.many old singles deceive some young ones by claiming feminism n feigning happiness but deep down they cry like a baby.

because I found myself in love!! Lol that’s what u tell urself, they r happy n good.. yeah sometime u want a relationship,,, but when u remember u heartbreak n how deceitful men r, u come back to ur senses,,, n wait for the right man!!! But being single is stress free,, n makes u focus on urself,,, when u r in a relationship u think of ur Partiner than urself most times,, how to please them n make them happy ,, u forget about urself,,

Why would they not remain single when a girl of 24yr old has seven sugar daddies whose age bracket is between 70 to 80yrs?

Materialism is affecting them too. Their been single is not as a result of they don't want to marry or there are no men to marry them. They deliberately remain single in other to go after already made men to cater for them and meet their obsession for material things constantly.

Oreofepeters:
Answer: Because Nigerian ladies are confused, materilistic, too selective they don't even know what they want. After hoaping from one dick to the other they get dumped and became certified single.



the trend will continue to thrive I don't see it ending anytime soon until they buy sense.

You are pointing finger?
Ladies are single because MEN have refused to be men.
Men are in charge of politics, the economy the environment, jobs, welfare .
Men have messed up all of these out of greed and wickedness.

Ladies don't know whom to trust.

Why should we have female ministers at all? It is because men cannot be trusted to do the duty.

We would soon have female president in Nigeria since all the men are f**king up.

Paulagada:
Because most mature and responsible men are jobless.

And their criteria includes financially capable men who will take care of them.

My opinion: (1.)There are more women than men because there are more male mortality than female (the military n police force are one of d proofs) (2.)more men who dont want to b married because they feel the can get what marital union offer with being single. (3.) finance.

hustla:


You go later die single if you continue with this useless feminist nonsense

What made the comment a feminist comment?

You don't even know what is going to happen in your life tomorrow but all of a sudden you have seen the future to know how someone else will die.

Mtchewww

they prefer to be a rich guy side chick

they dont want to be used to buy benz


they are beign selextive


that how i ask one out she turn me down that am a player and am going to break her heart. d guy she later date is my pal. d guy Bleep her on there first date and dump her d following week.

I think the problem is their materialistic nature that's all.Most girls prefer well to do guys than guys that have potentials.

Amumaigwe:


And their criteria includes financially capable men who will take care of them.

is not only to take care of them,, but a man that can take good care of himself enough to represent their standard n attributes of the man they want

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

You're valid man because you have spoken my mind

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

..my sister, I sister you talk true.

Biglittlelois:
Cos there are more fvck boys than responsible men, it's not easy detecting which is which!!!

On the contrary,you can determine which is which but most ladies will conveniently see fire and chuk leg inside while the good guys are friend or brother zoned cos he's not up to taste..

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

Since you're virgina without a prick, keep remaining single, so when you're in your 40's you go looking for the pricks to help you out.

ineedahusband:
BECAUSE GOOD MEN ARE SCARCE.

then make them good, impact in the life of those that still possess good heart

OfficialSam:


Your excuse for not settling down abi?
I'm looking for a wife o.
So let me PM you

Ha.... ; my own case is strong. I'm not a wife o! You need to keep looking.

All the best in your search, hun; God will see your heart....

Ihatelove:
Cause most guys are pricks, so we would rather stay single than die of heartbreak

Since you're virgina without a prick, keep remaining single, so when you're in your 40's you go looking for the pricks to help you out..

it because some of them do chase men away when that are at their youthful age. it is now when they start becoming old that is when they will be looking for men by all means, which may be too late for them .

MissWrite:



Ha; my own case is strong. I'm not a wife o! You need to keep looking .

All the best in your search, hun; God will see your heart....

I have a question

Biglittlelois:
Cos there are more fvck boys than responsible men, it's not easy detecting which is which!!!

Who's fvcking the boys? Same you..

kunleweb:
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

It is because their shakara done too much in the past - they misused the opportunity God had given to them and are now blaming God the why question
Most importantly, most of these ladies are not responsible and mature in their medula obliganta

ladies of nowadays are terrible feminist and marriage with them can be very difficult.
what amuses is that these categories of ladies will later settle with either widowers or some jobless drunkerds when they have reached their menopause.

Amumaigwe:


And their criteria includes financially capable men who will take care of them.

make you nor go find work make you fit marry wife and have
a family that will be well catered for.....dey there dey look for woman wey go soak garri with you (becos suffer na ur birthright) or dey feed you for house while you lord over her with your silly pride and ego..we know una..lazy loafers.Bye bye.

victorian:
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

And still have kids out of wedluck for the same set of man/men you branded controlling, abusive and lazy man. Or do you intend to produce bastards?

Daeylar:


I have a question

Hey, baby girl! Long time; and how've you been? Ask away; I'll decide whether to answer you publicly, privately, or not at all. Depending on which bag of secrets you want me to spill...

Because Nigeria girls/women are ashewo kobo kobo

kunleweb:




Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

Which kain lie be this?
They were very successful Farmers and Traders.
They were Exporters, of Cocoa and other food crops.

So you think say farmers and traders na jobless people?

Shugavee:
There is greater peace in being a single woman,, i miss it sometimes

Really? I could recommend single ladies you could switch places with. Deal?