kunleweb:




Black women may have nice bodies, but their disgusting attitude is UNIVERSAL

IBBG:
You speak a lot of sense in all your post. i love your independent thinking. I like people who challenge the bandwagon effect and try to devise their own school of thoughts that aptly suits their life. Don't let anyone define the quality of life you decide to live for yourself. Morever this issue is overflogged and overhyped. it is one of those phases in life.

pocohantas:


All the girls selling tomatoes and smoked fish in the market, those girls that will be very happy to have a fine boy like you... why haven't you married one of them?

majekdom2:
what has class got to do with my defining your person. That your thoughts lack substance, void of deep thoughts and intelligence ? Is that some class Get hungry for wisdom and guard your heart with all zeal for there in are the issues of life

MissWrite:



If you knew your class - your intellectual peers, you would serve yourself well by sticking to that group. You would have easier conversations if you did, and you might not get so bent out of shape trying to make a point. Find people with the substance that you're used to, and a depth in thought that is comfortable enough to challenge you without exposing you to the risk of drowning. It's really as simple as that.

You and I don't belong in the same class and our interaction would only be a painful waste of time for everyone. That's why I said that we had nothing to discuss. (Right before you sent that "boo-hoo-hoo!" that prompted the apologetic pat on the shoulder). You do have something to offer, I'm sure; but perhaps not to me. And I clearly have nothing that you can use. So.....take care of yourself.

tunjilana:


Hello, the way things are going and the way things will be in the future, it wont be a matter of who should but who can. If you seek equality, seek it in totality and don't shoot yourself in the foot by marrying someone who cant be equal to you or help u seek your desired life...that is if you are really progressive and forward thinking oooo...In some countries where people have to work many jobs to survive...couples work around their schedules to be able to baby sit, cook, do laundry and all together....so u are planning to have your wife on day when u are on night and vice versa and expect her to still be the one worrying about domestics alone!...

As for the women, marriage is about companionship not having a man pay your bills cos u take care of his domestics. The world is gradually moving away from the point where domestics are such a big deal...wish a washing machine, food processor, vacuum e.t.c... a lot can be done in minutes...besides the average family size is shrinking, most men dont want more than 2 kids...probably coming generation will be 1...So that idea of I am giving him a family is gradually shrinking...

resurgent2019:


God bless you sir. It is really tough out here and men are not complaining. We know where we get sex and alcohol to cool our nerves from the pressure. But upon all these, Nigerian girls still hate us and call us broke for staying on our lane.


Nigerian girls can stay single if they like. We men will do just fine because we grow better with age, we have no menopausal problems.

Nigerian girls should keep waiting for economic saviors. It is well.

abduljabbar4:


Go and kill yourself. Buhari till 2023.

resurgent2019:


I dont understand what you are talking about? What is my mummy said?

I was referring to your tribal drivel in your earlier post.

You must be from the the SE or igboid part of the SS. You people hate other Nigerians and are suffering for it.

And as God will have it, the tribes you hate control Nigeria. So what will you do to save yourselves from slavery?

That is what you should be worried about dear.

bukatyne:


Are their relationships really great if their lovers can be snatched like a bag?

TheLogicalMind:


The sad fact is that your stupidity will continue to afflict you way beyond 2023 because no one can change the laws of genetics. Sigh.

Sophyrocks:


No truer words have been spoken. Don't mind the negative replies. They know you have spoken the truth and it is too bitter to swallow. Thumbs up.

abduljabbar4:


Better than being interbred with a donkey. Wait and see. The margin would be more than 3 million this time

But we don't have donkeys down south, even though it is well known that both donkey/human and cow/human hybrids exist in the northern part of NI-SHI-T-IA

Don't you recognise your own family portrait?

Tell me, will there be cows in Janna?

Bidobado1:


From Naija, Spain, Malta, Egypt, Portugal, Scotland, USA and the carribean. Everywhere I've met them, it's the same disgusting attitude.

Shugavee:
I am not ,,, but there is stresss being in a relationship

kunleweb:
I'm begging for an answer, why are there too many single ladies these days. Just heard of a stunt where a sister ( rich and graduate, working class with car who had no husband ) pulled a game-play to unseat her uneducated sister from her husband, i'm left bewildered why, why are there too many single sisters out-there left unmarried. I need answers. I really do as it beats my understanding.

dairykidd:

... But they be getting dîcks from random thirsty niggaz on the journey tho

cronsberg:
Because believe it or not, numerically there are more women than men to the extend that if all men were to marry a woman each, there will still remain basically millions of women unable to find husband cuz all the men are taken. Plus the facts that men are likely to end up in prison, more men die than women, plus all the gay men etc. Polygamy offers a solution, but we are made to think its backwards and uncivilized. So here we are, with majority of new borns being females. Makes it look like as if we are really heading towards the prophecy that a dozen women will be chasing after one man because of male scarcity. Funny enough, with all that, women are still foaming hard to get and playing games, which interestingly also contributes to more women being single because men simply are refusing to chase after the hard to get women unlike before.

dasparrow:


Many are single because the average Nigerian Bred male is a misogynist, a cheat, a scammer, a rapist and a pedophile. No woman in her sane mind will want to spend the rest of her life with such kind of individuals. It is unhealthy to raise a family with such kind of human beings who have questionable character and depraved minds.

Besides, the entire world knows that the average Nigerian bred male treats his wife like a slave. Now why would anyone with a functioning brain willingly go into slavery? Today, children can be gotten without being married. Most women want children, not misogynist husbands that will oppress, abuse and enslave them. Life is too short for that!

victorian:
Most men are not ready to be responsible, that's why.

And women these days prefer to be single have kids, than settle with just any guy for marriage sakes. Gone are those days, a woman will be suffering and smiling.

More women are not ready to be treated as slaves in a marriage they spend their hard earned money on. The guy more or else doesn't contribute anything other than sex, collects her money and he will still be as controlling as fucvk! Some slaps here and there, feeling he should be able to make her scared of him.
Why would a man instill fear in his wife instead of respect from his wife
So,
Most single ladies don't need such stress biko.

Personally, I can never marry a controlling, abusive, lazy man. I rather remain single and have kids instead.

komols856:


where will the kids come from?, abi na from dog?

Legalservices:


In addition the lack of moral values, disregard of culture and loose upbringing are cardinal reasons for an upsurge in single women. Gone are the days when women were ashamed to have body counts before marriages. The truth be told most women seek now lust after carnal pleasures than men in this our generation. They rather explore their sexual fantasies indiscriminately making flimsy excuses of domestic violence etc to exit unions am a lawyer and I have handled divorces.....e.g a woman would say in court that poor sex is a reason she seeks a divorce...No marriage is perfect... Lazy and undisciplined minds find cheap excuses to remain sinfully single or promiscuously married

majekoam:

"If they could". See the last line.
And why subject him to temptation.
A good and smart woman knows that and if you were married you would know it too...
Many relationships are great but they all have hard times...
You sound like an advocate of home breakers.

Hanseel1:



You are a dreamer.

v2:
It is clear and simple.
The probability of having a male child is 25% while it is 75% for a female child hence for every male child born there will be a corresponding possibility of 3 female born too.

Saff:
What do you want? You want a woman who has her own money, career driven and ambitious. But you want a woman who wil submit and answer to you like her master, depend on you, stay at home cook and clean and do everything you say. You can’t have it all, but you can certainly have a balance. But I’ve realised that even a balance is not enough for most of you men. You must find a way to bring devalue the ‘modern’ woman out of jealousy. It’s simply your ego playing mind games with you, honestly.

victorian:








My dear, that's a very good question.
I asked myself same question and the answer I got is this :
Men who are trained well, prefer ladies who do not look flashy . In their mind, they feel flashy or very pretty ladies are either promiscuous or badly trained. These men size up women from afar, based on the lady's look and that's where they miss it.
They feel a dull looking, plain or average is the ideal wife material. But most times, it doesn't work that way. That's another reason u see good men married to troublesome wives
When the dotted lines are signed, that plain meek Jane u feel is a perfect wife material becomes a thorn in their flesh. So u cant judge a book by its cover. Not all pretty ladies are evil, not all plain Jane are perfect.

While the untrained guys, spoilt, egoistical guys love to show off, so they go after pretty and flashy ladies pretending at first to be the ideal man but after a week or so, they can't keep up such fake good guy attitude anymore. They now show their real character, take it or leave it they don't care. There are so many fishes to catch anyways, so their mind tells them.

But I thank God am wiser now. This life ehn? One will be seeking for love and companionship but God will say that's not where I want your focus to be. At 22yrs , I was still a virgin and wanted to marry immediately settle down and have kids after my youth service but heartbreaks No let me rest.
To survive ,I had to focus all my energies and mind on buisness later on. At least at all at all naim bad pass.

I made my first million naira at the age of 26years old, since then I delved into my career and Making money came so easy for me. A time people thought I was into money rituals but I wasnt. Even at that the monies didn't freak me but that's what God wanted me to have first, as love almost killed me.

But who am I to complain? Life has taught me to accept there is a higher being ordering our steps and handling what comes our way. There are things we have no control over. That's what I know about life.