Hanseel1:


Stop making postmann happy. Stop disgracing womanhood.

postmann:


You're such a feeble bitchass nigga. I haven't started and you have gone defensive like a nervous virgin afraid of her first fùck!

Who cares? You're a wuzzbag who is vast in bleaching cremes.



My father is proud that his proud and illustrious progeny is secure in the strength of my loins; that his mantle is safe in my masculine grip, and my mother is proud of her fighting spirit in me. I'm a star sitting at the centre of her crown -- the priceless gift she gave my father and he so loves her!

But you;

You're the twilight of your father's glory days; the dying embers of his wasted efforts; the finality of his prematurely terminated legacy.

donpata:


I don't even understand the noise over a non issue. Most men listen to their wives. However, if both don't agree on an issue and the man thinks his opinion is superior in terms of getting results, he has the veto power to push through. The God who said man is the head is not a fool. He knows times of disagreement must arise and there are solid decisions that need to be made in the home. Here, it's not a woman's feeble or emotional mind, "nonanalytical" mind that is needed. Of coz, don't come arguing illogically cos I know there are exceptions.

And about Jesus Christ being perfect and man is not, funny u think obeying Scripture depends on whether u are treated fine or not. Scripture is clear. When u do something as onto Christ, u do it whether the person 'merits' it or not. Soooo scripturally, ur argument here can't stand except if we gonna talk outside Scripture.

Fearlez:
Hmm, seems you're a closet violent pig. You're trying to control someone over what post to like ?

Why do I get this feeling you're just a double-faced idiot trying to pose as a tolerable male here just to get female endorsement?

postmann:


[s]You're such a feeble bitchass nigga. I haven't started and you have gone defensive like a nervous virgin afraid of her first fùck!

Who cares? You're a wuzzbag who is vast in bleaching cremes.


My father is proud that his proud and illustrious progeny is secure in the strength of my loins; that his mantle is safe in my masculine grip, and my mother is proud of her fighting spirit in me. I'm a star sitting at the centre of her crown -- the priceless gift she gave my father and he so loves her!

But you;

You're the twilight of your father's glory days; the dying embers of his wasted efforts; the finality of his prematurely terminated legacy.[/s]

donpata:


What u are saying holds no water. The biblical expectation of submission is not possible for a man cos of the way he is wired. There can't be 2 heads in the home. From time immemorial, the pattern has been the woman under the man and the man loving the woman.

Your argument abi question abt whether the man shld not love his wife at all is laughable. Whether a Christian or not, man (male and female) naturally love. Besides, Scripture teaches that the greatest command is to love God. The 2nd is to love others as urself. Sooooo, marriage aside, Scripture expects Christians to love.

Lastly, God's 'foolishness' is greater than ur greatest 'wisdom.' He wired men and women and knows their individual needs. i am married and I interpret my wife's respect for me as a part of love. Respect is paramount. I see love in her respect. For her though, her greatest needs are to say the sweet words to her, buy gifts, take her out, provide for her, hold and cuddle her, protect her, etc. That is her interpretation of love and most of those are things I care less abt.

Plus abt decision making, the man is responsible if his home shatters. Sooooo, every decision must be vetted by him

Sooooo, go get some biblical and biological education

CHoccolaTE:


Not since time immemorial my dear, the pattern of men heading homes completely came into place in the stone age where cave men lived and the males being physically stronger used both physical force and strength to dominate the woman. And the fact that they went out to hunt food while women who are better suited to childcare stayed behind and were provided for so the arrangement naturally gave men the upper hand.
Oga This is the 21st century, women no longer sit behind at home and wait for men to provide everything and superiority is no longer judged by physical strength but by a number of qualities, intelligence and morality being two big factors to consider before considering anyone superior or capable of leadership or complete domination of others.

If you want to get the Bible involved you HAVE to respect your wife for your prayers to be answere.
Yes, that is a major criteria for men in the Bible. 1 Peter verse 3:7 husbands respect and honor your wives so that nothing may hinder your prayers. I don't know why this verse is not preached more in church. Part of respecting your wife is trusting her enough to let her make major decisions in the house without bringing them to you first to be vetted. Expecting an adult woman to run to you every time to vet her opinions before she can perform them is not respect. You are denigrating and degrading her and treating her like a fool. Leave some aspects of the house alone for her to make decisions without coming to you first for approval. If any decision she makes in those aspects turn out wrong then it's on her head and she is to be blamed.



The Bible also commands ALL CHRISTIANS to submit to one another but men will tell you that submission is for women alone.



Oga that is your personal opinion and your marriage does not work the same way every other marriage works. Who told you all men and women want the exact same thing? Women in countries where gender equality is advocated do not consider their greatest needs to be gifts, cuddles, sweet words etc. And not every man sees love in his wife's respect. You can respect a person without loving them. I had an evil boss that expected me to work Monday to Sunday when I was just leaving the university and this man didn't pay me up to twenty thousand Naira monthly, I got a lot of monetary tips from customers that's what helped me. Sorry for diverting but though I respected that man I really disliked him for being a heartless user. Women can respect men without loving them. You see love in your wife's respect does not mean it is so for every man.



No every decision does not need to be vetted by the man. Wives are not brain dead zombies, they can take decisions in certain areas of the home without asking husbands first.

The best thing though is to apply intelligence and compassion with your partner and do what works best for you since every marriage is unique and every human has individual needs. Just talk to your partner in love and understanding to know how best to run your home.

Unfortunately or fortunately for you men some women actually like the arrangement of being totally under a man's control because they are lazy parasites that want to be completely provided for. All those men that want complete dictatorship should look for such women to marry.

Mariangeles:
Do you feel threatened and dominated by a man ??
Maybe it's the environment you grew up in...

If you really understand the inner strength and ability a woman possess, then there'd be no need for these debates and name calling...
To most men, their wives is THEIR SANCTUARY, THEIR COMFORT, THEIR HAPPY PLACE!

CHoccolaTE:


It's really not about me to be honest.
Everyday on Facebook I see different horror stories of women who are being treated like crap in their marriages by men who consider themselves God's and dictators in their marriage. Marriage is all about mutual love and understanding from both parties not bullying or bossing your partner around because you saw 'wives submit' in the Bible.

This topic is for men ad women that have the wrong idea.

CHoccolaTE:


What page did you start reading from?
This is the reason I gave before.

Mariangeles:
[s]Do you feel threatened and dominated by a man ??
Maybe it's the environment you grew up in...

If you really understand the inner strength and ability a woman possess, then there'd be no need for these debates and name calling...
To most men, their wives is THEIR SANCTUARY, THEIR COMFORT, THEIR HAPPY PLACE![/s]

Hanseel1:
You lack wisdom.

postmann:


You're such an ignoramus!


It is only a matter of time before Europe is overrun by Arab immigrants who would turn their cultures and values on it's head and replace it with strict Islamic laws. It's happening already.

They saw an opportunity where their men have become weak and docile. The alpha male will always win.

If Europe couldn't conquer the Arabs culturally who are next door neighbours, I don't see that happening here.

Then if you're still alive, your only value would be to serve as an eunuch because there would be no way you'd be accepted as a bona fide male.

Mindfulness:


An African man seeing Europe in danger of immigrants from Arab countries. Oh the irony!

By the way, the fact that you are shouting alpha and beta up and down here is a clear indication that you are not even omega.

Stop dividing people into two categories. It makes you look like a simple minded fo*ol.

Mariangeles:
It goes both ways...some men too suffer A LOT in the hands of their wives but most of them don't speak out

CHoccolaTE:

Start another thread to advocate men's humanity's rights. This one is for women

Mindfulness:


An African man seeing Europe in danger of immigrants from Arab countries. Oh the irony!

By the way, the fact that you are shouting alpha and beta up and down here is a clear indication that you are not even omega.

Stop dividing people into two categories. It makes you look like a simple minded fo*ol.

Mariangeles:

[s]I AM NOT THE REASON FOR YOUR ISSUES !
Go butt heads with Postmann and Fearlez !
I don't have time for your tantrums... You don't even know where you belong[/s]

CHoccolaTE:

Start another thread to advocate men's rights. This one is for women.

postmann:


C'mon, you inglorious and despicable bleaching gigolo, your stamina disappoints me. Don't tell me you're gasping for breath already.

Is this how you intend to please the women here for whose acceptance you stomached the fool's bravery of engaging me?



Since you're skilled in laying an ambush for a woman's purse, you should be deft in defending your trade.

Shameless male gold digger.

Hanseel1:


You're a disgrace to womanhood.

Hanseel1:


The guy's stupidity is beyond me I swear
How can a sane mind say Arab immigrants are going to overrun Europe? There are less than 5million Arab Islamic immigrants in Europe presently , so ,how are they going to overrun Europeans and impose their primitive cultures there?

Mariangeles:
YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO HUMANITY!

Hanseel1:


You mother would be dissapointed wherever she is right now.

She was happy when you were born only for you to turn back on your gender and encourage the enslavement of women by men.
The bible, Christianity and all religions don't mean well for women. Trust me, if you really care about women, stop practicing a fake religion that doesn't and won't recognize women and men as equals.

Emotionally and hormonal imbalanced female with the traits of a tyrannical male.

Spits!

postmann:


[s]Since your molecular structure is frightenly symmetrical to a female, I never expect you to triumph where women are known to fail woefully.

Your cranium is crammed with feminine worries -- bleaching creme, gossips and fashion trends, but lethargic in political affairs where men sit and carve out their future and that of their children -- you epicine disposable piece of biological concoction.

While German women are getting groped in broad day light by Arab migrants, Italy voted a populist government on the promise of turning back African and Arab refugees. France is a getting close to become the Algeria, and London is nicknamed Londonistan -- am bearing the weight of Arab influence. Islam is thriving in the heart of European cities. And these cities are breeding grounds for ISIS recruits.

Real men are time watchers; like a lion, they patrol the boundaries of their territorial integrity. But sissies like you are found in the bedroom nursing the financial breasts of your female benefactor.

May the nurse that announced your birth become dumb whenever your birthday comes around.

May your father's inheritance the inherited by a worthy male. For your are an unfit vagabond.

May you become an outcast become your kinsman and may you become a second class citizen in your wife's home.

Despicable waste of male headcount[/s].

postmann:


Cheap emotional blackmail. Godless reprobate! Your profile attests to Allah.

You are as confused as your gender ambiguity.

postmann:


Here she comes..., the quintessence of god-less-ness; the personification of a wayward woman blown asunder by the storm of false knowledge; the crownless Jazebel of our time.

You have been a thoroughly sucked out nectar by hungry ravens who ploughed you dry like a desert cistern.

Tell me, what do you know about the cultural war facing Europe currently?

Hanseel1:


The guy's stupidity is beyond me I swear
How can a sane mind say Arab immigrants are going to overrun Europe? There are less than 5million Arab Islamic immigrants in Europe presently , so ,how are they going to overrun Europeans and impose their primitive cultures there?

Hanseel1:


As you want women to be subjected to subservience -so shall your daughters and all females in your lineage (born and unborn) will be treated like slaves because of their gender.

For denigrating women -your wife shall triumph above you and you shall eat your words

Cursed be the womb you came from! Cursed be the day you were born!

Tyrannical BASTARD

Mindfulness:


I live in Europe you simpleton.

Hanseel1:


Coward, seun forced me to swear allegiance to Allah before I can comment in Muslim threads.

By now you should be sensible enough to know that you can't comment in a Muslim thread without having that statement on your profile.

postmann:


As just another African refugee with little or no dignity.