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| Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:12pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Just super curious, why is it nearly impossible? If it’s not yahoo-yahoo. It’s rituals, if it’s not that it’s love scams. All sorts have taken over the good old days of loving relationships.  On another note could it be my looks? On several occasions all manner of people, usually men who are strangers refer to me as ‘China’ or sometimes ‘India’. Is there a street meaning to this or do they mistake me to be a Chinese person?! I’m tired, maybe I should just give up on love  |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by chiefolododo(m): 6:14pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Desperation 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 6:15pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Mabe you look like Chinese, no |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 6:17pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
I tell you girl same thing is happening to me right now.....you see a guy shoot his shot at me next thing in my mind will be maybe he's a yahoo guy I'll just let him pass |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by jackobi(m): 6:22pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
It all depends on the factors you tend to expose yourself too such as relationship values, physical desires and the environments you are exposed too. |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:46pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
chiefolododo: My only response for you ‘WOW’ |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:47pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
SilentWisper:fair skinned but definitely don’t have the Chinese eyes.  |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:48pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Millenniumlady: I know right! Such difficult times we ladies find ourselves in right now  |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by BestDude: 6:48pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:what is your definition of good man? 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 6:51pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Hm and the guys doing yahoo yahoo and yahoo+..if u ask dem why dem dey do such they will tell u dat they doing it cos naija babes dont wanna date broke men  . Hmm na wao.2 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:51pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
jackobi: Can you expantiate because if I understand you clearly, let me just put a disclaimer that I’m not about money. In fact I’m quite the opposite, flash money in my face and that’s a big turn off for me tbh  |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:53pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
lefulefu:You do have a point there I must agree. But there are still some of us who want legitimate hard-working men. We don’t want 30 bill for the account, just enough to take care of each other. I provide, he provides too. Room for loving each other more. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ranmoor: 6:53pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:The truth is, if you see the good guy u will probably abuse the relationship and take him for granted especially if he is upcoming... 31 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 6:53pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:u dont like yahoo boys? They spoil ladies with expensive gifts nau. |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:54pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
BestDude:A man who makes a honest living. Has good morals and values and understands how to love and appreciate a good woman.  8 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:55pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
ranmoor:The truth is you are assuming my personality based on probably your personal experiences. God should just test me and send me a good man.  2 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Queenrabella(f): 6:56pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
lefulefu: Lol sorry love, I don’t fall into that stereotype. |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ranmoor: 6:58pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:Maybe you are right... But, it is the truth! |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 6:59pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
lefulefu:And take away their destiny 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by OLAJADON: 7:01pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
most females actually take a guy that loves and pamper them for granted, I am talking from my experience 13 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:yesterday evening i was listening to a programme on the radio and the radio presenter was asking a lady on the phone if she's attracted to davido. The lady said yes ! .. The radio presenter asked if it was because of davido's wealth and fame... The lady said she's not attracted to davido's wealth and fame but the reason she's attracted to davido is because he's so hardworking and caring that he was able to purchase a porsche for his girlfriend. Ok how many hardworking upcoming young naija men fit jus buy porsche or any automobile for their girlfriend . So u see where d wahala dey. A guy cant afford for d main time to buy a car for im girlfriend or take her shopping to dubai and she will be angry and break up with him and start looking for a rich caring man.u see how d wahala dey take start?.11 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Deckline(m): 7:03pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:You've been searching the wrong places. Search no more,besides,i am right here with you. Let me show you true love. |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 7:04pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:I tell you don't know what's happening |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Nobody: 7:07pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:thats a fairy tale . How can someone take away ur destiny when he buys u a brandnew gucci handbag and victoria secrets underwear. |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Mizk(f): 7:09pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
You're looking in the wrong places, take it one step at a time, don't be desperate about it, otherwise you'll attract users, and maybe you found him but you lost him because you've got your eyes on something else when it was right in front of you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by BestDude: 7:09pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Queenrabella:you will be the same person that will reject the person with this same qualities. That is why I laugh at you ladies when you complain... |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 7:10pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
lefulefu:When he use diabolic things to take his bath then have sex with you..... I learnt they have diabolic soap  |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ranmoor: 7:14pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:You too? Your signature says Still pretty, get money, run up on, keep hoeing..... *Check* and you still don't know why you are attracting Yahoo guys and co 7 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by OLAJADON: 7:16pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
the truth is when a woman know you love her, she wont take you seriously again#fact that why we have a lot of FUCKBOYS 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by Millenniumlady(f): 7:17pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
ranmoor:It was a lyrics from one of my favourite female US rapper "CASH DOLL" song is tittle "Check" you can go listen to it |
| Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find A Good Man? :( by ranmoor: 7:20pm On Sep 10, 2018 |
Millenniumlady:oh, OK! My bad. Apologies |
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