Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

in other words ur saying don't put all ur eggs in one basket

at least keep some guys u can beg from when the need arises



I really hope I don't meet people like u , cause it will quite unfortunate

I dont see anything wrong in that..
Giving her number out to other guys shuld solely depend on the girl....



Me i think say na when girls(reasonable ones oh) try keeping some other frnds aside her boyfriend thats when she will know how to resist temptation and how to stand firm and also how to know her limits.

kunkelhanspeter:
Go and marry her so she will stop sharing her number to strangers if you are scared of losing her you can’t use bf of a thing to tie a lady down what if you disappoint her tomorrow what will happen?

So you think marriage will make a partner faithful to you?

And once she gets married,all the things she used to "do" before marriage stops right?



Bro,if you cherish the longevity of your innocent heart,please don't employ this kind of mentality in your life unless you want to lose it one day!

Marriage can never change anyone or make any lady loyal to you!
Aside love,loyalty and faithfulness is very paramount both in a relationship and marriage!

A lady or guy who is not loyal and faithful in a relationship has a high probability of cheating when they get married!

If you are in doubt,look at the increase in divorce cases recently in Nigeria and you will understand that marriage is not the solution to unfaithfulness!

Chiefpriest1:
Lol. Boyfriend, not husband yet. Do you know the percentage of breakups between girls/boys every minute.

I do not support that a lady should cage herself because she has a boyfriend. However, its cool to be selective.

Don't just drop your phone number for every Tom, Dick and Harry.


Lol. See this Op...

Guy: please can I have your number

Babe: Sorry, I have a boyfriend

Funny!

One of the many reasons for the incensant break ups.

Wilfredpat22:
The truth is the more a lady gives out her number, the higher tendency she knows she is going to be laid by the guys.

We all know that. We just don’t want to put our eggs in one basket

Spread it joor

OP, please define the term for me...do you mean any guy...or guys interested in the gal?
I don't think its fair to generalize that every guy collects a lady's contact just to disturb her or ask her out. Most do sha!

enuk80:
Hello everyone,

I just want to know....why some girls who have serious boyfriends give their number out to another guy who they just met?

She knows she has a boy who is everything to her yet she gives her number out to total stranger who just talk to her on meeting her.

Is this really proper for a girl to give her number out when she knows she has a boyfriend?

Why can't she say no or sorry I have a boyfriend?

****after giving her number out to guys, they start asking her out and this create problems in her relationship.

Her personal decision.

She is free to give her number even to the Christian Lucifer especially if his boyfriend isn't planning to marry her in the nearest future or if he isn't treating her well or if she intends to leave the relationship.

lefulefu:
she can always switch off her phone if her phone keeps ringing while she's having a quality time with u and if later they call and ask her why her fone was off she can say i was having a nice time with my boyfriend or fiancee. Dem no go kill am for tellin dem d truth nau.

How do we know what her response will cos we not be there when she would answer them

kennygee:
When the bf hasn't married her?

I stumbled on a post this morning and this is what the clown said and I quote "you can suck my deek for 6 years and support my dreams, I'll still leave you for the love of my life".

It is so hard to be in a relationship these days, you will be being committed not knowing the dude or chic isn't even committed to you.

Just be celibate, share your number, meet people, be cultured and educate yourself.

You'll find someone who loves you enough to commit.

Are you celibate

Winter4:
OP, please define the term for me...do you mean any guy...or guys interested in the gal?
I don't think its fair to generalize that every guy collects a lady's contact just to disturb her or ask her out. Most do sha!

I don't mean every guy. A lady should know the intention of the guy when he first approach her or perhaps as time goes on.

enuk80:


After giving out her number, the guy start disturbing her causing problem in her serious relationship. What is the point of giving out the number when you know the intention of the guy...

You girls should stop saying "you don't know where help will come from. " that's bias

my dear nothing is bias as far as the girl is not dating those guys. she's not married yet so she's owns no one explanation to whom ever she gives her number to provided she's not double dating. while I was still dating, a guy begged for my number for months, so he was having the feeling that I hate him and seriously I don't really like him. but after some time I gave him my number to make him happy with conditions which are
*don't call me often because too much call irritates me(big lie, I just don't want him to be close)
*I am in a relationship so its strictly friendship b/w us
and to my surprise the guy kept to my conditions. to cut the long story short I did not end up with my bf because we're both As and I am having a great friendship with the order guy. so let just know what we want.

YoungDaNaval:
Are you celibate

Yes I am Sir

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

and by so doing if you get better offer , like oshiomole dump his asss, Lara oshiomole had a boy friend before but when she got a better offer from the Edo state Governor , knowing too well she will be called first lady, she dumped him, period!

abi?

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

shut up. stop saying rubbish. we all know you naija girls are worthless desperate cheaters

Is this one a news

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The truth is the more a lady gives out her number, the higher tendency she knows she is going to be laid by the guys.

We all know that. We just don’t want to put our eggs in one basket

Fabolousibk1:
How is that a big deal....?... You're feeling insecure ni jor ..

every thing now is now related to someone been insecure right?. unserious folks like you who don't value what commitment is all about will always say that

Cr7sBabe:
If u have a bf doesn't mean u can't gv out ur number. Just know wat u doing after gvn out ur number. You really dunno were help can come from.
Guys of this days ain't trust worthy sef. Even if they promise u marriage.. they can still do and undo. So. live ur life freely. don't b caged bcus of a bf...that's not even ur husband.
But be a good girl, a good girl does good things.

This girl, I love your spirit, you're an agriculturist too. What course?

Psychologically it's not right for a girl to give her number to another guy when she knew she's in a relationship first and foremost girls do know the intention of guy a guy can't just have your number and you expect him to lay low seemingly it causes disturbance when you are with your partner when calls keeps on distracting your relationship some girls to the extent when you ask them why did she give the guy her number their reply will be like I don't know 70% it's wrong for girls to give out number and if she give I hope she know how to play by the rules an sure she should know what she's doing

EmpresFIDEL:
my dear nothing is bias as far as the girl is not dating those guys. she's not married yet so she's owns no one explanation to whom ever she gives her number to provided she's not double dating. while I was still dating, a guy begged for my number for months, so he was having the feeling that I hate him and seriously I don't really like him. but after some time I gave him my number to make him happy with conditions which are
*don't call me often because too much call irritates me(big lie, I just don't want him to be close)
*I am in a relationship so its strictly friendship b/w us
and to my surprise the guy kept to my conditions. to cut the long story short I did not end up with my bf because we're both As and I am having a great friendship with the order guy. so let just know what we want.

if na davido, will u remember there conditions

Honestly girls want everything from guys... They need your attention, time, password, salary, phones, oxygen, soul, heart, your obituary date... if you know u know

That's all

erico2k2:

everything is wrong with it,U r meant to stick to one man, you conversation should end at the gisting mode, why xchange phone number ?
if for biz fine, work coleague who will call at respective time and for quick catch up with work or biz fine, but for other talks, keep it face to face.If a girl does that dating they will do same married

hmmm

eph12:
Girlfriends, wives should be allowed to have their lives and be friends with whoever they want to be. But if you can't trust your woman not to cross the line, why are you still with her? Guys need to learn how to save themselves from headache and pain by either trusting their woman or not care about some of their actions. What's the point in monitoring and policing your girl up and down? You will only end up pushing her further away and if that's what you want, go ahead then. But just know that you can't control them and you're only asking them to get smarter if you're always in their business.

Wow... You really are smart

openmine:


So you think marriage will make a partner faithful to you?

And once she gets married,all the things she used to "do" before marriage stops right?



Bro,if you cherish the longevity of your innocent heart,please don't employ this kind of mentality in your life unless you want to lose it one day!

Marriage can never change anyone or make any lady loyal to you!
Aside love,loyalty and faithfulness is very paramount both in a relationship and marriage!

A lady or guy who is not loyal and faithful in a relationship has a high probability of cheating when they get married!

If you are in doubt,look at the increase in divorce cases recently in Nigeria and you will understand that marriage is not the solution to faithfulness!

Solution to unfaithfulness you mean?

weak insecure men everywhere, making this girls feel important, y'all bastards... what if she forks anoda girl, are you the owner?? if u focus this attention to finding money you won't be worrying about one girl collevtin anoda guys number

Olalan:
A girl who is committed in her relationship wouldn't be giving number to guys cause the truth is we all know what the likely intention of the guy is.
BTW it's also applicable to guys you can't be saying you are committed in your relationship yet still trying to make more friends of the opposite sex.

Committed. I like the word. The earlier people try to draw the line, the better.

It's a free world

lawalosky:

if na davido, will u remember there conditions

I am highly principled not minding your status.

EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
shut up. stop saying rubbish. we all know you naija girls are worthless desperate cheaters

You are really out of ur senses mr man. Go say that to ur sisters at home, thats if u have any, rubbish

It's a free world and she's free to meet who she wants as long it doesn't affect the relationship.

Ladies should also learn to draw a line. Its not every guy you meet you give your number.

The truth ladies should know is that once a guy has your number, he's already step ahead in doing what he wants to do with you either good or bad.

Gantasanta:
The truth is the more a lady gives out her number, the higher tendency she knows she is going to be laid by the guys.

We all know that. We just don’t want to put our eggs in one basket

This is true. Its a free world though

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