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So a father that raped his daughter is still a father abi? Better he never brought him into this world than to bring you and curse you pain all the day's of his life.

We don't have to wait for God to judge all the time. God already gave us brains to think. We know what's good and what bad.

f na my papa I for do worse. He was a useless man to his children and one if his sons decided to teach other stupid parents a lesson.

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

We can’t blame him though ..

I know some acclaimed dads are mere sperm donors but the dude went too far.
Just be a good dad, don't be like your dad.

gaby:
I was just going to add this to my initial post and then I saw your post.
Who knows if mummy was a slay queen in her time and bros got to find out, a reality that led to their separation.

You need to see the number of men raising kids in deception who truly aren't theirs in this Nigeria to understand.

You get small head, you wife and everybody for her lineage get normal head. But pikin wey dem born give you carry the world head haba..then you come send pikjn message e go come tell you say leave me joor...

These stories abound my people.

Mummy knew what went down but certainly refused to come clean and instead had sown a seed of discord in bros...

Oga could have been impotent and knew he was being scammed.

Life is indeed big and deep..


Enjoy my siggy again..

If oga is impotent, then where is the scam? It means he knows........

Sperm donors, everywhere.

NdiaraIGBO:
If oga is impotent, then where is the scam? It means he knows........

If oga is impotent and never gave a go ahead for madam to do the do with his consent...that's a huge scam.

Yes..my comment above is valid and obtainable guys.

Most people contract Catholic priests to solve the riddle because they are seen as next to God and would never let the secret out..

How did you think we ended up with so many oyibo looking folks in our families, even though from ages as far as we can remember most of our lineages were predominantly ebonies...

If my assertion was the case, oga would have loved to contract any of his relatives or someone else of his choice to do the do and keep it under wraps..

Read and learn my guy...

I grew up with elders and I ensured they accepted me as a friend just to enable me learn from their stables.

I feel this guy pain and i am exactly the same i can't wait for mine to die and i will make sure non of my sisters will attend his funeral when he eventual die even if i have to travel to Nigeria to make sure i am with them all to prevent anyone of them going or people calling to tell them bullshit as we have already planned i will take them all on holiday when that time comes.He is evil pure breed and first born of the devil even when we try to forgive and forget but still this man will not and never change even in his grave.As i type now i am on the phone with one of my sister listening to all his evil escapade and going to my late mother 2am in the morning on several occasion cursing and invoking her spirit not to rest in peace. I can go on and on and on again so i feel this young man's pain and i know exactly what he is talking about.My guy i am with u.[color=#006600][/color]

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

I agree with you o. But do you think if the guy had an opportunity to decide on whether to come to this world, he would have opted to come. Only God knows why He did not give us that choice. Trust me, most people would have decided to stay back.

sykeng:
If you like treat your children that way and expect them to show love later in life.

My Dad didn't treat me as well as I treat him today ..I really tsk care of him you know ... there is nothing in life like forgiveness

FarahAideed:
My Dad didn't treat me as well as I treat him today ..I really tsk care of him you know ... there is nothing in life like forgiveness

Nothing like a heart that cares, forgiveness must be asked for and earned, either directly or indirectly.

gaby:
If oga is impotent and never gave a go ahead for madam to do the do with his consent...that's a huge scam.

Yes..my comment above is valid and obtainable guys.

Most people contract Catholic priests to solve the riddle because they are seen as next to God and would never let the secret out..

How did you think we ended up with so many oyibo looking folks in our families, even though from ages as far as we can remember most of our lineages were predominantly ebonies...

If my assertion was the case, oga would have loved to contract any of his relatives or someone else of his choice to do the do and keep it under wraps..

Read and learn my guy...

I grew up with elders and I ensured they accepted me as a friend just to enable me learn from their stables.

You are terribly conflicted in your reasoning but you know better.

fekolastic:
Corper should first and foremost take his siblings to a DNA centre and conduct one to know if the man was truly their biological father. Because it is only a case of adultery and the sudden revelation of paternity of children that could make a man act the way this dad is accused of doing.
Then if after and the result shows that the man was not their biological father then he should ask himself if would have behaved differently from the DAD and if negative he should insist that his mum tell him why she was separated from the man

bros forget that thing.. some people need to be treated in their own coin whether he's his biological father or not.

Now this will serve as a deterrent for all those who think they have the monopoly of wickedness....

alexola20:
My dad was a rich man in his class.
He never gave me more than 200 naira at once all his life.And that was only in 1998/99.
But I never hated him.I never felt any love from him as much but I always know that there's something that attached us both,even though he had numerous children.
He is late now.
Dad may Almighty God forgive you all your sins and put you in the best place you can be.
Even though my mum always look like she was the one that has been caring for all and all.
I gave her my all too.
God knows even though my dad never did anything tangible you can point to physically for me and we were both like a bit far from each other after I left secondary school.But then there has been this connection in my heart that I never thought of having any negative thought of him.
I will never wish any of my parents dead.
How I wish he could replace my living mum now.
Mummy God will judge us all.

Rest in perfect peace Dad.

If you are favoured by God to come to the next world,choose your women carefully and never marry an uneducated woman again.
Never again I said.

May God have mercy on your soul and give you a peaceful rest.

Please if you could look on the earth,do pray for me.

Your post is quite contradictory. One minute you said you won't wish death on any of your parents the next you're wishing you can replace your dead dad with your living mun. Is that not same as wishing your mum was dead?

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

Save this gospel

wolesmile:
"Honour thy Father and Mother, that your days may be long."
So says the bible.


“And We have enjoined upon man (care) for his parents. His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents, to Me is the (final) destination.” (Surat Luqman : 14)

No matter what either of your parents must have done to you, they don't deserve what you just did online. No matter how wicked he must have been, he's dead now. That alone, you should respect.

That part of the Bible has a B part which says " Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord". Ephesians 6:4 - y'all hurriedly skip this part to justify the average African parents brainwashing. If a father is irresponsible and useless there's no need to cover up for him, after all the same Bible says "any man that can't take care of his family is worse than an infidel". Taking care of your family also means being sensible to give birth children that you can take care of. If you cannot take care of your offspring then use a condom and don't produce offsprings that never asked you to birth them in the first place.

That man did not give birth to that boy or perhaps his other siblings. It is said in Igboland that any child that slaps his father, it means that the man never impregnated the child's mother. What this boy is doing on social media is more than slapping his father. He should be careful so that his own son will not do same to him.

tumababa:
maybe he is not the father!!!

Are you so out of touch with reality that you don't know there are biological fathers that are worse than devils? Some men are mere sperm donors and they deserve all the insult their children heap on them later in life.

In as much as I don't support your dad's actions towards you people

You would have kept it to yourself instead of bringing it out to the public

But I understand how bad you feel about the whole thing

What you did, the decision you made and the actions you took is your choice

Treasuredlove:
he was still instrumental in him being born although God should be given all the glory. But he was an instrument for God. I think he is being childish and has serious daddy issues...unresolved psychological stuff. What he said isn't nice no matter what

You have not been in situations of this nature in your life.

Assuming his mother wasn't there to trained him to the level he is today, what would have happened?

blackboy:
What role did you play? He can talk but his dad cant.

Takes 2 to tango. I know of a similar case but if you hear what the child did to the father you will understand.

There is no smoke without fire.

A parent is to love their child no matter what! The dad was useless. There are a lot of useless fathers out there.

By the way if u want to see smoke without fire open your deep freezer!

Nobodys:
I think so too...It's obvious the man hurt the young man a lot. I do not blame him one bit... There are parents and there are egg and sperm donors. Some Fathers and mothers are the worst. we just have to appreciate our loving parents..

Parents should learn from this, is not just about giving birth to children, you have to take care of them and be there for them. never create a hole cause they'll fill it with hate..and HATE is very strong and powerful, it's very hard to forego....

youve spoken well

NdiaraIGBO:
You are terribly conflicted in your reasoning but you know better.

Hol up...hol up...

If you need me to do an expose on this never talked about piece, trust me I will do it to the best of my knowledge and it will beleft for you to take or trash it.

There was a thread this past weekend on here, where it was asked if Celibacy, as practised by a priest was responsible for the abuse on kids. I poured it out as I knew it, but the mods here who enjoy playing gods in their ignorance chose to delete my post.

I am not one who talks for the sak of it, I'll give you verifiable and empirical facts to dwell on..

You really don't want to know the havoc catholic priests wrecked in our continent nay Nigeria. The evidence is present, looking and staring us in the eye but as usual, we chose to ignore.

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

I believe you were not in shoes so don't think you know or understand how it feels.

All the same, forgiveness is key.

But As For Me My Dad Is The Best Dad Ever

gaby:
Hol up...hol up...

If you need me to do an expose on this never talked about piece, trust me I will do it to the best of my knowledge and it will beleft for you to take or trash it.

There was a thread this past weekend on here, where it was asked if Celibacy, as practised by a priest was responsible for the abuse on kids. I poured it out as I knew it, but the mods here who enjoy playing gods in their ignorance chose to delete my post.

I am not one who talks for the sak of it, I'll give you verifiable and empirical facts to dwell on..

You really don't want to know the havoc catholic priests wrecked in our continent nay Nigeria. The evidence is present, looking and staring us in the eye but as usual, we chose to ignore.

Ok, e be like say this one get serious issues. Goodluck

He may have spoken well to convince or confuse those who may believe him but its very unfortunate the said father is not alive to tell us his own side of the story. However, A lot of women tends to influence the children negatively just to make the children love them more than the man besides the so called boy that is happy because of the fathers death will soon wake up from slumber that is by the time he marry, then he will truly know the other side of family life. I bet him, he will ask God to forgive him for taken this stand against his father. If he believes that he is kind and learned, he would have gone to his father before now as a man and have a man to man chat with him as to resolve things amicably because your father is your father.

NdiaraIGBO:
Ok, e be like say this one get serious issues. Goodluck

lol...you should know whose table you are shaking first...

I no get time for smally dem...

Enjoy my siggy

adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self..

If you experience such hatred, you might say even worse. Imagine your own father wishing u die before him... And no love or care for 26 years of ur life.

Never say never...

Newsmania:
An NYSC serving corps member in Abuja who celebrated the death of his father on social media, has come out to state why he thought the passing away of his dad was good news.

Over the past weekend, the story of a members of the NYSC serving in Abuja who mocked the death of own his father by celebrating the demise on social media, emerged online, and was trailed with criticisms and mixed reactions from many social media users.

After the death of his father, he had taken to Facebook to express these rather strange words: “Friday is for CDS….#Abjcoppa….And finally the great devil died last night….. R.I.P my useless father…..Just so happy we all saw ur death…. This is GOODNEWS.”

While speaking in a new interview, the young man identified simply as Victor M Bills, who later deleted this post due to the appeals of his friends, opened up on why he thought the passing away of his dad was good news, and the reason about his obvious happiness at his father’s death

He disclosed that he was in no way sorry about the statements he wrote on Facebook, as his father’s demise was an answered prayer.

According to him, his dad had denied him the essential fatherly love he needed ever since his mother got separated from him about 26 years ago due to an unknown reason.

These were his exact words: “I can’t paint him white when I’m dying inside me. He always laughed and told me I would suffer and die before him. But the reverse is now the case… He wasn’t God.

“He deprived me of fatherly love… And still didn’t wish me well. So his death was a great relief to the family… I’m not regretting anything. My friends asked me to delete the post. But I don’t regret posting it.

“Now I wonder the kind of tribute the children will write for him and what people will know him for other than evil. I just pity him, because even at gunpoint I’ll never agree that he had an atom of love for me.

“He cursed me every time he saw me. We never had a loving time as father and son. I’m not fabricating stories. I’m telling you the truth. Don’t know why he hated me so much.
“Before now, anytime I met new friends I told them my dad was late so that they wouldn’t bring up topics about him. I always talked about my mum. So, when they saw my post about him, they were surprised I had a dad all the while. Even friends from secondary school.

"He didn’t attend his children’s wedding or even wished them well. Rather, he rained curses on them, just to frustrate them. Does such a man deserve to be given a befitting burial? He was heartless and never believed he would die soon.”
However, Victor who hails from Amaraku, Isiala Mbano in Imo State could not but celebrate his mother who took up the responsibility of taking care of him and his three siblings.

He said: “I believe in the strength of thorough womanhood from my mum. I thought about how life would have been if my mother wasn’t hardworking and industrious. What if my mum had hooked up with another man after their separation. What would I have done?"

As for whether he planned to grace the occasion of his father’s burial, the Abuja corps member said he would not only be more than happy to miss the funeral, he would also ensure his siblings and mother do not spare the time to do same.
Towards the end of the chat, Victor said that, with the post he shared on Facebook, he hopes to awaken every parent who treated their children in ill manners due to the fact that they were hurting from the scars meted to them by their spouses.

“Just trying to encourage my peers that if they hate any lass, they shouldn’t transfer their hatred to the children. Too bad that parents do so with belief that certainly the child will forgive them later in life, even after punishing such a child emotionally.”

More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/rip-to-my-useless-dad-nysc-corps-member-finally-speaks-out/

THE BOY WITH FAKE NAME IS AN IDIOT

amethystnnty1:
Every 10 seconds a person die of hunger related-related causes (mostly children). 815 million people go to bed without food from minor to chronic starvation that's at least 1 of every 9 person on the planet and food is the most basic of human need. It is the height of inhumanity to condemn any being to that. Why not just let a non existent soul be just that NON EXISTENT

And worst of all Nigeria, How can a conscious adult think about bringing forth life here? Bro! Thanks for your very conscious thought, You're so on point.