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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Bambela(m): 7:11pm On Sep 13, 2018
It is painful and unimaginable hearing children calling their parents this type of names or such wishes. I have similar problem though with my mother. I thank God that I managed it well to the best of my ability and all the curses she raised on me did not affect me because my hands are clean. Though it was out of annoyance that made him to go social media, to me he did not do well celebrating his death. Is God that have answer to every situation and it is better to surrender to him than celebrating the death of your enemy.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by darlenese(f): 7:12pm On Sep 13, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self.. cry


I really hate that "..no matter what he is is still your fa,.... " that word annoys me , some father's are heartless and useless , not all father's should be called father .

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by babaztee: 7:13pm On Sep 13, 2018
Omode lon se! Forgive, Forgive and Forgive again and again.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:15pm On Sep 13, 2018
I will not rule out the possibility that the man caught the wife with another man and has been hurt since then. We all have our different emotional threshold, his was very low and also resulted in his hatred for his kids by the same woman. No one knows, even the guy also doesn't know what caused the separation. We've got to analyse all possibilities. Just saying, anyway.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by alezzy13: 7:18pm On Sep 13, 2018
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Modarun(m): 7:18pm On Sep 13, 2018
They say fear Owerri women. They have a way of turning your kids against you. My Cousin Kids now see him as a devil simply cos their mum fell out with my cousin.
Am not buying this, how can a fayher of a child curse out his kids everytime he sees them? Theyvmust have done something to the man. wont even be surprised if he found out the chikdten werent his or the woman was cheating on him.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by alezzy13: 7:22pm On Sep 13, 2018
Arkmanbuddy:
I will not rule out the possibility that the man caught the wife with another man and has been hurt since then. We all have our different emotional threshold, his was very low and also resulted in his hatred for his kids by the same woman. No one knows, even the guy also doesn't know what caused the separation. We've got to analyse all possibilities. Just saying, anyway.

yes its a possibility.

but taking it out on the child is unspeakably wicked. if care is not taken it can scar the child for life, unless there is Divine intervention.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by imamumalik: 7:28pm On Sep 13, 2018
Newsmania:
An NYSC serving corps member in Abuja who celebrated the death of his father on social media, has come out to state why he thought the passing away of his dad was good news.

Over the past weekend, the story of a members of the NYSC serving in Abuja who mocked the death of own his father by celebrating the demise on social media, emerged online, and was trailed with criticisms and mixed reactions from many social media users.

After the death of his father, he had taken to Facebook to express these rather strange words: “Friday is for CDS….#Abjcoppa….And finally the great devil died last night….. R.I.P my useless father…..Just so happy we all saw ur death…. This is GOODNEWS.”

While speaking in a new interview, the young man identified simply as Victor M Bills, who later deleted this post due to the appeals of his friends, opened up on why he thought the passing away of his dad was good news, and the reason about his obvious happiness at his father’s death

He disclosed that he was in no way sorry about the statements he wrote on Facebook, as his father’s demise was an answered prayer.

According to him, his dad had denied him the essential fatherly love he needed ever since his mother got separated from him about 26 years ago due to an unknown reason.

These were his exact words: “I can’t paint him white when I’m dying inside me. He always laughed and told me I would suffer and die before him. But the reverse is now the case… He wasn’t God.

“He deprived me of fatherly love… And still didn’t wish me well. So his death was a great relief to the family… I’m not regretting anything. My friends asked me to delete the post. But I don’t regret posting it.

“Now I wonder the kind of tribute the children will write for him and what people will know him for other than evil. I just pity him, because even at gunpoint I’ll never agree that he had an atom of love for me.

“He cursed me every time he saw me. We never had a loving time as father and son. I’m not fabricating stories. I’m telling you the truth. Don’t know why he hated me so much.
“Before now, anytime I met new friends I told them my dad was late so that they wouldn’t bring up topics about him. I always talked about my mum. So, when they saw my post about him, they were surprised I had a dad all the while. Even friends from secondary school.

"He didn’t attend his children’s wedding or even wished them well. Rather, he rained curses on them, just to frustrate them. Does such a man deserve to be given a befitting burial? He was heartless and never believed he would die soon.”
However, Victor who hails from Amaraku, Isiala Mbano in Imo State could not but celebrate his mother who took up the responsibility of taking care of him and his three siblings.

He said: “I believe in the strength of thorough womanhood from my mum. I thought about how life would have been if my mother wasn’t hardworking and industrious. What if my mum had hooked up with another man after their separation. What would I have done?"

As for whether he planned to grace the occasion of his father’s burial, the Abuja corps member said he would not only be more than happy to miss the funeral, he would also ensure his siblings and mother do not spare the time to do same.
Towards the end of the chat, Victor said that, with the post he shared on Facebook, he hopes to awaken every parent who treated their children in ill manners due to the fact that they were hurting from the scars meted to them by their spouses.

“Just trying to encourage my peers that if they hate any lass, they shouldn’t transfer their hatred to the children. Too bad that parents do so with belief that certainly the child will forgive them later in life, even after punishing such a child emotionally.”

More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/rip-to-my-useless-dad-nysc-corps-member-finally-speaks-out/

If i were you, i would have dedicated my words towards praying to God to touch the heart of my father. Take a good example from Prophet Ebraham. PBUH
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Razzykuti(m): 7:30pm On Sep 13, 2018
No matter how useless ur fada is does not warrant Such bro.... One day dis ur useless post will b used against u
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by ocelot2006(m): 7:30pm On Sep 13, 2018
Uyi168:
Maybe he wasnt your biological dad

Same thought here.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by dododawa1: 7:31pm On Sep 13, 2018
Maybe d respected (corper) is a BASTARD,d corper should ask his mother.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by themanderon: 7:33pm On Sep 13, 2018
Irrespective of what the beast of a man must have done to them, he hasn't gained anything from Washing their dirty family tales in public.
In fact let him be very careful so as not to make the same mistake his father made so his children will not do same to him. Blood is thicker than water and he should always know that no matter how bad his father was, there is a part of him living inside him.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by dododawa1: 7:35pm On Sep 13, 2018
YOUR MOTHER will have done some (FORBIDDEN sin) which ur father don't want to talk about and WOMEN are evil bro,be WISE(assuming D GREAT MANDELA is live,I should have refers you to him,to ask about women.)
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Pataricatering(f): 7:54pm On Sep 13, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self.. cry
impregnating a woman doesn’t make you a father ! Why should he not judge him ? If you don’t want to be judged by your child then behave yourself ?

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by emperorblog(m): 8:06pm On Sep 13, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
wow, i hope he does not carry this bitterness 2 his grave. women dat open their legs for this kind of men dey try..4 children kwa..
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by emperorblog(m): 8:06pm On Sep 13, 2018
gabinogem:
Nice one bro....u spoke well. No love lost, no love found...good riddance to those who think u can't live without them.

Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by bass7: 8:17pm On Sep 13, 2018
Modarun:
They say fear Owerri women. They have a way of turning your kids against you. My Cousin Kids now see him as a devil simply cos their mum fell out with my cousin.
Am not buying this, how can a fayher of a child curse out his kids everytime he sees them? Theyvmust have done something to the man. wont even be surprised if he found out the chikdten werent his or the woman was cheating on him.


You are lucky to have good and caring parents........

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by tunize(m): 8:20pm On Sep 13, 2018
Myself and this guy share similar story i nor go lie. So when i saw his write up i was not really surprised. But all the same life goes on his own is even better. My papa introduce me as relation. so sometimes if person nor send u jst deh do ur thing dey go ooooh(there're some things u cant just change or help out with in this life oooh)...prayer we dey pray nah sey make God let us live long for life to see as event dey go pass and make we fit stand out right as man for our children by showing them love as well as our wife.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by thegoodone1234(m): 8:21pm On Sep 13, 2018
you need to ask your mummy many question. you may be a bastard child and the so call father may know that he is not the real father.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by astOorR(m): 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2018
wolesmile:
"Honour thy Father and Mother, that your days may be long."
So says the bible.


“And We have enjoined upon man (care) for his parents. His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents, to Me is the (final) destination.” (Surat Luqman : 14)

No matter what either of your parents must have done to you, they don't deserve what you just did online. No matter how wicked he must have been, he's dead now. That alone, you should respect.


You didn’t equally see where the Bible said, FATHERS, provoke not your children unto wrought(anger) Eph 6:4
preach it balanced please.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by donbenie(m): 8:50pm On Sep 13, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self.. cry
Political correctness,that's another phrase for what you are saying..if anyone bleeped up,best you treat it instead suffering and smiling..
The young man is talking about his life experiences and you're talking about not judging,he shouldn't judge the emotional and psychological trauma the father put him through?..
Being a sperm donor does not make one a father,being a father comes with responsibilities,don't expect respect and love from a child you abandoned and abused just because you happened to be his progenitor..

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by AuroraB(f): 8:59pm On Sep 13, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self.. cry
Did he ask the man to be his father

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by cimag: 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2018
blackboy:
What role did you play? He can talk but his dad cant.

Takes 2 to tango. I know of a similar case but if you hear what the child did to the father you will understand.

There is no smoke without fire.
I agree totally with you.For this guy to celebrate his father's death on social media shows that he's a very wicked and bad guy,even worse than his late dad.If he could do this publicly,imagine what he had done to the man privately for him to have 'hated' him that much.That he didn't take care of you as you alleged didn't warrant your mocking his death.If only the dead could speak maybe the dead man would have exposed what you did to him while he was alive.No reason or explanation from you will justify your mocking his death.The security agencies should even question you about his death,who knows whether you have a hand in it.If you are reading this,my brother,you have killed your reputation in this life,even NYSC people go begin dey look u one kin.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by calliope(f): 9:10pm On Sep 13, 2018
adewumiopeyemi:
No matter what your father do... is still your father with out him you wount be in this world......God will be the one to judge.. you can't judge by your self.. cry
Oh please, shut your hole.

Let us Children with bastardlike fathers call them out, whether or not they brought us to this world means nothing, and no, we refuse to let God judge, in fact we'd make them pay gravely, if need be, for all they did and make us go through and still spit on their graves when they died.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by vineyardfarms: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2018
gabinogem:
Nice one bro....u spoke well. No love lost, no love found...good riddance to those who think u can't live without them.
No matter the pain, hurts and rejection, he is still the father. The parents separated for ( undisclossed) reasons. Nobody knows what transpired except themselves. I would have sat my mother down to dig dipper. We are on the surface. It is a pity he carried the pain, anger and unforgiving heart to the grave. This is a lesson for us all, to let go of anger and hatred.

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by pacesetting: 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2018
Just imagine the kind of graduates Nigeria is producing. If the idiot can say such kind of trash in public, he surely played a role in what he alleged his dad did to him.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Emvico34: 9:23pm On Sep 13, 2018
HRHQueenPhil:
wow, i hope he does not carry this bitterness 2 his grave. women dat open their legs for this kind of men dey try..4 children kwa..
my guy forget all that. some men do pretend to be good but after having some children they change. my father is worst than this man. he cursed me that I won't amount to anything and still trouble me spiritually. if I change line, he will call village and ask for my new line. he will not call me but kept on collecting my new line from people just to monitor me

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Mizwisdom(f): 9:30pm On Sep 13, 2018
NdiaraIGBO:

Ok, e be like say this one get serious issues. Goodluck
grin grin
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by blazercodes: 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2018
Some people think generational curses are ended by pay-backs, from the story you shared, I must confess, your dad did not do half of what my dad did to me, my mom and the family at large. Destiny affects all matters on earth, I only wished I could explain some vital stuffs to us here. But my time has not come yet.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by derecho(m): 9:41pm On Sep 13, 2018
What if his father died when he was born and all he knew about him was what he was told about him?Will he still hate him thus assuming they told him he was a devil?
The young man said he didn't know why the father hates him so but from the interview, I know the young man is uncouth and not properly raised by the mum.I understand he craved for fatherly love but he didn't tell us his role.
Why would his father constantly curse him even after separation if he cared less about him?I suspect there are series of confrontations.Fathers should love unconditionally but from the interview you can decode his person.
Whatever happened the boy no try...the mum should also be ashamed of him.
Airforce1:

I'm disappointed in this your comment

Papa wey no send you, is that one a father ?

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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by kabillionaire(m): 9:48pm On Sep 13, 2018
Bro! I can understand ur pains. Though I never experienced such cos, my mom made sure their marriage worked for our sake, and my dad was a gentleman per excellence.
We men could be funny sometimes.
But, Mr. Victor, let go of the anger and hatred, it's counterproductive.
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by OhiOfIhima: 10:10pm On Sep 13, 2018
In his last paragraph.. D guy hit a point. I knw of a person back in d village who I heard his story from one of his son who happen to be d victim... Told their sons dat dey were born to help him in his farm dat nothing like schooling.. D said victim run from village to Lagos to stayed wit his uncle.. D uncle really punished d man n d young man strived to gather money for his studies.. Thank God he finished and gat better job now d papa is always tour Lagos for holiday.. D said farm of den didn't not even yield anything.. Is dis son dat still carved a three bedroom flat for him in d village.. Whenever d victim put mouth on d matter like dis.. A grown up man fa.. He will shredding tears... Nobody no tomorrow even if u don't have support them wit pure love n pray for them to succeed in d nearest future...

For d op... No matter what it is wrong to celebrate someone dead...

God is a God of miracle.. He singlehandedly gave your mom d power to foreseen ur education..

More blessing mom..

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