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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Bambela(m): 7:11pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
It is painful and unimaginable hearing children calling their parents this type of names or such wishes. I have similar problem though with my mother. I thank God that I managed it well to the best of my ability and all the curses she raised on me did not affect me because my hands are clean. Though it was out of annoyance that made him to go social media, to me he did not do well celebrating his death. Is God that have answer to every situation and it is better to surrender to him than celebrating the death of your enemy. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by darlenese(f): 7:12pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi: I really hate that "..no matter what he is is still your fa,.... " that word annoys me , some father's are heartless and useless , not all father's should be called father . 4 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by babaztee: 7:13pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Omode lon se! Forgive, Forgive and Forgive again and again. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:15pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I will not rule out the possibility that the man caught the wife with another man and has been hurt since then. We all have our different emotional threshold, his was very low and also resulted in his hatred for his kids by the same woman. No one knows, even the guy also doesn't know what caused the separation. We've got to analyse all possibilities. Just saying, anyway. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by alezzy13: 7:18pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Modarun(m): 7:18pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
They say fear Owerri women. They have a way of turning your kids against you. My Cousin Kids now see him as a devil simply cos their mum fell out with my cousin. Am not buying this, how can a fayher of a child curse out his kids everytime he sees them? Theyvmust have done something to the man. wont even be surprised if he found out the chikdten werent his or the woman was cheating on him. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by alezzy13: 7:22pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Arkmanbuddy: yes its a possibility. but taking it out on the child is unspeakably wicked. if care is not taken it can scar the child for life, unless there is Divine intervention. 2 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by imamumalik: 7:28pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Newsmania:If i were you, i would have dedicated my words towards praying to God to touch the heart of my father. Take a good example from Prophet Ebraham. PBUH |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Razzykuti(m): 7:30pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
No matter how useless ur fada is does not warrant Such bro.... One day dis ur useless post will b used against u |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by ocelot2006(m): 7:30pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Uyi168: Same thought here. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by dododawa1: 7:31pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Maybe d respected (corper) is a BASTARD,d corper should ask his mother. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by themanderon: 7:33pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Irrespective of what the beast of a man must have done to them, he hasn't gained anything from Washing their dirty family tales in public. In fact let him be very careful so as not to make the same mistake his father made so his children will not do same to him. Blood is thicker than water and he should always know that no matter how bad his father was, there is a part of him living inside him. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by dododawa1: 7:35pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
YOUR MOTHER will have done some (FORBIDDEN sin) which ur father don't want to talk about and WOMEN are evil bro,be WISE(assuming D GREAT MANDELA is live,I should have refers you to him,to ask about women.) |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Pataricatering(f): 7:54pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi:impregnating a woman doesn’t make you a father ! Why should he not judge him ? If you don’t want to be judged by your child then behave yourself ? 2 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by emperorblog(m): 8:06pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by emperorblog(m): 8:06pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by bass7: 8:17pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Modarun: You are lucky to have good and caring parents........ 3 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by tunize(m): 8:20pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Myself and this guy share similar story i nor go lie. So when i saw his write up i was not really surprised. But all the same life goes on his own is even better. My papa introduce me as relation. so sometimes if person nor send u jst deh do ur thing dey go ooooh(there're some things u cant just change or help out with in this life oooh)...prayer we dey pray nah sey make God let us live long for life to see as event dey go pass and make we fit stand out right as man for our children by showing them love as well as our wife. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by thegoodone1234(m): 8:21pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
you need to ask your mummy many question. you may be a bastard child and the so call father may know that he is not the real father. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by astOorR(m): 8:25pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
wolesmile: You didn’t equally see where the Bible said, FATHERS, provoke not your children unto wrought(anger) Eph 6:4 preach it balanced please. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by donbenie(m): 8:50pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi:Political correctness,that's another phrase for what you are saying..if anyone bleeped up,best you treat it instead suffering and smiling.. The young man is talking about his life experiences and you're talking about not judging,he shouldn't judge the emotional and psychological trauma the father put him through?.. Being a sperm donor does not make one a father,being a father comes with responsibilities,don't expect respect and love from a child you abandoned and abused just because you happened to be his progenitor.. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by AuroraB(f): 8:59pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi:Did he ask the man to be his father 2 Likes
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by cimag: 9:06pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
blackboy:I agree totally with you.For this guy to celebrate his father's death on social media shows that he's a very wicked and bad guy,even worse than his late dad.If he could do this publicly,imagine what he had done to the man privately for him to have 'hated' him that much.That he didn't take care of you as you alleged didn't warrant your mocking his death.If only the dead could speak maybe the dead man would have exposed what you did to him while he was alive.No reason or explanation from you will justify your mocking his death.The security agencies should even question you about his death,who knows whether you have a hand in it.If you are reading this,my brother,you have killed your reputation in this life,even NYSC people go begin dey look u one kin. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by calliope(f): 9:10pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
adewumiopeyemi:Oh please, shut your hole. Let us Children with bastardlike fathers call them out, whether or not they brought us to this world means nothing, and no, we refuse to let God judge, in fact we'd make them pay gravely, if need be, for all they did and make us go through and still spit on their graves when they died. 5 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by vineyardfarms: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
gabinogem:No matter the pain, hurts and rejection, he is still the father. The parents separated for ( undisclossed) reasons. Nobody knows what transpired except themselves. I would have sat my mother down to dig dipper. We are on the surface. It is a pity he carried the pain, anger and unforgiving heart to the grave. This is a lesson for us all, to let go of anger and hatred. 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by pacesetting: 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Just imagine the kind of graduates Nigeria is producing. If the idiot can say such kind of trash in public, he surely played a role in what he alleged his dad did to him. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Emvico34: 9:23pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
HRHQueenPhil:my guy forget all that. some men do pretend to be good but after having some children they change. my father is worst than this man. he cursed me that I won't amount to anything and still trouble me spiritually. if I change line, he will call village and ask for my new line. he will not call me but kept on collecting my new line from people just to monitor me 3 Likes |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by Mizwisdom(f): 9:30pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by blazercodes: 9:38pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Some people think generational curses are ended by pay-backs, from the story you shared, I must confess, your dad did not do half of what my dad did to me, my mom and the family at large. Destiny affects all matters on earth, I only wished I could explain some vital stuffs to us here. But my time has not come yet. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by derecho(m): 9:41pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
What if his father died when he was born and all he knew about him was what he was told about him?Will he still hate him thus assuming they told him he was a devil? The young man said he didn't know why the father hates him so but from the interview, I know the young man is uncouth and not properly raised by the mum.I understand he craved for fatherly love but he didn't tell us his role. Why would his father constantly curse him even after separation if he cared less about him?I suspect there are series of confrontations.Fathers should love unconditionally but from the interview you can decode his person. Whatever happened the boy no try...the mum should also be ashamed of him. Airforce1: 1 Like |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by kabillionaire(m): 9:48pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Bro! I can understand ur pains. Though I never experienced such cos, my mom made sure their marriage worked for our sake, and my dad was a gentleman per excellence. We men could be funny sometimes. But, Mr. Victor, let go of the anger and hatred, it's counterproductive. |
Re: "RIP To My Useless Father" - Corper Victor Bills Speaks Out Finally by OhiOfIhima: 10:10pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
In his last paragraph.. D guy hit a point. I knw of a person back in d village who I heard his story from one of his son who happen to be d victim... Told their sons dat dey were born to help him in his farm dat nothing like schooling.. D said victim run from village to Lagos to stayed wit his uncle.. D uncle really punished d man n d young man strived to gather money for his studies.. Thank God he finished and gat better job now d papa is always tour Lagos for holiday.. D said farm of den didn't not even yield anything.. Is dis son dat still carved a three bedroom flat for him in d village.. Whenever d victim put mouth on d matter like dis.. A grown up man fa.. He will shredding tears... Nobody no tomorrow even if u don't have support them wit pure love n pray for them to succeed in d nearest future... For d op... No matter what it is wrong to celebrate someone dead... God is a God of miracle.. He singlehandedly gave your mom d power to foreseen ur education.. More blessing mom.. |
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