what's with the wearing of makeup abi na for the camera??

Men are will to help in domestic work but most times the women takes the option for granted

THUNDER4real:
Are u okay? Or feminism is affecting your thinking...actually your not making any point, you just felt like quoting me....mtchewww

You are the one suffering from dementia, you are the one that typed women should submit financially , that is why I asked you if you don't have working ladies in your office.
All of a sudden you forgot what you typed.
I know your mom and your sisters are working very hard to pay your bills..

Trash and very unbalanced.

kriskristyne:
Cool, nothing bad in this

N I don't get why some guys here are calling him sissy/jobless

everything is bad

Most men never lived as Bachelors. From their parents house, they jump into marriage to cuddle another woman that will serve and pamper them like their moms did.
YOU expect them ever do domestic chores?...lie lie
Some lived as Bachelors but rarely cooked their own meals..na to eat outside or buy takeaways or even control different set of girls to come around occasionally to cook for them.
Girls should open their eyes to these set of guys.
If you marry them ehhh... Your body go hear am

You're very correct. My neighbor does most of the laundry and even get the kids set for school. They've tagged him "woman wrapper" but since we've known them, they've never had any quarrel that we know of. Obviously they must've had quarells but they never raise their voices at each other. Their love keeps waxing stronger.

hemartins:
If a man is called "woman wrapper" just know that they are having a peaceful home.

Borntofuck:
So dangote should help the wife to cook abi,I should also help my wife to cook when I have meetings with presidents abi?the writer is a lazy man

Your wife does not have meetings too? And how do you know what goes on in Dangote's house?

Aquariann:
Sissy... Effeminate mam.. No wonder he wears pink and uses a pink bed.

maybe na him pack come meet the woman

The only thing I didn't do was wash cars.
I did basically everything else. I would buy fuel, start the generator, change the dispenser water, sometimes I even changed light bulbs. My brothers did nothing. Because one particular brother of mine wasn't taught to do anything, he doesn't know how to do anything till date.

My bf is even worse, I taught him how to boil egg. Can you just imagine? Now he lives alone and has to do all the chores himself and has started cooking by himself too. So it's not about women wanting to emasculate men, it's about men knowing how to basic things.

Princedapace:



Seriously, I tire for them.. The worse part is u will not see them do heavy stuff at home o..

For instance when my woman is around and water is not running inside, since I don't have a car yet, I do the water fetching all by my self.. I don't allow her do that at all..

Men wash cars, carry out heavy stuff at home, repair stuff, but women will never rest until they turn us to cook completely.

*SAVE YOUR HUSBAND!*

Why do husbands in Africa die most times before wives? A husband in Africa in most cases is under intense tension because he is responsible for:

● *Children school fees*

● *house rents*

● *Electricity bills*

● *Medical bills*

● *Generator fuel & repairs*

● *Car fuel and repairs*

● *Feeding of family*

● *Clothes for children*

● *festivals and New year bills*

● *Furniture & House maintenance*

● *In-laws wahala/demand*

● *His own aged parents*

● *His siblings most times*

● *His wife's demands*

● *Vigilante bills*

● *Erecting Building*

● *Religious demands*

● *Family social bills*

● *Electronics bills*

● *Recharge cards*

● *Extended family bills*

● *Community demands*

On top of the above, he also faces:

● *Wife stress/insults*

● *Boss stress at work*

● *Police stress on the way*

● *Area boys stress*

● *Kidnappers fear*

● *Friends stress*

● *Economy stress*

● *Fear of job loss*

● *Unemployment pains*

● *Armed Robbery stress*

● *Children misbehaviour*

● *Neighbours stress*

● *Bank loan payment stress*

● *Enemies stress*

● *heart attack stress*

● *Sex stress*

..and so on! OH!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home? Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?
Women, please lets give our husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands. Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:
That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging. Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!
Help your husband to live longer like you.

SHARE THIS TO ALL MEN & WOMEN LET US PROLONG THE LIFE OF OUR MEN!!

WE CAN'T DO WITHOUT THEM.


*Copied*

Lmao

Mindfulness:


Who am I going to ask the husbands or the wives?

If I tell you the number of of women who are breadwinners of their homes you won't believe. And by breadwinners I mean they own the home (homes), shoulder every responsibilities which includes training the kids abroad. Most women are quiet about it and you won't even know they are the breadwinners.

My sister spoke of her colleague whose mother inlaw didn't like. The MIL always inferred that the woman should leave her son's house. She was humbled the day she found out it was actually the woman who paid for the house as the husband couldn't afford it.

THUNDER4real:
U just need to ask, those that will open up will do...I know a guy that the wife bought only maggi during their son"s naming ceremony in the North, the guy bought ram and every other thing needed, can you imagine the wife consistently asked for that money with threats till she collected it back. She said provision is the man responsibility...I was like: what the fvk..she wants to kill him abi?..I have a lot of examples...it's just most people don't like opening up how they live, if they do....it will be mind blowing for you.

divinelove:
Only a jobless man does this esp when the mother in law is coming/ around to do it. It is called omugo and it's not for men except the man is jobless n useless

So to bath ur pikin na useless and jobless
I see you never born nor have a good heart as man
Try to be a good father then you know as e be

Even the dangote he's talking about is a divorcee , Lmao

omojesu202:


what about Pastor Oyakhilome? Didn't he make money? biko allow adults to talk.

So all American and European men who do this are lazy? Because in America when their wives are pregnant get men get taught how to change diapers.

Borntofuck:
So dangote should help the wife to cook abi,I should also help my wife to cook when I have meetings with presidents abi?the writer is a lazy man

Same with my bf, he kept buying MacDonald's everyday until he got fed up and learnt to cook for himself. He cleans now and does the laundry too. Something he never did growing up.

MChaze25:
Most men never lived as Bachelors. From their parents house, they jump into marriage to cuddle another woman that will serve and pamper them like their moms did.
YOU expect them ever do domestic chores?...lie lie
Some lived as Bachelors but rarely cooked their own meals..na to eat outside or buy takeaways or even control different set of girls to come around occasionally to cook for them.
Girls should open their eyes to these set of guys.
If you marry them ehhh... Your body go hear am

Man wear pink pyjamas and wife wear purple? Wshala dey.

lilyheaven:

You are the one suffering from dementia, you are the one that typed women should submit financially , that is why I asked you if you don't have working ladies in your office.
All of a sudden you forgot what you typed.
I know your mom and your sisters are working very hard to pay your bills..

you need help....yaba left alert...it's people like you that cover up, without contributing financially to your family....go and see your psychiatrist for proper evaluation...mtcheww

pocohantas:


The stupidity in that post was too much. [b]Lots of Nigerian men [/b]always acting like they are in a competition with their wives.

Later they wonder why kids grow up being closer to their mothers.

I disagree, I have experienced first hand competition from a woman.I think it’s not typical to one gender.

But marriage should be about division of responsibilities not division of labour. Anyone can do the labour i.e chores. It should not be particular to man or woman. What matters most is responsibilities i.e how schoolfees is paid, feeding, family projects. It’s sad that many men still chores as the responsibilities of women.

Amberon:
The only thing I didn't do was wash cars.
I did basically everything else. I would buy fuel, start the generator, change the dispenser water, sometimes I even changed light bulbs. My brothers did nothing. Because one particular brother of mine wasn't taught to do anything, he doesn't know how to do anything till date.

My bf is even worse, I taught him how to boil egg. Can you just imagine? Now he lives alone and has to do all the chores himself and has started cooking by himself too. So it's not about women wanting to emasculate men, it's about men knowing how to basic things.

This scenario is rare dear.. U sef know.. Is it my babe wey no fit change bulb, abi na she go draw generator? While we grew up, my sisters didn't near the car at all.

majekdom2:
I disagree, I have experienced first hand competition from a woman.I think it’s not typical to one gender.

I never said it is typical to only one gender. But then, the male ego is a very bad thing. Always feeling threatened and fighting to protect it.

THUNDER4real:
you need help....yaba left alert...it's people like you that cover up, without contributing financially to your family....go and see your psychiatrist for proper evaluation...mtcheww

Never knew your parents Left you at yaba psychiatry, you are looking for a companion, I guess other patients have been discharged home, remaining only you.
Don't worry , I will pray for you for quick recovery.
Dementia / manic patient.

Mindfulness:


Even if he did, it wouldn't take more than 2 hours. A baby needs attention 24/7 for several years.

I would accept the deal and do all of the above if he accepts to look after the baby like mothers do. I swear, they will all die before the age of 50 or kill all children.

Lol.

Mothers are the real Gods. True. You just inspired my new nairaland signature.

A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always..

WHAT'S A WOMAN DOING TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY, SO THAT SHE DOESN'T BECOMES A FOOL?.

I NEED ANSWERS

hemartins:
If a man is called "woman wrapper" just know that they are having a peaceful home.

Yea and his wife controls him

JohnieWalker12:
Bullshit. Just make money like Dangote and your marriage must work

Says who?
Dangote is divorced.
It's not really all about money for some couples.

Tozara:
Lol.

Mothers are the real Gods. True. You just inspired my new nairaland signature.

Beautifully said.

At least the good ones.

Mindfulness:


Beautifully said.

At least the good ones.

The very definition of MOTHER doesn't give room for the bad. Maybe biologists and sociologists wouldn't think much of such distinction that would only smack of unnecessary pedantry in the bland, mechanical academic context. But it goes without saying that the not-good ones would be nothing short of vagabonds in the spiritual book of motherhood.