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DoTheNeedful:
@op, I am not bothered about your salary as I believe a man doesn't need to earn 400k before he settles down as some teenagers here will make you believe. However, I am bothered that you want to settle with that amount at your age when you can still improve your finances and career.

Earthbound:
*sigh*

If you guys really love each other, you should marry lowkey in court and end matters there.

Do a quick projection into the future, say 3-5 years. Where do you want to be? Only you can answer that question. Truth is, even if this thread enters page 20, a bunch of strangers cannot influence and/or determine your own future. Only you can.

Dorcas212:
lol 50k job and you want to get married?? Combination of 110k are you kidding me?


As a single i spend more than that in a month. How will you raise children? Depend on relatives? My brother think very well

thegentleman:
I'm a of dude of about 28 years, I just finished my NYSC program and I secured a job that pays me about 50k, my girlfriend who is about 25 years too just acquired a job that pays her about 60k per month too.

Is it advisable I go for M.Sc. program or just settle down for marriage with my girlfriend and then follow my career later.

We both stay at Ibadan, the city is averagely okay.

What's your take ?

Yewandequeen:
Get married now that u know she is still urs then carreer afterwards.

Would v said more but going through heartbreak now thus can't.

Maurz:
instead go for Presidency in 2019. We're done with that lifeless duck

babadee1:
Can you do both? Because one might not wait for the other. If you go for one out of the two you may lose the other one.

omoharry:
One of the most brilliant ideas ever from this thread...seriously they still have enough time to plan their lives..so if the woman is mature and understanding in terms of being ready to be a 50/50 partner in the marriage or step in even when oga money nor show on time without making the mans life a living hell..I think they can give it a shot...She might be a good girl he wouln't want to pass him bye

NNAMDIII:
Ok, i don't know if you remember this?


I just love reading your posts

Florblu:
Ask yourself the following questions:

1) Do you have enough fund to start and complete your Masters degree?

2) Is your babe ready to share costs and expenses with you equally?

3) Are you secure enough to watch your "wife" take more responsibilities at home(financially) than you do?

Let me stop here.

Newboss:
Guy, find your foot in life first.
50k and you just finished NYSC?
And you dey think of a contract that has 99% chances of ruining your life?

They use woman swear for you?

Maurz:
[s] instead go for Presidency in 2019. We're done with that lifeless duck [/s]

CriticMaestro:
Have u even proposed to the girl?
How sure are u she will marry u?

Dorcas212:
lol 50k job and you want to get married?? Combination of 110k are you kidding me?


As a single i spend more than that in a month. How will you raise children? Depend on relatives? My brother think very well

wupefub:
they all vary you
but on steady on case
career goes first, HAVING A MEANS OF INCOME
to be able to handle if need be necessary cases and also fund your dreams, and help others also

Kingjames:
A Man who marry beautiful woman, and that farmer who planted corn by the road side have the same problem ~ Ghana

Earthbound:
*sigh*

If you guys really love each other, you should marry lowkey in court and end matters there.

Do a quick projection into the future, say 3-5 years. Where do you want to be? Only you can answer that question. Truth is, even if this thread enters page 20, a bunch of strangers cannot influence and/or determine your own future. Only you can.

alizma:
if your wife to be Loves you, understand, support the marriage idea and one of you will be willing to go into biz if need be, then get married and follow career later.

Hopebringer:
Go for a career so you can get a better job and save up .. this will also give you time to mature

I advise men to get married from age 30 years minimum, that way you are more matured and less likely to act like a brat in marriage

Florblu:
Ask yourself the following questions:

1) Do you have enough fund to start and complete your Masters degree?

2) Is your babe ready to share costs and expenses with you equally?

3) Are you secure enough to watch your "wife" take more responsibilities at home(financially) than you do?

Let me stop here.

Saff:
If you love yourself go and improve your life. Unless your gf is extremely understanding. Most women hide their true colours until they get the ring, so be careful. Marriage ain’t no joke.

NNAMDIII:
Ok, i don't know if you remember this?


I just love reading your posts

RevenGeMission:
escuise me ... ah od ah yu ??

Anfieldboss:
It depends on taste and location dear. 110k combined is okay to start a family in Ibadan.

pocohantas:
"Nigerian girls can't marry a man without money, they don't believe in humble beginnings"... yet when they see a Nigerian girl ready to begin with them, they start second-guessing and discouraging themselves.

Confusion...

alignacademy:
Thanks for sharing

You could discuss with your fiancee

However it really boils down to YOU

What's your vision of your life?

This may sound like a "heavy" question for a young man to consider, but the earlier you get clear about what you REALLY want to do, the easier it is to avoid compromising to all the ulterior motives out there

Peace, bro

Thanks again

natznext:
If you can get married and not make babies for the first few years, say first 4yrs... please go ahead and get married, Take a small apartment not more than 200k/annum... chase your careers for the first few years... do not let friends and families pressure either of you into anything.

thegentleman:
I'm a of dude of about 28 years, I just finished my NYSC program and I secured a job that pays me about 50k, my girlfriend who is about 25 years too just acquired a job that pays her about 60k per month too.

Is it advisable I go for M.Sc. program or just settle down for marriage with my girlfriend and then follow my career later.

We both stay at Ibadan, the city is averagely okay.

What's your take ?