PrimadonnaO:


You're judging this situation from your own experience. You've even tagged a prostitute. Please, don't make conclusions over matters you have no certainty about.

She should just return to her parents and I hope by God she isn't pregnant.

Why do girls ruin themselves, though?

babe .. I dey hundred percent right about that girl. And why would any parent call a man to beg him to let their daughter stay with him..do you think that adds up? Jeeez.

Tonimordred:
Moral of d story
she woke in d mornin and chop(u Bleep mornin devotion)
eat aftu noon u do d sametyn
chop nyt own d sametyn....u no no sey dat tyn wey dey swit dey kill,ur acc don dey red n u wan make she no sey u sabi drink garri baba dey find way 2 chase her,...hahahahahahahaha

All advice here falls on deaf ears! Mention me and get ignited!

EVILFOREST:

Did you read the STORY...??
I guess not.
Let me summarize it for u:
He said his GIRLFRIEND is LAZY and doesn’t have any urge to seek a JOB.
U can’t lose a JOB u do not have.

that comment is very logical dear go back and ponder over it...

Early 20s?..just passing by.... Kontinu

OP, you don't love the girl. Give "loving her" a real honest go and if it doesn't happen, get rid of her ASAP. One thing i have come to realize is, once you find "the girl" anything you do for her won't even register in your mind as you doing her a favour.

Jasen1:


Lol..... Thank you sir


She should go and work and help her family


I know how many times I've sent money to her mom

Haha..... You don carry olosho

If you no act fast, dem go carry your matter meet elders


Gbam, u'll be stuck for life

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

After u don enter d place...

tigerclaws:
but bae you fine oo
i want to have sex with you

Ehn ehn fast fast like that

LMAO

CAPSLOCKED:


TOO MUCH BIAS ON THIS THREAD SIR.

GYNOCENTRIC BIAS. It's disgusting.

See many of them even suggesting that he has "used her". He didn't fück HER for three months. They've been fücking THEMSELVES for three months.

But these fools only see the girl, totally ignoring his stated reasons for wanting to have her leave. What fückery.

baby124:
. Her parents should be ashamed of themselves for forcing you to take care of her while they are alive.

This is where the story becomes weird. Imagine the mum begging him so she can stay.

ritylove:


I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Why u con dey vex like this...

EVILFOREST:

Did you read the STORY...??
I guess not.
Let me summarize it for u:
He said his GIRLFRIEND is LAZY and doesn’t have any urge to seek a JOB.
U can’t lose a JOB u do not have.

My brother am not dumb i read the story WELL, am not blaming him alone ,she is an idiot for staying with a man she is not married thereby prompting him to come here to spill rubbish,and the dude should face his business or job and leave women for now,dude is complaining abt dstv sub,lol.
Do you know many working class women dont even contribute a dime to the running of a household.
Solution; stop fucking her, eat out more and stop all frivolities,if she has any dignity she will leave.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

She has nowhere to go so u have to call her fess n discuss about the job thing.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

We feel your pain bro. But sincerely my advice to you is do job hunting on her behalf. Ask your friends to help look out for job openings and ask her to apply and watch her body language. From there you can detect if she is a serious person or not. After which the eviction will come very easy. Stay focused.


Modified.
You are just in your 20's and you are already shouldering some ones responsibilities? How do you expect to grow? You cant have savings or assist your parents because of this girl. Some girls see future of men and try to be a bottle neck in their lives. Do you know the curse involved in living with someone that you are not married to? This girl will leave you when she comes across a bigger boy. Be wise

spinna:
Smh

Better do b4 she turn to wizkid shola on your neck.

ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Both of them enjoyed it na.Plus the free food,and accommodation she enjoyed while the relationship lasted.So if i pay an olosho and we both have sex,does that mean i used her?

madridguy:
No hard feelings bro, as for me my politics start and ends here on NL. I don't talk politics offline.
Meanwhile, make I come enjoy tasty meals too? Maybe I fit get one Amarachi or Chinanza at your place

lol I'm not rich ooo
just love good gestures and besides just wanted to make them feel among because they have this kinda low self esteem maybe because of the way our people take them if you've being to the east you will understand how low our people treats abokii people (as we normally call them) not that they are being maltreated but they're being treated with disdain so this makes them to be walking silently always that timid and when i see such i don't like that because we're all humans.
so i decided in my little way to make them feel belong I'll always chat them up you know have a kinda pal to pal talk with them joke and so on and it's been helping



as for girls load your pocket you should know igbo girls by now

Its very easy brotherly,just tell her that you want to travel to ghana or other african country, pack your bag and allow her to escourt you to chisco or other transportation company, then go and relax for kano for a day

Jasen1:
Y'all talking about sex, we barely had sex here sir, it's not all about sex

Am a busy someone and I don't even have time for such

Busy my foot but you nack her d first day.
Thank your star, your relationship have already been declared inconclusive.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

three months? you have been fucking her for 3months.

QuietHammer:

Nonsense. He is tired of her because she is now a liability. Is she handicapped? Three months is enough for any serious person to get something doing no matter how little the pay is.

Are you minding these retärded goats and irrational pigs?

Like I keep saying, the thread is littered with gynocentric bias.

Try to picture a scenario where the OP is a lady talking about her boyfriend. I'm sure you can already imagine the kind of reaction it'll spark from people on here, especially the ladies.

But this time around, it's the other way round, so you won't find anybody frothing at the mouth and emitting fumes like a rusty stove. They either blame the OP, mock him, or make a joke of the issue.

After all d acient and modern lashing in 3 months??
U now wanna ditch her..
U don buy job..

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

My problem with this story is the perfect timing of her passing a night at your place and onset of the complaints about her sister..... Shortly after, her sister had to pack out of her husband's house and left your girl friend behind. What kind of sister does that?
I won't be surprised if the story told by the girl was just to scam the you into allowing her stay. I think the girl is not being truthful. Did you even bother to check the authenticity of her story?
However, if it happens that the story is true, tell her to go get a job so as to be able to contribute or to get an accommodation for herself.
You are both young and should be hustling.

cruchenutii:


I tire oh. Somebody he has sleeping with for 3 Months (90 Days), I'm sure they must have done all the sex styles that exist. Now he wants to chase her out.

Modified!!

This post of yours is actually rich, considering the fact that you yourself opened a kinda similar thread just last year. https://www.nairaland.com/4118415/how-break-up-girlfriend-without

Jason was looking for a live in gf for steady fucking and also someone to take care of him, while The girl was looking for who to take care of her needs.
Both knew what they were looking for.
And it worked out for both. Jason got his side of the deal, she got hers.

I don't think there is any victim in this story

If u have money rent a place for her.

Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

" after u don knack am well well" no suppose be an excuse for the guy not to deserve to ask the girl to leave....she wasn't held against her wish, she dey enjoy the dick. she should find a job and get the hell out of his house....he is feeding her and they are having sex, she dey stay free house, the girl is gaining 3 things, the guy nah only one. .make she Waka abeg. call am for long talk, tell her oh ha, babe, get a job, I'm tired of you sleeping and waking up doing nothing in my house. if she dey work, nah marriage them for dey talk nah. biko

Very very lazy gal.
Gal if u are reading this, u are a liability. I wonder what will happen when u become a wife.
U are very manipulative. Get ur ass off free loading and find something doing. Ur boyfriend shouldn't be the one to go job hunting for u.
I'm very sure u are panning to tie him down with pregnancy. U have already perfected ur plan with ur family else how can they not be ashamed u are living in a man's house?
Lazy Nigerian youth.

Mr lover boy, next time don't reason with ur John Thomas. All that glitters are not gold. U make plans for the future with ur head and not ur heart. U willingly wanted to play the role of family, husband and boyfriend at the same time. Well, good luck to u. If ur soft heart will be broken, go to the registry and do the needful. It's very cheap.


The union is actually symbiotic. Good luck to u two.

Jasen1:



We had serious issues about it last month I asked her to leave since she don't want to work, she started crying and begging even her parents(mum) and her sister called me too, I pardoned her but she still not working yet, bro I'm soft hearted am not really complaining about the expenses but the fact that she becomes more lazy everyday is worrisome

Bro this girl did you no wrong

Your unofficially married

And couples do quarrel

If you think she's lazy! Have you gotten her a job or opened a business for her
Look she's just an unofficial house wife thats the role she's playing
And you thinking of kicking her out! Omo your not soft hearted oooo

Besides she's already working she's warming your bed almost every night if you were to go brothel do you know how much you will be paying

2ndly does she do house chores like cleaning the house, washing your clothes,ironing your cloths and cooking for you

Mr man I know your broke and can't afford feeding an extra mouth!
And your tired of her pvssy!
But trust me if you kick her out thats wickedness

Hence she has accommodation problem the worst you can do us to rent another house and leave her in this one!

My 2cents

Funny how you are only blaming the dude. She wasn't been forced tho

ritylove:
She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb

Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash

Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where

I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...

Tell her wat u want, u must b serious abt it, b a man