So this is a real life issue & not some cooked up stories. I've been dating this Girl for 1 Year Plus , she's a sweet girl But Issue is.

We don't have a lot in common. She doesn't like what I like & I don't like what she likes. She's like the total opposite. I just tried to manage this far, but In order not to waste her time, I need to set her free on time. So she can find her other half & settle down on time. As I actually love her & wish her well in a reality.

I need to set her free, But I don't know how to, because she's the very Emotional type that can/may do something drastic because of Heart break.

SO i Just need ideas on how to set her free without being heart broken , And Explain to her nicely why we can't be together & Leave her in peace.

Biko help your guy Abeg. CC Emusmithy mrphysics kimbra tosyne2much ilegendd and pocohantas

Sit her down and talk things out settle it with her knowing what's basically on group you can't keep forcing things now

That shouldn't be your primary concern now unless you are a sadist or a masochist.
You should be first of all concerned with your happiness.
You first! That's the survival rule.

From all you've said, your girlfriend is just a blind horse who does not deserve any more of your energy as you can't race or journey with it.

Trust me,

She won't be heartbroken, just walk away from her and forge ahead in life. That's why you are a man; to leave your scents, take a walk and come back whenever you so desire.

That's how easy it is for men with women.
They can always get back the one they walked away from.
And that's how easy it is for women with men.
They can always get someone new to replace the one who walked away.

In the words of Mildred Lisette Norman;

"Anything you cannot relinquish when it has outlived its usefulness, possesses you. And in this materialistic age, a great many of us are possessed by our possessions."

Don't be possessed son!!
Do the right thing.

Very simple... Tell her you don get HIV and you no one wan kobalize her... # straightface

anuoluwapo884:
Why are breaking up

we have nothing in common. we argue too much about everything. i know she loves me & i lover her too. But we aren't the best for each other.

She also very emotional, So i just want to break up without making her cry.

that hiv prank should do it

NwaAmaikpe:

Who let this mad lion out of his cage?

NwaAmaikpe:

Oboy hafa? I think say you don die before oh! Whether one Nairalander don find you reach house, beat you die.
He's back again, to torment 80% of Nairalanders

just invite her to your house... Bleep, Bleep and Bleep her again.

when you av made sure she is satisfied. give her drink, sit her down and tell her that is Over..

Its not possible to breakup with her without hurting her.

NwaAmaikpe:
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pretty sure it's one nonsense he wants to type like this

Op, the truth is; you don't love her. What do you mean by she's the complete opposite of you? Were you supposed to date a lady that does things like you do?.

Tell her how you feel. Though, getting hurt is inevitable in this situation.

zealblinks:
Very simple... Tell her you don get HIV and you no one wan kobalize her... # straightface

it is not a No Sex relationship, that HIV prank will not work. so we have been having sex lol. Apart from that i think it would be disrespectful

Joephat:
just invite her to your house... Bleep, Bleep and Bleep her again.

when you av made sure she is satisfied. give her drink, sit her down and tell her that is Over..

That's brutal.

cheat on her, then tell one of her friends to convince her to leave you

cruchenutii:


we have nothing in common. we argue too much about everything. i know she loves me & i lover her too. But we aren't the best for each other.

She also very emotional, So i just want to break up without making her cry.

Bro in this case you can still amend things is not worst as you feel bro unless you don't really meant you loving her sorry to say sir sit her down trash things out put her on conditions she would definitely adjust and all would be normal as you wish

QueenBeeHive:

pretty sure it's one nonsense he wants to type like this

Only his moniker don dey throw this one off balance sha!

cruchenutii:


it is not a No Sex relationship, that HIV prank will not work. Apart from that i think it would be disrespectful

Edited.

Exercise tact.
If you want to avoid hurting your girlfriend, be tactful with your reasons behind the breakup.
Although you want to be honest as possible, use your best discretion.
For example, do not tell her "I just don't think you're good enough for me."
That will only lead to more hurt feelings, devastation and even anger. In these situations, consider possibly placing the blame on yourself.
Say something along the lines of "I do not think I am ready for a serious relationship right now."

kimbraa:
Op, the truth is; you don't love her. What do you mean by she's the complete opposite of you? Were you supposed to date a lady that does things like you do?.

Tell her how you feel. Though, getting hurt is inevitable in this situation.

Please scroll up & read my other comment. We argue too much over little things. If i dont actually love her, i would just break up without thinking.

Most times i just let her have her way so that peace can rain. But i'm bothered that i may not be able to keep it up his way when i marry her. She kindof likes to be in control & make decisions.

my brother simple just introduce a guy that is better that you to her.

kullozone:


Tell her, nothing will happen. You've been in the friendzone all along.

Did you read that very well, I said it is Not a No Sex relationship. which means sex is involved. We already had sex enough NOT to bring up one HIV lies now. And God forbid that i ever have HIV. That lie is too expensive

Sit her down, tell her kindly and respectfully that she's wonderful but the relationship isn't working for you. Talk it through for as long as she wants.
Hold her if she cries.
Answer all her questions honestly.
Promise to be there if she needs you, keep that promise and never date her friends.
Be a man, for God's sake.
that's the only way

cruchenutii:


Please scroll up & read my other comment. We argue too much over little things. If i dont actually love her, i would just break up without thinking.

Most times i just let her have her way so that peace can rain. But i'm bothered that i may not be able to keep it up his way when i marry her. She kindof likes to be in control & make decisions.

Having completely different opinions on subjects doesn't mean the both of you are completely opposite. Your opinions are meant to vary in certain situation. Understandably, the part you said she's too controlling seem reasonable enough. If you can't withstand her overbearing attitude then call her over and end it amicably.

cruchenutii:


Did you read that very well, I said it is Not a No Sex relationship. which means sex is involved. We already had sex enough NOT to bring up one HIV lies now. And God forbid that i ever have HIV. That lie is too expensive

Oh! My bad. Well, there's no easy way out of this one. She'll certainly get hurt... But you've to consider your own happiness as well. Puting up with her would affect your plans.

Many people say they don't want to hurt another person and tiptoeing around the situation can do more harm than help-don't tiptoe, be decisive.
It is an action to avoid as much repercussion as possible, don't be too soft in the break up, but don't be insensitive.
Speak the truth but not the whole truth. You don't need to tell her her flaws, etc.
Let her know how you feel about the relationship and that the action you're taking is best for the both of you.
Be honest, open, and sincere.Wish for the best and prepare for the worst and behave cordially.

lilmax:
cheat on her, then tell one of her friends to convince her to leave you

lol, you want to put me in more trouble. This is Fry pan to fire

kullozone:


Only his moniker don dey throw this one off balance sha!

and who are you
his mouthpiece ?

Since you feel you can't cope with her characters, it's better you sit her down and give her reasons why it can't work rather than wasting her time

Bro, I had a similar issue till a condition came out and I took advantage of it.

If I had just told her frankly, she would have hurt herself. An emotional being, but such people are stronger than you think..

If she have a reason to leave you, she won't think twice, that's who they are. So stop thinking and do it immediately.

But you must take advantage of something about the relationship which you have been thinking about, leverage on it. Break it and move on.

cruchenutii:
So this is a real life issue & not some cooked up stories. I've been dating this Girl for 1 Year Plus , she's a sweet girl But Issue is.

We don't have a lot in common. She doesn't like what I like & I don't like what she likes. She's like the total opposite. I just tried to manage this far, but In order not to waste her time, I need to set her free on time. So she can find her other half & settle down on time. As I actually love her & wish her well in a reality.

I need to set her free, But I don't know how to, because she's the very Emotional type that can/may do something drastic because of Heart break.

SO i Just need ideas on how to set her free without being heart broken , And Explain to her nicely why we can't be together & Leave her in peace.

Biko help your guy Abeg. CC Emusmithy mrphysics kimbra tosyne2much ilegendd and pocohantas

The way u get an egg yolk out the egg without cracking the shell! . Iranu!