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How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:21pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
So this is a real life issue & not some cooked up stories. I've been dating this Girl for 1 Year Plus , she's a sweet girl But Issue is. We don't have a lot in common. She doesn't like what I like & I don't like what she likes. She's like the total opposite. I just tried to manage this far, but In order not to waste her time, I need to set her free on time. So she can find her other half & settle down on time. As I actually love her & wish her well in a reality. I need to set her free, But I don't know how to, because she's the very Emotional type that can/may do something drastic because of Heart break. SO i Just need ideas on how to set her free without being heart broken , And Explain to her nicely why we can't be together & Leave her in peace. Biko help your guy Abeg. CC Emusmithy mrphysics kimbra tosyne2much ilegendd and pocohantas 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by anuoluwapo884(m): 4:21pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Sit her down and talk things out settle it with her knowing what's basically on group you can't keep forcing things now 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by NwaAmaikpe: 4:22pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
That shouldn't be your primary concern now unless you are a sadist or a masochist. You should be first of all concerned with your happiness. You first! That's the survival rule. From all you've said, your girlfriend is just a blind horse who does not deserve any more of your energy as you can't race or journey with it. Trust me, She won't be heartbroken, just walk away from her and forge ahead in life. That's why you are a man; to leave your scents, take a walk and come back whenever you so desire. That's how easy it is for men with women. They can always get back the one they walked away from. And that's how easy it is for women with men. They can always get someone new to replace the one who walked away. In the words of Mildred Lisette Norman; "Anything you cannot relinquish when it has outlived its usefulness, possesses you. And in this materialistic age, a great many of us are possessed by our possessions." Don't be possessed son!! Do the right thing. 27 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by zealblinks(m): 4:25pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Very simple... Tell her you don get HIV and you no one wan kobalize her... # straightface 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Draei: 4:27pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Confused weak soul. |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:28pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
anuoluwapo884: we have nothing in common. we argue too much about everything. i know she loves me & i lover her too. But we aren't the best for each other. She also very emotional, So i just want to break up without making her cry. |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by ghettochild(m): 4:28pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
that hiv prank should do it |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:Who let this mad lion out of his cage? 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by kullozone(m): 4:29pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Oboy hafa? I think say you don die before oh! Whether one Nairalander don find you reach house, beat you die. He's back again, to torment 80% of Nairalanders 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Joephat(m): 4:29pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
just invite her to your house... Bleep, Bleep and Bleep her again. when you av made sure she is satisfied. give her drink, sit her down and tell her that is Over.. |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Adaumunocha(f): 4:32pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Its not possible to breakup with her without hurting her. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by QueenBeeHive(f): 4:32pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe:pretty sure it's one nonsense he wants to type like this 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Op, the truth is; you don't love her. What do you mean by she's the complete opposite of you? Were you supposed to date a lady that does things like you do?. Tell her how you feel. Though, getting hurt is inevitable in this situation. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
zealblinks: it is not a No Sex relationship, that HIV prank will not work. so we have been having sex lol. Apart from that i think it would be disrespectful |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by ShawttySoFyne(f): 4:34pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Joephat: That's brutal. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by lilmax(m): 4:35pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cheat on her, then tell one of her friends to convince her to leave you |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by anuoluwapo884(m): 4:37pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii: Bro in this case you can still amend things is not worst as you feel bro unless you don't really meant you loving her sorry to say sir sit her down trash things out put her on conditions she would definitely adjust and all would be normal as you wish 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by kullozone(m): 4:37pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
QueenBeeHive: Only his moniker don dey throw this one off balance sha! 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by kullozone(m): 4:39pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii: Edited. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by StrawberryGloss(f): 4:40pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Exercise tact. If you want to avoid hurting your girlfriend, be tactful with your reasons behind the breakup. Although you want to be honest as possible, use your best discretion. For example, do not tell her "I just don't think you're good enough for me." That will only lead to more hurt feelings, devastation and even anger. In these situations, consider possibly placing the blame on yourself. Say something along the lines of "I do not think I am ready for a serious relationship right now." 7 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
kimbraa: Please scroll up & read my other comment. We argue too much over little things. If i dont actually love her, i would just break up without thinking. Most times i just let her have her way so that peace can rain. But i'm bothered that i may not be able to keep it up his way when i marry her. She kindof likes to be in control & make decisions. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Cholls(m): 4:44pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
my brother simple just introduce a guy that is better that you to her. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
kullozone: Did you read that very well, I said it is Not a No Sex relationship. which means sex is involved. We already had sex enough NOT to bring up one HIV lies now. And God forbid that i ever have HIV. That lie is too expensive |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by ShawttySoFyne(f): 4:46pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Sit her down, tell her kindly and respectfully that she's wonderful but the relationship isn't working for you. Talk it through for as long as she wants. Hold her if she cries. Answer all her questions honestly. Promise to be there if she needs you, keep that promise and never date her friends. Be a man, for God's sake. that's the only way 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 4:49pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii:Having completely different opinions on subjects doesn't mean the both of you are completely opposite. Your opinions are meant to vary in certain situation. Understandably, the part you said she's too controlling seem reasonable enough. If you can't withstand her overbearing attitude then call her over and end it amicably. |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by kullozone(m): 4:55pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii: Oh! My bad. Well, there's no easy way out of this one. She'll certainly get hurt... But you've to consider your own happiness as well. Puting up with her would affect your plans. |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Taniaa(f): 4:57pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Many people say they don't want to hurt another person and tiptoeing around the situation can do more harm than help-don't tiptoe, be decisive. It is an action to avoid as much repercussion as possible, don't be too soft in the break up, but don't be insensitive. Speak the truth but not the whole truth. You don't need to tell her her flaws, etc. Let her know how you feel about the relationship and that the action you're taking is best for the both of you. Be honest, open, and sincere.Wish for the best and prepare for the worst and behave cordially. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
lilmax: lol, you want to put me in more trouble. This is Fry pan to fire |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by QueenBeeHive(f): 5:06pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
kullozone:and who are you his mouthpiece ? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by tosyne2much(m): 5:10pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Since you feel you can't cope with her characters, it's better you sit her down and give her reasons why it can't work rather than wasting her time 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by mrphysics(m): 5:28pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Bro, I had a similar issue till a condition came out and I took advantage of it. If I had just told her frankly, she would have hurt herself. An emotional being, but such people are stronger than you think.. If she have a reason to leave you, she won't think twice, that's who they are. So stop thinking and do it immediately. But you must take advantage of something about the relationship which you have been thinking about, leverage on it. Break it and move on. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Break Up With My Girlfriend Without Leaving Her Heart Broken. by Lomprico2: 6:16pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
cruchenutii: The way u get an egg yolk out the egg without cracking the shell! . Iranu! |
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