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Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by alizma: 11:02pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Suzzyyy:OP can you read me? don't borrow him that money, I repeat, don't borrow him 700k. if he knows you are capable of being if help, you should have be the first to know of his problem. you of 29yrs have dated a guy of 33yrs for 3years yet you are not both open to each other in issue of this nature, which type of marriage are you hoping to get from such relationship? in fact if after 3yrs in a relationship, a period within which both of you have source of livelihood, you still have to do series of permutations from his not being lively to not picking your calls before you finally get to know that he is having financial challenge of this magnitude, I have the feeling that one of you is not interested in getting married to the other. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Bishop(m): 11:05pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Suzzyyy: Please don't lend him any above amount 300k. He is in no way committed to you at the level you two are playing. Don't come here to call out on men when he elopes with your money.be wise 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Rubbiish(m): 11:09pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
fancy4eve:haba!!!! because no man has done it for u, is not enough reason to conclude girl...the world is large... |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Lambarry1: 11:15pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Nigerian woman and selfishness...even if he needed that money to save his life for surgery you will rather watch him die. I can't laugh ooo. You people are too selfish. Once you offer Toto that's all you think it important . Na waoll |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by fancy4eve(f): 11:17pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Rubbiish:just bcus it's a guy u want her to run dry abi. U men re wicked! wat if she's ur sister, will u advice her to Gv such huge amount to her BF in d name of luv, my dear Bleep luv nd do d ryt tin. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by tegafej(m): 11:19pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
donstan18: I love this reply! Just the bitter truth. I have always had the opinion of relationship being a two way thing. Covering each others needs, not this sex for money bullshit we have nowadays |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Rubbiish(m): 11:19pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
fancy4eve:Lolx...i don't want her to run dry... |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by fancy4eve(f): 11:22pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Rubbiish:Don't do to odas wat u will not lyk pple to do unto u, so advice her rightly 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by funkymeky: 11:25pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
ZoeyJ: You must be very stingy |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Nobody: 11:26pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Saff:You are just wicked |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by baby124: 11:35pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Rubbiish:Your name sums up what is in your brain and the stinking thing rushing out of your mouth. Lmao. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by cusehcuseh(m): 11:43pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
If u can't risk helping ur partner be it husband, fiance or boyfriend; u don't worth being someone's wife tomorrow. I pray u remain single for life.. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by abbiboy: 11:50pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
donstan18:Clapping for this dude.....100 gbosa for u.. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by samguru(m): 11:50pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
I think a guy you have dated for 3 years you should know his personality and integrity level better by now. The problem with most of our ladies is insecurity,you are thinking if this guy rise again won't he drop you for another lady and your investment in him will go down the drain. If you truly love this guy and you can attest his love for you is real go ahead and assist him. You may decide to break the money into tranches so that your business will not be affected |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Nobody: 11:55pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Suzzyyy: If you can afford to give him the money, please do. But before anything, involve a lawyer. Everything must be properly documented. Also, it would be advisable to incorporate a company. Both of you will be directors and he shareholders. Tomorrow when the business grows, you will have a say in it. There is nothing wrong with providing financing to a startup business, but everything must be documented. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Alpacino2509: 12:00am On Sep 24, 2018 |
My dear follow your heart..but never lend anyone apart from your husband your whole life savings 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by abbiboy: 12:01am On Sep 24, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED:Clapping for this dude,u understand women very well,especially wicked n selfish Nigerian ladys..chai 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by abbiboy: 12:03am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Saff:U re a devil who does not deserve a man in her life..wickedness is ur middle name.spit! |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Rubbiish(m): 12:06am On Sep 24, 2018 |
fancy4eve:I there anything wrong with advising her to help her man? So u won't help your man if u are in her shoes? |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by fancy4eve(f): 12:08am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Rubbiish:Neva said she shouldn't help, but said she should Gv wat she cn let go, 300k won't b a bad idea. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Diddyflex: 12:16am On Sep 24, 2018 |
This is a very difficult and dicey one to do. But I would have ask you pray about it by asking what exactly could have led to the suddenly crumbling down of his business. Could it be that he was scammed while trying to do some kind of quick Biz?, or Traveling? If all this happens to be, I'm sorry you can't give away that huge amount. But if it isn't, then I guess #250,000 should at least be able to assist him. For if he truly loves and sincere about what he wants to do with the money, that amount will be enough to turn things around. Be wise and smart. Love is kind and very considerate |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Offpoint: 12:37am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Suzzyyy:If you truly love him, help him out in his darkness hours, stand by him, he needs whatever helps you can render now than ever. We say "love his all about sacrifice" dear, this is the time to show how far you can go for love. Do whatever you can to help your man back to his feet, remember when you needed him he was there for you without weighting loses. I know it's not easy, but do it. Nature has a way of rewarding our good deeds, and our evil deeds. stand by your man 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by iceybux(m): 12:47am On Sep 24, 2018 |
read must comment here... juat that I wont categories all ladies.. but most of u females aint worth helpin... did any of u ever consider if he had more when he gave tha 100k, bcus he had a shop doesn't men he had no problems but yet openly gave that sum.. some of u even askin her to lend him d 200k.. but if tomorrow he makes it, she b d one enjoyin most of the finance.. then she won't be considerin d risks involved oo... fear woman |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by baby124: 12:51am On Sep 24, 2018 |
iceybux:I know stories of girls that have given their boyfriends their last penny only for the guy to travel abroad and marry another woman while breaking up with them. Some have even used their girlfriends hard earned money to marry other girls in Nigeria. Other’s have used the money to enter debts where they cannot pay back so they are both ruined. I doubt if the guy gave her his last 100k because at a time he did he was comfortable. He was also not stupid enough to show her is account ever. He also started keeping his distance from her. Who know whether he is even planning another marriage with another girl? Now the stress of marriage preparations is on him and he doesn’t mind borrowing from anywhere? At least she was able to grow the 100k to 800k. Why can’t he start from 100k and grow the business till it reaches the capital he needs? Asking for 700k out of her 820k is crazy. Her own parents will slaughter her if they heard of this foolish attempt. Boyfriend and not husband. Please don’t compare 100k to 700k ever. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by bakeuhappy: 12:59am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Look at the picture attached and see if he meets all conditions. A business should be treated as a separate entity from your business. Is the money in your account yours or your business money??
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Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Nobody: 1:34am On Sep 24, 2018 |
My dear that's almost a million.. Give him what you can. Also do a thorough assessment of the situation.. What are the benefits.. What are the risks.. My advice |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Samcoflex75(m): 1:36am On Sep 24, 2018 |
baddy404: this one dey find him share of the 700k lol 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Believe33: 1:42am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Just give him what you can afford to loose, he is not your husband. What of if you lend him all that you have, and your business is closed and he didnt make it either, how will two of you manage. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by Raalsalghul: 2:30am On Sep 24, 2018 |
tboks:Exactly my thoughts! At Op, take this advice. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by MattChidi(m): 2:33am On Sep 24, 2018 |
give him. You won't regret it. |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by GerogeI(m): 2:57am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Hello OP, I logged in just cause of you. 1. First 700K is not 100K, do not equate the two. For any man (angel or demon) to give you 100K freely, he has at least 900K to spare. If your life will change drastically if you loose 700K, then do not ruin your life by giving that to someone. Nobody is infallible. The first rule of life is never lend out what you cannot loose. 2. Then separate business from pleasures. Why do you have 800k sitting in you account? If 800K is your life savings, you have a very low income level. At your income level you can not grow if you do not invest every spare penny. Go buy land or something, stop keeping money for the bank to use. Moreover, just one emergency can wipe out that sweat, commit it to something tangible that your can cashout in future. 3. 700K is not such a huge money. Your bf should be able to get that without putting you at risk. You are not a bank. Take your bf to a microfinance bank, speak with the bank manager on the available loan solutions they can offer him. You can help him by guaranteeing him for a loan, since you still have a steady income. For this you know he must have run away from Nigeria before you become liable for the money. Cheers and Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Boyfriend But I Am So Scared Of Lending Him 700k by abolore80(m): 3:51am On Sep 24, 2018 |
My dear, eti eh melo? I feel this guy is looking for an excuse to quit the relationship because if he truly loves you, he wouldn't come up with those attitudes. He is supposed to sit you down and explain his predicaments not forming attitudes. 700k is too much to lose in this present economy but if you don't mind losing you can gladly give without expecting anything in return. I'd been in your shoes oh and till date still regretting. 1 Like |
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