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Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:37am On Sep 27, 2018 |
If she's ur girlfriend she can always spend some time with u of which she will go back to her base. But that a lady u not married to go jus pack all her load come stay for ur house..dat one get as e be. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 12:39am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Shugavee: Brightgem hasn't said anything wrong, in fact if what she said is what she practiced she is a Lady of high value. You who know something about life : answer the question: How many men will you cohabit with before marriage ? Can't just imagine you ladies have become this cheap . When he is tired of you, even after the marriage he moves out to look for a fresh blood. Too many ignorant women this days 2 Likes |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 12:42am On Sep 27, 2018 |
odinga1of:even in the university sef.u will see one girl dat just entered with jamb already cohabiting with a dude.she will be performing wife duties and even skipping classes. Time wey she go study and go class she go dey wash the boxers and shirts. Na wa wa. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 12:52am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Daeylar: Daeylar I can understand you. True, its wrong to abuse a female and leave the male alone even though both committed the offence together. But in this hypocrite society we live in. the females are abused far more than the Men. A man sleep with many girls and he is praised . while a lady does same and got tagged different demeaning names . true its silly. But knowing this fact that the society isn't fair to women should help a woman think twice before venturing into such acts . this does not mean am praising a man who engage in promiscuity, such a man as far as am concerned lacks sense. If you know how much some men spent just to get sex of few mins, one will know they are really useless 1 Like |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by DaddyNimo(m): 1:02am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Brightgem:for me o, I see nothing wrong in it :let's say for instance a boyfriend and a girlfriend both live far away from their respective workplace and dey both can't individually rent a decent apartment...instead of them renting a room or selfcon, I think it's better if they join financially and rent a flat and each owning a room. why I mentioned sex is cos that's what everyone thinks when they hear about cohabiting, where as its a normal thing in the western world. you find male and female cohabiting in apartment with each having individual rooms. what I'm against is a guy living in a selfcon or a room and cohabiting with a lady...dats just so uncomfortable and stupid. best way a cohabiting can work is when the guy and the guy has their own room....it would lessen the rate of temptation and also it's for matured folks. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Daeylar(f): 1:19am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Jozzy4: True, its wrong to abuse a female and leave the male alone even though both committed the offence together.I don't even call what they do an offence, but I agree, if people want to take it as an offence then they need to face both genders or to face non at all, the same energy they find to make excuses for men they need to get that same energy to make excuses for women also, But in this hypocrite society we live in. the females are abused far more than the Men.True. A man sleep with many girls and he is praised . while a lady does same and got tagged different demeaning names . true its silly.Very silly, Very infuriating. But knowing this fact that the society isn't fair to women should help a woman think twice before venturing into such acts .Nah this is where we start to disagree, I want women to be allowed to live, live in peace, these rules are ridiculous, and it shouldn't be women bending their backs to please society, one day these backs will break, and I feel the more you bend the more rules they give you to endure, society needs to learn to leave women in peace. this does not mean am praising a man who engage in promiscuity, such a man as far as am concerned lacks sense. If you know how much some men spent just to get sex of few mins, one will know they are really uselessLol, well for me I don't really care what anyone does as long as they are not hurting someone else or hurting themselves, if they are OK with what they do and it doesn't hurt anyone(especially women) then let everyone have fun and live their life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 1:33am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Daeylar: This present society will never learn not to stigmatize women, that explains why I said what I said. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by samlake(m): 4:15am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Everyone is looking for security. Just secure an apartment, and you will see them around... |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by beatmonster(m): 4:20am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Exqueen: Fine girl. Come may we co-habitate |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:35am On Sep 27, 2018 |
I dnt hv ur time,after stating ur opinion, u ought to hv rested,dats it,nt quoting people to force ur own opinion down their throat,its a free world,u live nd let live,dats my last reply,argue with ur keyboard Brightgem: |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by highqueen(f): 6:42am On Sep 27, 2018 |
lefulefu:Exactly ,the thing is an eyesore. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 6:43am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Well,shame on u,no man has ever used me as a sex object cos i don't give them a reason to,u see ur life? Talking thrash abt people u dont even know,u tink every man is like you who cant keep his trousers zipped? Jozzy4: |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:13am On Sep 27, 2018 |
highqueen:an eyesore iyam telling u.u can imagine a young lady that her parents sent to school be slaving herself in one guy's apartment and be doing all d cooking and washing and at d end of the day the guy will still dump and she will end up with a very bad grade in school.very shocking. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by odinga1of: 9:17am On Sep 27, 2018 |
lefulefu: God bless you Boss, I tire for social medium, everyone is typing "wrong" yet some of them engage in the act during their undergraduate days in the Uni and poly. Come to Delta State University Abraka and all the poly and see how girls are cohabiting. Even one quoted me saying rubbish, I ignored her. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by odinga1of: 9:22am On Sep 27, 2018 |
jauntty: Boss I deh for Iwofe road here by Pepperoni Junction, make we link up for the PH. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:40am On Sep 27, 2018 |
odinga1of:yea a lot of ladies dey do am on campus wella.its always disadvantagious cos the thing go be distraction to the girl and she will unable to study. Bros wat will u also ask be say how many of d girls wey dey cohabit with these guys for school dey marry dese guys in d end? Lol wich babe dey quote u? |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by CAPSLOCKED: 10:04am On Sep 27, 2018 |
lefulefu: IT'S DISAPPOINTING THAT THIS IS YOUR OWN IDEA OF COHABITATION. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by RillJ(m): 10:32am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Which 'no'? 'No', I don't believe it is right or 'No', I don't believe it is wrong? tee59: |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by CaptainMitch: 10:50am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Fine girl highqueen: |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by highqueen(f): 10:56am On Sep 27, 2018 |
CaptainMitch:Thanks. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 11:30am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Simplep: Am sorry if my comment hurt you in any way, in this present demoralized generation any lady who think of cohabiting with a man for good 3 months before they get married is only reducing her value. I don't think any woman would advice her daughter to do so.
Ironically , you just did what you accused me of I don't chase women, I thank God for his grace on my life . |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Brightgem(f): 11:32am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Jozzy4:Hi, you just made my morning awesome. Because sometimes I get depressed wondering how men and women could be thinking like this. I wonder if there are still sane and morally upright people left anywhere, worse part is a person spreading their ignorance with so much confidence. I thought ur a guy but I guess from ur posts ur a lady, right? But anyways, we'll all learn somehow from life. Ladies should just stop letting a men abuse us. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 11:34am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Ok sir,lets jst leave it dat way,i dnt like fights Jozzy4: |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Yoighaman(m): 11:36am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Realname: Although I don't support it but this point kinda makes sense, a new perspective to me. Downside is both parties can pretend during this period and only get to show their true selves after getting married. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 11:38am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Brightgem: No, am a man ... Well, that's what the world has become , am glad reading your comments which shows at least some conscience are Still functioning , I like having morally sound ones like you as friends , Keep it up . |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 11:41am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Simplep: So nice reading the above , Simplep #smiles |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Jozzy4: 11:43am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Yoighaman: Yeah, you get it sir. Both can still pretend even under the same roof. I think we don't necessarily have to cohabit before we know the necessary things about one another in a sane relationship where both parties says the truth |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Yoighaman(m): 11:45am On Sep 27, 2018 |
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Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Realname: 11:50am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Yoighaman: My brother no one can pretend 24 hours 7 days a week. The true face will always show 1 Like |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Brightgem(f): 11:50am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Daeylar:Will answer you best way I can. The tags are just still a reality of our society we must live with, it isn't appearing to shift soon, tags used to subdue socially and even politically in the bigger picture. Why does who gets pregnant or is having an abortion bother me? We live in a web like society don't we, like the human blood vessels, all interlinked, so tell me how what is happening to one part doesn't affect the other. You don't see the multiplier effect of these actions on us all. I guess because u are coming from the what is ur business angle, well I am concerned for a woman destroying her body and sending babies to death because she kept opening her legs, that's troubling. I am troubled at the increasing number of babies without present daddies or mummies, who sometimes grow to be the gangstar that will come and stab someone I know in the streets or rob them or get married and be unstable because they had a shaky upbringing. I am disturbed about bringing my own kids into this kind of society of wanton abortions and pregnancies. I am disturbed because we are destroying the family unit with things like cohabiting, baby mamas, wanton sex and abortions. I am disturbed that there are people who think it's not my business so what's ur own. To me that is the bigger picture. Excess freedom is exactly how we are securing our undoing. 1 Like |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by highqueen(f): 11:53am On Sep 27, 2018 |
Brightgem:and you later dashed out your number after screaming like a bulldog, reason i hate hypocrites like you. We have seen you. And dont even qoute, i wont go down to your level of hypocrisy. |
Re: Cohabiting In Relationship: Right Or Wrong? by Brightgem(f): 11:56am On Sep 27, 2018 |
highqueen:who are u quoting? Seems ur confused! Too quick to comment. High queen, what are u high on? |
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