AbramKentwood:
It depends on the level of a lady's physical attractiveness.... I said this a while ago and it resulted in a debate.

The summary of what I mean is: the less attractive a girl, the lower the number of "active" and "aggressive" toasters that would be willing to do anything to sleep with her.

You can dance around the issue but that aspect is a very big issue.

Gbam

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

I married my wife a virgin, we agreed when we started courting to keep sex until our wedding night. Well I proudly disvirgined my wife only after our wedding and we've been experiencing marital bliss seven years now and still counting.

My dear it is possible only if you are determined, you also have to pray that God brings a good man your way who will happily not only support you but be active in observing it too.

For those who will have the dirty mind that I was doing it outside sorry to disappoint you, I never ever even kissed another woman since I started courting my wife. So help me God, I do not ever intend to play away match.

Bottom line is, you can do it if you set out to do it. In fact it'll ward off all the bad men from your life.

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Queenara:




.How did you know I'm in UI?

Yh, not much though.

Are you saying those guyz disturb you a lot??

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Oh yeah! Its possible... Avoid negative convictions like that ur male friend, im sure he wnts to chop too.
Always plan ur day/week n make yourself occupied with positive things.
As for me, im a 26yr old virgin. I will break my own at 27yr cos that's the oath I personall7 took

HEFAIROHLUWA:
Possible
but not gotten from sex
***A baby infected via the mother is also a virgin though
My point is this..If sex with anyone you like was allowed in the bible but people still gets Aids and other stds and die..Christians will never involve God in this question so why should they do so now to convince op that sex before marriage is bad? She needs to see reality here..
So lets leave the christian/God story out of this...If you cannot control your urges now you wont be able to when you are married and you sometimes look like fool before your spouse when he/she isnt ready or in mood for the act and you just keep demanding...

Christians are hypocrites. Anything Christianity I don't always want to get involved..those set of people have done the worse on mother earth.

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Sister, Am Quite Surprised that a Precious and Personal Topic/Thought could be discussed by you (a female who is very vulnerable to these thing called Pre-marital Sex) with a man you are sure wouldn't actually encourage you to do so.
If Truly you Had made Up your to guard your Chastity as the Divine Books Posit you wouldn't have brought such a thing up in the first place.

Beloved, Please Guard your Honour, its worth it and don't be Deceived
----------------- and stop discussing issues with those who wouldn't encourage you. JUST DO IT WITH FAITH

Oreofepeters:
No what i mean is, get yourself busy with goldly things, read Bible, pray, avoid company of disvirgined girls they will want you to be like them and be regular at church.....



That's the only thing that could help you keep your virginity in this Fvcked up country..........

I disagree with this..na choir master go eventually fvck am easy easy.

@Op why don't you start exploring things by fvcking that your male friend. Believe me, he rily wants to fvck you ..except you're not pretty enough.

AbramKentwood:


Read what I wrote again.

I did and apparently you're team virginity is lack of opportunity.

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Are girls the only ones born virgins Stupor

Christians girls are useless na, not possible in front of pastors.........we remain virgin n if am lying may God punish me.
Islam is so modest
How will I destroy my honour for 5min enjoyment?

It is still possible but not that easy to see

So many bad guys now.
The only way to escape them is to move in places where you won't find them.
Like a very spiritual environment.

Many ladies that lost their virginity didn't mean to.
They met bad guys who charmed them off their feet and took their virginity.

I have a friend that have disvirgined five ladies.

I on other hand seem to only get the experienced ones.

don't let anyone discourage u here or outside here it's very possible

two set of people that would rubbish and devalue that dignity are guys which I belong and ladies that had been disflowered



I met my fiancé at the age of 22yrs, we did it when she was 26 even though I had some side chic during those ignorant days but the bottom point is, I made her to do it, till today it still pain her as she want us to do it on honeymoon day


we have reached 8yrs and I wouldn't have done it if I know she was different from other ladies, the joy part of this is we acted like brother & sister despite coming from different background and tribe


so is very possible, is your pride, is your dignity and stop telling your female or male friends about it again. keep it to yourself

It's very possible as some girls have perfected the act of being A$$ forrkd ND they get to keep their punny intact for the hubby. So it's very possible

May we not fall prey to crooks, even in marriage.


What's your advice for the lady whose story you are about to read below?




"I kept myself for 34 years but my marriage lasted only the wedding night "

_______________________


I met Kunle on a Whatsapp group last year.We chatted for a few months. He told me he was based in Dubai as a business man and that he was looking for a woman to marry. He was not ready for games. He sounded like my kind of man. I didn’t believe him initially as it sounded too good to be true. He spent quite a lot of money on me. The first time we met in person after doing Skype and Whatsapp video calls for months was in May 2017. He proposed to me in a popular 5-star hotel on Maryland. I was in total bliss.
I met his parents who were living in Abeokuta after that. He met mine in Lagos here and we agreed that we should start planning the wedding against August 2017. He sent the money for everything. He was always calling and all. My friend Joy was concerned that I was rushing things but I didn’t listen as I just didn’t want to think anything negative. Besides,I already knew his parents. I practically visited his parents every weekend after he introduced me to them. They loved me. They were happy their son was getting married; they had been on his case for so long. Kunle is 42 and this would be his first marriage.

We got married according to plan last August 2017. It was the happiest day of my life. It was such a beautiful day. My friends and family were all there. Everyone was happy for me and I was grateful to God. I had waited for my dream man. I kept myself. I was 34. It was hard but I am glad it paid off.

My problems started after our wedding night. We made love that night. He was my first and it was beautiful. In the morning,he got a call from Dubai. He was called for an important business. He had to leave immediately as the international partners were expecting him in South Africa that evening. Sadly,we had to put our honeymoon plans on hold. He promised to send me a ticket to Miami next weekend so we can start our honeymoon. I bade him goodbye and that was the last I saw of him.

After a couple of hours, I expected him to have called but he didn’t. That day,he didn’t call. The next day, he didn’t call so I called him but I couldn’t connect. I texted and emailed; there was no response. I then told his mom. She became very worried and everyone started to call him. No connection,no response. By the third day,we began to panic. We started a prayer vigil. We started trying to contact his friends in Dubai and the airports.
No word from Kunle in two weeks! I was beyond worried. I began to imagine the worst until I received that phone call.


Kunle finally called two weeks later. He said, "I am so sorry,but I can't do this". "Do what?", I asked him. He said he is sorry but he misled me. He said he cannot marry me. At that point, I dropped the call and fainted. When I recovered,I was in hospital. Kunle’s parents and mine were there to comfort me. I told them to explain why Kunle cannot marry me. It was then that I learnt that Kunle confessed that he has a woman whom he has been seeing for over seven years and they have two children in Dubai.

According to him,they have been having issues so they separated for a while. That was when he met me. He thought he was moving on but clearly he is still in love with the lady. So now he has gone back to her. Even though they are not married,he feels he cannot be without her. So Kunle wants me to annul our marriage. He sent me the sum of ₦5 million and asked for my forgiveness.

That was since September last year. I cannot begin to explain the trauma that I have been through. I have suffered depression and almost killed myself at one point. Kunle’s parents, however, do not want the marriage annulled. They say that I am Kunle’s legal wife since the other lady is not married to him. But since then,Kunle has not come to see me. How do I remain married to someone who wants the marriage to be annulled and is not even here with me? His parents want me to be patient,saying that he will come to his senses. People are saying this is the work of jùjú. How long am I going to wait?

Kunle sent me an email two months ago still asking for my forgiveness and urging me to move on. I gave my virginity to this man! I made a fool of myself before the world by having a huge wedding. Now he doesn’t want me because of a woman whom he is not even married to! What am I going to do? Should I stay and fight for my marriage, or do the sensible thing of actually going ahead and annulling my marriage of only one day? I am going to be 35 in a few days. Please advise me and pray for me too.

Brianna,
Lagos.



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Oreofepeters:
it is possible in mars not on this earth.....

It is very possible bro.

I suggest you keep this to yourself. Let it be a personal decision between yourself and God.

A lot of people may tell you otherwise but deep down you should know you're doing the right thing. Avoid bad company, try to have a friend or person you look up to and be very careful with the people you keep as male friends.
I'm approaching my mid twenties and as a guy, ladies normally find me appealing but I'd rather wait. I'll be sincere, it's hard to stay a virgin, but I've never regretted it and I bet you won't too.

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

My wife did

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

My wife did ...and I appreciate her everyday...

funmisticqueen:
really pointless question. why should i keep virginity for a man, so that he will use it to soak garri? Better face other facets of your life

can u fu ck me? I pay

Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.
Mind your company. Train your mind to focus on your goal. If you a Christian, get busy for God. Empower yourself. Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.



It pays to be chaste my dear.

mother advicer that's how you kept yours abi

Alexaonfleek:
19 still counting..

U Don try self







U need an award in this era

Ask Linda Ikeji.

When you're too ugly and shapeless you can maintain your Virginity even till death because no guy will come around...

And not satisfying ur sexual urge might lead u to masturbation which is another horrible sin..

It's just only the spirit of God that can help u out dear..

very possible. I have gfs who married even in their 30s and they were virgins

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

I just want to walk out before but I see you need Candid Words and Words Of Encouragement That why am gonna talk
Is Possible and Impossible
Am your Type I Know you are not going to believe me And It's Not Neccesary
It not been easy at all seeing my friends flirting telling me how they always do girls I do look like slowpoke

1 The Possibility
I will advice to not let many of your friends should know you are a virgin including close Normal Boy friends And Girl Friends cos if they do Aye Le O People are wicked oh they will see you as special person among them and they will be one side happy and one side unhappy and they can anything bad to you because of that not only that and I think you should not tell your Love Guy I mean the guy you are dating It depend on you whether to tell him or Not cos he might after you for sex and you now tell him you are a virgin he will happy that he will be first enjoy you fresh but it's unpredictable perhap he can love you wholeheartly because of that
So
Know what you want
Do what please you not others
Always stay out of Club,Party
Don't Trust People Trust Your God

2 The Impossibility

If you follow that your guy words you might end up blaming yourself
We always say Journey of thousand miles begin with one step
Don't forget one mistake can ruin the entire miles If you don't care to be virgin till your wedding night and it suppose to be your Number One priority

If you feel ashame of yourself
If you Heed To Bad Minded People Words

Keeping Corrupt Friends

I can't say more than this

It is very very very true.
You just have to know what you want.

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Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

Regardless of your reason, it's a universal rule required of you by your creator, don't listen to any man or woman telling you can fornicate. Despite the twisted and bad advices here and there, do it for God and yourself. Regardless of the sinfulness of this world and the jealous advices here and there, value your virginity, it's your personal pride. Mentally, physically etc Don't wait for the right guy, wait for your right husband, only he should touch you forever... It's a blessing. And vice versa, not all men are stupid to loose theirs before their wedding night. Such are the real MVPs. You are on the right path, learn how to recognize a jealous advice deguised as a feigned mockery from a regretful heart. Do you, be you and stand out from the Yeye crowd. #wolves in nairaland and here and there.

we're living in a broken world. Alexaonfleek its very possible. Im 19+ never even asked a girl out or anything close to that,got a bright future and no shit can stop that.

I tell you, everytime I come to Nairaland , i get scared abt how bleeped up this world is

GrowUpBoys:


Regardless of your reason, it's a universal rule required of you by your creator, don't listen to any man or woman telling you can fornicate. Despite the twisted and bad advices here and there, do it for God and yourself. Regardless of the sinfulness of this world and the jealous advices here and there, value your virginity, it's your personal pride. Mentally, physically etc Don't wait for the right guy, wait for your right husband, only he should touch you forever... It's a blessing. And vice versa, not all men are stupid to loose theirs before their wedding night. Such are the real MVPs. You are on the right path, learn how to recognize a jealous advice deguised as a feigned mockery from a regretful heart. Do you, be you and stand out from the Yeye crowd. #wolves in nairaland and here and there.