Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

After word of God for sometime, you will carry-on again. Even pastors, reverend fathers and apostles do it on regular basis. Pastor Chris even approved of it with biblical scriptural support.

MissRaine69:

Wrong
Some can’t get a hard on when the real thing presents itself!

I started masturbation since 13yrs old, the thing is that I don't see it as a sin or something abnormal.
I don't feel guilty at all after masturbation. Though I don't overdo it because of my busy schedule but I see it as a normal activity almost all men do.
And whenever I see the real thing, I still get rock hard. Everyone is not the same

NuhRegular:
Lol.. Nairaland is the worst place to come to in this case . See comments.

Get busy my dear.. Get busy.. Get productive.. You're obviously idle that's why you have these thoughts so often. If you're a student there are many ways you could keep yourself preoccupied. If you're not, dedicate yourself to a cause, become a volunteer for an NGO, attend workshops, list is endless

Kissable lips

Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

That female friend will get pregnant

Basalt:


I started masturbation since 13yrs old, the thing is that I don't see it as a sin or something abnormal.
I don't feel guilty at all after masturbation. Though I don't overdo it because of my busy schedule but I see it as a normal activity almost all men do.
And whenever I see the real thing, I still get rock hard. Everyone is not the same

Sigh
So how am I disagreeing with you?
For some it becomes a psychological crutch that is used as a way to de-stress, self soothe or punish one’s self it OBVIOUSLY does not apply to you so what’s the drama for?

your solution is get marry and you will stop mastubating,,,, and you are free to dig in your wife anytime ..that is your solution.....

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Specifics on masturbation would be helpful dear person of Yahweh

The secret power of masturbation is in your mind. If you can rule your mind, you'll overcome it like I did.

I don't know if you're a Christian, if yes, approach your Pastor and confess to him and tell him you want to stop. The first step is holding yourself accountable to someone. Promise yourself that you'll always tell the person whenever you find yourself being drawn into masturbation or whenever you mistakenly do so

Secondly, you have to work on what you think about. I recommend that you stop watching any film that contains even little sex. It makes you a slave and powers your imagination. Give your attention to meditation on God's Word (the Bible). It renews your mind and helps you.

Third, tell yourself that masturbation is not good and it is not a part of you. True you've fallen into the mistake but it will never have you. Tell your body that you are the one ruling the body and that your body does not rule you. Tell yourself that you refuse to be under the hold of masturbation.

In summary do the following:
1. Confess and hold yourself accountable to someone who has oversight over you and whom you'll see physically not by phone o
2. Change what you feed your mind with. Stop watching or listening to any song that talks about sex and feed your mind with holy words.
3. Tell yourself that you are not a slave to masturbation. Since you do not like it, tell your body that you are stopping

God will help you as He helped me.

Wait guys.... Do you all masturbate?

That's pathetic! Please stop it.. How do you even enjoy self sexual pleasure? No way... I can never understand this...and it is disgusting and shameful too...not judging, just being honest.

By the way op, it is fine okay? You can control this, don't listen to those guys encouraging you to go on with it, trust me...they are also going through this same guilt. This could actually destroy your self esteem, I have seen it doing that to some guys I know and you could go to the extent of doing it in public places, where you could get caught and that could be really shameful.

Nairaland can be the worst place to come for advice. But, do these number of guys masturbate, or it's just a joke to them?!

MissRaine69:

Sigh
So how am I disagreeing with you?
For some it becomes a psychological crutch that is used as a way to de-stress, self soothe or punish one’s self it OBVIOUSLY does not apply to you so what’s the drama for?

Do you masturbate?

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

when u start it at first,it was just a habit,when it gets to a point,u will want to stop and u cant,it will seems as if a stronger force is pushing u to do it,then u will know a demonic spirit is now involved. I advise u see a genuine man of God who is a living example of holiness,once he prays for you,thats all. I know someone who was into it before,he travelled to a program in auchi poly.were apostle arome osayi ministered,after that day,the apetite and desire to masturbate died. He is free now.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Pray to God for help. Read the word of God. Note, this is about your destiny so fight it with all your might. If you don't stop it, there are serious issues you are likely to have. 1 you can't remember things, 2 you can't pick tiny things without your hand shaking 3 your confidence and self esteem will likely not be as suppose. 4 Your energy to be productive will not be as suppose. 5 your eye sight will be affected badly . 6 . It will increase your desire to have sex/ masturbate , you might even carry prostitute as a result. 6 if you are reading for exam, you might not remember what you read during the exam because your brain Don damage. It can cause more serious damage to you than real sex . The good news is that if you stop now. (even real sex) Everything will grow back to normal, and you will be restored. Don't just believe people who says no issues about this habit, probably because they are light users . Finally, fight it otherwise your destiny in life is likely to be limited by it. May God help you overcome in Jesus name. Cheers!

Come to Jesus!

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Who told you masturbation is bad? Too much of everything is bad, too much of masturbation is bad actually. But masturbation is not the demon everyone talks it to be on this side. Medically, it's beneficial as you can ward off some diseases. Read this article and gain more insight
http://www.herbalpharmal.com/can-ejaculations-help-prevent-prostate-cancer/

tropaz:
Try out fasting and prayers...
Moreso, know that every sperm out of you is another mile away from your breakthrough...

Keep masturbating if u want to remain in poverty

How did you come about this?

There is no way out. You r doomed

Accept Jesus into your heart and commit your whole life into His hands

Confess your sin before Him and then ask Him to help you overcome the act.
You will find out it's gone one day

please if you're reading this then this is what to do. Talk to your friend vivian and she'll pray you outta it. Then desist from sexual items and pray immediately that urge for masturbation comes up.

I think just like me you have ocd (obsessive compulsive disorder) and probably depression( guilt)and fear of judgement.
In my case, my guardian attends the strictest holiness church in the country, nearly committed suicide BTW early this year and last 3yrs as prayer, fasting, nofap abstinence didn't cure me was confused and stuck in guilt.
What you need to do is find a therapist or psychiatrist tell him u want to be given SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor) and you'd be fine in no time. Don't focus too much on quitting. The SSRI I've been taking is SERTRALINE and without any significant determination whatsoever 90% porn/masturbation cravings r gone. I used to count days to keep me motivated but now I no longer do that because for eg. in two weeks I nearly got no urges at all.
U should take the drug for abt 3mnths according to the prescription.
During this period you should not go a week without morning jug. Play football if u get d opportunity.
Sleep 7hrs a day, i advice you sleep early too like 10 -10:30pm.the only determination I've made is that I will never watch porn again you should do same, but you won't be getting strong cravings again. Sleeping exercising will keep u healthy. Yeah, b4 I 4get seriously you've gotta eliminate the guilt cos like I said earlier, would have killed myself! despite gaining admission on merit into medical school, was scared of being proud of myself was ashamed of walking under the sun! Infact was scared of being happy for long because I thought just as people properly feed "Christmas chicken" in preparation for slaughter on a latter day, God was allowing a few good things in my life while saying let me see this sinner rejoice a little before I punish him. You have to know that God isn't a monster He fully understands ur condition so feel free to pray to Him at any time ..i found some Joseph Prince's teaching, it gave so much boldness that when I find myself masturbating I'd sing praises in my mind if I wanted to I'd pray just after ejaculating without any atom of guilt, I'd say to myself that I'm God's son and didn't get that privilege cos I was holy in d first place so Satan Bleep off, this is just a little slip and I'd fix it with my Dad. Finally, excessive guilt is dangerous...don't joke with the sleep part. It's one step at a time. U should take 5omg for a week before proceeding to 100mg if u must. I wish u an awesome recovery.

Nairalanders pls my mum is dying kindly help us. She has kidney disease and Dr said needs to go for a transplant we spend a lot on dialysis pls kinda assist us with any amount. Here's video of her on her last dialysis.

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U are going to stop it, when you find better and affordable option

Your problem is that you are far from God. Getting a good job is very necessary, stop watching porn movies is good but above all how many times do you read your Bible in a day? How committed are you in your church programs? Please deliver yourself and stop complaining, nearer to his words is nearer God but far from his words is far from God.

First you must be hungry and desperate to quit; no half-hearted desire. Then ask Jesus to help you and then see what happens next. Phillipians 4:13: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Make it personal. Bless you.

Basalt:


Do you masturbate?

We are not on that level you and I

Basalt:


I started masturbation since 13yrs old, the thing is that I don't see it as a sin or something abnormal.
I don't feel guilty at all after masturbation. Though I don't overdo it because of my busy schedule but I see it as a normal activity almost all men do.
And whenever I see the real thing, I still get rock hard. Everyone is not the same

That's the reason, you can't masturbate 5 times in a day and your prick will still be familiar with pussy

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Here's wat i did. Pray, fast, and b strong-willed. It works

MissRaine69:

Wrong
Some can’t get a hard on when the real thing presents itself!

Exactly

Masturbation, like most human habits, is a positive feedback thing. The more you do it, the more your body demands for it. The best way to stop it is to also employ the positive feedback nature of it. When the thought to do masturbation comes to your mind, deliberately change the thought to something your body hates, such as cultivating with hoe or cutting grass with cutlass. As you deny your body masturbation this way, positive feedback kicks in and your interest in masturbation will begin to wane.

This same principle of positive feedback also works for people who ejaculate too early when they are having sex with their wives. By removing the mind from the ongoing sexual activity and focusing the mind on something not so pleasing, ejaculation is delayed. However, taking the mind away for too long will also make the joystick to sag.

positive feedback (BIOLOGY)

the enhancing or amplification of an effect by its own influence on the process which gives rise to it.

falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day

na medication?