Oluwamoney:
It's not easy to quit mastubating, if i tell you my own story you won't believe it, i started mastubating before i clocked 10yrs, I'm 26yrs...

Is there any noted side effect such as erectile dysfunction?

Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

Get a Girlfriend and study your BIBLE as well, how...?
my MAN your ADVICE is beyond comprehension.
Should be rated the worst advice.
In fact its an indictment on the intellect of many.
Where do you really stand...?
Are you a Born-Again Christian or a BORN-AGAINST Christian....
What will the Girl be doing...? In addition to the BIBLE
Will both of them study the BIBLE together..?
Please make me understand better..

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

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You are jst some few steps away from total deliverance, but mind you 'anything that has to do with the lust of the flesh/sexual immorality is a very serious and destructive tin' and it's one of the means/channels that the rulers of darkness usually use to reset, cage, retard or destroy pple.
YOU HAVE JST TAKEN D VERY FIRST, HELPFUL N IMPORTANT STEP..... I pray God helps you with the will power to overcome this.

falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day

stop preaching false gospel ejaculation doesn't mean sperm count gets low. the sperm cells are reproduced within 24 hours, and on full use can be reproduced to full thickness within 48 hours..

no matter how many times you cum, you can never cum until your cum is totally finished and can't be reproduced.

firstly i want to assure u dat masturbation can be gotten rid of completely..masturbation is sinful, it is demonic, it isn't Godly at all. i have frends dat have successfuly defeated it, personaly d was a time in my life dat i was so addicted to it, i used 2 masturbate grtly atleast 3times in d day & many times at night. i got into it because of d depression in my life den. i left depression, but couldn't leave masturbation on my own, it is a spirit often accompanied with pornography and x-raying spirit. the only way i successfuly overcame masturbation after six yrs of addiction, was by sincerely accepting jesus into my life. first i hated masturbation, i was remorseful & blamed myself 4 geting into it & i prayed about it seriously. note dat i tried many things/ways/disciplinary approach on my own 2 end it but it wasn't going completly. somtimes wen i have d urge 4 it, i'll leave d house or schedule a meeting with a friend, but only 2 return home & do it more times dan usual. but with jesus am now a free man.

I was once a chronic masturbator, I masturbated for over 17yrs, the spirit in masturbation is very bad. I always find it hard to Bleep a girl then because of my weak erection, masturbation get so many bad effect like it causes lost of memory and weak erection, nobody advices me wen I finally stop it, my guy my advice for u is to get ur self busy during the day and look for a girlfriend that will always get ur Time

You only just started na. No big deal. All humans are programmed like that even though most will deny. Maby people have been masturbating all their life so chill. It doesn't reduce sperm count either. One thing I know for sure though, your dick might get used to your hand way more than inside the red warmth of a vagina.

Nigerians act like Cumming through masturbation finishes your sperm while Cumming through sex doesn't.

a lot of disinformation here. Learn to go read about sexual reproduction before diving on your keyboard.

your sperm is like your sweat, it never finishes.

have you ever heard where they said 'the man was old and couldn't produce sperm?'
Women have menopause at a certain age but men don't.
a 100 year old man who has bleeped a generation's worth of pussies or masturbated a million times cannot kill his sperm cells.
Sperm cells depreciate more from the foods we eat.

Encouraging someone to quit masturbation is one thing, misinforming people is another.

You will need to help yourself, nobody will do that for you. Masturbation is a sin and evil. It disfigures you physically, mentally and spiritually. Curtivate that in your mind and you will be free from the shackles of devil.

madjune:
You had better stop.

It's hard to stop but you can.
Cut down on the volume of indecent literature/movies or ideas that get into your mind.
Try and read more books, papers or anything plain.

Though few doctors will tell you this but this habit can make you impotent in your mid life, lower your count etc.
Those are not desirable thoughts.

Masturbation doesn't lead to impotency or low sperm count mister.

Offpoint:
4 times a day? do you want to exhaust your offspring before 30? get a job bro.
Masturbation is like cultism, once you get in you can't get out. only you can save yourself now, you're stuck bro... till eternity, the only improvement in the future will be less of it, you can't stop it. your body will crave for it, your minds wants it, your conscience will eat you after the act, then there will come a time you'll no longer feel guilty about it and that's the end of the battle, you'll be stuck with it.
they'll advice you to talk to someone, but the truth remains... nobody on earth can be with you 24/7 not even your parents.
They'll advice you get a girlfriend, here you'll become sex addict... lemme stop here

The best known way to stop masturbation is NOT to start MASTUBATION.

Well you are wrong with ur last sentence. The best way to stop is to get married.
If u know you know

NuhRegular:
Lol.. Nairaland is the worst place to come to in this case . See comments.

Get busy my dear.. Get busy.. Get productive.. You're obviously idle that's why you have these thoughts so often. If you're a student there are many ways you could keep yourself preoccupied. If you're not, dedicate yourself to a cause, become a volunteer for an NGO, attend workshops, list is endless

Hey! Is that your pix on display?

ayusco85:


Well you are wrong with ur last sentence. The best way to stop is to get married.
If u know you know

It doesn't work that way sir...

Masturbation is normal bro mine when I started I do it Like 5 times in a day using all sorts of things like Vaseline, soap, engine oil, groundnut oil and even my bare hands. Time I believe will take care of it.

The solution is simple, 1) pray consistently 2), involve yourself in every church activities including midweek and engaged yourself without time to be alone

Its because you are idle. An idle hand and JT are the devil's workshop. It might go beyond masturbation to rape one day.
A good advice is that you keep tight schedule. Just get busy. Your testosterone level drops when you are stressed. Your testosterone seems to drop when you have cortisol (stress hormones) in you. It can help you till you are married.

caye:
Read ' The problem of Purity ' by Dion Fortune.
You might find help there.
Download online, use google.com or yandex.com

that's a good book

Its because you are idle. An idle hand and JT are the devil's workshop. It might go beyond masturbation to rape one day.
A good advice is that you keep tight schedule. Just get busy. Your testosterone level drops when you are stressed. Your testosterone seems to drop when you have cortisol (stress hormones) in you. It can help you till you are married

Many of us had same problem in the past, it's one of those things that comes with puberty and adolescence. I think you should stop watching porn, and always spend the main parts of your time staying around friends. You can also consider participating in sports like football, tennis, karate, or any good sports you can think of, register and attend sporting classes regularly. The urge to masturbate always comes , when you are alone, less busy, and isolated. Try this and thank me later.

BecaciaBarbie:
Wait guys.... Do you all masturbate?

That's pathetic! Please stop it.. How do you even enjoy self sexual pleasure? No way... I can never understand this...and it is disgusting and shameful too...not judging, just being honest.

By the way op, it is fine okay? You can control this, don't listen to those guys encouraging you to go on with it, trust me...they are also going through this same guilt. This could actually destroy your self esteem, I have seen it doing that to some guys I know and you could go to the extent of doing it in public places, where you could get caught and that could be really shameful.

My friend shurrup there. Person like you go de use plantain shook inside skunchas every night.

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it....

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Thanks for sharing

You have taken the key first step: you've decided to stop the addiction

Avoid looking for "easy" answers: "How to stop being addicted in 3 easy steps". Lasting change will not happen overnight.

Be real with yourself. What priorities in your life right now will need to change?

The fact is: unless you change your current priorities, you will only keep on justifying your actions, in spite of the guilt.

Thanks again

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

My brother watch Emmanueltv on dstv 390 and put your faith in it you will glorify Almighty God.

Let the person give me his number,THE MASTURBATION WILL STOP or u may add me up on facebook @OLUWOLE OLUMIDE AUGUSTINE

Offpoint:
4 times a day? do you want to exhaust your offspring before 30? get a job bro.
Masturbation is like cultism, once you get in you can't get out. only you can save yourself now, you're stuck bro... till eternity, the only improvement in the future will be less of it, you can't stop it. your body will crave for it, your minds wants it, your conscience will eat you after the act, then there will come a time you'll no longer feel guilty about it and that's the end of the battle, you'll be stuck with it.
they'll advice you to talk to someone, but the truth remains... nobody on earth can be with you 24/7 not even your parents.
They'll advice you get a girlfriend, here you'll become sex addict... lemme stop here

The best known way to stop masturbation is NOT to start MASTUBATION.



Modified:
Because I said "you can't stop it" they're coming for my head. just because you haven't masturbate in the last past 2 years doesn't mean you've stopped it. don't let them deceive you, those who claimed they've stop don't really stop it. they still do it at least once in a year.

Oga.. Just like your name, you're really off point. smh

Chart me on what's app so I will tell u how to be free from the spirit of masturbation

My number 07036367730

https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-side-effects#takeaway

Read this pal...

@OP,

I would assume you genuinely wish to stop what you claim it's affecting you psychologically.

Mentioning the lady preacher's name wasn't necessary which gives a worry.. Nevertheless, that's the route I suggest you go.

@20yrs, you should be able to talk to your inner spirit on what affects you. God does answers prayer. Settle down and make your decision about your life, not just about your present predicament.. But everything because it's your weakness that's been used to torment your emotions right now.

Always think about how you feel when you have done it, disgusting right? You feel ashamed of yourself, no be so? Exactly, so hate that part of the process more so as to kill the urge....

Remember that, you can't be satisfied fully because the urge would still come again and again therefore you should know its a very transient satisfaction.

Like I said, speak to your spirit and seek for God's direction and appeal to him for help... Do this seriously... You will come out victorious and start telling people how you overcame it..

May God help you..

Get busy....and move closer to God....No vivan can help u....u can also help yourself

falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day

Number 4&5 are part of the solutions. But if you are capable to marry,then do it. That will b the complete solution. U will always reserve ur energy for ur spouse.

b0rn2fuck:
How I wish masturbation work for me. Na so so prick inside Toto be my own

Your moniker says it all. Your parents had known your destiny before given you such a name

GET girlfriends,quit watching porn and remove every versaline around you .Your days of igboooncha is over -�