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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by thunderbabs: 4:21am On Oct 11, 2018
If ur hand makes you to sin, cut it off.

Hope i aff helped. Just get a very sharp suya knife
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by pressplay411(m): 4:23am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Lust is dimensional.
Lust for Money
Lust for Sex
Lust for KNOWLEDGE
Lust for Pleasure.
And more.

The scriptures categorises all these as Love of the World viz
Lust of the Eyes
Lust of the Flesh
and Pride of Life

For the benefit of today's discussion let me clarify that I'm referring to Lust for Sex.

That fire inside our pants that if we don't consume, can consume us.

The first step to overcoming lust is to change our knowledge of it.
We have been told and taught once you taste of the forbidden fruit there is no turning back.
That is a lie.
1. Sex is not the forbidden fruit.
2. Sex is a godly act. To be indulged only after marriage.
3. It can be controlled. You can choose to become celibate and abstain from sex again. It is a choice.

Lust cannot be carnally overcome. It can only be postponed carnally.
To overcome lust, you need Christ.
You need His Word.
You need to confront your lustful yearnings by confessing the Word of God anytime the urge cones. How?
You look for the scriptures that talk about overcoming lust, that talk about the destructive power of lust, formication and adultery.
You constantly pray and meditate upon them.

You clearly need to choose your associations carefully.
Most of our habits are imbibed from our friends, families and colleagues.
If you want to stop drinking, clearly ou have to stop being a companies that go to such joints.
And for sex, minimize interactions with friends, families and collegues that glorify fotication and adultery.

Also, if you are in a sexual relationship, you know what to do.

In short as aptly put, FLEE FROM ALL APPEARANCE OF EVIL

For sexual immoralities that are privately destroying our generation, viz madturbation and homosecualism.

Clearly same applies.

Delete pornographic materials from phones and laptops. This cannot be ovet-emphadized.

But this is not where it stops.
Even doctors will advise you not to quit smoking without nicotine gum.

Every bad habit must be replaced with good habits.
An idle mind I'd truly the devil's workshop.

Spend more time outdoors, if indoors make you prone to srcual immoralities.
Spend more time indoors if outside makes you prone to sexual immoralities.

Week days Fellowship is not for jobless people.
It's also to help us keep ourselves busy with Christ so that we are not workshop for devil.

For by means of a harlot
A man is reduced to a crust of bread;
And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.
Proverbs 6:26

A whole human being is walking around not knowing he has been turned to a crust of bread!��‍♂�

It sounds funny till you understand that this is found is the book of Proverbs, book of God's Wisdom. Meaning it is deeper than surface understanding.

God help you
God help us all in Jesus name.
Amen.

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nobody: 4:24am On Oct 11, 2018
It shall be permanent
All what God has done for you
It shall be permanent
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by madjune(m): 4:25am On Oct 11, 2018
You had better stop.

It's hard to stop but you can.
Cut down on the volume of indecent literature/movies or ideas that get into your mind.
Try and read more books, papers or anything plain.

Though few doctors will tell you this but this habit can make you impotent in your mid life, lower your count etc.
Those are not desirable thoughts.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Johnboom: 4:28am On Oct 11, 2018
What you need is Jesus_Justification from your sin. Try and find a good church. Help is always available, I can recommend Apostolic Faith Church. God bless you.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by qwertyboss(m): 4:30am On Oct 11, 2018
I hate masturbation but I can't escape it.
It is a cancer of the mind!
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Moscowi(m): 4:31am On Oct 11, 2018
My advice is you can stop this it self determination like jus hang on for a day without it like that second day. I know it had but jus try I once be in you shoe

Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by vale20: 4:32am On Oct 11, 2018
U need serious deliverance , its only God that can do it for u .
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Ndipe(m): 4:34am On Oct 11, 2018
Prayers does wonders.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by djake: 4:36am On Oct 11, 2018
Sorry about your dilenma bro... It's an involuntary addiction already to you,but admitting you have an issue is the first step to getting it cured...

It's easy to dish out advises over a phone but only you knows the internal discormfort you feel...

I would personally say you confront the situation head-on by fighting the battle from within... Running away from it by substitution isn't the best... I believe if you develop your will power to say NO to yourself, you will make better progress...

You will always see girls any direction your head turns, so telling yourself when the thought of how naked she would look flushes through your mind, tackle your own thoughts and tell yourself must you always think of sex or is a girl just useful only for sex?...

Only you can stop this act which you don't like... Delete your porn and nudies coz it will mostly weaken your resolve... Your mind is where you have to fight and win the war... If your mind gets stronger and tells your body NO, the urge will slowly begin to suppress naturally...

I wish you all the best my brother....

Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by qwertyboss(m): 4:36am On Oct 11, 2018
The truth is that, you must avoid everything that will trigger the mind about sex. I mean all of them, even looking at girls recklessly... their protruding body structures! Oh! My God!
Goddamn it!
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by venchi: 4:39am On Oct 11, 2018
What you need is to accept Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nobody: 4:42am On Oct 11, 2018
This Masturbation Of A Thing Is Not Easy To Stop
I Started Doing Mine When All Those Nonsense And Life Destruction Girls Wan Finish Person With Another Guys Pregnancy
But Twice In A Week
Or 4 Times In A Month
Op Don't Stay Alone at home or go out to have fun
Always keep yourself busy to reduce it

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 4:45am On Oct 11, 2018
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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bianda24: 4:46am On Oct 11, 2018
[quote author=Mokenano post=71947450]I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.[/quote

First and foremost, the good news is that, 7 of every 10 men have at one time or the other masturbated. It is not something out of this world. The problem is that, from your piece, you have become an addict. This is of great concern to me. I have heard stories of guys telling me of masturbation and I had also helped them in one way or the other especially the advisory aspect of it.
1. You need to get yourself busy.
2. Get a girlfriend and discuss it with her
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bianda24: 4:47am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

The GB oo

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Entom(m): 4:48am On Oct 11, 2018
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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bianda24: 4:50am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

First and foremost, the good news is that, 7 of every 10 men have at one time or the other masturbated. It is not something out of this world. The problem is that, from your piece, you have become an addict. This is of great concern to me. I have heard stories of guys telling me of masturbation and I had also helped them in one way or the other especially the advisory aspect of it.
1. You need to get yourself busy.
2. Get a reasonable girlfriend and discuss it with her
3. Commit it in the hands of God.
4.Always take your mind off it

Try this, and let's see what it will fetch you
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bianda24: 4:56am On Oct 11, 2018
[quote author=Mokenano post=71947450]I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.[/quote)

First and foremost, the good news is that, 7 of every 10 men have at one time or the other masturbated. It is not something out of this world. The problem is that, from your piece, you have become an addict. This is of great concern to me. I have heard stories of guys telling me of masturbation and I had also helped them in one way or the other especially the advisory aspect of it.
1. You need to get yourself busy.
2. Get a reasonable girlfriend and discuss it with her
3. Commit it in the hands of God.
4.Always take your mind off it

Try this, and let's see what it will fetch you
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bianda24: 4:57am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.


First and foremost, the good news is that, 7 of every 10 men have at one time or the other masturbated. It is not something out of this world. The problem is that, from your piece, you have become an addict. This is of great concern to me. I have heard stories of guys telling me of masturbation and I had also helped them in one way or the other especially the advisory aspect of it.
1. You need to get yourself busy.
2. Get a reasonable girlfriend and discuss it with her
3. Commit it in the hands of God.
4.Always take your mind off it

Try this, and let's see what it will fetch you
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nobody: 4:57am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

You need help my nigga.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by terzurum(m): 4:58am On Oct 11, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Please don't ever think of quitting masturbation.
It is cheaper, safer and wiser.

You can't contract STIs through it.
You don't need to bother over heartbreaks or be scared of impregnating anyone.

I have been an ardent masturbator.
And as long as my hands are long enough to touch my preek; I don't see myself stopping anytime soon.

When u finish ur stuff ensure u consume fish head pepper soup with malt not beer. And u can as well marry a F....UCK-LICANT DAT will inflict bruises on ur RODNY

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Alal(m): 5:02am On Oct 11, 2018
Get a girlfriend and make her a wife
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nwaohafia1: 5:09am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

The only solution you have now is to give your life to Jesus Christ. Confess your sins and accept him as your personal Lord and saviour. Look for a bible believing church and start attending church with them.

If you live in any of the big cities, look for COZA, they will help you.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Offpoint: 5:13am On Oct 11, 2018
NNAMDIII:
who told you that? I know people that were cultists before and some people that do masturbate but don't do it anymore. it's just about the mind.
You get the message, you need a broader mind...
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Mutemenot(m): 5:17am On Oct 11, 2018
Op, you aren't alone .. I was once a master Degree holder in masturbation... You probably don't have a close girl friend, just get one and always use her to satisfy your urge for sex.. by doing that you divert your attention subsequently you can start controlling all the urge.. remember masturbation kills sexual power, u can't perform well with any woman at the moment but never give up.. just work hard nd caution yourself whenever the urge arises
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by TinyHacker: 5:20am On Oct 11, 2018
mhd5757:
Pls is their anybody that can supply me with 50 or 100mg of tramadol? The only one in my area is that of 225mg and the price is shooting up toomuch.
Tramadol is not good
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by MissRaine69(f): 5:28am On Oct 11, 2018
HEFAIROHLUWA:
Ofcourse! 'Literal' will clear lots of things here..you should be smart enough to know we have public and private type of morals...private morals in his own case should be categorized as personal! You also said he should not for health reasons..lmao..You are wrong! You are a female so let me stop there cheesy. Do your research and do not rely on some blogposts saying no negative effects..There are so many things science up till today cannot even explain about the human body..Well i doubt if any guy will genuinely tell you some of the negative effects grin its always a shy thing to talk about.. if his case clearly wasn't dictated by his religion (personal code of conduct) you wont have used the word in your comment.
Now thats the problem with people! comparing and arguing about masturbation/morality(You are now focusing on the personal type of morality grin..so be literal next time ok? morality has lots of uses and meanings attached to it..All negative thoughts and actions masturbating was caused by his addiction
and religious beliefs.

vaffanculo!!
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by MissRaine69(f): 5:29am On Oct 11, 2018
mhd5757:
Pls is their anybody that can supply me with 50 or 100mg of tramadol? The only one in my area is that of 225mg and the price is shooting up toomuch.
Continue like that and you will be a statistic very very soon.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by dipsondu: 5:30am On Oct 11, 2018
1 John 3:9 "Whoever is born of God does not commit sin". You'll stop being a slave to masturbation the day you realize that you're born of God, the Holy Spirit lives within you and you're no longer to subject to sin. Please find time to read the book of Romans and pray. God bless you.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by smart1712: 5:33am On Oct 11, 2018
Hmmmmm
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by horlumiday(m): 5:35am On Oct 11, 2018
Let me share you my story. I started masturbating around 2015(porn and fornication led to it). A day wont go by without me masturbatin 5 to 4 times a day, atfirst i love the feelin i derive when i am masturbating, any cream i see, the first thing that comes to my mind is "Go n masturbate" but later, i started hating my self,after i cum, this feelin of irritation takes hold of me, i couldn't stop again, i tried bt failed. I searched the internet(no answer just saw "Masturbation is good blah blah blah). So i told my self, let me try God whether hes going to answer my prayer(i never really believed in God, i wasnt an atheist just that i never took God seriously). I confessed my sins (after praying, i felt peaceful, i cant describe it). I tot i was going to stop for good bt i still masturbated that same day, i hated my self, i prayed, masturbated again and again. Devil be telling me"Stop askin for forgiveness, u cnt stop masturbating" but i didn't listen, I got a Bible(always reading and praying). I started downloading sermons (paul washer, john mac arthur, carter colon)and foreign gospel songs_9ja sermons didn't help. I wasnt told that, when you repent, dont expect a perfect repentance, you av to repent daily (thanks to the sermons), you will stil sin and stumble. I prayed for like 6months(stil masturbating bt not like before),but the more i sin, the more i desire God, I didn't stop reading my Bible or praying. I dont know how, al of a sudden, i stopped masturbating, fornicating, stealing etc, i stil sin tho bt nt masturbation and the rest.. So God finally heard my prayers...the tot of masturbating stil comes to my mind often but i dont listen to it.. As a Christian we have to flee from sin. Dnt isolate ur self, meditate on God's word daily.. i stopped dating self and stopped watchin movies full of sexual activities, its 3 years nw that i masturbated last..i dont plan to go bk to it.. If you are a Christian (carnal), ask God for forgiveness, if nt get to knw him(ur choice).. One thing i am sure of is God (100 %), Jesus saved me from sin..

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