bigtt76:
Not all gays and lesbians are homosexuals rather they just have affinity to be pleasured by people of the same sex as they. They can cuddle, help each other achieve orgasm through kissing, hand jobs, fingering and licking but for the men, not necessarily choooking preek for dem nyansh as you said. It is beliefs such as this that is making people feel hatred for gays and lesbians

kingthreat:


Do you believe in God?

Obi1kenobi:


Not really. I'm no atheist, but I'm not a "believer" either.

sCun:
The guy is actually UK based, his student Visa is about to expire and he's looking for asylum in the UK, hence the decision to claim being gay.
He is not gay

resurgent4oodua:


Abi oooo. As far as gay people don't disturb me or my family.

I am heterosexual anyday, anytime.

gadada97:
the society made him gay....

no wife for abroad.. if you dont go back to africa to get a wife. you will find it hard.. the wife from nigeria are all 419...


it hard to date abroad... only recommend dating or arranged marriage..


parent in nigeria should help their children look for partner. there is no wife or husband abroad. 90% of marriage abroad by nigerian are arranged marriage


even white they do arranged marriage because it is too cold to date

sCun:
The guy is actually UK based, his student Visa is about to expire and he's looking for asylum in the UK, hence the decision to claim being gay.
He is not gay

WetinConsignMe:
As if he sat down one day and decided to be gay - his family begged him to reconsider, to change his decision!

1Sharon:


You do realise many Nigerians are born in the UK?

sCun:

This guy wasn't. He went there from Nigeria for his masters.

EgunMogaji:


So am I. These guys are doing us a big favor. First they reduce the amount of Men that are available for Women and they also increase the amount of available women for men. It's a win win for us.

But I just stand for any group of citizens that are being rode by the system. Meanwhile their is zero infrastructure, education, hospital, electricity, running water but the cunning government has made LGBT the biggest issue of the day.

sCun:
The guy is actually UK based, his student Visa is about to expire and he's looking for asylum in the UK, hence the decision to claim being gay.
He is not gay

Yudee8:


oshe, sex teacher. you came fully prepared for this sex education class.

kingthreat:



Sexuality is a choice you retardéd cumdrinker. No one is born gay. I wish your father was born gay, i wont have to reply your trash.

thecommunist:
is it necessary to come out openly as GAY? Heterosexual people dont come out to declare their sexual orientation so why must homosexual ppl? why cant you gay your nonsense gay in private, must you drag your family into this...this is one selfish child.no thoughts whatsoever of what the poor mother is going through. i mean...this is Nigeria and we are not yet at the stage of accepting homosexuality, think of your family now. if your parents were based in a society that would accept it and wont ostracize them , fine, but they are in Nigeria for petes sake, think of them now!. i think sex is overrated, homosexual or heterosexual.
we should learn to keep our sexuality private.

odogwucj:


If sexuality was a choice, can you tomorrow automatically start liking and being sexually attracted to guys? Would you tomorrow wake up and get sexually excited at the sight of another attractive guy?

Do you remember making a conscious decision many years ago to be attracted exclusively only to girls and not guys?

TheOdd1sOut:
what sort of fuckery is this?
Why gay come day plenty more and more?
I need to watch my ass while I walk nowadays.
I hate gays like shit!
How can i leave a woman poosi (one of the sweetest things in the world) and chook preeq into another man's ass?
Tufiakwa!!!

sCun:
The guy is actually UK based, his student Visa is about to expire and he's looking for asylum in the UK, hence the decision to claim being gay.
He is not gay

Adakintroy:
I still mentain that the twentyfirst century gay surge is not natural. It's more of oriented.

No way they can be this much gay being birthed in one lifetime.

scholes0:
Most Nigerians (Including the “Educated” ones) still don’t realize that sexuality isn’t a choice... no one would chose to be queer, odd and ostrasized if given the choice.
Do they think this young man decided to make hinself gay or do something thag would deliberately cause his family a great deal of sorrow?

I feel so bad for his mum, but with all sincerity, it is what it is. Given the culture and responsibility expected of Male children in Nigeria, I really do hope they have another son.

WetinConsignMe:
As if he sat down one day and decided to be gay - his family begged him to reconsider, to change his decision!

SEXUALITY

Romantic Orientation- Who you are romantically attracted to meaning wanting to be in a romantic relationship with and is unrelated to sexual attraction.

Sexual Orientation- Who you are sexually attracted to meaning who you get turned on by or who you would want to engage in sexual behaviors with.


*note all listed below are applicable also to romantic orientations. These take the prefix of the word and the ending -romantic, i.e. heteroromantic, panromantic, aromantic.


Heterosexual- The attraction to a gender different from their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the other binary gender).

Homosexual- The attraction to a gender the same as their own (commonly used to describe someone who is gender binary [female or male] attracted to the same binary gender).  Sometimess referred to as gay.

Sapiosexual - A sapiosexual is someone who is turned on and attracted to intelligence, or someone’s mind before their appearance.

Lesbian- Women who are attracted only to other women

Bisexual- When you are attracted to two or more genders.  This term is generally used to describe being attracted to men and women, but can apply to being attracted to any two or more genders. Note that you do not have to be equally attracted to each gender.

Pansexual- When you are attracted to all genders and/or do not concern gender when you are attracted towards someone

Bicurious- People who are open to experiment with genders that are not only their own, but do not know if they are open to forming any sort of relationship with multiple genders.

Polysexual- When you are attracted to many genders

Monosexual- Being attracted to only one gender

Allosexual- When you are not asexual (attracted to at least one gender)

Androsexual- Being attracted to masculine gender presentation

Gynosexual- Being attracted to feminine gender presentation

Questioning- People who are debating their own sexuality/gender

Asexual- Not experiencing sexual attraction (note that you can also be aromantic and you do not necessarily have to be asexual and aromantic at the same time).  Sometimes the term, ace, is used to describe asexuals.

Demisexual- When you only experience sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond first or a romantic bond

Grey Asexual- When you only experience attraction rarely, on a very low scale, or only under certain circumstances

Perioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientation targets the same gender (for example being heteromantic and heterosexual or being biromantic and bisexual)

Varioriented- When your sexual and romantic orientations do not target the same set of genders (for example being heteromantic and bisexual or being homoromantic and pansexual)

Heteronormative- The belief that hetersexuality is the norm and that sex, gender, sexuality, and gender roles all align

Erasure- Ignoring the existance of genders and sexualities in the middle of the spectrum

Cisgender - a person whose sense of personal identity and gender corresponds with their birth sex.

Cishet- Someone who is both cisgendered and heterosexual.  This is sometimes used as a slur.

Polyamorous- An umbrella term referring to people who have or are open to have consensually have relationships with multiple people at the same time

Monoamorous- People who have or or open to have relationships with only one other person at a time.  The term, monogamous, is also sometimes used

Queer- A reclaimed slur for anybody in the LGBT+ community or who do not identify as cisgender and/or hetersexual/heteromantic

Ally- A supporter of the LGBT+ community that does not identify as LGBT+

GENDER & SEX

Sex- Your assigned gender at birth and/or the gender of your reproductive organs

Gender- Where you feel that you personally fall on the spectrum between male and female. Commonly people identify as male or female, but some fall in the middle or move throughout the spectrum.

Cisgender- When you identify with the gender you were assigned at birth

Transgender- When you identify with a gender different than that you were assigned at birth

Transsexual- When you have had Gender Reassignment Surgery (GRS) to change the sexual organs you were born with to that of a different gender.

Male to Female (MtF)- When somebody that is assigned as a male at birth identifies as a female

Female to Male (FtM)- When somebody that is assigned as a female at birth identifies as a  male

Genderfluid- Moving between genders or having a fluctuating gender identity

Agender- Not identifying with any gender. Sometimes referred to as being genderless orgendervoid

Bigender-  Identifying as two genders, commonly (but not exclusively) male and female.  Sometimes you feel like both genders at the same time and sometimes you fluctuate.

Polygender- When you identify with multiple genders at once.  Sometimes referred to asmultigender.

Neutrois- When you identify as agender, neither male nor female, and/or genderless

Gender Apathetic- When you really do not identify nor care about any particular gender. You are fine passing off as whatever and you really do not have an opinion towards your own gender.

Androgyne- This term overlaps a lot between gender identification and presentation.  It can be used to describe others and as an identification. This term is used to describe people who are neither male nor female or are both male and female.  Basically anyone who does not fit into a binary gender category.

Intergender- Somebody who's gender is somewhere between male and female

Demigender- When you feel as if you are one part a defined gender and one or more parts an undefined gender.  Terms can include demigirl, demiboy, demiagender, ect.

Greygender- Somebody with a weak gender identification of themselves

Aporagender- Somebody with a strong gender identification of themselves that is non-binary

Maverique- A non-binary gender that exists outside of the orthodox social bounds of gender

Novigender- A gender that is super complex and impossible to describe in a single term

Designated gender- A gender assigned at birth based on an individuals sex and/or what gender society percieves a person to be

Transitioning- The process of using medical means to change your sex

Intersex- A biological difference in sex that is when people are born with genitals, gonads, and/or chromosomes that do not match up exactly with male or female.  Intersex individuals can have any romantic/sexual orientation and can have any gender identification.  Intersex individuals are about as common as redheads.

Dyadic- Someone who is not intersex and when their gentinals, gonads, and chromosomes can all match into either a male or female category

Trans Woman- Someone who is assigned as a male at birth, but identifies as a woman

Trans Man- Someone who is assigned as a female at birth, but identifies as a man

Trans Feminine- Someone who identifies as feminine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman.  They must also be assigned male at birth.

Trans Masculine- Someone who identifies as masculine, but identifies as neither a man nor a woman.  They must also be assigned female at birth.

Social Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced when acting in ways socially different than your gender or being addressed in ways different to your gender

Body Dysphoria- Discomfort experienced because of the difference between gender and your sex, role, or gender expression

Butch- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more masculine than feminine.  This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.

Femme (Fem)- A term used to describe someone who's gender expression is more feminine than masculine.  This is commonly used in describing women or lesbians.

Binarism- Putting gender strictly into two categories (male and female) and refusing to acknowledge genders outside of male and female.

princfred:
Good observation. When families (especially aka so called civilized liberal parent/s) now raise their kids to believe its cool and ok to be gay in the name of we-are-civilised-so-it-doesn't-matter. what do you expect? - the kids will be open to, experiment with and prone to becoming one. Hence, the high rate nowadays. This is why i can never date talk less of marry any lady who is not against gayism. Mostly, the so called educated ones are usually culprits of such orientation. Highly schooled Nigerian ladies usually tend towards that am-civilised-so-it-doesn't-matter orientation too as they easily emulate liberal western views more that the conservative ones.

Tedpgrass:


Interesting academic expose


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Adakintroy:



You are truly enlighten. For me we are stretching this whole freedom thing too far. Even the natural truth is being tempered with in our quest to reach it's finality.

Things are understood first for their end purpose which for me is grander. If I came into existence by male, female union. ( so is every gay man out there) it will be a sin to challenge such or support gay union. I respect all humans, but in respect live circle even more. Nature has laid down a simple blue print and that is what i follow.

As for our civilization, I won't even call it one just yet..more or less a master slave relationship..neo colonization.Master is always right.

Probz:


A cause that’s deeply rooted in heriditary. It’s nothing more than a form of degeneracy.