someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.


There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.

some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.

VERY FUNNY!!!

ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC


IMPLORE U ALL TO


FORGET IT!!!

STOP WASTING TIME

I DISAGREE..

QueenSuccubus:



I DISAGREE..

who 're u? and why are u following me


holy ghost fire will burn u o!

Who hurt you?

MissRaine69:
Who hurt you?

does the thread depicts so?

chenzen:
does the thread depicts so?

It’s full of hurt

MissRaine69:
It’s full of hurt

so who hurt me?

Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.


I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.

Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.

Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.

^^
Amakavula you saying the air we breath out - Carbon IV Oxide is worthless? An essential component in photosynthesis? You disappoint me

Preach on op; don't mind some guys worshipping gals in the name of love.

Demogorgon:
^^
Amakavula you saying the air we breath out - Carbon IV Oxide is worthless? An essential component in photosynthesis? You disappoint me

I am quite aware of its indirect use, my reference only took relevance of its unimportance to our immediate respiratory system. But get the message.

Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.


I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.

Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.

Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.

so can we now throw the word LOVE into the ABYSS? cos there s no such thing as love found in ur definition of love

chenzen:
so can we now throw the word LOVE into the ABYSS? cos there s no such thing as love found in ur definition of love

As in Idealistic love ? without conditions? Yes it doesn't.

That is mostly fairytale even a mother require the Kid to be here before she can love without limit, Ergo condition.

chenzen:
so can we now throw the word LOVE into the ABYSS? cos there s no such thing as love found in ur definition of love

As in Idealistic love ? without conditions? Yes it doesn't.

That is mostly fairytale even a mother require the Child to be hers first, before she can love without limits, Ergo condition.

Amakavula:


I am quite aware of its indirect use, my reference only took relevance of its unimportance to our immediate respiratory system. But get the message.

It is important to our respiratory system. Stop saying otherwise. We can't breath in without breathing out. The exchange is vital. Anyways, i get your message. Peace.

Amakavula:
As in Idealistic love ? without conditions? Yes it doesn't.

That is mostly fairytale even a mother require the Kid to be here before she can love without limit, Ergo condition.

u get brain sha... but me l no understand this your idealistic love O!

Amakavula:
As in Idealistic love ? without conditions? Yes it doesn't.

That is mostly fairytale even a mother require the Kid to be here before she can love without limit, Ergo condition.

beauty and brain... l think l m falling in love with u.... lol

chenzen:
u get brain sha... but me l no understand this your idealistic love O!

Idealistic love is when someone love without limits or condition. Say a very educated , rich guy go looking for a village girl with nothing. He married her and sends her to school to improve her level.

But for Us Women we love opportunistically; we find someone with value ( Sex , money , influence , fame or Handsome ) and with aspirations ( CEO , Entrepreneur , Musician or politician ) so we can be attached to that value. A woman want someone other women want not just any person. So if you have no value and go telling a woman about love, you are making her hate you.

chenzen:
beauty and brain... l think l m falling in love with u.... lol

Thank you.

Every mature man knows that human love is not unconditional.
Thresholds vary....but it is never unconditional.
You get that only from God.

Amakavula:
Idealistic love is when someone love without limits or condition. Say a very educated , rich guy go looking for a village girl with nothing. He married her and sends her to school to improve her level.

But for Us Women we love opportunistically; we find someone with value ( Sex , money , influence , fame or Handsome ) and with aspirations ( CEO , Entrepreneur , Musician or politician ) so we can be attached to that value. A woman want someone other women want not just any person. So if you have no value and go telling a woman about love, you are making her hate you.

I appreciate your honesty.

Like I have said before, a woman allows herself to be talking to a man because he meets her standards.
That is why I tell men to never be timid about judging a woman by his own standards as well.
It makes no sense when her requirements are being met but yours are left pending.

It means he is basically saying she is more worthy of respect than him.
No be only the guy waka come.

Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.


I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.

Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.

Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.

best comment I've seen here so far

All of una just dey Shout love love love love for my head since Who care about love these days

Indeed. Even in the old days women are drawn towards good farmers wrestlers, someone who can protect them. Don't go and be a Man, dey look for cheap love

Amakavula:
Idealistic love is when someone love without limits or condition. Say a very educated , rich guy go looking for a village girl with nothing. He married her and sends her to school to improve her level.

But for Us Women we love opportunistically; we find someone with value ( Sex , money , influence , fame or Handsome ) and with aspirations ( CEO , Entrepreneur , Musician or politician ) so we can be attached to that value. A woman want someone other women want not just any person. So if you have no value and go telling a woman about love, you are making her hate you.

what an opinion... l wish that was a fact!

Iamtosignno:
All of una just dey Shout love love love love for my head since
Who care about love these days

lol...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Indeed. Even in the old days women are drawn towards good farmers wrestlers, someone who can protect them. Don't go and be a Man, dey look for cheap love

people watch too much of telemundo and think of love like fools

Amakavula:
As in Idealistic love ? without conditions? Yes it doesn't.

That is mostly fairytale even a mother require the Child to be hers first, before she can love without limits, Ergo condition.

I dont understand, if you say men's love is idealistic with conditions attached, then it's more or less realistic, and some men i know prefer reality than the idea of it, and your opinion of women being opportunistic when in love is not a known fact.

Biglittlelois:



I dont understand, if you say men's love is idealistic with conditions attached, then it's more or less realistic, and some men i know prefer reality than the idea of it, and your opinion of women being opportunistic when in love is not a known fact.

I mean their idea of love not the reality. In reality Men although less choosy still have parameters for picking a lady. We are opportunistic in love, denying it would be denying nature. Women are the selectors hence screen out weak and resourceless men through our priority for value.

Amakavula:


I mean their idea of love not the reality. In reality Men although less choosy still have parameters for picking a lady. We are opportunistic in love, denying it would be denying nature. Women are the selectors hence screen out weak and resourceless men through our priority for value.

Not all of us are opportunistic in love, some women fall in love cos it is what it is-love, yes people make value a priority but it is not a benchmark for love.