naijacentric:
dey are rare

guy a 19 yr old boy stabbed his 18 yr old girlfriend to death out of a jealous rage cos she was two timing on him.it happened close to where i am staying here in benin. A week later a 40 something yr old man also murdered his 35 yr old divorcee girlfriend cos he saw condoms in her handbag. No be by age a man dey take turn violent. If a man is violent then he is violent irregardless of his age.

yuncka:
I think the main pressure comes when people dictate to others when to marry. Everybody's goals and aspirations cannot be the same.

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Read and understand

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Oga most of us did not wish or decide to marry latter than 35,
Na lack of resources cause am

not in all cases. All those men wey dey blow 50k a night for strip clubs na lack of resources no make dem marry? Or wat of all those single abuja big boys that go on expensive rides and pop expensive campaigns in nightclubs. Na lack of resources no make dem marry?. Certain reasons dey wey some guys no jus dey rush into marriage.it might be career,education or they just want to flex. No be really money. If u working and earning a decent wage and settled at one area u can easily marry.

This thread is absolute shiiiit.
I would highly reccomend that a man only marries in his 30s and thats a minimum.
Women should have that sorted out when they are in their 20s.

lefulefu:
guy a 19 yr old boy stabbed his 18 yr old girlfriend to death out of a jealous rage cos she was two timing on him.it happened close to where i am staying here in benin. A week later a 40 something yr old man also murdered his 35 yr old divorcee girlfriend cos he saw condoms in her handbag. No be by age a man dey take turn violent. If a man is violent then he is violent irregardless of his age.

dats still not much guy but the violence is common with older men with younger gurls u know dis

80% correct.

excessmon:
No Ill feelings just that I feel that when you marry above 35 as a man u marry someone u can't really fall in love with because of the age difference .......u just endure the marriage because of children and tend to spend more time outside doing unnecessary things

And out of that #10,000 he will be spending #2,000 per month ladies to sleep with.
When you marry a GOOD WIFE, marriage comes with strength.
You are in a better position than a bachelor when you marry and hustle together with your partner.

Kirinwa:


You made sense in your earlier post but may have missed the point here. The world is larger than you think, some people are earning just #10 000 in a month and that's by hustling cos of lack of jobs. Will you advice such an one to marry?

Most times we believe lack of funds is the reason for late marriages you will now be surprised how young
men with bucks shy away with flimsy excuses........




My piece though......

Nackzy:
Op i completely disagree with you, Age of marriage means nothing, the most important thing is how successful will the marriage be
U can Marry at 25 n divorce at 28

exactly age means nothing.... Communication matters most and the maturity of how to communicate...

Age has nothing to do with marriage

Maturity is what counts

No body can force anyone into marriage

If you are mentally and moraly fit to marry at any stage of your life go and marry

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Oga most of us did not wish or decide to marry latter than 35,
Na lack of resources cause am

that's why he said desperation and frustration

They force people for marriage ooooooo....when your clock no tick again even as a man.....e don be for you be DAT oooooo.....

Men wanting to get married before their 30's....must be a Nigerian thing

Violence trends more between people of different ideologies......age difference shows ideology differences..........take for example whenbu were young your playmates were basically people within your age range....why will marriage now give u a different shot?




My piece though