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samysmoothfresh:
did you try sending me a mgs on whatsapp?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Buhahhahhahha. For what na? Was just curious.

inositol88:
I have been a platonic friend to this beautiful girl. Our friendship started from our 100 level in the University until we graduated. During our service, year, she informed me she was going to visit me, I was happy. She travelled across 5 states to see me.
Initially I had always had feelings for her, I told her on one occasion while we were undergraduates, she dismissed me and said she only saw me as a platonic friend, no feelings attached. When she came visiting I still told her I wanted her to be my girl cos I loved her, she gave me same answers and told me not to bring up the issue again, else she wud end her friendship with me. She travelled back the next day


Fast forward.....

Recently she called me and said she was relocating to Abuja, (wia I am but staying in a different location from me)
She stated visiting me very often, she came and started acting towards me as if we are dating, then one day she asked me my plans towards her, I told her nothing, I told her I see her as a platonic friend, nothing more, am already into a relational with someone else.

She got mad at me and has been accusing me of breaking her heart, that she had loved me all this while, she refused dating any other parson cos she wanted to build a life with me, and all sorts of blames....

I love her though, but I can't double date,
Recently she has been really making life hard for me with daily accusations in form of texts and watsapp messages,

Pls what should I do? How best do you guys advice I handle this?
No insults pls. I only seek your sincere advice,

habsydiamond:
That's the problem with Nigerian babes.... Dem like to dey use guys as options... OptionA/B....the time she was insisting that u should be friend only she had another guy as option A and u as B.... Now that the guy is out of the picture she wants u the planB.... Not knowing u've stepped up..stick to ur babe and continue Ur platonic friendship with her... She no deserve ur love.

inositol88:
I guess dats what she was doing, but I have moved on, let her also move on and stop making me feel like Judas Iscariot

daben1:
when you told her you love her, she decided to keep everything on a platonic level and even threatened you, bro, never ever settle for less, NEVER!

Pureety:
Its quite plain that you were not in her level then and now that your staus has changed, she wants to come back!!
You berra don't break your girl's heart coz of your unstable friend, if she disturb you too much then use the block button!!

Seandisputed:
See free pussy o
Just keep her as side chick and when you're tired you throw her ass out

One thing in life is.... It's either you are a scam or you are scammed.

inositol88:
Of course I won't settle for less, infact am grateful to God that she declined at first , cos she allowed me meet a better person.

She wud soon receive the worst shock when she receives my wedding invitation