Hmm...

You are a very good person.

It would be great if more people like you existed. Most Nigerian men, think that women are sex tools. They believe that as far as they have not married a lady, then they should not spend on her or help her out. To most men, sex is the goal, help is very far. Why should i help that girl self, am i her father? You gave your gf 500k to do a business in this Nigeria? Really? Then I commend you for this.

If you both agreed she would use the money to run a business and she squandered it, then what she did was not nice and a breach of trust. You too should also remember that not everyone is cut out for business. A lot of people shout business, but not everyone can successfully run a business.

My advice, forgive her now and test her one more time, if she repeats this or breaches an agreement you both had, then let her go. Why? This may continue in the future and Nigeria is hard, people are hungry. Whatever we have, we should learn to use it wisely. Also, trust is key.

Shee be na becos she see half a million naaa.... If na 5k sending guys like me naa,, d gal family problems no go end ohhh.... Any amount given to a hoe will never be appreciated ####

vickydevoka:

Uwc. We talk from experience.
Jst imagine u marrying a fyn gal from a poor family of 8 where she happens to be de first born n u re also de first born of ur family of 7. My if u marry dat kind of person might end up hating her no matter how beautiful she is.

U ar so much on point...

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

I know ur type,u will end up marrying a millionaire but after some years he beg for food.

highqueen:
Mtchew.
You are very stingy.
To even think that you spent months before sending the damn money after she helped you with your business and everything.
She has been supportive yet you still wanna wave that off by quitting.
Na your type deh tell their wives not to help their family members.
Mtchew

support by mismanaging funds... your comment reeks of unabated idiocy

I tink she's wrng...she shud've discuss d mata wit her bf b4 decidin... Well my broda d deeds has bin done... My advice 2 u is dat try nd find out her reasons for her action.... If u trully luv her, pls 4give her nd reconcile wit her.... Afterall she didn't useless d moni.... But next tyme wen u want 2 entrust anytin 2 her care b careful....

Family issues comes anytime and two people in love will join hands to help out. But if one half is thinking of betterment of the other and then another is playing smart, then there is a problem. This man might have issue of funding every of her family without pity. She should have told you before blowing away the money. It is an acid test you will have to leave with for life. Think seriously if you can make such sacrifice always at the expense of your children. Walking away is a choice.

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

MODIFIED!!!
See dem broke ass niggas quoting me!!!
103 quotes in one post and still counting!!!
Its only the broke ones that wail coz of money!!
Real guys spend lavishly on their girl without crying online!!!

Shut up there !!! Iffa iffa hear !

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

56 mentions in a day!!!
You people should stop quoting me oo, I only said my mind!!

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With the kind of comments from the ladies on this platform about this matter it seems they don't hustle to know how difficult it is to make money all they know is to spend money, please end the relationship ASAP

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

i don't like the point you drove home but i like how you coordinated it and how it flowed. u got the like!

[quote author=Kastonkastroll post=72807982] This is a dumb comment. So because she is his gf, he should waste all his money on her and turn himself to her slave abi? Nonsense. Doesn't she have two hands, two legs, a brain, one nose, two ears, two eyes and a tongue? Why can't she hustle for her own money? It is only hungry Nigerian girls like you that see relationship as a poverty alleviation program. You don't want to work and even if you work, you still want your bf to take care of all your endless materialistic needs.

Haba hanty , u no get shame ni[/quote]poverty alleviation programme ...got me

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

MODIFIED!!!
See dem broke ass niggas quoting me!!!
103 quotes in one post and still counting!!!
Its only the broke ones that wail coz of money!!
Real guys spend lavishly on their girl without crying online!!!

hahahahahahahaha

true sha!!!

............. but you no well!!


hahahahahahahaha

Kastonkastroll:
so family comes first abi? But if the guy had earlier said he won't give her the money because he wants to resolve some of his own family issues, I'm very sure the girl will object to it. She would have accused him of putting his family first before her. U see una selfishness abi

Brilliant!!!!

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Liliyann:
Your mates are spending more than that on their girl and you are here crying coz of 500k!!!

If you are truly in love with that girl, everything about her should come first!!
I can't date someone that doesn't have the welfare of my family at heart!!
So, you allowed her to use the money to settle family issues when you could have done it as her boyfriend!!

You are such a pathetic broke ass guy!
Free that girl so that she can be with someone that loves and value her!!

MODIFIED!!!
See dem broke ass niggas quoting me!!!
103 quotes in one post and still counting!!!
Its only the broke ones that wail coz of money!!
Real guys spend lavishly on their girl without crying online!!!

clap for yourself you sound stupid so since she is his girlfriend her family promblem is now is problem abi and what kind of family issue will she settled with 500k with telling the guy.you never work for money before fir your life

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Use L gal.. see ur mouth like all their savings. lord take away gold diggers far away from me, Amen.

i love the gender debate

Pureety:
Op you said she used the money in settling family issues? Its not like she used it to go shopping for herself or on frivolous things!!

To her, family comes first, probably she didn't want to be selfish and use the money on herself while her family are in pressing need of money!!

If this is your reason for breaking up then you were never in love with that lady!!

56 mentions in a day!!!
You people should stop quoting me oo, I only said my mind!!

You lack wisdom.

Biko quit. That is gross misappropriation of funds. That is how she will divert children's school fees or rent to buy gold or other stuff in future. No time for headache in future.

BigBros147:
you bear the symptom of a broke, frustrated and wretched girl.

With this mind set of yours, one can easily deduce that your parents and everyone who trained you failed in the attempt.

Girls like you are the ones who taint the image of hard working women in the society. Believing is your right for your boyfriend to spend on you is the very reason why you've planned on becoming a vile individual who, in no distant time, will bear the symptoms of not just verbal, but physical abuse.

Poverty has really turned you into something the dictionary doesn't have the word to describe.

You're a shame to yourself and your house hold.

This is savagery , punchlines so venomous

Elder0001:



You lack wisdom.

You also lack the ability to read and comprehend!!!
You are just quoting just for quoting sake, I bet you didn't even read my comment.
Ewu gambia!

MhizzAJ....is ok

Geoffreymgk:

Hello Sir

can I help you ?

Useless Ashana idiot .
Gollum
Delilah
Irresponsible b*tch

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

MhizzAJ:
Who is thos cocoNUT head above me.

How is she a useless girl.

Its not by force to be in a relationship

If you cannot cope with her , leave her alone.

Some men are very capable....they wont complain..
They wouldnt mind spending all their savings for her afterall shes your girlfriend.
Stingy man

Just look at nonsense t@lk..


The same useless feminists will say a guy has no right over a girl he is dating simply because the man is not yet married to her.... Some even say she is free to have friends with the opposite sex as many as possible

vingeophysicist:
Babe today made me realize most ladies on nairaland are teenagers and are probably undergraduate. They really don't understand how hard Nigerian is. Someone out of his lack sacrificed 500k to better the life of his girlfriend, not wife oo and the lady squandered the money on something else. Yet immature ladies on nairaland are supporting the act. it shows these people have never worked in their life .i am very certain all of them are still under their parent roof.

yeah... I have observed a lot of children here are under their parents.. Secondary school and undergraduate...


I read a lot of nonsense

vingeophysicist:
you can't blame the guy oo. Things of the heart are usually devoid of real thinking. I am only surprised at the response from ladies on nairaland. From their comments, it shows they have never worked in their life or maybe they are prostitutes. This is why I will never sacrifice part of my wealth for Nigerian ladies because they have that mentality that it is their right. if you don't do it for them others will.
if the guy in question gives this money to a guy he will be surprise how the money will yield dividend within a short time.

some of them are prostitute... Only prostitute reason the way some girls watered down the value of that money...

Timtim007:
Biko nu..I need only 50k..for business.. Any brother in the house should hep me ooo...na borrow oo..

I hope the guy in question has received enough sense by now
A whole 500k ...chai..
My life will change with 500k ...anyways... Its is well

Y is it dat African ladies see guys as there money bank or source of income. An American lady will say ' anybody rather than any brother. May be u re trying to link up. Nice strategy. Buh am sorry I stop giving gals money since one absconded with the money I entrusted on her

IamD18:
Another lover-boy scammed.

On no account should you invest on any woman aside your female siblings[Mum, sisters, wife and daughters].

Girfriend are hoes and epitome of problems, they don't worth the stress and investment.

The only thing you should invest on a girlfriend is nothing but your sperm, because that's the only thing that will yield something good. Anything other than that will be a big WASTE.

I'll to advice you flee from that lady if you want to be successful and live long.

Some people are quick to judge. If people like you were a judge, many innocent people would have been sent to the gallows.
What family issues did she spend the money on? What if somebody is sick and need money? If you're the sick family member, what would you have your sister do? Pay for shop over hospital bills I suppose.

Men complain over trivial issues. She didn't expend money on L'Oréal or Mary Kay so what is his problem? If you are dating anyone, especially someone you care about, be ready to live with their flaws or you help them get over it. What if they were married already, he'd send her away because of mismanagement? Family is everything if you don't know, I don't joke with mine. We live for ourselves.

Pureety:


You also lack the ability to read and comprehend!!!
You are just quoting just for quoting sake, I bet you didn't even read my comment.
Ewu gambia!

Thunder fire you there

DQ94:
There was a report about a pastor who released a sextape involving him and a lover... It was on Front Page, even.

Well... Here goes: https://www.xvideos.com/video40711727/nigerian_pastor_funking_his_mistress

Why not open your own thread instead of derailing

placeofallure:


Some people are quick to judge. If people like you were a judge, many innocent people would have been sent to the gallows.
What family issues did she spend the money on? What if somebody is sick and need money? If you're the sick family member, what would you have your sister do? Pay for shop over hospital bills I suppose.

Men complain over trivial issues. She didn't expend money on L'Oréal or Mary Kay so what is his problem? If you are dating anyone, especially someone you care about, be ready to live with their flaws or you help them get over it. What if they were married already, he'd send her away because of mismanagement? Family is everything if you don't know, I don't joke with mine. We live for ourselves.

You must be stupid for saying this, don't even quote me because I don't reply stupid people.