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Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Mikkylounge:
I really do not see a big deal giving her money to fix her hair. I have a problem though, with girls you chat with and the next thing you hear is either 'my data has expired', or 'buy me airtime' or 'send money' or '..i want to ask a favor dear..'! and the amazing thing is, you haven't even met them in person! One actually asked that I buy her lunch, and when I gave her an emphatic 'NO', she said many unprintable things.
Ladies, a gentleman knows when to give a lady and you really do not need to make it mandatory.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by daben1(m): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Saff:
If she is a prostitute then let it be soo. WE ARE ALL PROSTITUTES! Do you marry a bride for free? Do you court your girl for free? You think your grandpa impressed your grandma by doing nothing? Is it not from plucking fruits from the trees and working hard to impress her that got him what he wanted. Stop trying to shame women for having standards, oponuuu!
you've said it all; "we are all prostitutes", the rest of the statements are gibberish
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Saff(f): 12:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Yup. A proud one smiley

Have a good day smiley
daben1:
you've said it all; "we are all prostitutes", the rest of the statements are gibberish
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by daben1(m): 12:40pm On Nov 14, 2018
Saff:
Yup. A proud one smiley
Have a good day smiley
thanks, your MARKET VALUE will not diminish!
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Oyiboman69: 12:56pm On Nov 14, 2018
highqueen:
Nawa.
This is serious, must you disgrace yourself before you prove a point?



Mtchew, to be appraised by our nl misogynist? so,dating is now a poverty alleviation scheme for nija girls?
undecided undecided
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Oluhills007: 1:14pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, this is why you must employ pay before service on every man who has expressed romantic interest. Let him prove his commitment by investing in the relationship and not with empty promises, poortential or simple errands . At least even if he is of the chop and clean mouth ministries, you wont be on the losing side.

Secondly broke men get no cookie ever. it is better he thinks you are a virgin or you are high maintenance than to fvck you for free.
the last part got me...cos I'm broke...no wonder I'm not getting cookies angry

Let me go and hustle then get lotta cookies grin
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 1:17pm On Nov 14, 2018
Haha funny chatcheesy. Op u were asking her d guys pics she uploaded on her watsap dp weda dem no give her money to do her haircheesy. I take it to u op dat she don probably collect money frm dem and she jus wan use ur own top d moneycheesy. Imagine a babe dat has 80 male admirers on facebook and 200 male admirers on instagram. Now she collect 20k each from 60 of the male admirers from among the 80 male admirers on facebook after tellin dem d same same problem and she come collect 30k each from 150 guys among the 200 male admirers on instagram after spinning another story to her instagram male admirerscheesy. Calculate d amount...now dats somethingcheesy. So even though u refused givin her d money be rest assured she has already collected dat money from at least a hundred men on her whatsap contactcheesy. But after everything i have said since u said she's ur girlfriend and its just money for hair she request then bros u for jus give am. The money aint much. By the way this one u were accusing her of posting pics of other guys on her watsap dp...are u sure she's ur gilfriend or u jus a sideguycheesy.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by SonsOfLiverpool(m): 1:26pm On Nov 14, 2018
resurgent4oodua:
Guy, you guys have given these girls too much power. See how they are insulting men because of guys like you. I am a man like you and I don't place women on a pedestal. I have not had sex for almost a month and I don't look at women twice. I see women just like I see men. I am at peace with myself and I do what I like.


Can't we men see how we have undermined ourselves before a lesser gender? I am not happy with the teenagers on this section. Leave girls alone and do something productive with your lives. Most of the women who are insulting men here will still suffer for their worldview if men can hold their own. You can live a meaningful life without a woman!
Nice one.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 1:27pm On Nov 14, 2018
Mikkylounge:
I really do not see a big deal giving her money to fix her hair. I have a problem though, with girls you chat with and the next thing you hear is either 'my date has expired', or 'buy me airtime' or 'send money' or '..i want to ask a favor dear..'! and the amazing thing is, you haven't even met them in person! One actually asked that I buy her lunch, and when I gave her an emphatic 'NO', she said many unprintable things.
Ladies, a gentlemen know when to give a lady and you really do not make it mandatory.
ur own small sef.my guy in abuja told me one uni abuja babe wey im dey track requested d guy should send her 150k for her school projectcheesy. Though i no shock wen im yarn me cos dis guy always dey show off imsef as a bigboycheesy.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Raalsalghul: 1:33pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
Are you a lady? so my opinion does not concern chicken change broke boys like u
Every post of yours to guys must include the word broke, poor etc. Is this how shallow your mentality is. This is a faceless forum. You don't know the individual behind that moniker. And to think you act intelligent, your attitude says otherwise. Shioor!
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 1:34pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
we dont need the sex. you do
hm really?cheesy.. So what of those sugarmummies i see about who hire young sugarboys to service them.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by IamPlato(m): 1:36pm On Nov 14, 2018
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Lets Be Logical. Just One Week You Already Started Fvcking. Now You Cant Give Her Money Because She Has Not Impacted anything to Your Life.


What Have You Actually Impacted In Her Life... You Are Also In No Way Use Ful... No One Impacted Anyone, so You Are As Useless As She Is
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Jflex07(m): 1:37pm On Nov 14, 2018
I wonder how guys keep dying over a hole that bleeds and oozes every month. Guys where is your self esteem? Just a few ladies who are worth it in this country, the rest are sluts, whores and ass holes. They gat nothing on them.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by drnoel: 2:12pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, this is why you must employ pay before service on every man who has expressed romantic interest. Let him prove his commitment by investing in the relationship and not with empty promises, poortential or simple errands . At least even if he is of the chop and clean mouth ministries, you wont be on the losing side.

Secondly broke men get no cookie ever. it is better he thinks you are a virgin or you are high maintenance than to fvck you for free.
But why must sex be related to financial commitment in a relationship?
If it's a sex partnership then I can understand.
But when u day relationship, sorry it must be 50:50 finance as well as 50:50 emotions. Not one person trying to steal from the other.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 14, 2018
drnoel:
But why must sex be related to financial commitment in a relationship?
If it's a sex partnership then I can understand.
But when u day relationship, sorry it must be 50:50 finance as well as 50:50 emotions. Not one person trying to steal from the other.
and 50:50 sex too, dont forget that. In that case 50:50 commitment and 50:50 loyalty.so she is free to get a sugar daddy or two to get the remaining 50%.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by donoro(m): 2:32pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, this is why you must employ pay before service on every man who has expressed romantic interest. Let him prove his commitment by investing in the relationship and not with empty promises, poortential or simple errands . At least even if he is of the chop and clean mouth ministries, you wont be on the losing side.

Secondly broke men get no cookie ever. it is better he thinks you are a virgin or you are high maintenance than to fvck you for free.
mtchew abeg who get that Lil Wayne picture angry angry
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 2:33pm On Nov 14, 2018
Oluhills007:
the last part got me...cos I'm broke...no wonder I'm not getting cookies angry

Let me go and hustle then get lotta cookies grin
i wish you all the luck in your hustle, not just for financial stabilility but true wealth. Then you can get all sorts of cookies.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 14, 2018
IamPlato:
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Lets Be Logical. Just One Week You Already Started Fvcking. Now You Cant Give Her Money Because She Has Not Impacted anything to Your Life.


What Have You Actually Impacted In Her Life... You Are Also In No Way Use Ful... No One Impacted Anyone, so You Are As Useless As She Is
thank you.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Jayslyder: 2:40pm On Nov 14, 2018
Bro in as much as I hate leeches that is no way to go about it. .I guess we all wanna be savages. .but be a gentleman when u ought to
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by donoro(m): 2:42pm On Nov 14, 2018
daben1:
thanks, your MARKET VALUE will not diminish!
grin grin

Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 14, 2018
daben1:
you've said it all; "we are all prostitutes", the rest of the statements are gibberish
and u are all patrons of prostitutes,and some of you are p1mps and gigolos on the side
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Allaboutkatiee(f): 2:54pm On Nov 14, 2018
Ire2:
Lol so I just started dating this girl about 1 week ago, we already had sex and all that, she seems like a pretty nice girl, she has her own boutique she sells stuffs, so I kinda thought this bitch was gonna be independent and not bug me for money but you know when they see you look good as a guy they always want to milk you but of course I didn't give this fool the chance, just 1 week of dating you want me to come be giving you money, not that you even asked nicely, you haven't even made an impact in my life or given me an idea how to make more money you want to start eating where you didn't sow. Nonsense. Lmao
. Guys better be greedy with your money and don't give uncessary to pussys who don't deserve shit because you are dating them. It's romantic relationship not financial one. XD
So op the lady that had sex with u
in just one week, you think she's stupid right?
That's why ladies are always advice to employ pay before service
Call it whoring, but that's not it
Now you've slept with her, she's asking you for common money for hair and your refusing.
That's why I always pray to God to cover me from this kind of people
I really don't blame you, I blame that lady that even allowed you to sleep with her.
This is why ladies will always be heartless towards you guys cuz you deserve it undecided
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Rextizzle(m): 3:16pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
who told you she enjoyed it? ejaculation is sure for a man but not for a woman, so there is almost no point for sex with women apart from procreation. She should have used her time to do something else that would give her an endorphin rush like exercise or sleep instead of sleeping with a broke nigga. Hope she learns her lesson
Foolish farm tool
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by olaniyilukman(m): 3:25pm On Nov 14, 2018
Kudos to your response boss... This is the kind if guy I do like to relate with.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by drnoel: 3:30pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
and 50:50 sex too, dont forget that. In that case 50:50 commitment and 50:50 loyalty.so she is free to get a sugar daddy or two to get the remaining 50%.
Imagine the way u are thinking. Thank God Ur thought doesn't reflect those of all women. The 50:50 means each partner brings in 50% to make a 100.

If she goes out to look for a sugar daddy in a relationship then the terms of the relationship has to be reassessed. Remember the man owes her nothing. He doesn't have to give her monetary gifts or finance her excesses. The fact he is her boyfriend doesn't make him her bank.
So if she looks for sugar daddy while in a relationship then the man is free to look for sugar mummy or if he is comfortable free to sleep around. It's that simple.

If then it's not a relationship but a partnership based on sex and materials needs then the terms of such a relationship has to be reached, a contract drawn and signed in the presence of witnesses. This particular type is actually my favourite cos it calls for no form of commitment, not Val or Christmas gifts and no relationship drama. Just plain and simple physical commitment in exchange for material gains.

I have a friend who placed his present bootycall on such a scale and they understand themselves well now. But before this they were dating, doing stupid boyfriend/girlfriend in a rocky relationship, always fighting and breaking up.

After I advised him to propose this type of understanding to her, he did and placed her on 200T monthly. They understand themselves now. Though the contract he had a lawyer draw up for them has a clause that if she cheats and if caught the contract is broken. I asked him why he wanted that clause there, he said he was financing her life and didn't want another guy enjoying his sweat. Anyways his problem not mine.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobodys(f): 3:42pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
Nope, i just have standards.
Standards?. what standards, babe.....

You've lost hold of reality and dignity and you're talking about standards?...

I see how you go around nairaland, preaching some lame ideology of yours, polluting the mind of young vulnerable girls.... I just hope you practice what you preach, and if you do, then you shouldn't be talking about standards, babe....cause when someone mentions sex and the next thing that pops into the brain of a lady is ' MONEY' then she ain't no woman of standards...

Instead of encouraging girls to get enough money from men before spreading legs, you should encourage girls to struggle and make money for themselves....... SEX and MONEY are two different things for a woman of standards....

** no offense**.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by omoregea: 3:42pm On Nov 14, 2018
Nigerian Men cause this poo on themselves and they are exporting this attitude out. sex is overrated by Nigerian men and in Nigeria. why do girls over there think a man must take care of her? what about her making her own money. Sex is a need and both gender need it. so all this talk about broke guys and all is shit. this same reason is why men from other country hate nigerian men living in their country because they bring this attitude of giving girls money for sex.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by youngds: 3:43pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
No she isnt, and he slept with her for free. that is the only thing that made the girl mess up.
Hmmmmm you sound like gloried olosho undecided
Though the part of him thinking he's smart is dumb but not withstanding having sex isn't a trade nah.. angry
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 4:23pm On Nov 14, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:
Ire2. Your post reeks of attention. You could've just let this slide without embarrassing yourself and also the girl, but no, you chosed to bring it onto Nairaland, for what exactly? To get validation for your savagery. This is totally immature.
undecided
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 4:34pm On Nov 14, 2018
lefulefu:
Haha funny chatcheesy. Op u were asking her d guys pics she uploaded on her watsap dp weda dem no give her money to do her haircheesy. I take it to u op dat she don probably collect money frm dem and she jus wan use ur own top d moneycheesy. Imagine a babe dat has 80 male admirers on facebook and 200 male admirers on instagram. Now she collect 20k each from 60 of the male admirers from among the 80 male admirers on facebook after tellin dem d same same problem and she come collect 30k each from 150 guys among the 200 male admirers on instagram after spinning another story to her instagram male admirerscheesy. Calculate d amount...now dats somethingcheesy. So even though u refused givin her d money be rest assured she has already collected dat money from at least a hundred men on her whatsap contactcheesy. But after everything i have said since u said she's ur girlfriend and its just money for hair she request then bros u for jus give am. The money aint much. By the way this one u were accusing her of posting pics of other guys on her watsap dp...are u sure she's ur gilfriend or u jus a sideguycheesy.
Lol baba leave that mumu girl. Imagine she post pic with 3 diff guys for bar, I ask say babe what's up why this picture, the next thing she said was "I'm sorry I thought I was still single" I say ahhhh so I be insignificant figure now like say na math we they solve bawo ni? Okay na, that day pass I lock up, the next day she did the same I just ignore her, she come chat me we talk, I tell her why she They do this she say the guy she put na her friend bf say na picture they snap for birthday I say no wahala, about 2 days later another one she write "thank you so much" " I ask her what's up, she say na her bday.


Now you come they ask me for hair money and you get many close male friends? Thunder fire her I swear, make she go Maga her father and grand father.
Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 4:37pm On Nov 14, 2018
funmisticqueen:
and 50:50 sex too, dont forget that. In that case 50:50 commitment and 50:50 loyalty.so she is free to get a sugar daddy or two to get the remaining 50%.
Omo na so this my thread pain you? Afternoon don reach you still they here they kill yourself.

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Re: Nigerian Girls And Their Irritating Entitlement Attitude by Nobody: 4:38pm On Nov 14, 2018
Ire2:
Lol baba leave that mumu girl. Imagine she post pic with 3 diff guys for bar, I ask say babe what's up why this picture, the next thing she said was "I'm sorry I thought I was still single" I say ahhhh so I be insignificant figure now like say na math we they solve bawo ni? Okay na, that day pass I lock up, the next day she did the same I just ignore her, she come chat me we talk, I tell her why she They do this she say the guy she put na her friend bf say na picture they snap for birthday I say no wahala, about 2 days later another one she write "thank you so much" " I ask her what's up, she say na her bday.


Now you come they ask me for hair money and you get many close male friends? Thunder fire her I swear, make she go Maga her father and grand father.
hahahahahaha she uploaded d guys pics cos she forgot she was not single?...haha i wan diecheesy. Abeg forget d girl and ditch her. She aint serious with u.
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