nuggarito:
Yes bro, not once but multiple times. And I came to a conclusion that there's a demon in girls that makes them act the way they do. And that's why I avoid any form of light, be it green light, white light, indigo light biko keep your lights while I make money. Money changes the light.

malmo:


that isn't fair. mum, sister, and grannies not worth it?

resurgent4oodua:
I personally feel a man should have all the sex he can and forget about the affection of women. Women will always come when a man come into his own (arrives). A man should take meticulous interest in his work (job) and try and better himself generally. All pussy are the same. What differentiates women is character and worldview. Women are totally not worth it except for producing babies.

#no pun intended.

Slimlord:
i weep for your wife

Coldfeets:


Since you have been avoiding all sorts of light, how much money have you made?

resurgent4oodua:
I was in a bar tonight and a girl was staring at me and eventually confessed to liking me ( which was strange) but I didn't even make an attempt to take her number. My friend (who's married) took her number and will eventually bang her. But I am not worried because I have had enough pvssy to last me a lifetime and I am desensitized to women. All I want is to face the law and make money so I can marry a good girl to make me healthy babies.

I am wrong in my approach and worldview?

I feel Nigerian girls just want to marry a financially secure man.

Onnasucs:

Onnasucs:

DonFreshmoney:
Datdeltagirl don show me all the light for this world.. infact, she come resemble Christmas tree, but I no gree. Not because say I no love her or her state, but am risk averse to ladies

franchasng:
My golden advice to ladies who have the gut to initiate the move towards a guy they like or find interesting....note; my counsel will come in two ways; one for those doing it in real life and for those doing it through online/internet.

Real Life approach:

Girl to guy: stare at him continuously and smile....when he catches u staring, intentionally turn your eyes away laughing, do this repeatedly but make sure he sees you clearly each time you stare, but never walk up to him and say, "hi I like you can we be friends", this approach is WRONG, unless for teenagers!

Many guys will be scared unless he is a perfect playboy.

When he finally summons the courage to approach you, don't start all those mumuish iyanga torotoro

Online scenario:

you can start tagging or quoting his comments, status, etc with joking agreement to his comments and views to issues of discussion, and maybe with time, you can message him like this: "wow, I really enjoy reading your views , so funny and interesting, though awkward at times, keep it up, from one of your secret fans"

Every sensible guy will get the clue and take it up from there without you exposing yourself to ridicule or drama

germanized:
As a matter of fact, in recent times, acting on hints and green lights has proven to be the worst trap a man can fall into.

All these feminists looking for who to accuse of verbal or sexual harassment after giving you green light to approach them... Please don't mind them ooo

My guys, if a lady likes you, let her say it with her mouth, c'est fini!

Coldfeets:


Since you have been avoiding all sorts of light, how much money have you made?

Beface:
Green light can be misleading,never strike on the assumption of green light because the spirit way they push them is seeking for your destruction but he no go clear to you until she makes you look foolish.

Slimlord:
i weep for your wife

monex:


the bolded is not green enough as there are many girls who do this but aren't interested. Guys have wrongly assumed and gotten fingers burnt

MiaB:




The lie
Wives typically use indirect forms of communication. They give hints, they speak abstractly, and then they expect their husbands to know what they mean. Without ever intending to lie, they don’t express the full truth. At times, they communicate so indirectly that their husbands can’t come close to perceiving the real message.
When faced with indirect communication, husbands often feel like a one-legged man in a football kicking contest. They just don’t have what it takes. They much prefer dealing with facts, logic, and problem solving.
They notice that something is wrong. That realization may come from receiving the silent treatment, getting some indirect messages, or just picking up the mood of their wife. They’d like to resolve the problem, so they ask about it, and get messages so indirect that they can’t interpret their meaning.
When people get what they see as an incomplete message, they try to fill in the blanks. Husbands, with their strong problem-resolution skills, will often explore various possible meanings. But if the indirect message doesn’t have enough clues to give them an accurate picture, they can’t succeed.
Living the truth
Neither indirect nor direct communication is intrinsically right or wrong. Rather, each serves a particular purpose. Foundationally, though, wives make a mistake when they choose indirect messages that give a misleading impression, or that fail to accurately convey the intended meaning. Let’s explore several factors that can help you live in the truth and communicate more directly.
Create a safe zone . Husband, creating a communication “safe zone” is your job. Yes, you get frustrated and upset at indirect conversation. But some of your irritation results from your own response when your wife tries to communicate with you.
You can create a safe zone in several ways:
Choose honesty over defending yourself.
Don’t respond with an attack on your wife.
Don’t even think about verbal or physical abuse.
Draw out your wife with active listening.
Let your wife know that you truly want to hear what she has to say, and when she sees that you’ve established a safe zone, you should see an increase in the clarity of your communication with one another.

nuggarito:
enough to feed you and your unborn children.

MiaB:




The lie
Wives typically use indirect forms of communication. They give hints, they speak abstractly, and then they expect their husbands to know what they mean. Without ever intending to lie, they don’t express the full truth. At times, they communicate so indirectly that their husbands can’t come close to perceiving the real message.
When faced with indirect communication, husbands often feel like a one-legged man in a football kicking contest. They just don’t have what it takes. They much prefer dealing with facts, logic, and problem solving.
They notice that something is wrong. That realization may come from receiving the silent treatment, getting some indirect messages, or just picking up the mood of their wife. They’d like to resolve the problem, so they ask about it, and get messages so indirect that they can’t interpret their meaning.
When people get what they see as an incomplete message, they try to fill in the blanks. Husbands, with their strong problem-resolution skills, will often explore various possible meanings. But if the indirect message doesn’t have enough clues to give them an accurate picture, they can’t succeed.
Living the truth
Neither indirect nor direct communication is intrinsically right or wrong. Rather, each serves a particular purpose. Foundationally, though, wives make a mistake when they choose indirect messages that give a misleading impression, or that fail to accurately convey the intended meaning. Let’s explore several factors that can help you live in the truth and communicate more directly.
Create a safe zone . Husband, creating a communication “safe zone” is your job. Yes, you get frustrated and upset at indirect conversation. But some of your irritation results from your own response when your wife tries to communicate with you.
You can create a safe zone in several ways:
Choose honesty over defending yourself.
Don’t respond with an attack on your wife.
Don’t even think about verbal or physical abuse.
Draw out your wife with active listening.
Let your wife know that you truly want to hear what she has to say, and when she sees that you’ve established a safe zone, you should see an increase in the clarity of your communication with one another.

NuhRegular:



Would you want to marry a financially insecure woman.. Would you want to marry a woman who didn't go to university? I doubt.. So everybody wants to marry a financially secure somebody

victvames:
Screw that green light!

So i was friends with this girl in school, we go to night class together to study. She alwas wants me to sit close to her,,, she alwas rests her head on my shoulders or laps. She alwas asks me to invite her to my room. Even during break from school, she visits me at my home well-dressed. This happened for two semesters so i decided to give it a shot having realized the "green light" and she was very single.

I asked her out one night with all confidence, thinking i already i have her. Guess what i heard??

"I really like you as a friend, but it can't happen"

Datdeltagirl:
which person are you are talking about