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Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by DonFreshmoney(m): 9:38am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Datdeltagirl don show me all the light for this world.. infact, she come resemble Christmas tree, but I no gree. Not because say I no love her or her state, but am risk averse to ladies 8 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Demogorgon(m): 9:38am On Nov 21, 2018 |
With all the "Greenlight", i tend to observe and analyse a lady critically before making any move. I no dey for you shoot bird e mama fly. 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Talknochip(m): 9:39am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Most times, those body languages (from both sexes) can be misleading because there are people who are just naturally friendly and flirthy in nature.. I personally missed alot of good women from my 'inability' to see some of those signs and have also gotten into problems cause some of my 'selfless acts' were interpreted as a sign(s) of intention... Most ladies i came in contact with, will always want us to get married... And i have always ended up in pressure... Facing same problem presently. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Coldfeets: 9:40am On Nov 21, 2018 |
nuggarito: Since you have been avoiding all sorts of light, how much money have you made? 9 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Onnasucs1(m): 9:41am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Alepa(m): 9:42am On Nov 21, 2018 |
malmo:No they’re not ! They’re all the same ! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 21, 2018 |
The female sex are the most confused beings in existence!!! hahahaaaaaaa! 12 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Slimlord(m): 9:53am On Nov 21, 2018 |
resurgent4oodua:i weep for your wife 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by babyfaceafrica: 9:56am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Slimlord:weep for yourself,the guy is entitled to his opinion..he alone knows why he made the statement! 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by nuggarito: 9:57am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Coldfeets:enough to feed you and your unborn children. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Uglymind: 9:57am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Green light red light orange Just make your money and enjoy girls to your maximum satisfaction 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Nobody: 9:57am On Nov 21, 2018 |
resurgent4oodua: Would you want to marry a financially insecure woman.. Would you want to marry a woman who didn't go to university? I doubt.. So everybody wants to marry a financially secure somebody 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by MiaB(f): 9:58am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Onnasucs: The lie Wives typically use indirect forms of communication. They give hints, they speak abstractly, and then they expect their husbands to know what they mean. Without ever intending to lie, they don’t express the full truth. At times, they communicate so indirectly that their husbands can’t come close to perceiving the real message. When faced with indirect communication, husbands often feel like a one-legged man in a football kicking contest. They just don’t have what it takes. They much prefer dealing with facts, logic, and problem solving. They notice that something is wrong. That realization may come from receiving the silent treatment, getting some indirect messages, or just picking up the mood of their wife. They’d like to resolve the problem, so they ask about it, and get messages so indirect that they can’t interpret their meaning. When people get what they see as an incomplete message, they try to fill in the blanks. Husbands, with their strong problem-resolution skills, will often explore various possible meanings. But if the indirect message doesn’t have enough clues to give them an accurate picture, they can’t succeed. Living the truth Neither indirect nor direct communication is intrinsically right or wrong. Rather, each serves a particular purpose. Foundationally, though, wives make a mistake when they choose indirect messages that give a misleading impression, or that fail to accurately convey the intended meaning. Let’s explore several factors that can help you live in the truth and communicate more directly. Create a safe zone . Husband, creating a communication “safe zone” is your job. Yes, you get frustrated and upset at indirect conversation. But some of your irritation results from your own response when your wife tries to communicate with you. You can create a safe zone in several ways: Choose honesty over defending yourself. Don’t respond with an attack on your wife. Don’t even think about verbal or physical abuse. Draw out your wife with active listening. Let your wife know that you truly want to hear what she has to say, and when she sees that you’ve established a safe zone, you should see an increase in the clarity of your communication with one another. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by MiaB(f): 9:58am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Onnasucs: The lie Wives typically use indirect forms of communication. They give hints, they speak abstractly, and then they expect their husbands to know what they mean. Without ever intending to lie, they don’t express the full truth. At times, they communicate so indirectly that their husbands can’t come close to perceiving the real message. When faced with indirect communication, husbands often feel like a one-legged man in a football kicking contest. They just don’t have what it takes. They much prefer dealing with facts, logic, and problem solving. They notice that something is wrong. That realization may come from receiving the silent treatment, getting some indirect messages, or just picking up the mood of their wife. They’d like to resolve the problem, so they ask about it, and get messages so indirect that they can’t interpret their meaning. When people get what they see as an incomplete message, they try to fill in the blanks. Husbands, with their strong problem-resolution skills, will often explore various possible meanings. But if the indirect message doesn’t have enough clues to give them an accurate picture, they can’t succeed. Living the truth Neither indirect nor direct communication is intrinsically right or wrong. Rather, each serves a particular purpose. Foundationally, though, wives make a mistake when they choose indirect messages that give a misleading impression, or that fail to accurately convey the intended meaning. Let’s explore several factors that can help you live in the truth and communicate more directly. Create a safe zone . Husband, creating a communication “safe zone” is your job. Yes, you get frustrated and upset at indirect conversation. But some of your irritation results from your own response when your wife tries to communicate with you. You can create a safe zone in several ways: Choose honesty over defending yourself. Don’t respond with an attack on your wife. Don’t even think about verbal or physical abuse. Draw out your wife with active listening. Let your wife know that you truly want to hear what she has to say, and when she sees that you’ve established a safe zone, you should see an increase in the clarity of your communication with one another. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Datdeltagirl(f): 9:58am On Nov 21, 2018 |
DonFreshmoney:which person are you are talking about 2 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by monex(m): 9:58am On Nov 21, 2018 |
franchasng: the bolded is not green enough as there are many girls who do this but aren't interested. Guys have wrongly assumed and gotten fingers burnt 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by monex(m): 10:00am On Nov 21, 2018 |
germanized: forget feminist matter. it is unrelated. However, the rest of your post is correct. Acting on green lights is a risk as you are only assuming. 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by jojothaiv(m): 10:01am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Coldfeets:I think I like this question.. |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by monex(m): 10:01am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Beface:Indeed |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by chinonso47: 10:02am On Nov 21, 2018 |
I prefer point blank 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 21, 2018 |
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Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Nobody: 10:04am On Nov 21, 2018 |
The amount of males on this thread tho 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by ChiefAlex(m): 10:05am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Slimlord: Shut up pussy nigga 8 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by kollinzgee(m): 10:05am On Nov 21, 2018 |
lolzzz bro I thought i was the only one who has experienced this shit but now I discovered am not the only one but am a very curious person in nature so I took some time to study female psychology .when a girl shows you greenlight don't immediately ask her out frustrate her a little bit acting uninterested and also flirt with other preety girls don't give a Bleep about her feelings .(women love a guy they stole from other girls )then start acting as her boyfriend until you kiss or Bleep her don't ask her out.do this and thank me later 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by franchasng: 10:06am On Nov 21, 2018 |
monex:while you do...always have in mind that 99.9% of black women are confused |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Baddiezz(f): 10:07am On Nov 21, 2018 |
MiaB: |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Coldfeets: 10:07am On Nov 21, 2018 |
nuggarito: Story. Oga Mr. Make Money, I hope Npower have paid you this month? 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by Baddiezz(f): 10:07am On Nov 21, 2018 |
MiaB:some points are valid |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by pastie(m): 10:18am On Nov 21, 2018 |
NuhRegular:You are right to some extend, i believed everyone has what they want in a partner, some are not bothered whether been broke or not, so far they posses that particular trait they want, they will be ready to get down with. The most important thing is to find someone who you're compatible with. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by victvames(m): 10:22am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Screw that green light! So i was friends with this girl in school, we go to night class together to study. She alwas wants me to sit close to her,,, she alwas rests her head on my shoulders or laps. She alwas asks me to invite her to my room. Even during break from school, she visits me at my home well-dressed. This happened for two semesters so i decided to give it a shot having realized the "green light" and she was very single. I asked her out one night with all confidence, thinking i already i have her. Guess what i heard?? "I really like you as a friend, but it can't happen" 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by kollinzgee(m): 10:26am On Nov 21, 2018 |
victvames:why did you ask her out !! you shot yourself on the leg develop you emotional strength .you should have kissed the girl before doing that. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Most Guys Pick Up On 'hints' And 'green Light' But Will Not Act by DonFreshmoney(m): 10:28am On Nov 21, 2018 |
Datdeltagirl: Hehehe.. you naaa, or you don't know your moniker again? |
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