₦airaland Forum

Ranchhoddas:
I know what melanin is.

Whoever said looking good was enough, or even required for anything?

You seem to have veered from what I thought was the message of the thread. It's cool though. I get where you are at now.

But is it really media conditioning or are some people naturally attracted to those with little or no melanin.

Think of it like a chicken and egg situation. Is what you perceive as media conditioning really that, or is it simply a reaction to our inherent desire for a lighter appearance? Which came first? Our desire for lighter skin or television?

I don't see it as that chicken or egg scenario. If televisions were created in Africa first and we established it world wide with more control of what goes on it, People would digest and go along with what we show them.

Yeraa:
Not much really and very little in comparison to men, not to say that women haven't invented anything. That is because the patriarchy has kept us down as home nurturers with no room in history to use our God given brains. Hopefully that would change with this generation and the ones to come.

This generation of women? Lolz let me not say what's on my mind.

I'll tell you one thing though, the women of the previous generationa were much better than what we have now.

Uglymugg:
This generation of women? Lolz let me not say what's on my mind.

Well let's agree to disagree. Incase you're thinking what I have in mind, this generation of women does not mean Nigerian women alone.

Uglymugg:
This generation of women? Lolz let me not say what's on my mind.

I'll tell you one thing though, the women of the previous generationa were much better than what we have now.

In what way?

Yeraa:
In what way?

Women back then may have been oppressed, but they did what they had to do, raise children, be a good mother, be a good home keeper, and a better wife. They were traditional mothers back then. Today we only have insta-thots, slay queens, independent women without husbands, feminist, and then the 0.1% tradition women.

It was better back then.

Yeraa:
I don't see it as that chicken or egg scenario. If televisions were created in Africa first and we established it world wide with more control of what goes on it, People would digest and go along with what we show them.

You know this for sure?

A lot of Nigerian men will tell you they prefer Hispanic/Latinas to black. Is this also conditioning?
There's something about the exotic you know.

Yeraa:
Not much really and very little in comparison to men, not to say that women haven't invented anything. That is because the patriarchy has kept us down as home nurturers with no room in history to use our God given brains Hopefully that would change with this generation and the ones to come.

The bold is a cliché argument that is very false by my reckoning.
The Blackman can also argue that his backwardness is the result of the White man's incursion and exploitation through slavery. In fact a man called Walter Rodney wrote a book titled "How Europe Underdeveloped Africa".
The woman has been unable to invent anything because she is ill-equipped physically and perhaps mentally and not because of any subjugation.

My point: It is very easy to trade blame and absolve oneself or in this case one's gender of responsibility.

Cc: Yeraa

I stopped reading the moment I read "I'm a teenager" come on go and do ur homework. Mtcheeew

Sounds like the female who wrote this has no plans to actually achieve anything of value for herself.
How can someone's complete life plan be to essentially be a leech and not solve any particular problem?

This does bring one to philosophize upon the condition of the female mind.
This hypergamy is the reality of how 90% of women actually think.
Within that 90%, only about 20% of them are real enough with themselves to admit it....like this female.

Most females have no serious end-game plans for their lives besides attaching to a man that appears to be going up...and making babies.

So perhaps we should just stop expecting much from them? (which would take us back to the days when women were treated as a sub-human species by virtue of their tendencies)

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

Rubbish. I some serious criticisms of the African man yet it's not all of them. And the African man is the baba of civilizations.

The Helicopter designed was taken from the Eqyptian temple walls and the cellphone. They even play on words to let you know where they got the helicopter design. Heli is short for Heliolipos the ancient city of Egypt. Yeah I'm disappointed in the African man yet I never switch sides.

kimbraa:
The open-minded ones will know it's the truth. It may hurt, but it's not going to change the fact that it's the truth. At some point while reading, I was bitter, but I had to ask myself whether what you said is the 'Absolute truth, or lies' to reduce the black man? My answer was, it's the truth. I guess that propelled me to comment.

I almost thought you were @Khiaa but then noticed your names are different.

I suspect the mentioned will comment in this thread soon.

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

Rubbish. I some serious criticisms of the African man yet it's not all of them. And the African man is the baba of civilizations.

The Helicopter designed was taken from the Eqyptian temple walls and the cellphone. They even play on words to let you know where they got the helicopter design. Heli is short for Heliolipos the ancient city of Egypt. Yeah I'm disappointed in the African man yet I never switch sides.


The African is 100 percent human no animal DNA. We've been here millions of years. This little time is not even a day in our long existence.

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

Oouch....

Ranchhoddas:
The bold is a cliché argument that is very false by my reckoning.
The Blackman can also argue that his backwardness is the result of the White man's incursion and exploitation through slavery. In fact a man called Walter Rodney wrote a book titled "How Europe Underdeveloped Africa".
The woman has been unable to invent anything because she is ill-equipped physically and perhaps mentally and not because of any subjugation.

My point: It is very easy to trade blame and absolve oneself or in this case one's gender of responsibility.

Cc: Yeraa

Cliche? I stand by my patriarchy argument regardless. Slavery and exploitation DID set the blackman back by miles. The debate remains to ask if it's absolutely the white man's fault or that the Blackmans self pity contributes significantly and too much to his issue. I love that word "ill - equipped". I believe I agree with the motion that says women have not and presently to varying degrees,not equipped with the same training, space,opportunities, conditioning to make inventions.

CivilzedTyger:
I stopped reading the moment I read "I'm a teenager" come on go and do ur homework. Mtcheeew

Funny, but to be frank young minds can generate a lot. Underestimating and silencing them is an issue in Nigeria that people don't talk about. Other countries have their kids and youths doing amazing things but here we tell them to go cram a book or just do homework.

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

so what did you want us to do PS.I didn't find it funny

Ranchhoddas:
You know this for sure?

A lot of Nigerian men will tell you they prefer Hispanic/Latinas to black. Is this also conditioning?
There's something about the exotic you know.

People love the exotic for sure, but the African woman is not played in the media as exotic to outsiders true or false? Social conditioning does a lot. Nigerian men boldly claim there preference of Latinas and dream of finding one to wife due to being instilled that they deserve the best as wives but us females in Nigeria have really been conditioned to go attach to a Nigerian, because that's what we are meant to do.

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

Unfortunately, men with honest comments on issues like this will be labelled a chauvinist or at worst will be told how insecure they are. As much as I love total freedom and liberation of the black woman, one question need to be asked, do they know what they really want? If we are to put it on a gender ratio of which gender exhibit inferiortiy complex tendecies among black, who will you think will win? Be truthful to yourself. And moreso, do you know what true feminism really entails, sadly I have not seen proponents of this ideology practice it "truthfully". I may agree with all other of your assertions about how blacks has failed in general in the scheme of things. But making the black man the patsy is a no no. You yourself finished your submission with the firm assertion that you might not end up settling with a black man, you prefer the other colour than your own. Means you are part of the problem. What point then are you trying to prove?

kimbraa:
The person behind this moniker is absolutely right. Maybe some of you should take a deep breath, look around, and relate what he/she said to your society. Makes lot of sense.

she made horrendous generalisations and is obviously joking

dont let your intrinsic dispositions make you quickly agree with a joke

Yeraa:
Not much really and very little in comparison to men, not to say that women haven't invented anything. That is because the patriarchy has kept us down as home nurturers with no room in history to use our God given brains. Hopefully that would change with this generation and the ones to come.

Patriarchy isn't a reason, it is a lame excuse. It is same as some Nigerians blaming Buhari for everything when some Nigerians are making exploits in their various fields.

And don't think this generation women will make any different, they're worse than ever.

Back then, a strong woman was one who went against all odds to to achieve something or challenge/make a significant impact on the system of things for the interest of woman kind.

Today, a strong woman is one who can boldly go unclad online and tell people how her boyfriend bleeps her good. A strong woman is now the one who had unprotected sex, got pregnant and had a child out of wedlock.

I have so many things to say but I know right that I will be a labeled a chauvinist.


As for the OP, Nigerian/black men will always be at the bottom of everything things........ We agree.....




But women, black women will always miss out in everything. That's more worrisome

BMaretraitors:
Melanin is what makes black people appear pretty when it is nurtured well. Now looking good isn't enough. Because clever people can take that away from you through media conditioning.

You sound very intelligent and I really doubt that you are a teenager.
The issue of the Nigeria black man is a depressing one. These particular set of human beings are damaged beyond repair.

They never see anything good in themselves. Instead of them to remain in their dejected state alone they will try to pull you down with them once you are different from them and doing good for yourself.

Read this thread to have a better understanding of a typical Nigerian man.


https://www.nairaland.com/977521/why-nigerians-look-white-people?
https://www.0.freebasics.com/https/www.nairaland.com/977521/why-nigerians-look-white-people?iorg_service_id_internal=1646953538912597%3BAfraOQjef6x5rszr

KealDrogo:
You sound very intelligent and I really doubt that you are a teenager.
The issue of the Nigeria black man is a depressing one. These particular set of human beings are damaged beyond repair.

They never see anything good in themselves. Instead of them to remain in their dejected state alone they will try to pull you down with them once you are different from them and doing good for yourself.

Read this thread to have a better understanding of a typical Nigerian man.

https://www.0.freebasics.com/https/www.nairaland.com/977521/why-nigerians-look-white-people?iorg_service_id_internal=1646953538912597%3BAfraOQjef6x5rszr

Thank you, but link isn't opening.

BMaretraitors:
Thank you, but link isn't opening.

I have updated the link.

...

Yeraa:
Funny, but to be frank young minds can generate a lot. Underestimating and silencing them is an issue in Nigeria that people don't talk about. Other countries have their kids and youths doing amazing things but here we tell them to go cram a book or just do homework.

Word ma'am. I think African parents are intimidated by overly smart kids

I 100% agree with OP. Sometimes I believe that black men are cursed. Self-hating and doomed creatures. I still FW black men though.

BMaretraitors:
They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men

The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.

The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.

The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.

The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders.
White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!

I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.

ps: This is for laffs

...and a teenager wrote this! Exactly my point when I get to see what some Nigerian men on this site speak on and of their own...may end up settling down with a white man over a black/Nigerian man as BMaretraitors have attested. The Black man is a problem unto himself.

hayoholla:
Unfortunately, men with honest comments on issues like this will be labelled a chauvinist or at worst will be told how insecure they are. As much as I love total freedom and liberation of the black woman, one question need to be asked, do they know what they really want? If we are to put it on a gender ratio of which gender exhibit inferiortiy complex tendecies among black, who will you think will win? Be truthful to yourself. And moreso, do you know what true feminism really entails, sadly I have not seen proponents of this ideology practice it "truthfully". I may agree with all other of your assertions about how blacks has failed in general in the scheme of things. But making the black man the patsy is a no no. You yourself finished your submission with the firm assertion that you might not end up settling with a black man, you prefer the other colour than your own. Means you are part of the problem. What point then are you trying to prove?

Oga get the import of her write up, it has nothing to do with feminism... absolutely nothing to do with battle of the sexes. She is pointing out the mental conditions of the black race as opposed to progressive and general contribution to the human race and the furtherance of the African Continent

BMaretraitors:
And i was JUST joking

and when the trolls come back form their banned and start causing nuisance over this section I hope you will find it funny,cause Mr bolt55 promise to make this place uncomfortable

2buffagain:
Sounds like the female who wrote this has no plans to actually achieve anything of value for herself.
How can someone's complete life plan be to essentially be a leech and not solve any particular problem?

This does bring one to philosophize upon the condition of the female mind.
This hypergamy is the reality of how 90% of women actually think.
Within that 90%, only about 20% of them are real enough with themselves to admit it....like this female.

Most females have no serious end-game plans for their lives besides attaching to a man that appears to be going up...and making babies.

So perhaps we should just stop expecting much from them? (which would take us back to the days when women were treated as a sub-human species by virtue of their tendencies)

Aren't you the one to generalize {btw, heard you silently scream ouch ! after reading @op's post} . So do tell how did you get to your conclusion she has no serious "end -game plan"?

Inspectorsuga22:
Whoever wrote this thrash is nothing short of an imb€¢ile....
I only feel pity for d younger generation men who are not awake to the fact that these women have already declared war against them....

The OP is one of the reasons I generally dislike the manipulative and vindictive creatures called women.
I knew this "attack" on Nigerian men was coming when I read the posts by Nigerian guys declaring their desire for white women on a thread on the Frontpage yesterday about a white British lady 8speaking the Yoruba language.
The posts hurt the OP so much, she sat down and constructed a hateful post directed at Nigerian men and thesame men are congratulating her for it.
Pathetic,dumb,weaklings.


https://www.nairaland.com/4883563/british-woman-speaks-yoruba-husband