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How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Boscojugunu(m): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2018
Hello nairalanders.... I have been batling emotional heartbreak for weeks and it has refused to go.... I have done so many things like going out, talking to people and also getting myself in some other activities, but this thing won't leave. I cant just get over her...

What can I do again!!!
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by robinso01(m): 11:26am On Dec 17, 2018
Boscojugunu:
Hello nairalanders.... I have been batling emotional heartbreak for weeks and it has refused to go.... I have done so many things like going out, talking to people and also getting myself in some other activities, but this thing won't leave. I cant just get over her...

What can I do again!!!
try to be in the midst of people that will make you laugh and forget urself, never stays alone, have been in this position b4, though it's not easy at all to go over it, but u will surely survive it with time

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Boscojugunu(m): 11:28am On Dec 17, 2018
robinso01:
try to be in the midst of people that will make you laugh and forget urself, never stays alone, have been in this position b4, though it's not easy at all to go over it, but u will surely survive it with time
Thank you.. I'm doing that already
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by robinso01(m): 11:30am On Dec 17, 2018
Boscojugunu:
Thank you.. I'm doing that already
you are welcome bro ,Pls try not to judge everything or everyone you meet in future base on the present experience

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by solz007(m): 10:25pm On Dec 17, 2018
Bro..! Turn To GOD Pray A lot, Do some Charity trust me you'll get that inner peace you seek. GOD'S Love Never Fails Or give Heart Breaks

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Originalsly: 10:56pm On Dec 17, 2018
I suggest you visit an orphanage.... or do some charity work in a very poor area... when you see how those people live.... your little problem will disappear.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by finalboss(m): 11:00pm On Dec 17, 2018
solz007:
Bro..! Turn To GOD Pray A lot, Do some Charity trust me you'll get that inner peace you seek. GOD'S Love Never Fails Or give Heart Breaks
God ? This religious people
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Nobody: 11:13pm On Dec 17, 2018
Boscojugunu:
Hello nairalanders.... I have been batling emotional heartbreak for weeks and it has refused to go.... I have done so many things like going out, talking to people and also getting myself in some other activities, but this thing won't leave. I cant just get over her...

What can I do again!!!
see the brighter part of life, look at the sun, view for minutes or even hours the movements of the clouds, their pattern, study the works and ways of the tiny ants in your bedroom, don't give yourself to boredom, give yourself to happiness, imagine things, imagine you are the richest in the country, living in the biggest mansion with beautiful wife or wives lolzz around you, and you are acquiring the best of the best machines, all these just to be happy and in good mind.. Make up some rhymes, and rap it to someone who could least expect! Lolzz, another truth is, happiness lies in making other people happy!!! Do that and be happy you did! Another gal will show up in no time! Takia!

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by solz007(m): 11:16pm On Dec 17, 2018
finalboss:
God ? This religious people

That's The Real Deal Bro.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by DONADAMS(m): 11:20pm On Dec 17, 2018
first and foremost block all connections with her, delete anything that has to do with her, then write down her flaws or what you don't like about her down in a paper and read every time the thought of her comes to your mind..try not be be always lonely, talk to friends about it and make jokes out of it...try not to regret anything done for her just take it was something you should do.

I don't know of your personality but if you're the type that gets high..light some blunts and if you're the bottle type take as much as you can till you're high, if you're the type that loves girls a lot follow a lot of girls if possible kpansh as many as you can...and lastly focus on making more money...it'll be your biggest revenge...I've been there before and believe me it wasn't easy...but I thank God

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Eagba(m): 11:21pm On Dec 17, 2018
Lol you're in a funny place right now where you to leave the pain but somehow you enjoy the pain in trying to get closure.
Guy what you're facing is a mental battle where the only thing that will work is a fight for the supreme thoughts of your mind or in other words your dominant thoughts. Try as much as possible to block her thoughts I.e whenever she cross your mind, just refute it with a more aggressive thought of e no go better for her mama etc
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Eagba(m): 11:24pm On Dec 17, 2018
Tosinex:
see the brighter part of life, look at the sun, view for minutes or even hours the movements of the clouds, their pattern, study the works and ways of the tiny ants in your bedroom, don't give yourself to boredom, give yourself to happiness, imagine things, imagine you are the richest in the country, living in the biggest mansion with beautiful wife or wives lolzz around you, and you are acquiring the best of the best machines, all these just to be happy and in good mind.. Make up some rhymes, and rap it to someone who could least expect! Lolzz, another truth is, ihappiness lies in making other people happy!!! Do that and be happy you did! Another gal will show up in no time! Takia!
All these will just take his mind back to her
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by MannieA(f): 12:05am On Dec 18, 2018
finalboss:
God ? This religious people


God is the ultimate..and without him we are nothing.. it's only God DAT can give us total and true peace and happiness.. the person is write with DAT comment,it's not about being religious.. I am not DAT religious.. but I understand these things very well.try it and you will find inner peace too

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by MannieA(f): 12:15am On Dec 18, 2018
robinso01:
you are welcome bro ,Pls try not to judge everything or everyone you meet in future base on the present experience


sense isn't far from you. u dey well
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by MannieA(f): 12:20am On Dec 18, 2018
solz007:
Bro..! Turn To GOD Pray A lot, Do some Charity trust me you'll get that inner peace you seek. GOD'S Love Never Fails Or give Heart Breaks


sense isn't far from you.. true
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by finalboss(m): 1:03am On Dec 18, 2018
MannieA:



God is the ultimate..and without him we are nothing.. it's only God DAT can give us total and true peace and happiness.. the person is write with DAT comment,it's not about being religious.. I am not DAT religious.. but I understand these things very well.try it and you will find inner peace too
angry what do you mean by inner peace?? lols little one lemme explain what inner peace mean

How about we return to agnosticism 101, will we? If you don't mind read this Skepticism FAQ. https://atheismfaq.quora.com/Atheism-FAQ

See anything there about inner peace? Neither do I, and I composed the thing. On the off chance that your suspicion is that you require a fanciful companion so as to feel inner peace, at that point I feel truly sad for you.

Indeed, not harboring the deception of a judgmental god grimacing down on you day and night is most liberating and peaceful.

So no less than one nonbeliever with whom I am personally well-known does, in reality, feel inner peace. Significantly more so than when he was a devotee.

An inner peace that enables me to be what I am, the means by which I like, do what I like inside the laws, under my very own volition, control, and soul.

I don't fear a blazing hellfire in the event that I take the name of something futile, I don't throb for an unending length of time that I know does not exist, I don't need to go through a large portion of my time on earth navigating a precarious situation of dread that I may annoy one of the many, regularly obsolete or odd guidelines that oversee how I should carry on with my life inspired by a paranoid fear of Devine reprisal.

Actually, the main time I don't feel this inner peace is the point at which I adventure on to nairaland and see one more damned "mention" from a gutless religious troll. @mannieA dont ever quote me again undecided
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by dingbang(m): 1:10am On Dec 18, 2018
Sorry bro. Don't be lovestruck
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Apina(m): 1:44am On Dec 18, 2018
Boscojugunu:
Hello nairalanders.... I have been batling emotional heartbreak for weeks and it has refused to go.... I have done so many things like going out, talking to people and also getting myself in some other activities, but this thing won't leave. I cant just get over her...

What can I do again!!!
Transfer all the money in your account to this number 4331****"" and then hang yourself. That would be one less emotionally weak and spineless nigga to deal with undecided
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Nobody: 6:13am On Dec 18, 2018
[quote author=finalboss post=73943422] angry what do you mean by inner peace?? lols little one lemme explain what inner peace mean

How about we return to agnosticism 101, will we? If you don't mind read this Skepticism FAQ. https://atheismfaq.quora.com/Atheism-FAQ

See anything there about inner peace? Neither do I, and I composed the thing. On the off chance that your suspicion is that you require a fanciful companion so as to feel inner peace, at that point I feel truly sad for you.

Indeed, not harboring the deception of a judgmental god grimacing down on you day and night is most liberating and peaceful.

So no less than one nonbeliever with whom I am personally well-known does, in reality, feel inner peace. Significantly more so than when he was a devotee.

An inner peace that enables me to be what I am, the means by which I like, do what I like inside the laws, under my very own volition, control, and soul.

I don't fear a blazing hellfire in the event that I take the name of something futile, I don't throb for an unending length of time that I know does not exist, I don't need to go through a large portion of my time on earth navigating a precarious situation of dread that I may annoy one of the many, regularly obsolete or odd guidelines that oversee how I should carry on with my life inspired by a paranoid fear of Devine reprisal.

Actually, the main time I don't feel this inner peace is the point at which I adventure on to nairaland and see one more damned "mention" from a gutless religious troll. @mannieA dont ever quote me again undecided





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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Boscojugunu(m): 6:33am On Dec 18, 2018
Apina:

Transfer all the money in your account to this number 4331042302 and then hang yourself. That would be one less emotionally weak and spineless nigga to deal with undecided
lol. Thanks bro
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Randy100: 7:07am On Dec 18, 2018
Date her sister, friend or even neighbour.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by MannieA(f): 8:21am On Dec 18, 2018
finalboss:
angry what do you mean by inner peace?? lols little one lemme explain what inner peace mean

How about we return to agnosticism 101, will we? If you don't mind read this Skepticism FAQ. https://atheismfaq.quora.com/Atheism-FAQ

See anything there about inner peace? Neither do I, and I composed the thing. On the off chance that your suspicion is that you require a fanciful companion so as to feel inner peace, at that point I feel truly sad for you.

Indeed, not harboring the deception of a judgmental god grimacing down on you day and night is most liberating and peaceful.

So no less than one nonbeliever with whom I am personally well-known does, in reality, feel inner peace. Significantly more so than when he was a devotee.

An inner peace that enables me to be what I am, the means by which I like, do what I like inside the laws, under my very own volition, control, and soul.

I don't fear a blazing hellfire in the event that I take the name of something futile, I don't throb for an unending length of time that I know does not exist, I don't need to go through a large portion of my time on earth navigating a precarious situation of dread that I may annoy one of the many, regularly obsolete or odd guidelines that oversee how I should carry on with my life inspired by a paranoid fear of Devine reprisal.

Actually, the main time I don't feel this inner peace is the point at which I adventure on to nairaland and see one more damned "mention" from a gutless religious troll. @mannieA dont ever quote me again undecided





you just insulted ur damn self..idiot
I'm sure u think you are smart, well u aren't.
you must be very crazy.. I didn't want to insult you but I can't bear, I have to..
you don't understand life so don't type crap. fool

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by finalboss(m): 8:33am On Dec 18, 2018
MannieA:




you just insulted ur damn self..idiot
I'm sure u think you are smart, well u aren't.
you must be very crazy.. I didn't want to insult you but I can't bear, I have to..
you don't understand life so don't type crap. fool
little one its too early for this, nt even in the mood. and yes i'm a fool. Nw go look for your mate.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by yebo36(f): 9:30am On Dec 18, 2018
Always tell yourself IT WILL PASS. Also search for a group on Facebook Nigeria singles and married. They discuss issues like this.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by robinso01(m): 10:58am On Dec 18, 2018
MannieA:


sense isn't far from you. u dey well
lol, funny you

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Naijamagician: 7:56am On Dec 19, 2018
Quick after breakup tips


1. Prepare your mind

2. F..u..c..k lots of Ashaewo

3. Bang your female friends

4. Smoke weed like its oxygen get high modasucka

5. Drink alcohol

6. Pop a pill tramadol (100mg) then go to the club and have a great time

7. Be happy go to cinema a lot and shoprite lol

PS the above tips is for guys in the rich and middle class.... If you are in the lower class

Just smoke some weed Bleep ashaewo sleep off wake up do the same all over till you're sure you are over her.

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Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 19, 2018
Find a job, get busy, when you are occupied, you won't really think of her.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Boscojugunu(m): 8:19am On Dec 19, 2018
Valerie47:
Find a job, get busy, when you are occupied, you won't really think of her.
yes I'm a busy type. But the issue is when I'm less busy..
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Nobody: 8:20am On Dec 19, 2018
Boscojugunu:
yes I'm a busy type. But the issue is when I'm less busy..
You need a rebound relationship, enter another relationship with someone finer and better than her.
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Naijamagician: 8:48am On Dec 19, 2018
Valerie47:
You need a rebound relationship, enter another relationship with someone finer and better than her.

because na so e dy easy... SMH.. The nigga should go hit ashaewo get his morale up and then go on to get into another relationship but this time.. Don't love the b...i...t..c..h
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Boscojugunu(m): 10:25am On Dec 19, 2018
Anyone staying in lagos can call 08155966622..
Re: How Do I Manage This Emotional Heartbreak by Iamvally(m): 9:51pm On Dec 19, 2018
Naijamagician:


because na so e dy easy... SMH.. The nigga should go hit ashaewo get his morale up and then go on to get into another relationship but this time.. Don't love the b...i...t..c..h
like thats is wat u are advicing the poster to sleep with mere postitues or his female friends around,am not sure u have never loved someone so deep? for u to think that mere sleeping with anoda person will make u forget ur fromer patner ...please it should be noted that sex doesnt cure heart break.my candid advice to the poster is that he could still talk to the girl..find out if they can sort tins out .If it doesnt work he should learn a skil,do sometin that will impact sometin in his life rather than sleeping with a postitute..Thank you

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