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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 11:40am On Dec 28, 2018 |
lefulefu:Lol at full everywhere. Young oyinbo get choice na, na old cargos no get. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MissRaine69(f): 2:41pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
y3mi:You think this does not happen to older black women? The majority of the women offer the younger man what they seek, which is a passport or residency. Now what young white male would want to target rich African women? Especially if she is in Africa and what does he hope to gain? The state looks after these young improvised white males you speak of.Most of these migrant young African men do not have access to any state support nor financial support abroad or their respective countries. These women are a way out. So they seek the women who will give them the best opportunity to stay in that respective country or if in Africa to leave. That said there are a lot of young men kept by very wealthy Nigerian women abroad and in Nigeria but they are not in need of a Nigerian passport. Women from all over the world do exactly the same thing with older white men. Nigerian women are no exception. |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
I learn, learn not to listen to any Nigerian man love words online or in person, better even do not talk to them as mostly are users and scammers and to find the real one, really in love with a white woman any age it's a hard lottery, specially because we have many local men, in the neighborhood willing to date the white old or not so old woman, as well young white men who are into much older women dating or marrying and they don't need any papers or any place to stay or support, usually the American man supports a woman, not the other way around. |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by y3mi(m): 12:47am On Dec 29, 2018 |
MissRaine69: Agreed, and now we are getting close to the root of the issue why African young men seek not just older foreign women, but older foreign women with cash needing T.L.C. (faked or real), personally..my thoughts have gravitated towards that contemplation in the past, thoughts stirred from the same alternative means common among males who has reached certain level of hardship in this part only to be hardly dismissed by that lingering hope to view it all as a battlefield where only true warriors triumph to become KINGS! Just to understand you correctly, your last two statements in bold, suggests that women round the world who chose to finance the well being of younger men do so for reasons other than that which makes the males ones here who by desperation of their need seek them out for personal elevation such as green card/passport/visa etc....if yes, then in that case, we are talking of two disparate phenomenon born of various Nigerian factors. One is otherwise known as 'sugar mommy/boy relationship' while the other is, well what we may call...Cougar-Claw complex. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 1:01am On Dec 29, 2018 |
y3mi:Lol! Just 2 options? Life is more than that. But it's hard to explain to African people where still women depend too much of men for everything, food, living, feeding her kids and where the man believes women are obligated to obey and where African men see the white woman as a status symbol or as an old burden but with a good meal ticket. Once you start to see any woman, African or foreign, young or old as a human been, your best friend, then maybe you understand me. And yes, I heard the African men opinion, those who live or lived with a foreign woman, many are saying we are very supportive and a best friend to them. Yet, unfortunately, many African men really hate white women because of inferiority complex |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Ugosample(m): 12:49pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: yes yes the pursuit of a better life tho But some end up being for real. There is a man from my village who has been married to his older oyibo wife for say 11 years now, this year will make it 12. So it depends really, these things are not straight forward 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Ugosample(m): 12:56pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lefulefu: you don't mean it |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Ugosample(m): 1:00pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
ghettochild4u: Dayum Which kind wahala be this one now nwanne? |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
ghettochild4u:If she sent you money, why didn't you do the spouse visa and come to live with her? |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Ugosample:the man probably has a young naija girl.in the village that his parents have married for him and she probably has kids for him.u think he will tell u. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Ugosample(m): 1:54pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lefulefu: Funny enough he doesn't o he has two kids with the woman tho. Twins (fertility treatment I bet) He is now in his late 30s and she in her late 50s sha (front estimation) What matters is that is sending money back to his folks back in the east. If he wanted to divorce her, they would have divorced him since 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
ghettochild4u:mehn d greatest mistake u made was introducing ur girlfriend to a friend of urs.these days that so called friends hit on even their paddys wives.u ought to have done d tin silently and moved to the US .the era of trusting friends in nigeria is gone.yur friend snatch ur maga. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
Ugosample:its not all that divorce.some naija guys can still be married to their old european wives while they secretly get hooked to one fresh young naija babe probably arranged by his parents.during the christmas.and easter holidays they come back to impregnate their homebased wives and after d holidays they travel back to join their old european wives.a number of nigerian ladies agree to these arrangement cos of the contant dollars and euros their diasporan husbands send to them constantly and also mind u that some of these their homebased wives have secret lovers that lash them regularly.so while the diasporan husband is performin his husband duties to his granny oyibo wife in europe his young wive in nugeria is getting lashed by a homebase lover.its just deciet upon deciet. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jan 07, 2019 |
lefulefu:It's disgusting. This way he and his Nigerian wife, her lovers are walking transmitting STD, dirty people 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by ghettochild4u(m): 2:29pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
lefulefu: Well I learnt my lessons sha.. Now he's broken up with her as she stopped giving him money n she's discovered he's been dating another girl while they were together
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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by ghettochild4u(m): 2:52pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
Angela777:I sent her back the money to get a passport n we paid a lawyer to help with the visa n finally I paid for her flight one united airline with what's left of the money.. Actually when she went back to USA. She lost her job n shit got hard... And I had to be sending her $100 to pay for her car loan 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
ghettochild4u:oh is dat her? she is young. |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jan 08, 2019 |
ghettochild4u:You are a good man, it's her lost |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 12:58am On Jan 09, 2019 |
Sweet Love : Young Nigerian man shows off his old white bride (Photos) http://www.joeheman.com/sweet-love-young-nigerian-man-shows-off-old-white-bride-photos/ |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 09, 2019 |
and this, she is 92 and he is 40, she worth 20mlns https://www.facebook.com/omar.green.3591267/posts/370985507038802 |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
and what about this story? Is it love? Gabriel Segun Ajayi, a 32-year-old Nigerian married to a 50-year-old resident of the Vologda region, died of a massive heart attack at a dance club Friday night in the city of Cherepovets, about 500 km north of Moscow. Russian investigators have launched a preliminary probe into reports of Ajayi's death, saying that the cause of death would be determined after a forensic examination. Earlier, the official portal of the city of Cherepovets, Russia reported that Ajayi had died of a heart attack at a local nightclub. The Nigerian Embassy in Moscow has told Sputnik that it is looking into reports about the Nigerian national's death. Ajayi and his wife, rural Vologda region resident Natalia Vedenina, had earlier captured the attention of Russian daytime talk shows with their romance, due both to the 18 year age difference between them and the unusual story of a reported Nigerian prince agreeing to move to rural Russia to be with his wife. A man during Russia Day celebrations on Sobornaya Square, Omsk © SPUTNIK / ALEXEI MALGAVKO Blacks Living in Russia Dispel Scaremongering by UK Tabloids Ahead of World Cup The young man met Natalia on the internet in 2012, with neither speaking the other's language; they communicated through an online translator. Natalia's 22-year-old eldest son was apprehensive at first, concerned that the romance may have been some sort of scam. However, Gabriel turned out to be real, and in 2016, Natalia flew to Nigeria, where Ajayi proposed. After marrying, the couple moved to Russia, and in 2017, Natalia gave birth to twin boys. After coming to Russia, Ajayi began learning the language and started working as a tractor driver and local IT specialist. "I would spend days on the internet, and wasn't phased by the color of his skin or his age, nor the fact that he was from a completely different culture," Natalyia said in a talk show." "The more I got to know him, the more I realized that this was my man, who could feel and understand me, how I feel, even without words." Natalyia was devastated by the news of her husband's death. "Gabriel had a massive heart attack, he collapsed and died. He wasn't on any medications. My husband didn't have any complaints about his heart. I was informed two hours after it happened…Our children are just babies –they are just a year old, they don't understand anything yet," she said. Ajayi will be buried in the city of Cherepovets to be closer to his widow and his children. His mother lives with the rest of the family in a nearby village, and is assisting in nursing the children. The rest of Ajayi's family aren't likely to attend the funeral due to the distance and difficulties in obtaining a visa on such a short notice, according to local media. Nigeria is estimated to have about 2,000 kings, and thousands of princes spread across tribes, villages, towns and rural communities across the country. While these families have no formal authority or role in the government, they do play a role in dispute resolution according to local customs, and some have soft power which allows them to influence local politics. https://sputniknews.com/russia/201810151068902351-nigerian-prince-dies-in-russia/ |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Angela777: it is pure scam, just go to Facebook and see their scamming stories, it is pathetic, i hate those type of guys. these women especially the white women fall for a young white fake guy typing form Nigeria they are too trusting, on the woman part, i think it is loneliness and boredom from the side of the women to fall for silly people like that. personally, I like matured women and i have dated one before just for sex only(adventure) and nothing more |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Angela777:Loz .not all of them are scam some of them are into this women, let me say it's kind of a fetish thing.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
wetdick:Yes, you are right. That's why I don't trust any white or American man in Facebook saying I love you and I wish to marry you. Funny thing after not trusting white men, so many black African men show up saying the same and saying they are real and want to marry for real. I see it as another form of scam. Long distance, online only and a very big difference in age and suddenly big love in 1-2 days and marry me It's not real |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Angela777: this is paper love. gosh, this is frustrating, my dey pain me, so a naija guy can marry his grand mother |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
BornagainThief:In America we have young men with addiction to old women, many of men even prefer older women, less drama and no kids. But African young men? It's not so common 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Angela777: always do skype call or some video call, video calls are very important.scammers hate video calls they know that whites fall in love with whites and they will like to help themselves in distress, so they manipulate that for their gain any man, the say i love you from the first day and want to marry you on Saturday is a scammer. 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
wetdick:True. Thank you |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Angela777: this is cultural, there are very few young men dating older women in nigeria, it is rare now for that same guy that does not date a older woman in nigeria to go and then date a 50-60 years old white woman just know that the man wants something, he is not there for love. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
wetdick:Exactly! If he really likes older women, he can have one in Nigeria and in real life, not talking nonsense online to the old white ones 1 Like |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by y3mi(m): 6:29pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
Angela777:Where did you get that notion from ? |
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
y3mi:Personal experience, I also met very racist black people. |
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