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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
lefulefu: Hahahahahahahaha omoh the guy Bleep up I swear. E just be like say make I tie am use soldier beat am better beat make he get sense. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by boiz2men(m): 4:24pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: OK. You lucky. You did nothing. The average age to be independent where you are is 18. And if you above 18, If daddy still pays the house bills or you still live in his house, you owe the people you call broke an apology cos most fend for themselves and pay their bills despite being 'broke' as u call them. If not, you are excused 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by gudugudumeje: 4:27pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Talking as a father, u went too far. U av got to start any girl with simple things even if she is Dangote's dota... U started this unwisely. When and why would she ask for ur whole salary? Dump her now and start wisely wt anoda girl... |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Acidosis(m): 4:31pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
sexybaby22: and sex? |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by 0monnak0da: 4:32pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
lee818:I think there are many factors not just laziness >Some of it is social conditioning too. There are fewer opportunities for women to earn a living in Nigeria Another thing is social class. Whilst it is not an absolute this orientation is common n those people who ate karosin cooked food as children in contrast to those who ate gas cooked food. Their brains develop differently The mentality is not just in women but also in men. Men expect to pay and women expect to be paid and this is a social norm among karosin users So I do not moralize on the issue. What is needed is better clarity of the terms especially in these days of STDs The correct relationship is of a client-friend not grlfriend. Once that is clear there is no quarrel or bitterness in most cases the man is paying but it could be the other way round. It is not a moral issue 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by nagalee(m): 4:32pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
truthsayer009:i love ur contribution as well as PrimadonnaO's |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:33pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Daeylar: We're in sync! 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:33pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
nagalee: Thank you. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by sangresan(m): 4:35pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO: Can't you see how you contradicted yourself? Fact is, the guys you accused of whining here have been saying the truth....No gal deserves to tell a guy how he spends his salary....Writing long monologues can't change that...Who told you that women have always depended on men? When ? Where?...In Africa societies or worldwide? .Better say wetin you know and stop blabbing.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:38pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Admin401: Aha! He got too pesky and I cut him off entirely. I like my peace. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by tejiri4(m): 4:40pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Iyajelili: You actually d first sensible gurl hv seen on nairaland.so impress continue n may God bless ur hustle. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Glink2018(m): 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Adeinfo: Don't just jump into conclusion.... maybe that is only the relationship settings she grew up to learn and understand...no offense , please... It's now left for the guy to tolerate or the lady to adjust to a new settings or both to do the needful... I love relationship because everything in life is build on relationship... |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by EmmaOgbu(m): 4:42pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Actually giving ur girlfriend monthly stipends is not wrong. I did it to my now wife. I started it when I was serving and stopped when we got married. Today we are both working with a single account. She is paid more than half of my salary. In conclusion, if u can afford it and you know her well, go ahead and pay her something. Don't let her determine the amount. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by pocohantas(f): 4:43pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
I think this topic is a very a simple and straightforward one. NO, YOU DON'T OWE HER A DUTY OF MONTHLY STIPENDS. It is a relationship, not a trainee position. It isn't wrong to give your girl money on a monthly basis, but you can only give what you feel like and when you feel like. The irony of all this is, you people only whine on social media...in reality, you go back to dating these same girls. The reason for that is simple too, without money, most of you feel useless...without money, most of these girls feel you are useless. Don't date her, that mentality took years to form. You can't change/correct it. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by tejiri4(m): 4:45pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
EmmaOgbu: Depending on the gurl this one stated above seems like a permanent parasite 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by nagalee(m): 4:46pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Iamtosignno:u don't start a relationship on the basis of money. Just be yaself, who will love will love you 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Acidosis: thats part of 'devotion to making you happy' because she might not even want it at times. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
WaffenSS:BOSS think you so so much God bless you 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 4:50pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
sexybaby22:God punish you there. Investment kill you. Don't go and look for a job. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Boss13: 4:50pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: Initially I wanted to call you out of your silliness, then I had a second thought - maybe you are a teenager going through a lot and just trying to hide on a faceless forum to feel good about your Insecure self. Your lingo and diction does not depict someone who was born and raised in a western society. You continue to use Nigerian phrases and contemporary words and that gives you out as someone who maybe in a fantasy world. Also, your mindset is still interwoven with that of African cultural values and thinking. I know this because I know the United Kingdom extremely well and I also live in a Western Country. I can tell those who are not aware that London is a crappy city. The only fantastic place to live and visit is Central London, the other places are horrible. North London is not much different from Lagos - Dirty. You can literally see Poo on the streets (no jokes). Gang members, street beggars, homeless and prostitution. Crime levels so high you begin to wonder if the Met Police is incompetent. Broken families within the black community and kids roaming around with daddy issues. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:52pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Op you need a new babe...better start praying for luck...cos getting a 'wife' that suits you these days requires better prayer. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by tejiri4(m): 4:53pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Boss13: dat chicks always form it written all over her post she loves making mouth o 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by elantraceey(f): 4:54pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Coloradvantage: That's this part of the world for you, they value quantity over quality. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 4:55pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO:see who's calling others broke? Are you not broke as well? See this hungry fellow. Prove you're not broke lets display our statement of accounts. That way we would know who's the broke person. I'm waiting. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:55pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
uyiekpenn: Lol, don't give your self hypertension oga. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 4:56pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Boss13:Darling I was born in the U.K. and I went to Nigeria to live for 3 years. I understand the lifestyle, lingo and culture of both countries. I left at 19 and I’m 23 now. I don’t need to speak queens English to prove that I live a better life than you. I’m fuckinggg real and if I have to speak better broken pidgin for you to get the message into your thick skull, then so be it Oga. I don’t need to tell you my life story, the fact is that I’ve lived a good life since forever. Your perception of London is nonsense, especially speaking to someone who has lived here all their life. Good day. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Acidosis(m): 5:00pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
sexybaby22: Lool, you have joined bad gang |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by 0monnak0da: 5:01pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Boss13: Guy leave the fake bitch alone She is faker than Fakorede Her English is atrocious ......... She does not know the difference between entitled and obliged She said I AM NOT ENTITLED TO COOK FOR YOU......... I am embarrassed for her You nailed it when you say she is insecure............she is just trying to compensate for a sense of inadequacy She is what I call a Jangolova saying , karosin using ,polybag shiitting, shot put throwing tamba doing wannabe.........in short a lowlife peasant 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by WaffenSS(m): 5:03pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Hizzy: You're welcome, but shhhh! 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 5:04pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
See all this gra gra nonsense you’re writing, my head cannot collect it. As far as I’m concerned, man must pay and woman must slay. Good day sir. 0monnak0da: 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 5:05pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Acidosis: Its the truth, just that many can't express it. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Boss13: 5:06pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: Then act as a 23 years old and stop the silliness! You’re contradicting yourself with your timeline on both countries. I can tell you I know London better than you giving our age difference. I schooled there FYI. 3 Likes |
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