uyiekpenn:
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not your duty as a man to be financially responsible for any girl's upkeep. Nigerian men created this stupid feeling of entitlement and virus that's quite common amongst 90% of Nigerian females. The only woman I give monthly stipends and money in general is my mom and none other. I don't work under the biting winters or hot summers each day to be feeding one broke ass, lazy, hopeless, useless, greedy, senseless and unproductive female when she's not handicapped or an orphan.

uyiekpenn:
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not your duty as a man to be financially responsible for any girl's upkeep. Nigerian men created this stupid feeling of entitlement and virus that's quite common amongst 90% of Nigerian females. The only woman I give monthly stipends and money in general is my mom and none other. I don't work under the biting winters or hot summers each day to be feeding one broke ass, lazy, hopeless, useless, greedy, senseless and unproductive female when she's not handicapped or an orphan.

Coloradvantage:
what is the aim of buying a gift someone will not value. my girl friend tried this habit recently I let her know the fact.. it is a relationship. partnership. not a parasitic stuff. there is nothing bad in helping a friend. but someone making it feels having a boyfriend is a carreer path is low-level of thinking. next time don't waste your money. buying gifts.

know if that individual knows the worth.

even since I bought expensive wine when travelling to the village. I spent nothing less than 320k. and my friend who bought about 7 crate of beer was used as an example of how to give. I now take a new leave.

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

uyiekpenn:
I'm telling you and I find this to be very foolish. Imagine after I don suffer work from 9 to 5 only for one vagabond to be demanding what she cannot ask her for. E no go better for that girl. They want money but don't wanna work. Who dey find money make e go work. After all we all have two hands and two legs.

Jeferious:
Abeg where my brothers dey see this kind girls... because to me they don't exist. Abi na brothel op go find this im girlfriend?

The thing is that most men are so poor that the only thing they have is money. It's the only thing they can use to impress a lady. But the thing is, women value great sex more than money. I've been with mainstream prostitutes so I know what I'm talking about. They often have lots of money, mostly running into millions, that they don't know what to do with. But funny enough dem go still collect maximum payment from the next client. And intelligence is another trait that women admire a lot. Strength, eloquence, good looks are also capable of capturing a lady's heart.

From a personal point, I've a gf who I kept under my spell not with money(she has not even begged me money before in the first place), but with so many other qualities. And I can't remember her denying me anything before. The only bad thing is that I don't want to marry her, or anybody else. I just want her to give me children, preferably males.

uyiekpenn:
listen to your fucking self. You want to use another man's child to climb while in return you offer nothing. Work for your own stuff and stop being Fucking lazy

boiz2men:


You are not a smart person.
Go back and read.

goodnewscliff:
ur body dy hot....

SonsOfLiverpool:
Run from broke girls, even if it's my sister run.
Don't say you were not warned.

merahki:



Who are all these people!!!
What turned you people this way!
Now broke means useless?
What a warped mindset
Please don’t be like this, it is very unsettling
And the laughing and smiling icons you guys use make it more chilling

rame18:
Then you are not entitled to her commitment or faithfulness. Nobody should be entitled to anything in your situation ship.

Beadex1:


so your commitment and faithfulness is being negotiated with money ?

dingbang:
I love this thread.. I see the spirit of sense and wisdom hovering around.

rame18:
Then you are not entitled to her commitment or faithfulness. Nobody should be entitled to anything in your situation ship.

merahki:


While I am female and may not have agreed/agree to run a shop for a man (cos I am lazy ), I like your posts
If any of my male relatives had an unemployed girlfriend, I would like your open-shop scenario for them

@all, the gender wars have to stop
Many of us would not be the kind of partners we would love our blood relatives to have
With this hypocrisy, we should not fight away our lives
Jeez

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

rame18:
Then you are not entitled to her commitment or faithfulness. Nobody should be entitled to anything in your situation ship.

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

merahki:


I am glad someone sees good on here
Cos I see a lot of hatred, bandwagon-ism, negativity and stinginess on display here. That’s the pervading spirit here for me.- being little in spirit (I am glad for the small bursts of humour, positivity and goodness I have to say)
Well I hope I am being hormonal and imagining things. If not, we have a huge problem on our collective hands. Cos we need minds focused on bringing freedom, development and wealth to Africa, not expending energy on gender warring!

jorion:


Madam, go and make your own money. Then come and spend on us. Stop shouting stingy stingy when you can't even make your own

merahki:


I am glad someone sees good on here
Cos I see a lot of hatred, bandwagon-ism, negativity and stinginess on display here. That’s the pervading spirit here for me.- being little in spirit (I am glad for the small bursts of humour, positivity and goodness I have to say)
Well I hope I am being hormonal and imagining things. If not, we have a huge problem on our collective hands. Cos we need minds focused on bringing freedom, development and wealth to Africa, not expending energy on gender warring!

Beadex1:


so your commitment and faithfulness is being negotiated with money ?