Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

coming from a dependent lady...

you ladies really need work on your mentality.
poverty has reorientated you guys to see relationships as a paid Job...

Saffi:
Darling I was born in the U.K. and I went to Nigeria to live for 3 years. I understand the lifestyle, lingo and culture of both countries. I left at 19 and I’m 23 now. I don’t need to speak queens English to prove that I live a better life than you. I’m fuckinggg real and if I have to speak better broken pidgin for you to get the message into your thick skull, then so be it Oga. I don’t need to tell you my life story, the fact is that I’ve lived a good life since forever. Your perception of London is nonsense, especially speaking to someone who has lived here all their life. Good day.

Who asked for your biography?
You were born in Okokomaiko, Boundary , Agboju or somewhere like that.
I can very easily demonstrate that you are a liar and low life parvenu
Spare us the gratuitous swearing it proves nothing

I can smell the karosin whiff from you a mile off
You are scum

uyiekpenn:
oga I have no regrets about what I did. No woman would use me as a means to climb any ladder when she has absolutely nothing to offer.

You can't change the past. No sweat.

How am I contradicting myself? Oga please keep quiet. You don’t know this country better than me, I’ve lived here for almost 2 decades. You are just stupid. So everyone here speaks queens English ? So person cannot speak broken or yamma yamma English because I was brought up here? Go and sit down I will show you my true pakko side. Idiot.

Boss13:


Then act as a 23 years old and stop the silliness!

You’re contradicting yourself with your timeline on both countries. I can tell you I know London better than you giving our age difference. I schooled there FYI.

Saffi:
See all this gra gra nonsense you’re writing, my head cannot collect it. As far as I’m concerned, man must pay and woman must slay. Good day sir.

I agree with you generally but why lie about your background

Why claim you were born in the UK does that enhance your self esteem?

Obviously you are lying it is embarrassing

loool okay. I can’t argue with someone who only owns a green passport, I’m so sorry. That’s if you have one.

0monnak0da:
Who asked for your biography?
You were born in Okokomaiko, Boundary , Agboju or somewhere like that.
I can very easily demonstrate that you are a liar and low life parvenu
Spare us the gratuitous swearing it proves nothing

I can smell the karosin whiff from you a mile off
You are scum

You are respectfully crazy sir... thumbs up

Earthbound:
Did you just say you spent over a hundred K on a chick that is not your girlfriend?? Someone who might be in the shower right now as I type this, getting ready for some other guy's dic.




I dunno your age, bruh but you deserve better brain resetting beating

Can you prove that I’m lying? All you small boys on nl. What willl I gain from lying? Na wa ohhhhh

0monnak0da:
I agree with you generally but why lie about your background

Why claim you were born in the UK does that enhance your self esteem?

Obviously you are lying it is embarrassing

0monnak0da:

I think there are many factors not just laziness >Some of it is social conditioning too.

There are fewer opportunities for women to earn a living in Nigeria
Another thing is social class. Whilst it is not an absolute this orientation is common n those people who ate karosin cooked food as children in contrast to those who ate gas cooked food. Their brains develop differently

The mentality is not just in women but also in men. Men expect to pay and women expect to be paid and this is a social norm among karosin users

So I do not moralize on the issue. What is needed is better clarity of the terms especially in these days of STDs

The correct relationship is of a client-friend not grlfriend. Once that is clear there is no quarre


l or bitterness in most cases the man is paying but it could be the other way round.

It is not a moral issue

You are totally right!! I agree with the ckient-friend situation(friends with benefits) instead of boyfriend/girlfriend. thanks for your contribution�

boiz2men:
Lol.

All the girls in my life think I'm stingy.

I fvcking don't care.

They gossip me and say "which kind person b dis"?

I still don't care.

Only a few understand I'm not.

I have never said no to my family members and real friends (male and female alike)

Footnote: no one is stingy.. You just don't worth it.

All because you have a puxxy.. So what?


In fact, it's easier to give a guy money than a babe.

In case u wondering, I think I'm single lol

Except you are gay(which is your right),there is no need for all this combatant attitude from you towards female cos i am sure they do not seek you out,rather its the other way round..Its your life and your money(if you have one)

Its all well and good till you want to get married or even get married....Being single for life suits you perfectly so kindly end up that way...or better still with your male friends

sexybaby22:


Its the truth, just that many can't express it.

Hmn I get your points dear. So what's your opinion about friends with benefit?

Saffi:
Can you prove that I’m lying? All you small boys on nl. What willl I gain from lying? Na wa ohhhhh

Your English gives you away it smells of karosin and poverty of the face me I face you variety

No matter how hard you try with your bluff and bluster it is very easy to read you psychologically and socially
You are poor
You have low self esteem
You are cheap
You are fake
You are badly educated

boiz2men:


Hey, get off your high horses.

I know a lot of friends who live in Europe and are not doing great. I have a better life than most. Only fellow docs in Europe live better.

Being outside Nigeria doesn't mean you have a great life.

Please, tell her. Enunciate further, this time rigidly! She's got no idea.

Acidosis:


Hmn I get your points dear. So what's your opinion about friends with benefit?

If the two parties are fine with it, who am I to judge?

I personally am not cool with that and can't allow my partner be in such arrangement, but for others, whatever two consenting adults decide to do is none of my biz.

sexybaby22:


If the two parties are fine with it, who am I to judge?

I personally am not cool with that and can't allow my partner be in such arrangement, but for others, whatever two consenting adults decide to do is none of my biz.

alright, thanks for sharing

Ziggylady:



Except you are gay(which is your right),there is no need for all this combatant attitude from you towards female cos i am sure they do not seek you out,rather its the other way round..Its your life and your money(if you have one)

Its all well and good till you want to get married or even get married....Being single for life suits you perfectly so kindly end up that way...or better still with your male friends

A subtle form of psychological blackmail.
He could be misogynist withoutht being gay. He could be gay he could be bisexual . There is no relevance.

Your approach is to attaack him and change the dialogue by hopefully putting him onn the defensive it is weak

Sharia and even African traditional societies are notoriously misogynist doess not make them gay.
Try another angle because that one is lame.
In some parts of the north women can be acquired for a bag of rice and 20K that is for life. not 100k for girlfriend to be

Saffi:
How am I contradicting myself? Oga please keep quiet. You don’t know this country better than me, I’ve lived here for almost 2 decades. You are just stupid. So everyone here speaks queens English ? So person cannot speak broken or yamma yamma English because I was brought up here? Go and sit down I will show you my true pakko side. Idiot.

You definitely have Daddy Issues and do not live in the UK. You also suffer from personality disorder, believing to be who you are not. There are a lot of stuff wrong with you that you are unaware of that I wondered who gave birth to you and raised you and what happened to your childhood. Please wake up from your fantasy world and face the realities in front of you.

You are no Brit and not even close to it!

0monnak0da:


Your English gives you away it smells of karosin and poverty of the face me I face you variety

No matter how hard you try with your bluff and bluster it is very easy to read you psychologically and socially
You are poor
You have low self esteem
You are cheap
You are fake
You are badly educated

Ignore her - she is lying. If she was my age mate I would have called her out of her BS

Boss13:


You definitely have Daddy Issues and do not live in the UK. You also suffer from personality disorder, believing to be who you are not. There are a lot of stuff wrong with you that you are unaware of that I wondered who gave birth to you and raised you and what happened to your childhood. Please wake up from your fantasy world and face the realities in front of you.

You are no Brit and not even close to it!

I do not think she claimed to be a Brit she just lied that she was born there but yes she is full of Ajegunle shitt

0monnak0da:
I do not think she claimed to be a Brit she just lied that she was born there but yes she is full of Ajegunle shitt

If she has had any affiliation to the UK, it’s probably a few vacations, if she has even had one. I know a Brit and I’m not being cheeky

I hate giving in the name of puss**y

See person monthly salary..chai.!!!!!! Bro, she obviously has a wrong mentality. And y dating a girl u both residing in the same compound ? She might just be so into you because of your financial status.
Bro abeg channel more of ur finances into your self and family..
Stop giving her money and see her reaction towards you.

Boss13:


If she has had any affiliation to the UK, it’s probably a few vacations, if she has even had one. I know a Brit and I’m not being cheeky

There is a way Nigerians speak and write English that is quite distinct ditto for Beentos(there is actually such a word in the dictionary), Americans, South Africans and so on.it is easy to tell. Now quite apart from diction is the mentality. Again one can read these things
She has a grade one Igbotic olosho mentality
All the breezy bluff is transparent but also embarrassing why the self loathing?

Saffi:
Cook for yourself, sex yourself, and las las do not ask any woman for any damn thing. Why is it always broke guys that are miserable and bitter? The comfortable ones never complain because they are financially smart enough to budget and deduct what is needed to satisfy their woman. We can all be selfish and and stingy but the truth remains, offline you guys still make it rain. D

I've been observing your comments here and I can boldly say that you're a broke ass nitwit, vagabond and bitch. Wake up from your stupidity cos 2019 is already here and people have started waking up. Go and get a job and stop being lazy. I know you're hopeless but at least be useful to us around you.

Hahahaamuhaahaaaaa

Boss13:


You definitely have Daddy Issues and do not live in the UK. You also suffer from personality disorder, believing to be who you are not. There are a lot of stuff wrong with you that you are unaware of that I wondered who gave birth to you and raised you and what happened to your childhood. Please wake up from your fantasy world and face the realities in front of you.

You are no Brit and not even close to it!

Lmao 94k...this op sef

0monnak0da:
A subtle form of psychological blackmail.
He could be misogynist withoutht being gay. He could be gay he could be bisexual . There is no relevance.

Your approach is to attaack him and change the dialogue by hopefully putting him onn the defensive it is weak

Sharia and even African traditional societies are notoriously misogynist doess not make them gay.
Try another angle because that one is lame.
In some parts of the north women can be acquired for a bag of rice and 20K that is for life. not 100k for girlfriend to be

There is nothing in my post to suggest any of the gibberish you maliciously implied...Its all in your head,strong and real like one suffering from some sort of schizophrenia..

You can be stingy and be proud of it.

You can dislike female and flaunt it on nairaland much to the delight of your male admirers,

You can call women all sorts and denigrate them like you were either hatched by a bird or dropped from a sky....its your funeral really

But it will be a crime againt humanity if you end up getting married albeit deceiving one unsuspecting female you are sane and human when you are not..thereby subjecting someone else's child to a life of agony and pain that would surely ensue from such a messed up male.

THAT IS MY POINT!.

boiz2men:
Lol.

All the girls in my life think I'm stingy.

I fvcking don't care.

They gossip me and say "which kind person b dis"?

I still don't care.

Only a few understand I'm not.

I have never said no to my family members and real friends (male and female alike)

Footnote: no one is stingy.. You just don't worth it.

All because you have a puxxy.. So what?


In fact, it's easier to give a guy money than a babe.

In case u wondering, I think I'm single lol

We're the same bro

Shaattaapp

uyiekpenn:
I've been observing your comments here and I can boldly say that you're a broke ass nitwit, vagabond and bitch. Wake up from your stupidity cos 2019 is already here and people have started waking up. Go and get a job and stop being lazy. I know you're hopeless but at least be useful to us around you.

Saffi:
Can you prove that I’m lying? All you small boys on nl. What willl I gain from lying? Na wa ohhhhh

You see I analyse communicaation for a living.
As long as you keep talking and or writing I can tell who you are , your background and status.

Even if you are in the UK I can tell the post code area you grew up in

You see even when people make writing or spelling errors they are not random, there is a pattern

Let me share a few with you

What will I gain from lying?

A basic grammatical error

The correct tense should be the CONDITIONAL TENSE

What WOULD I gain but that is not random it is a TYPICALLY Nigerian error
very few Nigerians would NOT make this error even unversity proffessors

Next the construction using the word GAIN is typically Nigerian

Most UK educated kids would simply say

"Why would I lie?"

That your construction is in the COME AND BE GOING category

These solecisms are not random at all they are PREDICTABLE

Again the phrase
"small boys" is something I would expect from an Olosho not a London Girl as you claim to be

Stop the fake life ,keep it real

rosalieene:


the first mistake you made is posting this crap on nairaland
most NL chap would and are insulting the poor girl

you don't need anyone to tell you that naturally women love to be showered with gifts and money.
its now left for you to decide if you would give her or not.
if she leaves you because you don't give, fine and good, you would find someone who don't share that idea

shut your dirty mouth over there. Shower you with what gifts? Thunder fire your life there for that comment. If you want money go and back and stop being a liability

Okay now I live in the U.K, but I grew up poor? I can’t keep up with all this nonsense.

Grammatical king, where are you in life? What has it done for you?

Someone’s English automatically equates to a good life Lool. Only in Nigeria will you hear bullshit like this, I’m honestly amazed at how retardedd you are. They can only use Queens English to validate themselves because money no dey. Wetin concern me with another mans language? Idiot. You have lost the argument. You are not making any sense, go back to reading your dictionary poor man.

0monnak0da:


You see I analyse communicaation for a living.
As long as you keep talking and or writing I can tell who you are , your background and status.

Even if you are in the UK I caan tell the post code area you grew up in

You see even when people make writing or spelling errors they are not random there is a pattern

Let me share a few with you

What will I gain from lying? A basic grammatical error

The correct tense should be the CONDITIONAL TENSE

What WOULD I gain but that is not random it is TYPICALLY Nigerian very few Nigerian would NOT make this error even unversity proffessors

Next the construction using the word GAIN is typically Nigerian

Most UK educated kids would simply say

"Why would I lie?"

That your cnstruction is in the COME AND BE GOING category
These solecisms are not random at all they are PREDICTABLE

Again the phrase
"small boys" is something I would expect from an Olosho not a London Girl as you claim to be

Stop the fake life ,keep it real