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My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by bidv(m): 8:10am On Jan 10, 2019
There's this girl am currently in a relationship for closing to 10 months now, I recently discovered that there's particular guy that do call her often and often but she denied having anything to do with him. To cut story short after long talks she agreed that she has been having sex with this guy that she started dating the guy before me that she has been trying to quit from the guy after we met. Now.... the pain is much for me because I trusted her a lot and even gone to see her parent for marriage plans, I told her I can no longer continue in this and she has been pleading and begging me sending her frnds to me that she will never try that again that I should give her one more chance.

Please I need sincere advice, should I accept her back? If yes I will forever live with the hurt.
She called me this morning and swore that if she ever cheat on me again let her never give birth for life and said so many other stuffs, I don't know am really confused.

Please I need help.....
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by StPete: 8:12am On Jan 10, 2019
Follow your instincts and not your emotions.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by tsephanyah(f): 8:13am On Jan 10, 2019
If some dude has his bro-feels hurt enough to come limping into my comments- he is not allowed to then ask me to leave my comments on my post to make him comfy in his bro-flake ways

I am gonna make a spray called "bro-be-gone" and start dousing my posts. Move on jare

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 8:25am On Jan 10, 2019
Destroy that relationship...

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Rextizzle(m): 8:28am On Jan 10, 2019
Cheat on her too, and show her the sex clips

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Rickjordan(m): 8:32am On Jan 10, 2019
After it took her so long to accept the truth...She'd be low key getting smashed again just that this time she'll be more smarter...Runaway

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 8:48am On Jan 10, 2019
bidv:
There's this girl am currently in a relationship for closing to 10 months now, I recently discovered that there's particular guy that do call her often and often but she denied having anything to do with him. To cut story short after long talks she agreed that she has been having sex with this guy that she started dating the guy before me that she has been trying to quit from the guy after we met. Now.... the pain is much for me because I trusted her a lot and even gone to see her parent for marriage plans, I told her I can no longer continue in this and she has been pleading and begging me sending her frnds to me that she will never try that again that I should give her one more chance.

Please I need sincere advice, should I accept her back? If yes I will forever live with the hurt.
She called me this morning and swore that if she ever cheat on me again let her never give birth for life and said so many other stuffs, I don't know am really confused.

Please I need help.....

Marry her naaa...nobody is perfect...
But u go need cough out some money for paternity test from time to time...just to be sure the kids are urs....
It's not really easy to quit Straffing around once u have started enjoying it....

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by nkwuocha: 9:05am On Jan 10, 2019
Seems whenever a woman cheats on her boyfriend,the sorry tales of"I'm planning to marry her","She is my fiancee" or "I just recently bought an engagement ring to engage her...." Bla bla bla becomes part of the ill tales.

A research into such worthless relationship will make one conclude that it's a relationship where premarital sex is/was the ONLY commitment.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 9:42am On Jan 10, 2019
tsephanyah:
If some dude has his bro-feels hurt enough to come limping into my comments- he is not allowed to then ask me to leave my comments on my post to make him comfy in his bro-flake ways

I am gonna make a spray called "bro-be-gone" and start dousing my posts. Move on jare
You didn't succeed in making sense with this awful understanding of English language.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by tsephanyah(f): 10:07am On Jan 10, 2019
mrblessed:
You didn't succeed in making sense with this awful understanding of English language.
Grammarphobic is a thing, you need medical assistance
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 10:24am On Jan 10, 2019
tsephanyah:
Grammarphobic is a thing, you need medical assistance
In a futile quest to impress, you unwittingly "murdered" comprehension and signification, two most basic elements of communication.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 10:35am On Jan 10, 2019
Why is it difficult for some people to stick to one partner biko? After they'll blame devil

Op take heart

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by tsephanyah(f): 10:41am On Jan 10, 2019
mrblessed:
In a futile quest to impress, you unwittingly "murdered" comprehension and signification, two most basic elements of communication.
weirdo. did you escape from psychiatric or they knowingly allowed you to roam free. Anyways Nigeria's mental institutions is not functional. Creepy psycho don't reply pls

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 10:54am On Jan 10, 2019
tsephanyah:
weirdo. did you escape from psychiatric or they knowingly allowed you to roam free. Anyways Nigeria's mental institutions is not functional. Creepy psycho don't reply pls
Not with the prevalence of kindergarten-like grammatical errors that riddled your lame and dismal reply. Hahaha. Excuse me for having a well-deserved laughter. Let me point out just one of them: " ... Nigeria's mental institutions are (not "is"wink" as you ignorantly rendered it. If you have any iota of respect, you will cease calliing me underserved names, and applaud my altruistic intervention to strengthen your communication skills.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by babyfaceafrica: 10:56am On Jan 10, 2019
once a cheat,always a cheat..be wise!!

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 10:57am On Jan 10, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why is it difficult for some people to stick to one partner biko? After they'll blame devil

Op take heart
Talking about partner, have your search yielded positive result? I ask because I embarked on marathon lone prayer and fasting seeking the approval of heaven on your behalf.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 10, 2019
God forgives. I don't!

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 10, 2019
mrblessed:
Talking about partner, have your search yielded positive result? I ask because I embarked on marathon lone prayer and fasting seeking the approval of heaven on your behalf.
smiley Heaven has approved. Thank you.
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:13am On Jan 10, 2019
u just a side nigga.accept her now and marry her now and the other dude will keep on smashing her behind ur back cheesy.either u take ur share and move on or u just forget her totally.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Headlesschicken(m): 11:13am On Jan 10, 2019
undecided Dump her @ss,she's after d marriage,i guess yuh not good in bed...

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 11:17am On Jan 10, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
smiley Heaven has approved. Thank you.
Praise be to God! You might think I am being playerful, but deep in my heart I am on cloud nine for you. Congratulations!
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:19am On Jan 10, 2019
mrblessed:
Praise be to God! You might think I am being playerful, but deep in my heart I am on cloud nine for you. Congratulations!
You must b a grammarian. Off course I know u did no such thing. Perhaps u looking for a soft ground to communicate with me....lol nice one.... Congratulate me when I open a thread to that effect. Thanks
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by mrblessed(m): 11:25am On Jan 10, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You must b a grammarian. Off course I know u did no such thing. Perhaps u looking for a soft ground to communicate with me....lol nice one.... Congratulate me when I open a thread to that effect. Thanks
Thanks for the compliment. Why would the ground be "soft" to enable discussion with you? You know, anonymity characteristic of nairaland makes it possible to say anything one wishes. So, as for me, there is no "soft" or "hard" ground.
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Originalsly: 11:41am On Jan 10, 2019
Bro..... chew on this... understand what you're dealing with then you can be comfortable with your decision. Is it you can provide for her and the other guy can't?.... is it the other guy is married?...and she will forever be his side chick?...but posing as your wife? Is it she is on her knees begging you because she doesn't want to face the wrath of her family et al for fetching them shame? All the swearing is to ensure you marry her..... after that... the relationship would continue on the down low....as it is right now. Cut your losses....ease your headache...reduce your stress.... get sleep at nights.... dump her.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:45am On Jan 10, 2019
oga, u know what to do because I know you have already taking your decision, so irrespective of what we say, do what you are ought to do.
perhaps, this question should not be brought here until you want to live with adulterous woman all your life because we as man, you can never take it from your mind
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 11:49am On Jan 10, 2019
mrblessed:
Thanks for the compliment. Why would the ground be "soft" to enable discussion with you? You know, anonymity characteristic of nairaland makes it possible to say anything one wishes. So, as for me, there is no "soft" or "hard" ground.
Great smiley
Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by NarnieSnyper(m): 12:30pm On Jan 10, 2019
if she was serious at first she shut out any other guy coming her way but dude, thank God you dodged the bullet.

I don't know about you but I can never forgive a cheating partner.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by lilmax(m): 12:35pm On Jan 10, 2019
when your girlfriend dey receive too many calls from same person and you complained..... I know people told you you're insecure grin.....scam of the century

break up, you've learnt something

always trust your instinct, let it guide you in your next relationship

and this is only valid, if you weren't cheating, if you were, you deserve eachother

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Homguy(m): 1:12pm On Jan 10, 2019
bidv:
There's this girl am currently in a relationship for closing to 10 months now, I recently discovered that there's particular guy that do call her often and often but she denied having anything to do with him. To cut story short after long talks she agreed that she has been having sex with this guy that she started dating the guy before me that she has been trying to quit from the guy after we met. Now.... the pain is much for me because I trusted her a lot and even gone to see her parent for marriage plans, I told her I can no longer continue in this and she has been pleading and begging me sending her frnds to me that she will never try that again that I should give her one more chance.

Please I need sincere advice, should I accept her back? If yes I will forever live with the hurt.
She called me this morning and swore that if she ever cheat on me again let her never give birth for life and said so many other stuffs, I don't know am really confused.

Please I need help.....
be careful, its only a matter of time, she would be back to her vomit.
But this time more codedly.

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by uthlaw: 1:17pm On Jan 10, 2019
watin concern u if she cheat,u Don marry her...chop ur own make u comot face!

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jan 10, 2019
my frind you are emotional, break up with the girl and move forward

if you love being cockhold you can stay in the relationship and enjoy the pain till you die of heart attack

she is addicted to her ex dick, so my advice is to forget about her

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Re: My Fiancée Cheated On Me. by marvin906(m): 1:27pm On Jan 10, 2019
Your fiancee cheated you so what's holding you back from fvcking another chick...a these weak pvssy in the form of a man rubbish

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