In respect to this method sir, how do i join it.

Simple. By having sex.
Its a natural law, you're supposed to have sex to keep the species alive. Leave all that religious mumbo jumbo biko...

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

GreatAchiever1:
Ever heard of self control??
Ask God to give u some...

Ask God?
What is this one talking about?

That's when you will see temptations.

God cannot give you self control rather you control yourself.



Best advice is to CHASE MONEY

jtjohn:

Great piece of advice, which might go a long way in helping people that are involve in premarital sex.

Thanks sir

Permanent solution: Castration, be an Eunuch, no more sexual urge

XceptionJay:


So how much have you make so farr?

I have made enough to make me comfortable.

Can the urge for sex really be managed, my there OP I don't think so.

1. Get busy by reading something or involve in some activities that can take your mind off such

2. Be where people are and get into interractions

3' Discipline your mind or try and get a girl (Marry)

You need to discipline yourself and stay away from things or movies that awakening your urge to have sex

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

As a guy you must have sex at appropriate intervals to avoid prostrate cancer. Be wise!

LeonOgu:


Bro absolutely nothing is wrong anywhere

You are right! There is nothing new under the Sun.
It is good to live a life that pleases God.
It is important to know that some people abstain from sexual related things for moral values and not necessarily because they are religious.

Approach the throne of Grace, remain there and never quit even when it seems you do not have sexual urge.
GRACE IS WHAT MAKES ANY MAN/WOMAN TO REMAIN PURE/SINLESS, apply self-control, move away from objects or environments that tempts into sin till Jesus Christ comes again. Grace is the manifest help of the HOLY SPIRIT working inside us and around us to sustain us *undefiled* in this *defiled world* even amidst our urge and desires that tends to be tempting towards evil thus "For the [remarkable, undeserved] grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. 12 It teaches us to *reject ungodliness and worldly (immoral) desires*, and to *live sensible, upright, and godly lives [lives with a purpose that reflect spiritual maturity] in this present age(in this world filled with urges/sins/pornography/lust/greed each tick of time)*" (Titus 2:11-12 amp). for more knowledge check youtube for messages on GRACE BY GBILE AKANNI.
GREAT GRACE TO YOU IN JESUS NAME. AMEN.
for the past 22-years{from age 11 through 33 yrs now} of my life till date, I have never had sexual intercourse with any woman, demon or being after 4-years of fornication. Grace supplied only by the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ from the throne of Grace did it for me. The Holy Spirit engages you *daily consistent progressive bible studies* on personal bases and general bases(your Church) then your human ability to sin becomes *dead* till Christ Jesus comes again while the *righteous abilities of Jesus Christ manifests with ease in your life* thus "the power of God(Holy Spirit) at work *inside us* will both *will and do his good pleasures* through us" (Phil.2:13)

Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.

You better don't put yourself in trouble.

Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.

VERY V.WRONG HERE. NEVER A SOLUTION. CHRISTIANS WHO ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN FOCUS ON HEAVENLY MINDEDNESS. KEEPING THEIR HEART/MIND WITH ALL DILIGENCE, FOR OUT OF IT ARE D ISSUES OF LIFE. READ D WORD... PROV.4.VS 23. (2.) KEEP FILTY FILMS AND PICTURES OUT OF UR EYE SIGHT TV OR IMAGES. 3. MINGLE AND KEEP COMPANY WITH LIKE MINDS. AVOID UNHOLY ASSOCIATION. 4. REGULAR FELLOWSHIP AND COMMUNION WITH GOD & D HEAVENLY MINDED.5. READ AND LISTEN TO SPIRITUALLY INSPIRED MATERIALS, FREE FROM LUSTFUL INTENTS. READ UR BIBLE & OTHER EDUCATIONAL BOOKS.6. AVOID SEXUAL SITES AND IMAGES ON D NET. AVOID PORNOGRAPHY AND 7. ABOVE ALL, EXAMINE URSELF, MIND AND HEART DAILY,BEING CONFORMED TO D DICTATES OF GOD. PYRSUE HOLINESS OF LIFE...HEART PURITY AND FLESH CHASTITY....ETC...

AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.

Where can one locate a buddy dynasty in Nigeria ?

lonelydora:


Do you work in NAFDAC? I need the truth

lol. That funny
I don't work for NAFDAC, I work as a NAFDAC consultant

Funjosh:


Werey Iyanaipaja you still dey Nairaland

with multiple visa sef

AryEmber:
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.

Guy... This one na magic ooo.
You can imaging the kind of feelings that will occupy ones heart on remembering how successful his mates are.

NNEWIsuper:

you're in Belgium bro?
my Belgium visa I applied since 30/10/2018 isn't out till this moment.. just a tourist visa oo

If only people would learn... if you scan this Naiaraland properly, you'd discover that Belgium's visa wait period is the most annoying, it could take up to 6months in some cases, and that's normal for a country with three autonomous government's.

Why didn't you apply for a German visit visa?

optimusprime2:

If only people would learn... if you scan this Naiaraland properly, you'd discover that Belgium's visa wait period is the most annoying, it could take up to 6months in some cases, and that's normal for a country with three autonomous government's.

Why didn't you apply for a German visit visa?

like you rightly said, i was never in the know how long belgium visa lasts and besides i was to visit my friend in sint-truiden..so how would i have used german visa

Dreamville:
Thank God for your life bro,but were you into masturbation before,if yes,how did you overcome the act?

l am not a masturbator and I can never be. To me it's a dirty act. My spirit doesn't support it, knowing that I'm a temple of the Holy Spirit and that he leaves in me. But whenever I'm weak in the spirit, my body responds negatively like do it, do it. Just that the truth is when you do it once, the urge will come again. That's why I can take fasting either 7 days or 3 days 6 to 6 to discipline my body and therefore flame up my Spirit. At least I've done 3days dry no water no food before. After this, it took me some weeks for my appetite to come up again. And I was seeing from spirit to spirit and I was moved to continue.

Besides, having Godly friends speaks volumes here, because they encourage me a lot.

Ask God this
Ask God that. Nigerian youths so bloody myopic and deeply rooted in stupid religious bullshit. the west’s have psychologists and Therapists while in Africa we have Pastors.

SlayQueenSlayer:
It takes enormously discipline. I am on my 5th week of no sex. The longest time in 10 years. It gets better with time. My goal is 90 days in the first instance.

exactly
I've done three weeks and am in the first week of a five week target.

it gets better with time.

lemme sit down here

NNEWIsuper:

like you rightly said, i was never in the know how long belgium visa lasts and besides i was to visit my friend in sint-truiden..so how would i have used german visa

It's a Schengen visa... a Schengen visa allows you to visit all Schengen states. Abeg o let's not derail the thread...
My apologies.

optimusprime2:


It's a Schengen visa... a Schengen visa allows you to visit all Schengen states. Abeg o let's not derail the thread...
My apologies.

no problem dear.. enjoy..I already knew the Schengen stuff but as you said let's not derail the threas

optimusprime2:


It's a Schengen visa... a Schengen visa allows you to visit all Schengen states. Abeg o let's not derail the thread...
My apologies.

no problem dear.. enjoy..I already knew the Schengen stuff but as you said let's not derail the thread

It's really not that difficult. After every break up I usually lose interest in sex for years at a time. I don't know why but it takes a certain type of man to spark up that side of me. If I don't meet someone that feels right, I remain celibate for however long it takes, without feeling like l'm missing out on anything. Instead I feel pure physically & spiritually, that can be addictive. Sex does take something out of you, I'm beginning to suspect. Because when I'm in one of my dry spells, I'm almost psychic

enemyofprogress:
with multiple visa sef

I know say to get Nairaland visa na small thing for your side. Sa ma gbadun

Funjosh:

I know say to get Nairaland visa na small thing for your side. Sa ma gbadun

I don dey even borrow some to people wey chop ban

Abcruz:


Hear the word of the Sovereign Lord O simple one:

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.--proverbs 25:28

Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats(sex): but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body."-- 1 Corinthians 6:13

The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent.--Acts 17:30

Accept Jesus with your whole heart and soul, and Incline your ears to the reproves of life for your own good and for the good of the children after you.!!!"

Taaaa!


Carry ur Jesus n shove it where the sun doesn't shine