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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 8:23am On Jan 11
Rozaytee:
are u sure u have sense like dis

Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 8:27am On Jan 11
Afonjas:
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I don't know what to tell you but

You're a religious mumu

Thank you sir
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 8:28am On Jan 11
donbrowser:

Why are you getting urge if you're not being tempted. As you are singing hymn sef, you will be imagining many things.
The best thing is to get a job or get busy.

Maybe we are from different school of thought but I know what am saying very well
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 8:29am On Jan 11
Imperare:

nice post but heaven is not a race

Maybe or maybe not
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 8:30am On Jan 11
WinningSun:



The urge for sex can not be satisfied by anything on earth than sex

But it can be subsidized if not completely eliminated
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:34am On Jan 11
ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

please can you shed more light on this so that most of us that are single will learn?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Hodoekpe: 8:34am On Jan 11
Thanks
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Dreamville: 8:37am On Jan 11
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!
Thank God for your life bro,but were you into masturbation before,if yes,how did you overcome the act?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by smeag0l(m): 8:37am On Jan 11
Cos I'm contented with what I have.
Valerie47:
Why you no go chase money?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by cadesky(m): 8:45am On Jan 11
Fast, as a Muslim, d holy Prophets recommend fasting, at least Mondays and Thursdays, and leave d rest for d almighty, he will surely take care of ur days and get u away from sinful act
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by olawrite: 8:48am On Jan 11
Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.
Why should you advice people to do this?
Do you even care about future
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by hustla(m): 8:55am On Jan 11
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!


Your dick has issues bro
Stop hiding behind religion
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by XceptionJay: 9:08am On Jan 11
Sirmuel1:
Just forget about Women and chase money.


That method has been helping me.

So how much have you make so farr?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by BiGVEEN58(m): 9:10am On Jan 11
Why are the ladies not saying anything?
They don’t have sexual urge? undecided
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Abcruz(m): 9:12am On Jan 11
Okoroawusa:
I don't control anything. For what?



I must have that sex that day(any which way) or I masturbate.


For Your Information, am not trying to be funny here( this is Nairaland. People tend to give naughty or funny answers, sometimes)


I am dead serious.

Hear the word of the Sovereign Lord O simple one:

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.--proverbs 25:28

Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats(sex): but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body."-- 1 Corinthians 6:13

The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent.--Acts 17:30

Accept Jesus with your whole heart and soul, and Incline your ears to the reproves of life for your own good and for the good of the children after you.!!!"
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 9:13am On Jan 11
BiGVEEN58:
Why are the ladies not saying anything?
They don’t have sexual urge? undecided

a few of them have made an outstanding contribution to the thread..

you know ladies are shy when it comes to discussing about sex

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by XceptionJay: 9:25am On Jan 11
Toks2008:


Laughing my ass out
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Randy100: 9:26am On Jan 11
sky101:
Haba mana, the kind off stress in Nigeria is busy shutting down people's libido and you're still recommending drugs?

Maybe It can help some people sha.



As for those married women whose husbands have become serial donors, here's your solution. Just be ready to live with it.
wrong advice, no man should take it without his permission. It is a criminal offence.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Tejiriseth(m): 9:37am On Jan 11
You don think am finish.?
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Valerie47:
I start thinking of 101 ways I can make money.
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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by joshjc(m): 9:46am On Jan 11
franchasng:
making a habit of fasting twice in every week helps.

Yes money or financial success increases sexual libido in men.

Being committed in Church don't even help much these days with lots of voluptuous looking ladies dressing provocatively to Church knowingly and unknowingly cry

What I discovered that works best is weekly fasting, it also helps one to keep fit because you won't be eating three or four times daily as usual.

And when you are fasting, your inner spirit will be at peace and you will also be in sober mood to even think about sex. And if sex urge ever comes, because you don't want to spoil your fasting, you will definitely find a way to brush it aside and focus on other issues of life.

And while on this, the person must avoid watching movies and x-rated TV programmes or even hip hop music videos.

Watch only news, wild animal/science documentary and sports stations, which happens to be the only channels I ever watch since my life, I can't remember watching any movie unless I saw at a glance when someone else is watching which I will definitely change if I must stay.

Guys if you can be able to learn how to control your sexual urge as a man, believe me, if you are single, you will never marry the wrong lady and you will not fall victim of women manipulation.

You will be so confident and bold to handle any lady and reject any without fear cos you aren't desperate of anything.

It is men's desperateness to have sex that always lead them into dating and marrying the wrong ladies and also lead them into making unfounded promises and pledges they can't keep cry
temptations will still come during or after the fasting,don't forget Jesus was tempted after fasting for 40 days, the way women dress now makes you have sexual urges, it's in our nature to have it,the Bible didn't say will should stay and be tempted to see if we can overcome sexual temptation,it said "FLEE" just like Joseph did
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adams123: 9:46am On Jan 11
As a good Muslim, the fear of the punishment of GOD, for disobeying HIM would tend to suppress any amount or degree of the urge to disobey HIS commandment.
GOD has endowed us with a WILL, It's let for us to make our choice between wrong and right decision. We have no excuse to offer for disobeying HIM whatsoever!
All we have to do is to check our hearts, are we sincerely following the commandment of our CREATOR!!??
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adams123: 9:53am On Jan 11
[quote author=joshjc post=74654411] temptations will still come during or after the fasting,don't forget Jesus was tempted after fasting for 40 days, the way women dress now makes you have sexual urges, it's in our nature to have it,the Bible didn't say will should stay and be tempted to see if we can overcome sexual temptation,it said "FLEE" just like Joseph did[/quote

I hope Islam dressing code recommendation for women would serve us better here..
women should be well covered when stepping out from their homes
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by FirePower1: 9:54am On Jan 11
Be far for the source of your temptation and Study or move closer to the source of your inhibition ( e.g Bible biblical based messages, motivational messages for pious living e.t.c), pray for God to strengthen you, be strong and determined and take hot concentrated lipton with little milk without sugar. Goodluck and may God bless you.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Shamsointegrity(m): 10:00am On Jan 11
kingsmaila:



Fast every Monday and Thursday weekly. It reduces sexual urge.
..... That's the best remedy.... Concentrate more on how to be successful in life and avoid illicit songs and videos...
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by jtjohn(m): 10:02am On Jan 11
donvoice:


A true religion didn't only condemned it but also gives a way out.

When ever the urge comes as a Christian, change your immediate environment because definitely it's something around there that brings out the stimulation. Pick up your Bible or hymn book or better still play a deep rooted gospel songs on your phone and set my mind on the heavenly race.

Trust me, it works better than any other remedy
Great piece of advice, which might go a long way in helping people that are involve in premarital sex.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by renegademinds(m): 10:04am On Jan 11
AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.
while this is completly untrue, you might be right as regards the tv and media shoving lascivious content down our throat..but I opine that it is indeed possible to train yourself to avoid acting on such urges, the human mind is a farm, and your thoughts are seeds, the more you feed your mind with unhealthy content, the more you'll feel the need to act on them

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by denjjy(m): 10:11am On Jan 11
always keep your vasline by your side at night. Satisfy the urge and forget about woman.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 10:20am On Jan 11
QuietHammer:
You can't cheat nature. You either fvck somebody, use your hand and 'choke the monkey' or your body fvcks itself by having wet dreams. Whichever way, man must cum.
hahahahaha
U wicked ooooo
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 10:23am On Jan 11
Interesting15:


Like, anytime I see posts like yours, I'm like 'seriously'? Is self control that difficult? I mean, I'm 24 this year, I never had sex before in my life.. And I don't see myself having sex till I get married by God's Grace.

Well, I believe if you decide honouring God with your body, He will give you strength

It is good you haven't done it before. It is easier that way.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Funjosh(m): 10:27am On Jan 11
enemyofprogress:
Na this for this kind thread wego find funkeshugar, lalasticlala, funjosh, ajepako, eleko1 and Pa Seun olori oko nairaland

Werey Iyanaipaja you still dey Nairaland
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by oyoofong(m): 10:37am On Jan 11
Just give your life to christ.When money comes .you get yourself a wife/
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by vinejulia(f): 10:43am On Jan 11
Following the Bible's advice is the best way, the bible says to deaden ones body members as regards uncleanness. Think about it if you are pressed would you just do it anywhere? You wait for the convenience even when someone is there, you can wait until the convenience is free. What about thirst or hunger would you eat spoilt food or dirty water just to quench thirst or satisfy hunger? No you wait for quality food and clean water. Jehovah God created humans with natural desires like thirst hunger sexual urge etc but he also gave the ability to control them. You can if you determine to by avoiding any thing such as musical lyrics or TV shows the contain sexual content that can arouse one. Hold on get married and have the sexual experience of your life you go taya for sex when you marry. God's way is the best he created us he knows what's best for us.

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