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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by LeonOgu: 1:20pm On Jan 10
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by marvin906(m): 1:22pm On Jan 10
When am chasing money after I block many things

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ademola721gmai(m): 2:48pm On Jan 10
Toks2008:


Get a wife.
I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 2:54pm On Jan 10
ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

Mend the problem bro. If you can't then get yourself another wife if that will solve your problem But I will not support you sleeping around indiscriminately.

My advise may come as a shocker to many young minds who are yet to understand the deep matters of the heart.

Never marry 2 or more wives under same roof and don't ever try polygamy if you can't handle it else you die before your time.

So as I wrote,mend the bridge with your wife cos most problems are more of psychological than physical but if you are strongly feel you need to be with another lady you are free to marry another lady. My candid advise.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 3:01pm On Jan 10
For someone like me I make sure I go for A lady I'm sexually attracted to else the union is dead on arrival.

Don't preach the sermon of good behaviour to me...in my world, no woman is entirely good or bad but it is what I make out of her.

And if I'm married to you and you don't want to play along with my bedmatics in terms of what I love to do to you and to be done to me...i will try my best to make you change but if you refuse, I will simply let you be and get another lady that will do beyond what I ever imagine...i mean MARRY ANOTHER LADY...

Life is too short for me to get sexually frustrated NEVER. YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE
.YOLO

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 3:05pm On Jan 10
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

I thank GOD for his grace upon your life.

You are lucky to be a virgin else you would have understood clearly how extremely difficult it is to remain chaste after tasting the act.

May GOD give you more grace.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 3:06pm On Jan 10
Lalasticlala I think this makes sense.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by LeonOgu: 4:11pm On Jan 10
Toks2008:


I thank GOD for his grace upon your life.

You are lucky to be a virgin else you would have understood clearly how extremely difficult it is to remain chaste after tasting the act.

May GOD give you more grace.

God bless you and lift you brother. Though Bro, even when I haven't had any canal knowledge of sex, I can talk about it as a professional. Sexual urge is a very high and sensitive one. But it can only be surmounted by the Spirit of God.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 4:13pm On Jan 10
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

Please change the SEX word in your title to intimacy.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ADRIAN88(m): 4:30pm On Jan 10
zyzxx:
Be looking for money


May you live long my brother.. grin

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Professorcplus(m): 4:53pm On Jan 10
My eye has seen enough. When I just got admission 4yrs Ago, I used to think every one especially girls were innocent until they all proved me wrong.

I has roll with different set of human being.

To some $€× is just norms. Even have some friends (female) who brag about it to their peers.

And some wish to have but never seen the opportunity

while some are scared because of what they told them about it

While some decided not to.

So having sex is your choice....Anything that happens after it you take responsibility for it.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Princealex1(m): 4:54pm On Jan 10
ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

I apologize if my question is intrusive, but out of curiousity and having the same belief you had before getting married.
What do you mean by sexually frustrated??
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donwhit(m): 5:19pm On Jan 10
[bro you are lucky, i have tried all means to eradicate sexual deaire, cravings and lust, but theu keep still coming back. I wish i am like u that is only moved by the things of the spirit. Sexual urge is extremely strong.[color=#990000][/color].

quote author=LeonOgu post=74627746]I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now![/quote]
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 5:22pm On Jan 10
doctore212:
Sex doll all the way.[color=#000099][/color]
side effect
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donwhit(m): 5:22pm On Jan 10
sexual desire is insatiable i swear.
ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 5:26pm On Jan 10
AryEmber:
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.
u are a guru

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 5:35pm On Jan 10
Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.
hope no side effect?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by millionboi2: 5:37pm On Jan 10
ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage
hmmmm

Why?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kollinzgee(m): 5:57pm On Jan 10
Sirmuel1:
Just forget about Women and chase money.

That method has been helping me.
gay spotted
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 6:08pm On Jan 10
Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.

Please don't dare if you love yourself cost the side effects are terrible.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kollinzgee(m): 6:10pm On Jan 10
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

big bro,truth be told search deep within your heart you will know that a born again should not be on the romance section it is poisonous to your mind some sexual topics will even arouse you consciously or subconciously ,i am a sinner but dont judge me.but if i was a born again i will never visit this section even God is not happy with that..if you know you know.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 6:15pm On Jan 10
It takes enormously discipline. I am on my 5th week of no sex. The longest time in 10 years. It gets better with time. My goal is 90 days in the first instance.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Judek2(m): 6:20pm On Jan 10
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

At 32, a virgin??

Who I'm I to doubt what thou hast said..

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Goldenboy01(m): 7:09pm On Jan 10
AryEmber:
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.
u kill it bro

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Randy100: 7:29pm On Jan 10
millionboi2:
hope no side effect?
There is always side effect to every drug.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Randy100: 7:36pm On Jan 10
Toks2008:


Please don't dare if you love yourself cost the side effects are terrible.
Every drugs comes with it side effect and the side effect of those drugs are less common unless it is taken for a very long time.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by AryEmber(f): 7:40pm On Jan 10
Goldenboy01:
u kill it bro
It's sis actually.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by merit12(f): 8:03pm On Jan 10
[b][/b]
CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.[/color]
I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn
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You can avoid it by digging a hole � on your bed or you can join a whatapp sex group to share word of.... Together
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by zyzxx(m): 8:03pm On Jan 10
ADRIAN88:



May you live long my brother.. grin
amen lol

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:55pm On Jan 10
LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!


Thanks bro...

Your words have been a blessing all day

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(m): 8:57pm On Jan 10
merit12:
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You can avoid it by digging a hole � on your bed or you can join a whatapp sex group to share word of.... Together


cry cry

[b] Smh
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Okoroawusa: 9:07pm On Jan 10
I don't control anything. For what?



I must have that sex that day(any which way) or I masturbate.


For Your Information, am not trying to be funny here( this is Nairaland. People tend to give naughty or funny answers, sometimes)


I am dead serious.

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