A Nigerian lady posted photos from her traditional wedding and revealed that she and her husband met in November 2018, her price was paid in December 2018, while her traditional wedding held in January 2019.

Ugochi also used the opportunity to advise ladies not to get stuck in long term relationships as they might not lead to marriage.

Met on November
Bride price paid on December
Traditional wedding on 2nd January 2019
If you’re not understanding that relationship of 15 years biko let it go, it mustn’t lead to marriage ( though it works for some people), I too was in that long term relationship before I met him, don’t lose your husband cox of boyfriend. So many people are busy saying“why didn’t you both date?” And I tell you , prayer is the shortcut, once you’ve prayed and everything confirmed, biko fire down
The person I planned to play is my husband today
Congratulations to us

Source: https://www.mediahelm.com.ng/2019/01/dont-lose-your-husband-because-of.html

Well said...
I hope our ladies would borrow a leaf from her!!!!






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Good advice congrats

we will sha read news of your divorce here on nairaland

Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

This kind of rushed marriage, I smell fish one of them has an ulterior motive.
But what does a 17year old boy know about marriage

True. A man who truly wants to marry you and sees you in his future wouldn't waste your time.

Congrats

jasonguru:
This kind of rushed marriage, I smell fish one of them has an ulterior motive.

But what does a 17year old boy know about marriage

Keep smelling fish oh.
U go soon smell shit!
Hater

Hmmmmmmn
May God not allow us to hear stories later ooo
Congratulation sis

Come back after 1year n tell us howfar, maybe d long relationship n!gga just dodged a bullet, sometimes it's not always about how fast,but how well... Buh nobody dey too put mind for galfrd matter Dix days,if she goes she goes...

Kellibae:

Keep smelling fish oh. U go soon smell shit! Hater

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Look at the kissing pics and you'll see she just made a big mistake .

I wonder when women will learn to quit thinking marriage . That's like the easiest way to get any lady to be dialing your number every hour

What a shame. People get into relationship and breakup in less than a year, yet one dummy is getting married in less than two months . See her mouth like he paid her price . How much is the price you sold yourself for carelessly? .

Very soon now we go hear say the guy is this and that. He's an occultist, he licks menses, he likes anal, he beats me when angry, bla bla bla . Women make una dey logical for at least 24 hours after a guy approach you .

If my daughter brings a guy for marriage, he's going on at least 2 year quarantine period. If she can't think logically, I go bridge the gap for her using that method. If after 2 years they're still together, I approve. . No one will pay one penny on my daughter's head. What nonsense

jasonguru:
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Newboss:
Look at the kissing pics and you'll see she just made a big mistake .

I wonder when women will learn to quit thinking marriage . That's like the easiest way to get any lady to be dialing your number every hour

What a shame. People get into relationship and breakup in less than a year, yet one dummy is getting married in less than two months . See her mouth like he paid her price . How much is the price you sold yourself for carelessly? .

Very soon now we go hear say the guy is this and that. He's an occultist, he leaks menses, he beats me when angry, bla bla bla . Women make una dey logical for at least 24 hours when after a guy approach you

I know they type of brainless kids we have on this forum ... Enemies of progress everywhere.
Shame on y'all.
Their marriage is a success.

Jobless men!

I pity the boyfriend she betrayed, most women are like this

jasonguru:
This kind of rushed marriage, I smell fish one of them has an ulterior motive.

She said once you've prayed and you are convinced in your spirit, go ahead and marry him.

Kellibae:


I know they type of brainless kids we have on this forum ... Enemies of progress everywhere.
Shame on y'all.
Their marriage is a success.

Jobless men!

Wedding is a success, not marriage. Go and get a life, not marriage. Two months marriage is absolute trash! . I mean ABSOLUTE! .

Someone you can't stand for a year in relationship, you think you can stand the person in 10 years? . Make una dey reason . Minimum should be a year! . One month that the girl only stayed with him for a total of 6 days on and off or even less, out of 30 days.

That thing you see there is trash, my daughter cannot have my consent on that . Na so alhaji dey marry girls for north o. . And the stupid papa go collect money on top who her pikin can't even write a page about Haba

mhizbel:

She said once you've prayed and you are convinced in your spirit, go ahead and marry him.

logically, don't you think it's too fast to marry a stranger within three months, marriage is beyond prayers if not pastors should have the best home

Newboss:

If my daughter brings a guy for marriage, he's going on at least 2 year quarantine period. If she can't think logically, I go bridge the gap for her using that method. If after 2 years they're still together, I approve. . No one will pay one penny on my daughter's head. What nonsense

Amen to you!

mhizbel:

She said once you've prayed and you are convinced in your spirit, go ahead and marry him.

You think those girls being maltreated all over town didn't conceive in their spirit, mind, liver and kidney? . No be for womb they conceive o

Make una girls dey logical. The spirit she dey talk about na her emotions .

Oma307:

logically, don't you think it's too fast to marry a stranger within three months, marriage is beyond prayers if not pastors should have the best home

It is. Even the Bible encourages courtship which should last for six months and not more than a year.
I was only answering the part where he said he smells something fishy... I wouldn't encourage her to jump into the marriage like that but then, she seems to have prayed over it and got a positive response.

some people sef once they have gotten married they start seeing themself as automatic marriage counsellor.

Newboss:


You think those girls being maltreated all over town didn't conceive in their spirit, mind, liver and kidney? . No be for womb they conceive o

Make una girls dey logical. The spirit she dey talk about na her emotions .

I understand you.
But you see, God is not an altar of confusion. If indeed they prayed and got a clear and direct response from God, and were sure that it really was God, there is no way they would be in a bad/wrong marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't encourage anyone to jump into marriage like that but in cases like this, I don't think there's anything wrong with doing so.

The rest of una wey never marry- if you try this nonsense - go marry within few months of knowing each other - You will have yourselves to blame.

1 outta 100 of this kind survives.

That's what I was telling a lady they other day. Thank God for the new generation that don't date forever in the attempt to discover Mongo park

mhizbel:

I understand you.
But you see, God is not an altar of confusion. If indeed they prayed and got a clear and direct response from God, and were sure that it really was God, there is no way they would be in a bad/wrong marriage.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't encourage anyone to jump into marriage like that but in cases like this, I don't think there's anything wrong with doing so.

My sister, the guy doing yahoo got a direct response from God o. The average yahoo boy is a serious God guy o. Check their Facebook, na God full there o .

My sister, the G word is the word for defending any action these days o.

Hmm

Congrats. Are you guys using 10g network

Na so bridge dey collapse fast

faithfull18:
True. A man who truly wants to marry you and sees you in his future wouldn't waste your time.

This could be us you know?? But we can start our own this 2019