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Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by roymary: 1:54pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
NothingDoMe: Its clearly stated in my short comment above that the duration is relative but logically, 3 months is no where close to ideal. Sir, you must be outta touch with the current statistics of crashed marriages . When you ask how long they have known their partners , you simply hear we met and got married a year ago. 2 Likes |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by sunbilor(m): 1:54pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:It will NEVER happen! |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by spydes: 1:55pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
My dear,please do whatever rocks your boat,but please don't suddenly think every other lady should follow your path...congrats and please stay married for yourself and your hubby...e no concern us las las 3 Likes |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by sunbilor(m): 1:55pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
jasonguru:I don't think so. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
3months? How old are you? princfred: |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by roymary: 1:56pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
princfred: Bros, 3 months is enough to meet a total stranger ,know them enough to marry them and spend forever together? Please I know you are joking. This is 2019 6 Likes |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by kessler53(m): 1:56pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:speak good thing about a person 1 Like |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by 9jaRealist: 1:56pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Good luck, but I can’t shake the feeling of impending DISASTER! |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Mediahelm: That's a big risk. No courtship, no nothing! This portends a great danger. Why the acute desperation? One of the couple is hiding something. How would two strangers just enter marriage like that. I hope we would not read story that touches the heart later. 5 Likes |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by yomisley: 1:58pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Only women with fish head or few ones that come from a poor background see marriage as a breakthrough. It’s because na man dey Carry the whole Wahala. Wish her luck but make any of them no come here to seek advice on how to divorce there Partner after a year or two say them tire. Which doesn’t even make sense. Ire2: 1 Like |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by princfred(m): 1:59pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Newboss:I pity that your daughter whose destiny you want to tie on top of iroko. So after 2 yrs the guy bail nko? Then another 2 yrs each for another 2 guys? If am your daughter and hear this kind talk from you, na teenage pregnancy i go carry do you can faint in peace earlier. 3 Likes |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Topze(m): 2:00pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
ValCon888: True talk By the way i have a luxury watch for sale...check my signature |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Sicilyjoe: 2:01pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
This rushing of marriage doesn't make sense, my friend is currently going a lot in his marriage, his wife just packed and left to her home, they meet on Jan / Feb last year, did traditional marriage on April, |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
androidroot:honestly, at the sound of 'marriage' they abandon the guy with who they've been. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by RTSC: 2:02pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Maybe the guy found the pussy too good to let go. There are ladies you would sex and you would claim them immediately. Or maybe she is rich, which I doubt. Those are the two reasons for such quick weddings. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by VULCAN(m): 2:02pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Wedding should NOT be THE goal, rather fulfilled marriage. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
who da hell still gets Married nowadays? just fuvk as many women as you can and have as many baby mamas and children as you can. go forth and multiply!! who marriage epp?! who da hell wants to smell the same vagina every morning for years! when they can smell different vagina every day. Tufiakwa!! |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by princfred(m): 2:04pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
roymary:Did i not state what is necessary? Exceptionally mature and intelligent people can do that. I've met someone who i can of proposed to within a week and she kind of accepted. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by chival(f): 2:04pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
I'm all for striking the iron while it is hot. That said, jumping into marriage with a man/woman you barely know may have not bode well in the long run. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Acidosis(m): 2:06pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
A very big risk. 2 months is not enough to know her, her family, her friends, her personality, her secrets, her pasts. 2 months is not enough to prove her loyalty, commitment, respect, empathy, and love. This is a mere gamble. It can go bad or great, there are no assurances. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by cooljoe(m): 2:07pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
so because it turned out this way for her she now had bsc in marriage counseling. na wa |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by princfred(m): 2:07pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
gypsey:Father oga marriage can give one the power of two o. E epp many o when it's gotten right. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by chival(f): 2:08pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Ornament2003: I agree completely. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
ValCon888: Don't mind them. She has not even spent a day inside the guys house. They hardly know each other oo. I guess the guy is loaded and she feared other ladies might snatch him, so she quickly lured the Mumu into Marriage. I don't wish them evil but I won't be surprised when we read how that her beautiful face is "panel beated " to resemble my village Masquerade. Time will tell |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by ojuu4u(m): 2:09pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Headlesschicken: Couples who are meant to be husband n wife, their marriage will Never hit the rock, no matter how small the courship they had, I have seen a man that met a lady and the lady moved to his house bcoz of one or two problems in her house and bcoz the guy felt lonely, they latter got married , ten years counting they are still happily married with kids On many many occasions, we guys give filmsy excuses to delay being got married, if u ve regular income you have no reason of delaying marry lady you really love. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by NothingDoMe: 2:09pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
roymary:So you actually think that marriages crash because they didn't date for at least 6months? The problem with marriages these days can be summarized in one word: "expectations". People don't talk about it much before marriage. They spend time having lots of sex and not really talking about expectations: 1. What are my responsibilities? 2. What are your responsibilities? 3. Are there responsibilities from extended family? 4. Are we going to swap responsibilities at any time? 5. Are the responsibilities compulsory? 6. Would you like to remain in Nigeria for ever? 7. Where would you like to live? 8. How many kids? How do we achieve this? 9. Would you like an open book marriage or would you want some things to be kept secret? 10. Social media: Are we going to be giving the world the opportunity to follow us as we progress in our marriage. Social media is among the top factors of crashed marriages because it creates unnecessary competition and expectations. Also exposes you to " Options". People that will slide into your DM in your hour of trial. Parents too don't bring their kids up with the right values. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by princfred(m): 2:11pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Acidosis:Na 4 yrs, 7months, 3 weeks and 21 days get assurance guy no assurance in marriage especially given that humans change sef. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by oyoofong(m): 2:12pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Started lemming almost immediately on NOVEMBER. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Powerexpert: 2:12pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
I remembered a friend quoting this very line. E no funny o! Plenty relationship expert for we 'kantry' ValCon888: |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by InvertedHammer: 2:15pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
grayht:/ Many married women will read her post and laugh. She is celebrating her wedding. Will she celebrate her marriage? Every marriage usually starts on a good note. Just saying... / 1 Like |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
princfred:what kinda power of two that one man can not have? Infact, when their are two problems are ×2. Trust me I know! i ve been married twice and Divorced twice. |
Re: "Don't Lose Your Husband Because Of Boyfriend"- Nigerian Lady Advises by Dinho20(m): 2:16pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
HAPPY MARRIED LIFE. ENJOY YOUR HUSBAND. MARRIAGE IS GOOD. |
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