victorian:







True on that, but not all ladies are the same .

We women are different in character and feelings . There are ladies who simply enjoy pure friendship, especially if they see the sincerity and care in your eyes when u laugh and when u advise them, they value it a lot especially coming from a fellow female .

I have just 3 good female friends . Two are married with kids and the third is single . , the first one her husband is based abroad , while she travels to go see him at least 4 times a year, she doesn't have friends here in Nija , she's kind of private person but we got along when I went shopping at her Ankara and lace shop . thats after like 4 visits then later we liked each other and became close friends . She looks proud and stand offish but she's not . I knew after a while of bn her customer. She is such a lovely soul.

Then d second married friend is an Alhaja, very funny and open minded lady but very caring . we got along well too , when she patronised my biz. We kind of look alike but am fairer. Beautiful soul as well and very funny with enthusiastic big eyes .lol

Then the last one is a Doctor , she's single and a nairalnader . Marvelous lady , kind and overly nice, she has her own opinion which I respect . Infact she's my doctor ,I seek advice from her whenever am not feeling fine. Then we catch up on daily activities on fixed dates , while we gist about everything. A lovely soul as well.
And we take ourselves on dates , one on one ..

All these 3 ladies , we don't envy one another . Cause we are matured in thinking. I love them to pieces . And they bring out the soft playful side of me

Ayam convinced. Where do I sign? Lol.

I wasn't trying to generalize though. But it's quite common to see ladies beef themselves over petty things.

But I agree, if the friendship is genuine, it can be beautiful.

victorian:










If he likes , he shouldn't take me on dates , or even spend on me . he is not doing me , he's doing himself .

I can spend on myself and my female friends who eagerly spends on me too and we don't regret it one bit . the more they spends on me , the more they make it and vice versa. At least I don't need to open yansh before we spend for each other . its done freely with warmth and care . God bless my female friends , they are God sent .

Unlike guys that want to fuckkk the living daylight out of ones body before spending a dime ! Smhhh. They are like devil , who won't give anyone anything for free.

Funmistiqueen God bless you. One love ! We've got each others back!

Cause I and my female friends know givers never lack .

Like I said , let him keep his money and I will use mine on other people that deserves it . I'm not dependent on man to feed me . I feed myself well!

Na im be say if him spend the dime, he go fuvk tire.
And modafuckers say that love is real.
Talk about trade by barter.

5thElement:


Ayam convinced. Where do I sign? Lol.

I wasn't trying to generalize though. But it's quite common to see ladies beef themselves over petty things.

But I agree, if the friendship is genuine, it can be beautiful.

Am telling you ,its very beautiful and soothing . its like a therapy on it's own.

All those ladies beefing each other are ladies who haven't seen what life is all about .
They are still naive .Thats why they allow men come inbetween them.

We need ourselves , irrespective of whether u have a man of your own and the other person doesn't have . it shouldnt cause beef . Because life na turn by turn . we will all get there someday . if our men is giving us headaches at home , we can talk about it and free the emotional burden . if one of us doesn't have a man , we cheer her up and make her understand , everything is all about the right time .

Wait are u a male or female?

ValCon888:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

Raalsalghul:
Na im be say if him spend the dime, he go fuvk tire.
And modafuckers say that love is real.
Talk about trade by barter.

Seems its hard for you to understand simple English

OK lemme repharse


I said its better to have my own money and spend on myself and my female friends . which I have . Also my female friends spend on me, i spend on them and we don't even fuckkk ourselves, how much more Bleep tire .


Men and their selfish way of thinking

I pray sex will not extinct all the men in this country .

All your brain is just wired with sex sex sex.! Haba!

Who do you like this ?

victorian:











Am telling you ,its very beautiful and soothing . its like a therapy on it's own.

All those ladies beefing each other are ladies who haven't seen what life is all about .
They are still naive .Thats why they allow men come inbetween them.

We need ourselves , irrespective of whether u have a man of your own and the other person doesn't have . it shouldnt cause beef . Because life na turn by turn . we will all get there someday . if our men is giving us headaches at home , we can talk about it and free the emotional burden . if one of us doesn't have a man , we cheer her up and make her understand , everything is all about the right time .

Wait are u a male or female?

Don't worry, when I become president I'll make you minister for women affairs in Africa.

5thElement:




Don't worry, when I become president I'll make you minister for women affairs in Africa.

Hehehehehehehehe


That wil be great! I pray it happens as u visualize it . amen!

victorian:



Hehehehehehehehe


That wil be great! I pray it happens as u visualize it . amen!

Amen.

Jman06:
If both of them are of sound character their marriage would succeed. Character is the main thing that holds a marriage! Not how long you dated

This is the best reply. When a man and a woman are people of character, there marriage will succeed.

The problem we have today is that many people don't work on there character, hence they can't sustain a relationship on the long run

grayht:

Well said...
I hope our ladies would borrow a leaf from her!!!!






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Waooo wts a great move

ChidiAlaigbo:


How old are you, world champion sniffer?

Keep sniffing around in your old age, you hear? And will it to your grand children, mumu!

why are you so pained that i am sniffing Around? Is it your sniffing?
now you are calling me old. keep wondering.
Yes i am a world champion vagina sniffer, Go hit your head on a rock some were

excelmanager:

please, I am interested

click on the link on my signature

CreepyBlackpool:
we will sha read news of your divorce here on nairaland

Bad belly club
As you wish her, same wishes are to you.
Human beings and jealousy

princfred:
I think the difference is i still hope to repent (maybe a lady angel will come around and reset my brain or something) but you have given up on yourself. Understandable though given your case of twice beaten....how i love to advice you to try again and again like i tell myself but i believe you know yourself more than i do so may God help us.
..

Good luck to you! i say!!

If there’s nothing else to talk about apart from sex. Then you’re dating the wrong kind of dude.

victorian:








God bless you .

All people in relationship think about is fuckkk, fucckk, fuckkkk!

No meaningful conversations
No asking of questions to know each other

All they think about is food and Sex!

Why divorce no go enter after one year of marriage . After fuckkking tirelessly for some months with reckless abandon in the marriage , their eyes will now clear about each other character .
Even if they date a million years and no communication except food and sex !.

Oh the sex is hot ! After marriage and they start living together their eyes clear.

Smmmmmhhhhh..


Guys wooing me , when I tell them no sex , let's talk and know ourseps better. They become dumb, nothing upstairs to talk about . immediately have cancelled the idea of taking any of them serious .

Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

ValCon888:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

Lol.. U don craze.. Lol

If Same man wasn't made, would she marry him

ValCon888:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

Hahaha true

CreepyBlackpool:
we will sha read news of your divorce here on nairaland

BAD BELLE FROM 2018 TO 2019
NO WONDER U ARE CREEPY AND BLACK AT THE SAME TIME MTCHEEW

ValCon888:
Once a Nigerian lady manages to get married, she becomes a marriage counsellor and relationship expert

It will sha soon be met in November. Bride price in December. Divorced in so so so. Ladies run away from demons

Saffi:
If there’s nothing else to talk about apart from sex. Then you’re dating the wrong kind of dude.

True .

Am not even dating any of them.

And they've kept their distance, which is better for me .

Mo Raye oshi!

victorian:









Seems its hard for you to understand simple English

OK lemme repharse


I said its better to have my own money and spend on myself and my female friends . which I have . Also my female friends spend on me, i spend on them and we don't even fuckkk ourselves, how much more Bleep tire .


Men and their selfish way of thinking

I pray sex will not extinct all the men in this country .

All your brain is just wired with sex sex sex.! Haba!
Who do you like this ?

At the bolded, na you na.

victorian:







True .

Am not even dating any of them.

And they've kept their distance, which is better for me .

Mo Raye oshi!

Eeya. And I know you hugg your pillow every night.

Raalsalghul:
Eeya. And I know you hugg your pillow every night.

Nope I sleep freely in total amd complete peace!

The peace I feel while sleeping is unimaginable, without any hands groping for boobs, assz or pussy!

Mehn its heaven having ones space at times.

Raalsalghul:

At the bolded, na you na.

Hahahahahahahah




No be me o!


My Reverend likes using that phrase when he wants to yab and crack jokes during service ..lol. He says comedy dey hin blood . and if he wants to become a full time comedian , he will make more money .

Table of 12: five million naira ! And people go rush come hin show ! Just to laugh! Lol

He preach finish I begin shed tears while laughing ! The Reverend is something else !


Confirmed Edo man

victorian:








God bless you .

All people in relationship think about is fuckkk, fucckk, fuckkkk!

No meaningful conversations
No asking of questions to know each other

All they think about is food and Sex!

Why divorce no go enter after one year of marriage . After fuckkking tirelessly for some months with reckless abandon in the marriage , their eyes will now clear about each other character .
Even if they date a million years and no communication except food and sex !.

Oh the sex is hot ! After marriage and they start living together their eyes clear.

Smmmmmhhhhh..


Guys wooing me , when I tell them no sex , let's talk and know ourseps better. They become dumb, nothing upstairs to talk about . immediately have cancelled the idea of taking any of them serious .

Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

To a largd extent you are right, the average guy out there is all abot sex sex sexand believe me even the ladies now is all about money money money.
Before when i chat with ladies, we use the medium to get to kniw each other better like her hobby, favourite food, pant and bra size (which i do note down in case of getting her a gift and the color type), her dream and aspirations, where she will be in the next 5, 10 yrs and a concrete plan on how to achieve that, e.t.c beleive me, alot of questions and also hiw to make impacts in each others life like training her to swim or a driving test which she will never forget who taught her that in her life even if the relationship didn't work out, just look at the other patner's weakness and see how you can come in and improve it and the sex will come naturally like an icing on the cake.
But today!!!!!! iyaaaaaaa!!!! I don't have time for jamb questions, pls no waec ooo, go straight to the point, this are the common things you hear and for guys na Bleep Bleep Bleep, what a generation

ChidiAlaigbo:

Make I sharp sharp go tell my wife for house say "God don tell me say the young fine girl neighbour is my real wife ooo"

gypsey:
why are you so pained that i am sniffing Around? Is it your sniffing?
now you are calling me old. keep wondering.
Yes i am a world champion vagina sniffer, Go hit your head on a rock some were

Pervert!

Magnetron:

Can you kindly state scriptural references to back this up?

Errrm... What I meant was marriage Bible.

Itzurboi:
What about some religious leader that got their marriage crashed, did they not get the positive response... Please i would encourage us(male and female) to be logical about things, only then we make headway...

That you got a direct revelation from God will not make your marriage work or keep you married.
There are cases of people who got a clear revelation from God about their spouse(s) but because of one mistake, they missed out entirely.
The cause of the alarming rate of divorce we have among Christians can be summed up in one word, negligence.

Newboss:


My sister, the guy doing yahoo got a direct response from God o. The average yahoo boy is a serious God guy o. Check their Facebook, na God full there o .

My sister, the G word is the word for defending any action these days o.

Now that was damn funny
Anyways shaa... I am talking about real Christians and not assistant Christians.