princfred:
I pity that your daughter whose destiny you want to tie on top of iroko. So after 2 yrs the guy bail nko? Then another 2 yrs each for another 2 guys? If am your daughter and here this kind talk from you, na teenage pregnancy i go carry do you can faint in peace earlier.

LMAO .

If he bail, she don dodge a bullet .

Actually, the 2 years is backdated to when they started dating (not when they knew each other), and how many days and nights she's spent at his house and with his folks and her folks .

The system we have these days is so bad that any idiot with a nice life can walk up to any girl with big ass and nice boobs and tell her he wants to marry her. By the next month, they're already doing traditional wedding . Sorry o, my daughter won't have my consent on that.

She can go ahead and marry him if she insists. I will attend all the occasions but I'd make it clear to both of them that they are on their own. I no go vex at all because she has her life to live. But when yawa gas, make she no even call my name because I know that I did my best to protect both of their interests .

This marriage has the shelf-life of a banana.

NothingDoMe:
So you actually think that marriages crash because they didn't date for at least 6months?

The problem with marriages these days can be summarized in one word: "expectations". People don't talk about it much before marriage. They spend time having lots of sex and not really talking about expectations:
1. What are my responsibilities?
2. What are your responsibilities?
3. Are there responsibilities from extended family?
4. Are we going to swap responsibilities at any time?
5. Are the responsibilities compulsory?
6. Would you like to remain in Nigeria for ever?
7. Where would you like to live?
8. How many kids? How do we achieve this?
9. Would you like an open book marriage or would you want some things to be kept secret?
10. Social media: Are we going to be giving the world the opportunity to follow us as we progress in our marriage.

Social media is among the top factors of crashed marriages because it creates unnecessary competition and expectations. Also exposes you to " Options". People that will slide into your DM in your hour of trial.

Parents too don't bring their kids up with the right values.

God bless you .

All people in relationship think about is fuckkk, fucckk, fuckkkk!

No meaningful conversations
No asking of questions to know each other

All they think about is food and Sex!

Why divorce no go enter after one year of marriage . After fuckkking tirelessly for some months with reckless abandon in the marriage , their eyes will now clear about each other character .
Even if they date a million years and no communication except food and sex !.

Oh the sex is hot ! After marriage and they start living together their eyes clear.

Smmmmmhhhhh..


Guys wooing me , when I tell them no sex , let's talk and know ourseps better. They become dumb, nothing upstairs to talk about . immediately have cancelled the idea of taking any of them serious .

Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

So some one has been enjoying the cake since
.... Hmmmmm God pls save my future wife frm dis carpenter that like knacking

gypsey:
what kinda power of two that one man can not have? Infact, when their two problems are ×2.


Trust me I know! i ve been married twice and Divorced twice.

Lol and sorry for that second line. Yeah it can be constructive power of 2 or destructive power of same hence the condition in that humble submission of mine.

Happy married life to them

Is the testimony not too early, aunty?

"prayer is the shortcut"
because say aunty don marry, she dy claim prayer warrior.. Person wey no even know where Genesis dy for Bible sef.. �

princfred:
I pity that your daughter whose destiny you want to tie on top of iroko. So after 2 yrs the guy bail nko? Then another 2 yrs each for another 2 guys? If am your daughter and here this kind talk from you, na teenage pregnancy i go carry do you can faint in peace earlier.

Lol don't mind him

End time fathers.

Instead of him to teach his daughter things to watch out for in a man while dating , he prefers she dates for two Years and typical of men , when they see free pussy without pressure. They can date forever and breakup at will. When she breaks up, she start another one again for another two years until she clocks forty. Be giving her pussy to harry , emeka, Tosin, Charles every two years .

Later he wil still be the one to insult his daughter that she can't hold a man .
After several years of men using and dumping her

Smmhhhh

Madam, did you both do your HIV, hepatitis tests before getting married? I guess not seen the short time you took to get married. You jump into the unknown. Good luck.

Pussssy must be good

WHOEVER DIVORCES HIS WIFE EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL IMMORALITY,

AND MARRIES ANOTHER WOMAN, COMMITS ADULTERY.

victorian:








God bless you .

All people in relationship think about is fuckkk, fucckk, fuckkkk!

No meaningful conversations
No asking of questions to know each other

All they think about is food and Sex!

Why divorce no go enter after one year of marriage . After fuckkking tirelessly for some months with reckless abandon in the marriage , their eyes will now clear about each other character .
Even if they date a million years and no communication except food and sex !.

Oh the sex is hot ! After marriage and they start living together their eyes clear.

Smmmmmhhhhh..


Guys wooing me , when I tell them no sex , let's talk and know ourseps better. They become dumb, nothing upstairs to talk about . immediately have cancelled the idea of taking any of them serious .

Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

Are you truly female bcs only man can reason this way.

victorian:


Cause I know immediately sex enters, there will be nothing to talk about unless when are u coming to spend the weekend . that's all.

Smhhhh!

.

LET MARRIAGE BE HELD IN HONOR AMONG ALL, AND LET MARRIAGE BED BE UNDEFILED,

FOR GOD WILL JUDGE THE SEXUALLY IMMORAL AND ADULTEROUS.

princfred:
Lol and sorry for that second line. Yeah it can be constructive power of 2 or destructive power of same hence the condition in that humble submission of mine.

Cheers!! no need to be sorry, it was all my fault, i couldn't resist other temptations while i was married. both ex wives divorced me for been unfaithful.

Presicely my point.

i love female company, i want them to have my children but i don't want to marry them

Newboss:


LMAO .

If he bail, she don dodge a bullet .

Actually, the 2 years is backdated to when they started dating (not when they knew each other), and how many days and nights she's spent at his house and with his folks and her folks .

The system we have these days is so bad that any idiot with a nice life can walk up to any girl with big ass and nice boobs and tell her he wants to marry her. By the next month, they're already doing traditional wedding . Sorry o, my daughter won't have my consent on that.

She can go ahead and marry him if she insists. I will attend all the occasions but I'd make it clear to both of them that they are on their own. I no go vex at all because she has her life to live. But when yawa gas, make she no even call my name because I know that I did my best to protect both of their interests .

If yawa gas! There is nothing u can do to the son inlaw , even if they dated for Two years and more . With the kind of son in-laws wey we have these days ?
Most won't even answer you .

Gone are those days men respect their in-laws. Those days are gone .

Let's be realistic and frank!

HUSBANDS, LOVE YOUR WIVES, AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR HER.

I NEVER SAID LOVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND, BUT LOVE YOUR OWN WIFE.

So for 15yrs ur puanny was catching fire on another man's bed before this guy now met and decided to quench the fire. Girl u lucky oo. U for burn till u become fruitless. Thanks to ur new husband though.

Triangles1:



Are you truly female bcs only man can reason this way.

Am a female o


Years of experience, has turned me into a man.

My luck!

WIVES, SUMMIT TO YOUR OWN HUSBANDS, AS TO THE LORD. FOR THE HUSBAND IS THE HEAD OF THE WIFE EVEN AS CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH.

I NEVER SAID HUSBAND SUMMIT TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE SUMMIT TO YOUR BOYFRIEND, BUT TO YOUR OWN HUSBAND AND WIFE.

NothingDoMe:
.

That's the sad reality about relationship these days .

And its sickening .

I simply get pissed off when I see those red flags .

XhosaNostra:
What worked for her might not work for everyone. Plus I've become wary of people who claim they got things through prayer, in such a short time span. Some of them use other means that they will not announce for the whole world to hear

think about it. if you are really hungry and you have an apple placed before you. if you pray to ask God if you should eat that apple, which response do you think you'll hear from "God"?
Exactly what your mind wants to hear.

ALL THESE GUYS THAT GO AFTER MARRIED WOMEN, SLEEPING WITH MARRIED WOMEN, DON'T YOU KNOW THAT YOU'RE A DISGRACE TO GUYS LIKE ME. WHAT DO YOU SEE IN MARRIED WOMEN THAT YOU CAN'T SEE IN SINGLE LADIES WHO ARE NOT YET MARRIED. TO ME, I SEE MARRIED WOMEN NOT EVEN AS SECOND HAND MATERIALS' BUT AS A THIRD HAND MATERIALS. HOW CAN A GUY WITH HIS RIGHT SENSES SEE SINGLE LADIES THAT ARE SEARCHING FOR HUSAND AND START GOING AFTER MARRIED WOMEN, GOD FORBID BAD THING. IF MEN COULD BE LIKE ME, THE WORLD WOULD BE BETTER.

mhizbel:

It is. Even the Bible encourages courtship which should last for six months and not more than a year.

Can you kindly state scriptural references to back this up?

STRICTLY FOR MEN;

IF A WOMAN HAS THESE 7 QUALITIES, NEVER LET HER GO:
(1) SHE IS SMARTER THAN YOU.
(2) SHE IS HONEST.
(3) SHE HAS A POSITIVE OUTLOOK.
(4) SHE COMPROMISES.
(5) SHE LAUGHS AT YOUR JOKES.
(6) SHE HAS AN OPEN HEART.
(7) SHE SUPPORTS YOUR GOALS AND PURSUES HER OWN.
IF YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND WITH THESE QUALITIES, MARRY HER.

victorian:








Lol don't mind him

End time fathers.

Instead of him to teach his daughter things to watch out for in a man while dating , he prefers she dates for two Years and typical of men , when they see free pussy without pressure. They can date forever and breakup at will. When she breaks up, she start another one again for another two years until she clocks forty. Be giving her pussy to harry , emeka, Tosin, Charles every two years .

Later he wil still be the one to insult his daughter that she can't hold a man .
After several years of men using and dumping her

Smmhhhh

You sabi how these things usually play out.

5thElement:


think about it. if you are really hungry and you have an apple placed before you. if you pray to ask God if you should eat that apple, which response do you think you'll hear from "God"?
Exactly what your mind wants to hear.

lol

Kellibae:


I know they type of brainless kids we have on this forum ... Enemies of progress everywhere.
Shame on y'all.
Their marriage is a success.

Jobless men!

He has a point... it is risky to just dive and follow a man like that... trust me, especially in current state of Nigeria. Your safety should come first... even people who dated long do not know much about each other let alone one that just pop in 1 month

See useless boys and girls here wishing them badluck, may all of you waiting to hear their breakup soon keep waiting until you fall sick in Jesus name. Enemies of progress in dis country, must you date for too along? Marriage is commitment not just love OK? And I hope mine is this way, I don't want nonsense, if I meet any nice lady to me at dis stage of my life now? I swear if de is money to do the wedding I will do it, haters can goan kill dia sef, bunch of asholes in dis dead country. Wtf

victorian:










If yawa gas! There is nothing u can do to the son inlaw , even if they dated for Two years and more . With the kind of son in-laws wey we have these days ?
Most won't even answer you .

Gone are those days men respect their in-laws. Those days are gone .

Let's be realistic and frank!

When yawa gas like serious gas, my sister, then you go answer the question "Who's your daddy?". . Na that time men go show up with guns blazing to defend their daughter (that's the advantage of not collecting bride price) . I don't care about the guy one bit, all that matters is my daughter. I can take the guy out if he ever maltreats her, without me feeling guilty at all. At least he was warned


But if she insisted on marrying him against my wish, I no go show face. If he like make he kill her, na her problem be that