bobobooge:



Ujujoan2 and sisisioge has not seen this yet.

Cuz I want to ask them where do ladies get these callow men from and get married to?

Hubby: Remove your FP let's try a 5th time for a son.
Wife: What if we get a girl.
Hubby: Then we try again a 6th time.

Me: Ahn ahn, is she a machine?


I still feel this modern times have focused too much on the girl-child improvement. Even families will focus their energy on monitoring the female child and in respect neglecting the males.

These are the results.

The men have become overgrown egocentric babies with no values, self-control and the ability to think rationally.

Conclusion:
We need more 'affordable' psychological therapists and professionals in this country. This couple needs to visit one.

Randy100:
Your are talking nonsense. A man gives a woman everything needed to make a baby. In every sperm release it has equal number of both X and Y chromosomes deposited in a woman. Factors like sperm motility, the vagina pH and time of ovulation are things that could determine if a child is a boy or girl. The probability of having either a boy or girl is always at 50%.

AryEmber:
Bros abeg, what's the difference between what you said and what he wrote?

Earthbound:
Let me guess, your husband is Igbo, right?




Don't forget to submit to your husband's demands. Don't lose your marriage over your ego. I know 9 months isn't easy but it just might save your marriage and future.

Samyj247:
u don't have sense at all. give ur husband what he wants or I asure u that by the ending of this year, he would have one or two baby mama or even a second wife. you will have no option than to pack out. forget that agreement its rubbish when it comes to this kind of issue. By the way it seems you are a negative minded person that's why u attracted only a female in ur womb. cos from unset, you told your husband that whether its a male or female it must b only 4. psychologically speaking, in your mind you were like...if its 4 female children this man should stick to our agreement. now what u were thinking happened to u. assuming you have one male child, your husband won't disturb you. that man is a good man but you stubbornness has caused him pain and made him begin to do what he doesn't like. you better give that man his baby and this time, have a positive mind that its gonna be a male child. if you continue to Bleep up, this year will be a different story in your life. I know its one stupid female friend that's advising you to stick to the agreement you guys had in the past, that friend doesn't like u. You better get sense now.

THE TRUTH AND I WONT FORCE U TO DO IT. EVEN IF YOU ASK YOUR GREAT GREAT GRAND FATHER AND MOTHER FOR GRAVE FOR ADVICE, WHAT I TOLD YOU NOW IS WHAT YOU WOULD BE TOLD. GOOD BYE.

Tastyme:










Its a pity we have such myopic and dull people existing with us in this life. a pity indeed!!

Nogen:
Your husband is quite ignorant of the fact that the chromosome that produces male children are produced by men not women. Once he understands this, he will take a chill pill.

Speedyconnect15:

What exactly is the implication of this lineage closure?

So If I die now, I would be wondering about whether anyone was going to take over from me?


Since obama has 2 girls, he is prolly worried about lineage closure?


I wonder why we go to school here when it doesn't change atavistic mentality.

Next2Bezee:
You are married to a very heartless person.

If your youngest daughter is 8, then you haven't had a kid in 8 years, and I'm guessing you are probably middle-aged; yet this man you call your husband wants you to go through the pain of childbirth again.

He is wicked, and it is very sad that you are suffering like this. Marriage isn't always blissful. Karma will find him one day. All I wish you could do is carry your kids and leave the man. May God help you o.

Zzyco:

Madam you don't just have sex at anytime to give birth to a male child. Try immediately after menstratral period. And seek more professional advice from a gaenecologist.

samuelchimmy:
is America we, is we America... What is important in the US can not be the same that is important down here, we all have our values, stop comparing Obama with Nigerian men,....

Speedyconnect15:


Same way Boko haram justify their value that western education is a sin.


Same way twins were killed till Slessor came.


Same way Hitler justified killing of jews in his Autobiography "Mein Kampf" in 1925. And said he was fighting for God.


etc


You should jettison anachronistic views and tradition.






There is no justification for such views.

chris31:
If u no the importance of a male child u won't be blaming ur husband for his anger
Make peace with ur husband let both of u visit a doctor for advice
Also don't forget the power of prayer it works

Amandobolt:
Women do not know the importance of a male child. Girl child and boy child ain't same oo, put that into ur head. Do you want ur phusband's lineage closed and no body to take from him?
Pls do ur husband's bidding and save your marriage, if u don't wanna get pregnant for him, there are many girls outside that are more than ready to be his babymama

Paxie55:

Say 3-4 days after menstrual period, because, sperm will stay 3 days in a woman's body before it goes off.
Immediately after menstruation is a free period.

Chiamaka789022:
Gd evening everybody i need urgent advice sumting Da has been bothering me 4 sometime now , i dnt ave any1 else 2 talk abt dis , Dis de reason i dcd 2 bring it on here . Please mi brothers and sisters advice me on wat 2 do

I ben married for 16 years now , we are blessed wiv 4 daughters 15,14,11 n 8, b4 marriage we has dcd 2 have 4 children only n we promised each oda incase all the children r same gender we will stick 2 4 children rule , so after i had my last gal i did family plaming 4 10yrs so the issue we are having is 2 years ago mi hubby ask me 2 remove the family planning so i culd get pregnant 4 a son then afta delivery do family again, which i told him i cant cuz there is no guarantie dis bby will be a boy , i asked him wat if its anoda gal what we going 2 do , he told me da we will try again until we have a son , so i rejected his proposal so since then there is no peace in mi huse , he has been keeping malice , coming home very late at nite , reject my foods , been cheating wiv so many diff women, i saw texts and naked photo of women on his fone . He dsnt make love 2 me , he has deleted all mi pictures includ our wedding ones on all his social media. He has been ignoring me anytime i will try 2 talk 2 him, what really broke mi heart is this last time he posted our girls pics on his fcbk so some of his fcbk frnds asked him what about their mother ( me) , mi husband reply long story mi bro with a sad emotis , so the guy reply bk am sorry 4 ur loss bro may she rest in peace then hubby reply bk thanks bro, i strted crying as soon i saw de msg , i confroted him afta he told me da im dead 2 him da he dsnt have any luv 4 me , i can packed up and leave . So that is what im gng thru in my huse afta refusing 2 have anoda baby please am i wrong wiv my decisions ? Should i go ahead and pleased him? What if is another gal? Pls what should i do?

Samyj247:
u don't have sense at all. give ur husband what he wants or I asure u that by the ending of this year, he would have one or two baby mama or even a second wife. you will have no option than to pack out. forget that agreement its rubbish when it comes to this kind of issue. By the way it seems you are a negative minded person that's why u attracted only a female in ur womb. cos from unset, you told your husband that whether its a male or female it must b only 4. psychologically speaking, in your mind you were like...if its 4 female children this man should stick to our agreement. now what u were thinking happened to u. assuming you have one male child, your husband won't disturb you. that man is a good man but you stubbornness has caused him pain and made him begin to do what he doesn't like. you better give that man his baby and this time, have a positive mind that its gonna be a male child. if you continue to Bleep up, this year will be a different story in your life. I know its one stupid female friend that's advising you to stick to the agreement you guys had in the past, that friend doesn't like u. You better get sense now.

THE TRUTH AND I WONT FORCE U TO DO IT. EVEN IF YOU ASK YOUR GREAT GREAT GRAND FATHER AND MOTHER FOR GRAVE FOR ADVICE, WHAT I TOLD YOU NOW IS WHAT YOU WOULD BE TOLD. GOOD BYE.

Chiamaka789022:
Gd evening everybody i need urgent advice sumting Da has been bothering me 4 sometime now , i dnt ave any1 else 2 talk abt dis , Dis de reason i dcd 2 bring it on here . Please mi brothers and sisters advice me on wat 2 do

I ben married for 16 years now , we are blessed wiv 4 daughters 15,14,11 n 8, b4 marriage we has dcd 2 have 4 children only n we promised each oda incase all the children r same gender we will stick 2 4 children rule , so after i had my last gal i did family plaming 4 10yrs so the issue we are having is 2 years ago mi hubby ask me 2 remove the family planning so i culd get pregnant 4 a son then afta delivery do family again, which i told him i cant cuz there is no guarantie dis bby will be a boy , i asked him wat if its anoda gal what we going 2 do , he told me da we will try again until we have a son , so i rejected his proposal so since then there is no peace in mi huse , he has been keeping malice , coming home very late at nite , reject my foods , been cheating wiv so many diff women, i saw texts and naked photo of women on his fone . He dsnt make love 2 me , he has deleted all mi pictures includ our wedding ones on all his social media. He has been ignoring me anytime i will try 2 talk 2 him, what really broke mi heart is this last time he posted our girls pics on his fcbk so some of his fcbk frnds asked him what about their mother ( me) , mi husband reply long story mi bro with a sad emotis , so the guy reply bk am sorry 4 ur loss bro may she rest in peace then hubby reply bk thanks bro, i strted crying as soon i saw de msg , i confroted him afta he told me da im dead 2 him da he dsnt have any luv 4 me , i can packed up and leave . So that is what im gng thru in my huse afta refusing 2 have anoda baby please am i wrong wiv my decisions ? Should i go ahead and pleased him? What if is another gal? Pls what should i do?

Fyi0:
Do not listen to these foolish feminists here talking rubbish. It is lame to compare your husband with Obama just because he has two daughters, that's irresponsible.

I am the fifth child of my parents and the second to the last born. My parents had four daughters and I was born on the fifth trial. The sixth issue was also a boy.

It is heartless and stupid fur women to think they are the ones to decide when to give birth or when not to.

Madam give your husband a son.

VERDA:


You talk like an illiterate...I dey shame for you, the husband is a nice man but told his friend the wife is dead, he has gone too far off and her having a male child cannot and would not have stopped him from being the monster that he is....village champion.

VERDA:

You people just type whatever comes to your mind without thinking....what do you mean by give your husband a son?, does she have male manufacturing factory, abi you dont know who the male chromosome comes from? Or you think carrying a child till term is like popping pills, all this heartless human beings wey person dey share oxygen with self.

XhosaNostra:
If he reacts to your refusal to have another baby by cheating & shutting you out, I'll be very careful if I were you. Four children is already too many children & there's no guarantee that the next one will be a boy either. With your marriage deteriorating by the sound of it, will you be able to cope with a 5th child all on your own, in case he rejects you & shuts you out once again if he gets disappointed? Because let's be realistic here for a second, 5th time may not be "lucky", what then? Will he again take refugee in the arms of other women, while you're left at home trying to raise your 5 children as a semi-married woman? If I'm to be frank, it sounds like he's making an excuse so he can mistreat you without remorse. Don't be surprised if he impregnates someone else outside when he doesn't get what he wants. Also don't be surprised if he still carries on with his affairs after you've given birth to a son, he most probably will say you don't have enough time for him etc. It's a never-ending string of excuses once some of these guys start going down a wayward path. It'll be emotional torture. Another woman ended up bludgeoning her husband with a hammer because kept pushing & pushing. They were blessed with a son & a daughter, but he wanted more just to be a jerk. Well, he ended up getting someone else pregnant. To add insult to injury, he started bringing the other lady to their house, all while also being cold towards his wife in private- no intimacy etc. In the end it became too much for her. Some guys just never know when to stop in their selfishness & careless disregard of another person's emotions.

bigpicture001:


Stop advising rubbish..must everything be about sense sense sense..that how you will teach ladies to break their home. Her name is Chiamaka a for God sake. They are igbo family.sh doesn't hv medical conditions. If the visit a good fertility doc,they will hv a better chance of a male child.

Du u know that about 24 years in marriage ur house becomes empty without s male child. All d female children move out! Chiamaka,try ur own part to giv ur hubby a male child

bigpicture001:


Stop advising rubbish..must everything be about sense sense sense..that how you will teach ladies to break their home. Her name is chamada for God sake. They are igbo family.sh doesn't hv medical conditions. If the visit a good fertility doc,they will hv a better chance of a male child.

Du u know that about 24 years in marriage ur house becomes employ without s male child. All d female children move out! Chiamaka,try ur own part to giv ur hubby a male child

XhosaNostra:


Where did I advise her to break up her home? That's not my place for one. Two, I was simply giving her a different perspective, not this fairytale some are dishing out. A baby has never fixed any problem. Plus she already has way too many children as it is. If those are not enough to make this man respect her as his wife & a mother of his children, nothing else will. Not even the son he's billowing about. The baby is just an excuse of the moment. When he's here there will be more of those to come. I can almost predict what her next post will be: "He says I'm too fat or my vagina is too slack". Men like this are a piece of work. He has narcissistic tendencies.