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| Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by obembet(f): 9:37pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Good evening guys, please I have a question that has been bordering my mind for some months now since I met my spouse. All though I don't really have a bad past but I don't want my guy to see me as bad girl even through he has his own. So I want your advice if Is it right to narrate my past to my partner? |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by ClassiqKufor(m): 9:41pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
That's what kills most relationships. You live in the the present now, Forget it all and live for the future not the past 80 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by ritmek(f): 9:46pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
if u guys trust each other I don't see a big deal there 10 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:52pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
I have no time to narrate my past to anyone..... Talk less of a partner 6 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by SmellingAnus(m): 9:52pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
I prefer we talk about everything including the past so that I will know how best to manage the babe... Infact I can't be with someone that is scared about talking about the past... I have my past mistakes too so there is nothing wrong if we learn from them... Although not all persons can handle information about the past maturely... 82 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by lincsnuel: 9:57pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Ok let's say you don't have a bad past as you claim... What if your boyfriend had a really nasty past? Maybe a sloppy bj? Or anal? Or even necro? (spits) Would you be comfortable hearing the hole epistle frm him? Better let the past be in the past dear. Old things have passed away! 14 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by samysmoothfresh: 10:02pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Madam, did he ask you about your past? If no, then shut the fvck up (speak nothing of it) and live your life like you never had a past. 17 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by TheWalkingMind: 10:13pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
obembet:I think honesty is what is needed here, not to your spouse but to yourself. The claims made in the quoted are conflicting to say the least; worried about a past that is nothing close to being bad? The past of a man haunt him if kept as a secret; the path to freedom is only discovered in the thirst of a man for freedom. You need to make peace with your past by harmonizing it with your present. You really don't have to say it if not asked, but whenever the chance to talk about it presents itself, be sure to tell it as it is. Free yourself from your past. 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by funshint(m): 10:22pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Be very careful. Some things are best left in the past; not to be ever talked about. If whatever you say won't have any positive impact on your present it's better you maintain your silence. Make the best use of your present and hope for a better future. People can sometimes change their perception about you when you tell them about things in the past. Pls let sleeping dogs lie. God bless you. 15 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by delugajackson: 10:23pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
You've succeeded in letting us know you have a spouse. Well, congratulations on your lifetime achievement. I guess we can now move on with our lives. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by myettiallah: 10:24pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
obembet:Looking at the threads this girl has been creating, you appear as one who reeks of insecurity, must you seek public approval before making descisions about ur own private life? How old are you, lets start from there. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
 myettiallah: 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Frankyboy1(m): 5:29am On Jan 21, 2019 |
As long as you were not met a virgin, my sister, leave your past story, cause it can all be lies that ur mileage is low,after all that's d only hole that never gets filled, the only car without speedometer or mileage, may God deliver we men! Amen 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:30am On Jan 21, 2019 |
it is a personal choice and decision. Its relative! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by helinues: 5:32am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Depends on your past Some secrets should never be kept while some are better kept All depends on the maturity of your partner in handling issues /situations 7 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Olalan(m): 5:33am On Jan 21, 2019 |
It depends on the kind of partner you have some people dontbwant surprises later in the future, so it's better you tell it all 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by azimibraun: 5:33am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Yes very right.. But half the story is never told. Break the rule at your own perception peril. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Nobody: 5:33am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Obembet isit right to have a yellow face and a black yansh? 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by lifelesspmb: 5:34am On Jan 21, 2019 |
...very right. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Waju001(m): 5:35am On Jan 21, 2019 |
.. AND I DON'T EVEN KNOW THE KIND OF DEAL U SIGNED. IS IT A LONG TERM OR SHORT TERM. BUH BE CAREFUL. MAKE U NO GO TALK THE ONE WEY NO BE AM. 2 Likes
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| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Idydarling(f): 5:36am On Jan 21, 2019 |
 if you're sure he/she won't use it against u later in the relationship, then fine, go ahead1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by flejnr2(f): 5:37am On Jan 21, 2019 |
YOU have to narrate your past to your partner because it may hit you one day and you loose your partner to your past. I once experienced that In relationship tho 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Innoskysky: 5:42am On Jan 21, 2019 |
You keep your ugly past from him and he decide to get married to you and finds out about your past on how you have been sleeping with married men for money or even things worst than that, my dear it will be hard for him to swallow. For me share your past with him if he can't handle it he should find is way but if he loves you he will come back for you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by Japsylee: 5:42am On Jan 21, 2019 |
obembet:Ate you a mugu  |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by MyGeneration(m): 5:46am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Tell me about your past. If you were a band person or a good person tell me, let me know if you have changed. Coz if I find out myself, from another source I might not like it. Don't be a b1tch that has fvcked every d1ck she has come across and engaged in orgies then all of a sudden we meet and you are acting like a born again and don't want to tell me about your past. If I find out u might be wasting your time with me 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by ujampie: 5:46am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Am sorry to say this........ Am not a fan all this relationship stuff but there are some past I can't tolerate especially ABORTION AND SINGLE MOTHER.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by OnyiMba: 5:48am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Depends on your past Some secrets should never be kept while some are better kept SO FAR YOU DID NOT COMMIT ABORTION THAT DAMAGE YOUR WOMB OR REMOVE IT OR YOU DID NOT KILL ANYBODY. SO ALL DEPEND ON YOUR PAST. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Right To Narrate Your Past To Your Partner by GentleMoney: 5:49am On Jan 21, 2019 |
Hmm... 1 Like |
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