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wetdick:
interesting, you always prove my point why women can not train a boy into a man

so being brave, courageous, independent and self-reliant is a social construct and an idea

being a leader that leads by example is a social construct

so a man taking personal responsibility for his life without blaming other people is because of the rigid patriarchal society

a man that knows how to face rejection and move on with his life is because of the rigid patriarchal society

a man that control his emotions and know how to cope with life difficulties is a social construct

a man that protects his love ones and his loyal is a social construct.

so you believe there are no men like this? i am laughing, you are very funny.

what is the definition of a man according to you?

You are the reason why so many young men end their lives.

MissRaine69:
You are the reason why so many young men end their lives.

interesting, so a man can end his life because of bravery, being courageous, taking personal responsibility and being able to protect his love ones?


pls lets hear your definition of a man

i guess you are looking for a man you can emasculate.

an emasculated man is prone to depression and suicidal thoughts

wetdick:
interesting, so a man can end his life because of bravery, being courageous, taking personal responsibility and being able to protect his love ones?


pls lets hear your definition of a man

i guess you are looking for a man you can emasculate.

an emasculated man is prone to depression and suicidal thoughts

Shows how little understand humans.
Carry on.

MissRaine69:
Shows how little understand humans.
Carry on.

Thank you.

wetdick:
pls stop spitting nonsense from motivational books, are you a man- NO, do you know what those boys pass through no, so you think people just become successful overnight without support.

The role of the father is to provide encouragement and support to his son, do you know how many boys that would have been brought up the right way if they had a father figure in their lives, we boys imitate our fathers, when we are young and we see our father polishing his shoes, we want to copy that, when we see our father doing repairs in the house, we imitate him, when he is barbing his hair, we imitate him. when we grow up to be men, we are already doing it because of we imitated our fathers, that is how many boys learn to drive their father's car.

when a boy has no father in his life, he goes to his peer groups, and if they are damn bad, they will lead him the bad way.

if you think a father is not important in a boy life, why do single mothers call uncles or male pastors and male acquaintances to speak to their boy when they cant get to him.

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The ones not accepting these points are products of single mothers.

The op is and idiot.

wetdick:
I have noticed something really strange from boys who grew up or are from single mothers homes. single mothers might be those that the father left when the boy was young or the father died or they divorced and the mother didn't allow the father visitation

i know some guys from single mother home, I observed that many of them always look for a strong father figure in their lives, many of these types of men tend to be mama's boys which might be good for the mother but very bad for his future girlfriend and wife.

many of these boys suffer from low self-esteem and lack of confidence in themselves and abilities, sometimes depression and addiction

many of these boys lack the meaning of what is it to be a man, the reality is that no mother can teach her son how to be a man.

they also do not know who to talk to about their emotions, they feel alone, thus making them angry with the world, some of these boys are easily enticed to join cultism and other types of group that encourage brotherhood.

there are lot of research that shows that boys raised in single mother homes are more likely to be criminals, you can see that in yahoo-yahoo boys and many criminals in our society, many of them lack a father figure and man figure mentorship.

i also noticed that many of these type of boys suffer from emotional, physical abuse and neglect from their mothers

there is also tendency for these type of boys to be drop out or runaways

and lastly, many of them are very emotional, they are more in touch with their feminine side than their masculinity side. very bad if they want to have a good and stable relationship.

The way you think is so logical but I bet it, You are the dumbest person alive, I have no father and I never get to know him in life but that fact motivates me every time and moment of my life, My negative side is never based on all your assumptions

ayobamiJR:
The way you think is so logical but I bet it, You are the dumbest person alive, I have no father and I never get to know him in life but that fact motivates me every time and moment of my life, My negative side is never based on all your assumptions

you proved my point.

wetdick:
is my observation not research again? i wrote, that i have friends from single mother homes

you said there are a lot of research to show it... Whoever you re leme tell you there a lot of guys raised by single mothers and we are ding exceptionally well in our various fields... I became a man at a very young age and I've done pretty well for myself, having a father does not guarantee a strong stable relationship, if you say we don't rush into relationships you'll be correct cuz there is a lot we have to do for our dear mothers. You never did any stupid research... If i ask you to give figures.. You have no data on this claim so stop saying trash

stuffs4me:
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The ones not accepting these points are products of single mothers.

I know people with mother father and grandparents that they still call pastor for... It's not a matter of being raised by a single parent... My mom never called anyone for me

wetdick:
if not because of basketball. They will be gang banging and hustling on the streets by now.

but they re nt when as opposed to some double parents raised kids

wetdick:
LOL social vices occur more in homes of single mothers, i can give you an example

i saw a family, father was alive, strong family, father died.

1st born-boy- drop out,very feminine
2nd-boy- anti-social and extremely shy
3rd boys-normal
4th boy- drop out, yahoo yahoo

i wont talk about their sisters.

there are many cases like what i stated above but they also come in different forms

these things happen in any home you're just being blinded by the deciet that you're saying something smart and logical... Dude you're nt you're cynical and daft... Like your name suggests

This thread calls for depression for guys who were raised by single mothers.
I can tell you that they appear to be the best, cos pressure is always on them and they always make sure they made their mama proud, they work hard to prove to the world that they can make it no matter the condition.

They maybe hard cos of circumstances but they are the best.

So, don't bring up thread to make people with low self esteem depressed.

Heartbender:
Boy, stupidity never got this precise! my father died 14 years ago. I am a lawyer, a serial entrepreneur, a Christian who believes in Jesus Christ being God and everything, I have never tasted beer nor smoked, I do not have a child yet, I have never contemplated being a cultist, an uncultist or juju worshipper, never scammed anyone, and you need help

You are not the model for boys who grew up in a single home. You are just a tiny exception to the rule. And you being teetotal is a personal choice, however, that doesn't mean that you can't be a womaniser or a corrupt lawyer.
Stupidity is when you think everyone is like you or should he like you.
FYI... Beer is sweet and it's consumption has no bearing on the value of a man, its what that man chooses to do with himself after drinking the beer that matters most.

wetdick:
pls stop spitting nonsense from motivational books, are you a man- NO, do you know what those boys pass through no, so you think people just become successful overnight without support.

The role of the father is to provide encouragement and support to his son, do you know how many boys that would have been brought up the right way if they had a father figure in their lives, we boys imitate our fathers, when we are young and we see our father polishing his shoes, we want to copy that, when we see our father doing repairs in the house, we imitate him, when he is barbing his hair, we imitate him. when we grow up to be men, we are already doing it because of we imitated our fathers, that is how many boys learn to drive their father's car.

when a boy has no father in his life, he goes to his peer groups, and if they are damn bad, they will lead him the bad way.

if you think a father is not important in a boy life, why do single mothers call uncles or male pastors and male acquaintances to speak to their boy when they cant get to him.

My guy u have said it all.

Believe it or not, boys with a father role model achieve more in life than boys without fathers

you see fathers play a very big role in the success of a boy they most times have the social connection to make their son successful.

There is high rate of poverty among single mothers and most times those women wants their son to be rich so that they can take care of them thereby putting extremely hot pressure on the boy, when he doesn't get rich, it leads both parties to resentment, depression and frustration.

Tiffbuxas:
these things happen in any home you're just being blinded by the deciet that you're saying something smart and logical... Dude you're nt you're cynical and daft... Like your name suggests

LOL

Tiffbuxas:
you said there are a lot of research to show it... Whoever you re leme tell you there a lot of guys raised by single mothers and we are ding exceptionally well in our various fields... I became a man at a very young age and I've done pretty well for myself, having a father does not guarantee a strong stable relationship, if you say we don't rush into relationships you'll be correct cuz there is a lot we have to do for our dear mothers. You never did any stupid research... If i ask you to give figures.. You have no data on this claim so stop saying trash

An angry one.

wetdick:
An angry one.

A thoughtless one

Did you read the initial argument that triggered my reply or you're as unfortunate as a dimwit enough to be a successful monumental embarrassment to your lineage?

Bidobado1:
You are not the model for boys who grew up in a single home. You are just a tiny exception to the rule. And you being teetotal is a personal choice, however, that doesn't mean that you can't be a womaniser or a corrupt lawyer.
Stupidity is when you think everyone is like you or should he like you.
FYI... Beer is sweet and it's consumption has no bearing on the value of a man, its what that man chooses to do with himself after drinking the beer that matters most.

Heartbender:
Did you read the initial argument that triggered my reply or you're as unfortunate as a dimwit enough to be a successful monumental embarrassment to your lineage?

One minute you say you know jesus, next minute an abusive little boy.
From your response, I can deduce that you the milk man might be your father.

And your mum was his cow. I know Jesus and so you should slap both cheeks with your stupidity, abi? Jesus flogged your type, don't forget

Bidobado1:
One minute you say you know jesus, next minute an abusive little boy.
From your response, I can deduce that you the milk man might be your father.

Heartbender:
And your mum was his cow. I know Jesus and so you should slap both cheeks with your stupidity, abi? Jesus flogged your type, don't forget

Son of a Fvcking Wh0re. Go Fvck your daddy go and every Cvnt in your worthless family. Jesus flog your mother, but na machete I go use pieces your fvcking skull, anuofia.

Hahahaha e pain am

Bidobado1:
Son of a Fvcking Wh0re. Go Fvck your daddy go and every Cvnt in your worthless family. Jesus flog your mother, but na machete I go use pieces your fvcking skull, anuofia.

fatymore:
Its a lie, my brothers and I were raised by our step mothers, and I can tell you they are the best man, brother, husband and everything you will ever wished for...strong, handsome, religious, brilliant, bold...They are my yardstick for ......

stay away from me