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It is only a foolish man dat wld beat a woman

Are you sure some other guy hasn't been visiting her while you were staying at the official quarters? Now that you're around, the guy can't visit no more. Maybe that's why she's pissed.

RalFamily:
My girlfriend is very very silly, I rented that apartment for her before I lost my job, I bought everything in that house, I was leaving in my company apartment so when I was sacked they took everything including my car cause I had no personal car of my own then I had to put up with my girlfriend for the time and her attitude has been so shitty, can you believe this girl asked me to wash plate and clean the house when she is off to work ,and if I don’t she will nag and give me the insults of my life , I will just ignore . Sometimes I have to go put up with my friends or pay for a cheap hotel just to have my peace and I don’t my friends to know my predicament until I sort myself out. So yesterday she was on one long call and as soon as she was done she just entered the kitchen and came out asking me to go wash the plate, I ignored her and she repeated it, I ignored her and the next thing was that she went into the kitchen and got one of the plate with water and there it at me , I went mad and beat her almost to death , ended up rushing her to the hospital and she is still here now .
Bom I have paid her hospital bills but I am planing on kicking her out of this house since I paid the rent and the landlord knows me well, I paid in her name tho but they take instructions from me, even the gate man knows I am her man and I charge .
I am done with the relationship now I know she was in it just for the benefit, it not even up to 6 months I lost my job and she is acting stupid .
What do u all suggest ? I know o will be fine .

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Only few ladies understands when a man loses his job, some ladies have annoying attitude that can make you jump into the lagoon.
Don't you have siblings or family member you can run to? That should have been an option. What if you got to her house and met her sibling or friend living there, will you add to the crowd? Be glad you didn't meet a man on top of her.
Beating her to death wasn't an option but you were frustrated and couldn't control your anger.
You shouldn't have done those chores from the onset.

Gentlemen, if you rent an apartment for a lady or buy her a car or anything, biko take your minds of it.
Don't fall back to it should you face any difficulty some day.

People change...

MannieA:
The both of them have flaws.The babe nor try at all..the guy should have just squatted with a friend instead of coming to stay with her because some girls can change quickly

Squat when he has a place with his gf?

Elimon:
guys..to me..its not about washing the plate thing...its about the girls bad attitude towards asking him to wash the plates...if she was to make a nice,sweet and romantic approach to make the guy wash the plate..the guy would wash without anger..but she was wrong...esp. the pouring of water part..been in ur shoes..but I didn't beat her...we were still later cool and she apologized by herself

So your girlfriend poured water on you? Did she apologise because she felt sorry or because you got back on your feet?

luminouz:
A girl poured water on u and u did nothing For her to do that means she thinks zero of u!!!

yes...maybe at that period...but she apologized and we are still together

Elimon:
yes...maybe at that period...but she apologized and we are still together

Awwwwww....that's cool bro