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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by dmgr(m): 6:59am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Thou am not married but I will be some day.I sometimes have fears of what if the good and well manned wife I married changed from good to bad over night,can I be able to handle all the drama.because am a kind of reserved person I don't like too much drama What if she cheats on me? what if she is no longer faithful after the wedding,am saying this because some married women do cheat on their husbands this days with anybody even their ex..And infidelity is a difficult thing for me to handle,I just can't imagine my wife sleeping around. 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Zigdore: 7:03am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321: Which Religion are you talking about, so if you are dying in the marriage you remain there because of religion. Don't let any religion tie you down to living a happy life. Divorce is the way out. [b][/b] 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Ezniteadin(m): 7:10am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Marriage |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 7:11am On Mar 12, 2019 |
@goodisgood4321 You sound childish No matter who you marry there is always someone out there better than her in everything, this is a fact. In marriage it's all about contentment. It's like buying a car no matter how good the car is there is always a better car out there. The most important thing is that all cars do the same thing. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321:so after fúcking the hell outta then right? Who do you expect to 'carry' then now? 2 Likes
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Ezniteadin(m): 7:15am On Mar 12, 2019 |
dmgr: Women cheat and Lie about it. that thing they carry around is a Bottomless pit No thermometer can read it accurately 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ADMAF(m): 7:15am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by gentlegenius(m): 7:22am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321:And what religion is that? |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by DMerciful(m): 7:28am On Mar 12, 2019 |
I have given my opinion, you can give yours! If you know the Bible like you claim you will know the Bible gave infidelity as a ground for divorce! In modern society there is divorce by the state if there is irreconcilable difference timothydare: 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by enemachris(m): 7:29am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321:So what do you really want since you? 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Meliaen(f): 7:34am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321 what I can deduce from your post is that the women/woman in your life were/is not the problem but you. You're struggling with "immaturity". You're emotionally immature, weak and unfit. Pls don't give marriage a thought yet for I pity the woman who' would have the misfortune of tying the knots with you in your current state. There's time for everything. 9 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by frozen70(f): 7:56am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321: You are just prosponing your judgement day or evil day You want a marriage without stress and challenges, Then how do you want to enjoy it without the above meantioned You better make up your mind or go straight to monastery and become a monk. Why are you not scared of making love ❓ 8 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Amberon11: 8:00am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Very myopic reply. Age is a factor for every living thing. Do you know that as a man the quality of your sperm reduces after about 40 hence increasing the risk of having unhealthy offsprings? Don't marry o, wait till prostrate problems kick in and then you'll realize how you wasted your time. GodisGood4321: 7 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Amberon11: 8:02am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Your religion in it's "pure form" also doesn't allow fornication and sampling different women in the name of relationships. GodisGood4321: 7 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Heavencare: 8:06am On Mar 12, 2019 |
mgdimagaladima:marriage is so dangerous that atimes prayers is not the solution you just have to shine Ur eyes as u pray, many divorced marriages visited a renounce pastor for prayers n still fail. It's really a scam that u just have to be a victim 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by cooooooks(m): 8:06am On Mar 12, 2019 |
ShinqRambq: Virginity is a false sense of virtue and means nothing. 7 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Heavencare: 8:12am On Mar 12, 2019 |
timothydare:ds is exactly d same belief dos who later murderd their spouses had 4 better 4 worse till he/she end Ur life. Everyone deserves to be happy in life. Run for whatever gives you pains cos it can later kill 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Amberon11: 8:18am On Mar 12, 2019 |
And men are not promiscuous than women? Look at the celebrities we have in Nigeria for example, how many of the females have multiple kids for different men? But most of the males have different kids from different women and you still adore them. Just go on with your delusion. justscorchone: 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Amberon11: 8:20am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Lmao cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Amberon11: 8:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
It's usually at the edge of breakthrough all manner of temptations come. NwanyiAwkaetiti: 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Emanuel1997: 8:47am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321:OP all your fears are justified according to your brain but according to your heart those are not the priority because marriage requires work as have heard from many marriage counselors, all you've said to a point is correct but the main thing is do you love her, if you do just go ahead with the marriage there will be fights between you too that's sure but you would learn to live with each other but make sure you love her and dont fall to pressure because of getting married and not trying to be spiritual or anything pray about it, it doesn't hurt to pray you know , and let me just add this there is no better choice than the choice you make if you dont learn to live with her and you get married to someone else same thing will happen, thats why some people divorce over and over again... 4 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ujluv(f): 8:59am On Mar 12, 2019 |
EmpressT:Thanks so much. Noted |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by alphaNomega: 9:05am On Mar 12, 2019 |
GodisGood4321: Make sure you do a court wedding and have a pre-nup. Have it at the back of your mind that you will not have a perfect marriage. When you get married, focus on giving your kids the best you can afford. Do not let your partner's short comings get in the way, this is why you should get a pre-nup. 1 Like |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ianq: 9:08am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Lexicon123: Your friend's faith is commendable. However, i would ask 2 things. 1) is he sexually active in the meantime? 2) does he routinely go for medical checkups? because, if he is practising abstinence from sex while waiting for the woman, i can quite convincingly tell u his bp might be on the rise. U might wanna cross check him on that. ..it might be the advice u are looking to giving him. |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by mechanics(m): 9:15am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Just pray to God and He will assist you, others that have married are living fine, just pray to God to show you your better halve, although one will have some issues but it is the way it will be handled that will determine how far the marriage will go. 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by blackbee222: 9:17am On Mar 12, 2019 |
what I worry most about is finding a FAITHFUL woman |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by Nickymezor(f): 9:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Here to read comments. Find some interesting |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by cooooooks(m): 9:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Some advice: - your fears are real and don't mind people who suggest that your fears are unfounded. - check with the law and lawyers to see what legal safeties exist in Nigeria(or any potential country you want to move to) - check with your traditional people to see what safeties exist there as well. - be ready for a wife as a partner and not some subservient being - be on the lookout for someone you can grow with and with similar goals - there is no perfect wife. Some fault exists somewhere if you look hard enough. - good luck. Also, check out women your age or slightly older and not just young girls of 20 years old. 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by ImaIma1(f): 9:33am On Mar 12, 2019 |
justscorchone: She will only be a virgin for one night. And being a virgin doesn't mask character flaws in a person. But good luck with your search. 2 Likes |
Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by olufemi7onifade: 9:36am On Mar 12, 2019 |
kazvid: Guy, his message has been passed successfuly. English is a borrowed language, hence not a sign of success. |
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