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Re: . by MissRaine69(f): 4:24pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
austyn0:Tired of reading about these whining ninjas who are in relationships with kids. 1 Like |
Re: . by islandmoon: 4:26pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Dipsie: Yahoo is not a job my friend!! what kind of job do you do indoor all day when your girl friend is at work? |
Re: . by tunize(m): 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Randy100:I understand this guy he jst threatened her normal jst to bring her senses back "always wrong to shall" but the girl is already gone. Wen a girl is gone she'z gone there's nothn anyone can do about it na so women life dey. ( women dey like toddler wen be sey if u deh try tell dem sey dont torch is fire u wud get burnt, u jst dey waste ur time until the fire go burn am ehen that way the pikin nor need advice).. she jst dey find reason to dey do waitn she want probably this was an opportunity. Relax and watch if only u get mind ooh this one she's the source of ur joy is crazy. |
Re: . by Dipsie: 4:36pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
islandmoon:Bros I never stated been indoor all day. I am a young man working to earn my living too. She leaves before me in the morning because her office is much farther than mine 1 Like |
Re: . by DMerciful(m): 5:22pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
When it comes to relationship, men esp working men holds the key but they have to realise the power they have to be effective! In Nigeria today at least 5million women are single and available and of these 5million, 1 million are good women so what the hell are you stuck with one ungrateful bitzh for? Nobody is indispensable and in choosing a marriageable partner, choose the one that gives you peace of mind else you'll die before your time! Do not choose any damn ditzh that will make you rich, no! Peace of mind is the first criteria and others good things will be added! 2 Likes |
Re: . by Trendytessy(f): 5:23pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Oyindidi: Quite well.. Thanks |
Re: . by islandmoon: 6:05pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Dipsie:oh okay! kill her with sex and she will run! in the kitchen, toilet , even when she's eating, she will get the message and run |
Re: . by BecaciaBarbie(f): 6:16pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Dipsie:Don't let these nairalanders men who probably just got duped by some girl out there fool you or give you advice relating to their own personal issues. I like how you were able to point out the fact that you messed up, as people rarely do that... they try to play victims all the time. Truth is, you are the genesis of this whole emotional wreck, as you never showed seriousness in the relationship judging from your post. Truth is, she was fast like very fast... Something most of us wished we did when we saw the signs. I guess she loves her heart too much to accommodate any kind of heart break so she had to bolt out to prevent future heart wahala. What you need to do if you truly love this girl is to work on your trust issues by gaining her trust back as you've really messed that up. No lady needs a man who flirts about online, openly at that...shows you got no respect for her and she means nothing to you... If you could do such publicly, then your private dealings should be really really scary. I think you need to apologize and gain her trust back, hopefully this isn't too late. 3 Likes |
Re: . by LyfeJennings(m): 7:11pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
OKOATA: Ode ni Bobo yen 1 Like |
Re: . by CyberWolf: 8:08pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Follow Ubunja and read his threads so you will learn the tricks on how to handle your woman, you refused. Everyday you come here to whine like a sissy.. Grow some damn balls and send her away to go live with the person always picking her up. Don’t allow anyone to be the source of your happiness, you alone should be the source of your own happiness. Gather some balls and tell her your rules and regulations, tell her that lots of ladies and on queue to take her position if she is not ready to abide by your rules. Get another girl by the side as a buffer because this ladies are unpredictable. 1 Like |
Re: . by dayleke: 8:29pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Dipsie: The "lifter" is already making plans to secure a place for her..... Is she worth the trouble for you? Na your choice sir, over to you. |
Re: . by austyn0(m): 8:45pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
MissRaine69:Kids isn't really the word to use here, even adults make mistakes. Thing is, some men fail to understand what is needed from them to make their woman stay on and true. |
Re: . by rokoto1986(m): 8:55pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
THEY SAY PIKIN WEN DEY FIND CRY, U NOR NID TO BEAT AM 1ST B4 E GO CRY. WERE U NT D 1 DAT TOLD DAT UR COLLEAGUE IS AROUND. SO because U HAD A VISITOR DAT SHE DONT LIKE IS ENUF REASON 4 HER TO TURN INTO RUNS GIRL? SHE HAS MADE UP HER MIND TO LEAVE U EVEN B4 D VISIT, SHE IS JUST HOLDING UNTO DAT. DATS HW WOMEN BEHAVE, WEN THEY FEEL THEY RE HIGHER DAN UR LEAGUE. JUST XPLAIN UNCOMFORTABLE U RE WIT D WHOLE ISSUE, IF SHE DNT ADJUST DEN GIVE SOME SPACE, BT MAKE HER KNW SHE IS D COST |
Re: . by chidekings(m): 9:02pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Dipsie:Chai,see as love make you gentle.person insult you and you just dey say thank you..this thing called love 1 Like |
Re: . by Dipsie: 9:47pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
austyn0:Thank you my brother. Mistakes happen, no one is a master of it all 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: . by OKOATA(m): 10:38pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie:didn't you read the part where he begged for 6days? The girl is just using the college thing to abandon the ship. As a lady you should know better that you don't force love, It's pretty clear the girl isn't into him anymore so why continue begging like a sissy. Only a weakling and a sissy will keep begging a Hoe. |
Re: . by BecaciaBarbie(f): 11:50pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
OKOATA:Oh well, some ladies can't handle men who display any slight chance of unfaithfulness. She obviously feels op is cheating on her after those 2 acts which I believe are strong reasons to be suspicious. I mean put yourself in her shoes...how would you feel if you found out the woman you love is flirting online and acting single? I wouldn't take such person serious anymore... It's just what it is... It's possible he hasn't cheated on her but if the opportunity showcased itself in full effect, I wouldn't trust op's loyalty. 1 Like |
Re: . by arki(m): 1:54am On Mar 20, 2019 |
Dipsie: Don't always apologize pls. It's neva a man's traits. U called up wot u are getting. She nw take u for granted cos on her mind. "He will always apologize". U hv to man up an take charge of urself and relationship. Be the one calling the shots not her. The girl I'm dating is a typical of ur gf. But trust me, I manipulated her into submission. Be the " I don't give a hoot" type of a guy, then come bk and thank me later. Make her choose between u and d guy, cos no guy comes close to a lady for nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: . by jesmond3945: 5:46am On Mar 20, 2019 |
Dipsie:i would blame you, you are at fault. It is easy for us to judge when it is a one sided thing. Let her bring her own epistle you would also see her own side. She doesn't trust you anymore thats the truth. She is just managing you, it is just a matter of time before she dumps you. Her interest is now with the other guy. How do we believe you never slept with your colleague? Who would believe that two adults would be alone in the house and nothing would happen? Why would you publicly tell someone that you are available? My guy you are at fault. The relationship would never be the same again. |
Re: . by Bossjakande: 12:47am On Mar 21, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:beauty I miss u a lot 1 Like |
Re: . by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:48am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Bossjakande: Jaks Jaks. Where've you been? |
Re: . by Bossjakande: 12:50am On Mar 21, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:am on ban dear one animal make dem ban me cos I attack her in politics rooms 1 Like |
Re: . by lenghtinny(m): 3:02am On Mar 21, 2019 |
If the keys to your happiness is in a woman's hand, then you are in a serious bondage.... Women that are very good at abusing powers and privileges |
Re: . by Wizywiz(m): 9:59am On Mar 21, 2019 |
Op u said u will handle the issue..pls come back and tell us how it went.... |
Re: . by Dipsie: 11:54am On Mar 21, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie:Thank you, we are back on track and she has cleared up the air concerning my worries 1 Like |
Re: . by Dipsie: 11:56am On Mar 21, 2019 |
arki:Thanks for your honest advise, she has cleared the air and we are back now. Definitely i've picked up a few lessons along the line. Thanks |
Re: . by Dipsie: 11:57am On Mar 21, 2019 |
CyberWolf:Thanks bro...Ubunja here i come |
Re: . by Dipsie: 12:09pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Update: Hello guys, thanks for your contributions. I definitely learnt a lot from each and everyone's advise. Things are much better between us now. I personally took things a bit too extra by the way i approached the matter prior to coming over here to seek advise, my approach made a resolution quite difficult initially. She has cleared the air and actually said she lied to me severally last week concerning issues involving the lifter(other guy) because she knew i was going to react badly which she was desperately trying to avoid. She has apologized and also cut him off. I'm thankful for your comments and I've picked up lessons and how to avoid such occurrence again 2 Likes |
Re: . by BecaciaBarbie(f): 1:08pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Dipsie:Thank God, I'm so happy for you...now start acting like a serious man....all the very best. |
Re: . by dna4ril(m): 2:21pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Dipsie: First..............Never Co-habit with a lady you intend to marry, I mean why make you both lose value for each other. Co-habiting indefinitely wasnt the best choice cos she secured a job, Didnt she have friends, I mean there were alternatives to explore. Second..........She had a right to suspect your infidelity cos she had been wth you to the other room a couple times...Her actions afterwards are . a show of her been Jealous and insecure with the emotion of suspecting ur infidelity...You shot ursef in the leg telling her., Third............Never make a woman ur nt married to, the centre of your hapiness cos they wil defnitiely ruin it couple times, even when married . take time to conceal and display wth wisdom. they thrive in that atmosphere more than outlandish love , sort of.. Fourth..........Be patient, if you truly love her, wait for her to come around, they twitch once a wyle esp when situations warrant it and there are . ready distractions to help to. Dont be in a hurry next time to give up except u av really thought abt it and made up your mind, if . thats the case, am sure you wont be here. Find a way to talk to her, make up, do everything to earn her trust again, if shes a good girl like the guy that you are, she will see reasons to flip out soon and embrace your love again. That dude giving her a recent lift to work,most likely is there to just pass time and shes making you feel the bit of the emotions shes going tru too, Provided she loves you and if she doesnt and so having done all deosent respond, Bros just take it that you have been building ur castle in the air..as they say ''Bad Market". be grateful you discovered her true self before marriage, embrace it and move on. you lld find the right person in time |
Re: . by CyberWolf: 2:31pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
Dipsie:Very good, I’m happy for you. But notwithstanding, keep an eye on her because women are hypergamous in nature. If you observe any strange behavior, you confront her and demand a satisfactory answer. If she tries to avoid any of your questions, then that’s a red flag. |
Re: . by eyinjuege: 2:55pm On Mar 21, 2019 |
why are you so pained that some9ne drops her off at work everyday, and the person probably also goes to work in the same area as she does? Why should she pick trekking and jumping buses when someone has offered to drop her on his own way to the office? Why are you suspecting their friendship isn't platonic? Is she also right suspecting your friendship with your collegue (who you see daily) is not also platonic? She is saving herself from the stress of jumping buses in Lagos, and also saving transport costs. That doesn't translate there's an affair going on pls |
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