Good day Nairalanders
this is bothering me seriously, I met this girl some months ago, I asked her our and after few weeks, she accepted me as her guy

But now, she is taking this whole thing to the next level by visiting my family house even if am not around, she introduced me to her families and frnds as her husband to me

just recently, she saved my mum's number as mother in law,

am confused and I dont knw how to end this relationship without hurting her

help a brother pls

thanks

She’s giving you over dose . Enjoy bro. Happy married life in advance bro.

just get her pregnant...

You have entered one chance with a girl that has what we call marriage syndrome



Why did you start the relationship if you didn't like her that much anyways??

Maybe you've had the cookie ,na one to Japaa

Monkey boy...meat wey person no dey chop e no dey use him teeth share am...

Enjoy your bride in peace and leave us the heck out of it abi na we help you toast am...

Tell her u need some space

If you have open her private door.
Then.
Officially you are lock inside.
If no
Next time watch your back.
You can only let her go by
Faking another serious relationship
Outside.

This is what happens when you date children.
Sit her down like a parent and explain as plainly as possible how relationships work, expectations and how you feel things are moving far too fast for you.

Not every parent has taken the time to school their girl child in matters that relate to relationships. How well you deal with this will impact on future releationships.
You don’t have to be mean about it, but you can explain that “normal relationships” take a certain path and it’s not automatic that the person you are dating is the person you will marry. In the mean time kindly stop sleeping with her as all that does is confuse the situation even more.

Ohiku? My very own ohiku from Edo State? Abi Na another one?

Then you asked her out, what was your promise ? To be her boyfriend only, Sex mate only, friend with benefit or to marry her ?

Some guys would promise a girl earth and heaven just for her to say yes and fall inlove... Now she is much more in love beyond your expectation and you already getting tired. When you knew you are't ready to have it all then why did you approached her ?

A woman acts according to what you promised. Bros talk true. Shey you promise marriage abi

Hmmm.....smart girl. Your own family will now keep you in check.... relationship you wanted relationship you get.... why now complain?

Hmmm, all I see here is a weak man seeking validation to get married to desperate girl/lady who he has no control of,....
quite unfortunate many ladies are into these and what pushes for their desperation is what I can't fathom,

Bro I have one advice for you, Only you can end this nonesense and do it so fast before it spreads to a level of not saying No again, ,.... call her, sit her down, talk to her with meanness face to face, no smiling , that you are dating,.... if she can't date without talking about marriage, she should quite. tell her that she better stop the stupidity of showing and telling u around to people, that you are are husband or fiance or whatever she's using, end it..... brother end it today.

you'll have peace , else she will weird your life out.

When you were toasting her. Did you let us know? -NO!



When she agreed were we aware? -NO!



When u were kpanshing her upandown all the bedmatics style did we know?-NO!



Now you don chop her plate finish u come dey yarn us, asking 4 advice on how to discard her so you can get another 1 to continue the cycle. Ogun kee you there!!

This time na chewing gum u carry.. u no fit escape am.


My Advice: DECLARE THE RELATIONSHIP INCONCLUSIVE!!!!

When you were toasting her. Did you let us know? -NO!



When she agreed were we aware? -NO!



When u were kpanshing her upandown with all the bedmatics style in this world and beyond, did we know?-NO!



Now you don chop her plate finish u come dey yarn us, asking 4 advice on how to discard her so you can get another 1 to continue the cycle. Ogun kee you there!!

This time na chewing gum u carry.. u no fit escape am.


My Advice: DECLARE THE RELATIONSHIP INCONCLUSIVE!!!!

Tell her to borrow you her used pants, she abandone you before you say Jack Robinson.

Thank me later, bros...what are friends for. This sense no go kill me!

LWKMD Hehehe. My brother take heart, it will only last less than 100 years. Don't worry, una go dey alright

But seriously, just fūck her best friend. She'll delete you from her life with apology sef

Bro, u be husband material nao... Fire on

Why do I find this hilarious?
But some babes are just too extra...

Personally, I don't particularly get keen on meeting the guy's family prematurely.

I mean, let's know ourselves personally first...and reach some level of closeness, before we start expanding to develop a relationship with the others.

blissgregory:
Tell her u need some space

Lol. You're neither a good adviser nor a psychologist. And u think if he tells a girl that, all will be fine.

linearity:
Tell her to borrow you her used pants, she abandone you before you say Jack Robinson.

Thank me later, bros...what are friends for. This sense no go kill me!

sense no go kill you, baba.

Pls how can I create a topic on nairaland, something is bothering me

Please let her know she is moving too fast...that you prefer to take one step at a time. But from all indications, she seems like the type that goes full truttle and might not know how to slow down.

You got to deal with this one yourself

Op you just have to tell her to take things easy. There is every possibility she is naive just like me on my first relationship. I went ahead introducing her as my future wife to friends and I did all that outta naivety so she might be on the same path.

You mentioned she accepted you after few weeks which means she might have been waiting on the one and sees you as the one. Those husband introductions and the rest might be coming off as a joke but an extreme one and she doesn't know that. One thing is certain, the girl wants to end up with you and like this wey you de consider break up with her just because of she de see you as husband already, e be like sey she no fine or set for your eye again or there is something you are not telling us..

Broda don enter one chance

Davash222:
She’s giving you over dose . Enjoy bro. Happy married life in advance bro.

hahahahaahah.

over dose plus++

onlinetomola:
Then you asked her out, what was your promise ? To be her boyfriend only, Sex mate only, friend with benefit or to marry her ?

Some guys would promise a girl earth and heaven just for her to say yes and fall inlove... Now she is much more in love beyond your expectation and you already getting tired. When you knew you are't ready to have it all then why did you approached her ?

I wonder o

She dey her own jeje, minding her life and business before he strolled in with his pack of arranged lies and make believe.

Anyways na, this type after 40years will be looking for emergency wife upandan.
Op never really loved her. All he wanted was the pussy.

I pity the babe. Anyways she will learn her lessons dearly.

victorian:










I wonder o

She dey her own jeje, minding her life and business before he strolled in with his pack of arranged lies and make believe.

Anyways na, this type after 40years will be looking for emergency wife upandan.
Op never really loved her. All he wanted was the pussy.

I pity the babe. Anyways she will learn her lessons dearly.

dem force am to open yansh? she wanted fvck too, then she enjoyed it and wanted more.

zexy2030:

dem force am to open yansh? she wanted fvck too, then she enjoyed it and wanted more.

Mtchewwwwwww!

victorian:








Mtchewwwwwww!

I sight u..u got the attention dear.

victorian:








Mtchewwwwwww!

I sight u..u got the attention dear.

Oluromantic:

Lol. You're neither a good adviser nor a psychologist. And u think if he tells a girl that, all will be fine.

d girl will undastand