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dierich:
den fvk ur life

Cry cry � baby

@ op dont say much to him,just tell him you want to pay your house rent and that he should bring half of the money.His brain will reset and possibly him go give you space..

veekid:
Go and marry

Lol... reminds me of one of my babes. Her fiancé then had a friend living with him and just messing up the house. At a point, she told her fiancé that she won't visit if the house isn't in good condition. And that the friend should have moved out before they get married. The friend didn't like her at all because he saw her as someone coming in between him and his friend and cutting his source of accommodation.

Now they are married. The friend rented his own place. Sometimes people need the push to stop being leeches.

This is so pain.I think left to me,you should call him to other in a mature way pour out your heart to him & let him know that he should understand with you even though is your house, due to your health condition you want to live in a clean & healthy environment becouse cleanliness is next to godliness, that is why you had to stop your girl from coming because you want to be clean both outside & inside.
Let him know that even if he'll do it,that is finding it difficult to be without a woman he must pick one if he wants to continue staying with you.but to tell you the truth if I were the one I can never take that from him.no matter how close we may be.

Dierich, with the little description you gave about your illness I'm guessing you're suffering from fluid retention , which could be an early sign of kidney disease or it could be caused by living a sedentary lifestyle (life of less physical activities) make your pick, I'll advice you to start working out more frequently (exercising) especially jogging and cut down on your salt and spicy food intake and most of all eat healthy, eat food rich in magnesium and potassium these foods will help you with diuresis, but if your post was crafted to seek attention and troll us here, then God will punish you alright ?

If he doesn't help with the rent, then sit him down and let him know you don't like what he's doing. Let him know your home is not a hotel. And that if he continues you will be forced to stop him from sleeping over.

A real friend will change.

If he can afford to have girlfriends, he should also afford a hotel room!

Send the modafurker out quick.

Is he paying the rent?
Does he foot any of Dem bills?


If the answer is No.....den drive the werey before I come slap some confidence into you o

LONEER:
believe me i perfectly understand how you feel, cause am in same situation, urs is even better, mine is just a selfcon. but dude will be bringing different girls everyday till it even affected my relationship. now have broke up with my girl cause she wasn't comfortable when she come visiting and we end up being four people in the room, some days i have to be sleeping on the floor just to got a nigga back . funny part is that he even has his own rented apartment. this is not even all Am tired.

Lmao Your nigga is balling while you're ruining your sanity. Can you see you're tolerating too much in the name of friendship? What will it cost you to terminate that friendship? Oh please, don't give me "no one knows tomorrow" line. I know tomorrow, and tomorrow is not stup!d. Your nigga would be married "tomorrow" and you would not dare to inconvenient your nigga and his bride. That's what I know about tomorrow.

Let me give you a brief story. I have a neighbor that is fond of knocking and banging at my door (sometimes window) at very odd hours (12am midnight) to ask questions about issues in the house just because he comes home late. The last time this guy disturbed my sleep at about 12am, I couldn't sleep again until 3:30am. I had to call him out the next morning to state my mind and how much I dislike the attitude of banging at people's doors at odd hours to ask, sometimes, unreasonable and annoying questions about electricity bills, neighborhood issues, etc.

The above response is what you should exercise. You can't come to disturb my sleep mid way, leave me to battle with sleep problems, while you sleep comfortably in bed with your wife. Do I know tomorrow? Oh yes, I won't bang on people's doors tomorrow like a thief in the night.

Learn to avoid what you won't finish/tolerate. Give them reasons or excuses why they can't come to live with you if their presence will ruin your sanity. Now that your nigga has refused to use his senses, you can't afford to keep mute.

kponkedenge:
I use to experience something like this also, but I told the guy straight when it was getting too much that I'm not comfortable with it, he had to stop and start taking them elsewhere .... It started getting to a stage whereby he doesn't visit except he's coming with a girl.... That's why I had to stop him.... We don't really talk much again, in fact we've seen only once this year.
The truth is that many guys are guilty of this, when they have a friend that stays alone, they tend to bring different kind of girls to the place, the girls themselves are dumb.... I mean how would a guy take you to another guys place to have sex with you.

No lies!

start bringing your own girlfriend and let her give the other girl some mad attitude, the girl would stop coming

dierich:
Please ignore my grammatical errors.

I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.

it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.

please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.

I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.

right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.

I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

I wonder why you are so scared of wahala or offending people. You can't live like that. You will have to step on toes and be tough. You can apologize later. It is for a good cause.

Your friend is doing all this because you have allowed him. Or can he do it in his parent's house. Simple tell him

"guy i don't like the fact that you bring girls to sleep with here. This is not a brothel. If you need to do all that, please rent a hotel"

I am very annoyed and pissed off with your level of timidity, will he kill you if you confront him point blank? So, what he cannot do in his parents house, he is free to do in your house because you are afraid of him. Even if he is older than you, he does not have the right to be making life miserable for you in the house you rent from your sweat and hard-earned money. To hell with unprofitable friendship.
If you cannot dare to challenge him and come out boldly to let him realise he is a parasite to you, then continue to wash the poos, sperm drops and squirts of his girl friends each time they finished their sex romps. Congrats, you have automatically become their hotel room waiter.

NkayTiana:
start bringing your own girlfriend and let her give the other girl some mad attitude, the girl would stop coming

This is not a very good response. Better to speak your mind, and if the nigga is so dare to you, give him some money to pay for a night in a brothel. He would get the message.

Bjornson01:
Dierich, with the little description you gave about your illness I'm guessing you're suffering from fluid retention , which could be an early sign of kidney disease or it could be caused by living a sedentary lifestyle (life of less physical activities) make your pick, I'll advice you to start working out more frequently (exercising) especially jogging and cut down on your salt and spicy food intake and most of all eat healthy, eat food rich in magnesium and potassium these foods will help you with diuresis, but if your post was crafted to seek attention and troll us here, then God will punish you alright ?

Thanks bro
I personally reduced eating food rich in potassium when I heard its not good for kidney disease but with d 2 kidney function test I've done, I think it's normal.. d 1st potassium level is 2.4 and d 2nd test after 3 months is 3.0. but my work is less activity as I'm always in d office. I'll try to exercise more. thanks alot

kallmemrB:
Sometimes I think some nairalanders need psych Evaluation... What so difficult in "Bro stop bringing ladies to my place am not comfortable with that poo"

What do u think nairaland will do for you?

As simple as that

dierich:
read thru d 1st page very well. I've my own girl too not try to read all d 1st page comments and quote me after.. thanks bro

lets not decieve one another, i comment becos i av find mysef in your shoes many times , when i was in school i rented a 2bed apartment, out of 6guys scouting with me i only knew one been my OG. my house,my food ,my beds ...they all womanise i never flinched for once , do you know why becos i made my condition clears via reaction ... e.g stay off my main bedroom ,whoever brings a gurl is liable to tidy the house b4 n after. i didnt know how i did it but it was as if the rules were written on the walls...my body language alway epic.
i am not sayin you donnt av a gurlfriend but i doubt if she stays or come around often, that would av regulated ur friend movement , if i am wrong ,instead of bearing grudges ,react to his untidyness dont tell him what not to do do ,just keep it @ what you donnt like.

dierich:
he just left with the lady. check thru d picture and see how messed up it looks. I've to wash the bed sheets and bed cover and kept it after he messed up everything.
just check the picture I just took 10mins ago after he left now. this is my T-shirt I've left in that room 4 a while, & he use it to clean up d mess. did I tell him I'm not using d shirt anymore? I just don't want to av problem with anyone that's y I'm looking for a low-key way to tell him.
I've show it emotionally but he don't wanna listen. I've been ill over 3 months ago and he doesn't really care. he'll just tell me not to think of it that I'll be fine.. that's all he kept saying. I told him on Sunday that my girl want to visit me and I stopped her coz for now I'm not happy about my health and I wanna be alone and I wanna keep tins holy, and today after I slept around past 10, that's when he sneak d girl in.

You sound pathetic. Have you always been this spineless or this is what Buhari has reduced you too? Mchewww!

this is nonsense, sit him do and tell him politely, may God lay his healing hands on you.

ajimuby:
Seriously this shouldn’t be a problem
I can’t have problem with my friend bringing in girls it his life I will only have problem with the dirtiness and I will tell him straight to keep things clean I won’t help him wash
You have broken the bro code for posting this sef

OP
This is the best I can see in all the ruthless posting, measure and suggestion by Nairalanders.

In addition
u need to bring in your babe or get a babe too so that you can feel comfortable.
Your babe is not coming around and thats not the kind of thing you want.
I'm sure you want a babe that will come around and keep you company, it's your duty to do that not your guy.

Posting this alone you have broken the bro code and I doubt if he is your childhood friend

guy u no fit talk na,Make I help u,go welder place tell am make e help u construct sign board,after e finish den go find gud painter,gv am ur guy name nd tell am to write

dierich:
Wtfork, frank317

Let me also tell u something.
There was a time around January ending / early February. I was in a 3 days prayer concerning my health.. I know d kind of guy he is and I told him "bro, I'll be having 3 days prayer/ vigil concerning my health from Wednesday till Saturday.. Please, no gf tins for now. Allow make I finish prayer". He said no problem.
I went to vigil for those days mention. He stay at my place.. On Friday I went to vigil but forgot something so I went back to for it, to my surprise he already brought d lady in. I talk to him dat very moment that didn't I told u about d prayers I was having, he said he's sorry that he don't know d girl will be coming, I didn't mention a word, I went to church, as I came back, to my surprise again, he uses my room, pour his seed d bed sheet.. I was so annoyed that day

"3 days prayer concerning your health", I beg Mr man, go see doctor joor. I don't know why Africans always take spiritual solutions to anything. That your HBP might be fatal if you keep going to prayer warriors for it, instead of having a thorough medical examination.

That statement alone shows me the kind of holy holy guy you are.

dierich:
he just left with the lady. check thru d picture and see how messed up it looks. I've to wash the bed sheets and bed cover and kept it after he messed up everything.
just check the picture I just took 10mins ago after he left now. this is my T-shirt I've left in that room 4 a while, & he use it to clean up d mess. did I tell him I'm not using d shirt anymore? I just don't want to av problem with anyone that's y I'm looking for a low-key way to tell him.
I've show it emotionally but he don't wanna listen. I've been ill over 3 months ago and he doesn't really care. he'll just tell me not to think of it that I'll be fine.. that's all he kept saying. I told him on Sunday that my girl want to visit me and I stopped her coz for now I'm not happy about my health and I wanna be alone and I wanna keep tins holy, and today after I slept around past 10, that's when he sneak d girl in.

HMMMMM

GUY< I WANTED TO IGNORE THE POST< UNTILL I SAW THIS UPDATE


ARE YOU SOFT OR U ARE COWARD?


LET ME TELL YOU, THAT GUY IS NOT YOUR FRIEND, HE IS JUST USING YOU, COMMON.

EVEN IF ITS UR BROTHER OR WIFE OR WHOEVER IT IS, THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE

CALL HIM NOW, I MEAN NOW on PHONE AND ASK HIM WHAT IS THE MEANING OF ALL THOSE SHIT, DONT BE SUPRISE, ALL THOSE GIRLS SEE YOU AS HIS HOUSE BOY, THE GF CANT EVEN CLEAN UP THE MESS,

COMMON ARE YOU OKAY OR SOMETHING IS WRONG SOMEWHERE

I COMMAND THE DEMON HOLDING YOUR MOUTH AND THE MANI IN YOU TO FREEE YOU IN JESUS NAME>


STOP THE MASTER BULLSHITTER FROM COM(ING TO YOUR HOUSE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

WHAT SORT OF A GUY IS THAT

GUY < YOU NO GET FRIEND>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

ericsmith:
lets not decieve one another, i comment becos i av find mysef in your shoes many times , when i was in school i rented a 2bed apartment, out of 6guys scouting with me i only knew one been my OG. my house,my food ,my beds ...they all womanise i never flinched for once , do you know why becos i made my condition clears via reaction ... e.g stay off my main bedroom ,whoever brings a gurl is liable to tidy the house b4 n after. i didnt know how i did it but it was as if the rules were written on the walls...my body language alway epic.
i am not sayin you donnt av a gurlfriend but i doubt if she stays or come around often, that would av regulated ur friend movement , if i am wrong ,instead of bearing grudges ,react to his untidyness dont tell him what not to do do ,just keep it @ what you donnt like.

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I understand u but u really don't understand me.
have u read where I stated that he couldn't wash d bedsheet, and I've to be d one to wash it coz d room is very dirty and I hate dirty tins around me, also I've told him several times but he said he'll make it neat.
I've to wash d bedsheet and also keep it so. I told him to bring his bedsheet along, he brought 1 but still look how d bed looks like in d pics I uploaded.

[quote author=aanuoluwami14 post=76989114]Find a continent time to sit him down,

dierich:
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I understand u but u really don't understand me.
have u read where I stated that he couldn't wash d bedsheet, and I've to be d one to wash it coz d room is very dirty and I hate dirty tins around me, also I've told him several times but he said he'll make it neat.
I've to wash d bedsheet and also keep it so. I told him to bring his bedsheet along, he brought 1 but still look how d bed looks like in d pics I uploaded.

HAVE YOU CALLED HIM OR YOU ARE STILL WAITING? AND LISTENING TO NAIRALANDERS INSULT?

HOW WILL GOD ANSWER YOUR PRAYER< WHEN YOU SUPPORT IMMORALITY BY ALLOWING THAT GUY MESS YOU UP.

HOW CAN A FRIEND BE TREATING YOU AS A HOUSEBOY IN UR OWN HOUSE?

GOD IS NOT HAPPY WITH YOU< THAT YOU CANT USE UR VOCAL CAVITY

SPEAK UP AND BE FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

YOU ARE WORRIED OVER WHAT YOU HAVE CONTROL>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

HE SHOULD GO AND RENT HOUSE AND CONTINUE HIS IMMORALITY


DONT BE A PARTNER TO SIN AND INDISCIPLINE

ITS OBVIOUS YOU ARE GOD FEARING.......

OPEN REBUKE IS BETTER THAN SECRET ADMIRATION


SO IF U MARRY< AND AFTER SEX< AND MESS UP, YOU LEFT FOR WORK < RETURN TO SEE THAT YOUR WIFE DIDNT CLEAN UP< YOU WILL BE SCARED TO TALK TO HER


HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM< I DONT KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU< THIS DOESN'T NEED ANY SPECIAL PROTOCOL< BE BLUNT ABOUT IT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


I KNOW U ARE ONE OF THOSE THAT CALLED GOODLUCK WEAKLING<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<


YOU SEE THE WAY I DEY REBUKE YOU< JUST GET ANGRY AND CALL THAT DIRTY INGRATE U REGARD AS A FRIEND>>>>>>>>>>>\

IF HE DONT WANT TO REPENT< LET HIM GO TO HOTELLL AND CONTINUEEEEE>>>>>>>>>>>>


i repeat those girls think you are his house boy.....................

dierich:
I used to travel with my key sometimes. I've once travel and left my key for him only to got home and see all stuffs he made with my apartment, since den I don't drop my keys. also I'm looking for a very decent and understanding way to table it down without causing quarrel. I know u understand me bro

Rocktation plz to d FP

You needn't tell him anything. If you have a girlfriend, just bring her to stay a week or two. You know women have a way of passing messages accross without saying a word. By the time she's through with him, he will stop bringing his girls to your place.

guy u no fit talk na,Make I help u,go welder place tell am make e help u construct sign board,after e finish den go find gud painter,gv am ur guy name nd tell am to write boldly dont cum to my house again with ladies.shikena.

frank317:
Thought u were beat friends... Well, from the way u sound I think u should let go of the friendship

See this one. From your comment, I know you're a self entitled leech. Someone is housing you in a house you payed no kobo yet you're still angry because he didn't want you to bring strange girls into his house? You're mad!

bluefilm:
Don't mind that gay fellow.

Maybe he enjoys watching the niggaz body when the nigga is asleep.

Will you keep your dumb brain shut? Whether he's a gay or not is none of your business. His business is he doesn't want strange girls messing his own house. He can't put a roof on top of your head while you pay no kobo yet you bring in your stupid girls as well to mess up everywhere. Self entitled parasites!

aanuoluwami14:
Always go on your knees for prayers, read the word of God and declare good health into your life, you are healed in Christ's name, amen.

This is the right pill and treatment for the illness abi??

Go to the hospital my brother.

seborrhic:
Jokes aside.
How can any normal guy in today's world have 3 bedrooms but still prefers to sleep in the same bed with another guy that is not his relation,if not....
I feel the Op is just vexed that the friend's girls are taking away attention from him.
Disgusting!

And the cums on the beds are what? Maybe you should go lick am for him since you claim he's a gay. Only a gay would know another. Dumb people oshi.

He probably ensure the guy sleep in the same room with him because he doesn't want to waste his energy cleaning rooms he didn't stay in. It's better for one room to be in disarray than so many rooms to be unkept. What if his girl and relatives come in and are in need of a room?